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post 1550403141 04-30-2018, 08:37 AM
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I know I'll get some flak for this on the misc, but I've never seen any thing wrong with gathering beneficial information and being inquisitive. Some of you may have seen some of my previous threads about POF and online dating. Since I'm a bit shocked at the lack of and rude response from disgusting hambeast monsters with vaginas, I thought I would see what its like on dating for a woman in todays day and age.

I know a lot of miscers may think this is pathetic, but it gives pretty good insight on why your outcome is the way it is as far as dating goes.

So, I made a profile as this woman.




Super basic profile,has a kid, divorced.

Probably what most miscers would consider bottom of the barrel.

First thing that I noticed is there are TONS of guys online vs what there are for girls online. So realistically I would say there are at least 4 guys to every girl and thats probably an undershot.

So I made my profile, and went to get coffee, not expecting much I just got back and logged in, to roughly 13 messages and 42 views. Thats literally within the first 30 minutes lmao.



Granted most of these guys are overweight, unfit, balding, unkept, etc. But they're nice AF and actually read the whole girls bio. LMAO. Its fairly easy to see how these girls have mad boosted egos and are rude AF if you aren't on point with literally everything.

Heres what one guy wrote. Way more effort than I've ever put in to messaging a girl online.




"the privilege to talk to you"


The area that I live in also may have a huge impact on these results as well. As its a very stringently religious state.
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Well this is the first time this has been done..
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This has been done 100X before. People put up a hairy woman with a pig face (photoshopped) and they were still getting matches.
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Originally Posted By CoolKnees⏩
This has been done 100X before. People put up a hairy woman with a pig face (photoshopped) and they were still getting matches.
Yah I saw that long ago. Its pretty old though and honestly its the only one that I have seen.
post 1550403401 04-30-2018, 08:40 AM
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LOL wow Carson is a legit *******.


Edit:

On second thought he honestly sounds like a really nice guy. I kind of feel bad for him, he's doing it way wrong.
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Originally Posted By sardis3207⏩
Heres what one guy wrote. Way more effort than I've ever put in to messaging a girl online.




"the privilege to talk to you"


The area that I live in also may have a huge impact on these results as well. As its a very stringently religious state.
That guy seems like a legit good dude
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There's something mentally wrong withmenwho pose as females on the net.

What's more absurd is that you're a decent-looking fella - yet you have weird tendencies like OP. That's so odd to me.
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
LOL wow Carson is a legit *******.


Edit:

On second thought he honestly sounds like a really nice guy. I kind of feel bad for him, he's doing it way wrong.
Originally Posted By mp83⏩
That guy seems like a legit good dude
Lmao.

Carson was born with red hair. Not much he can do.

As for the chick, she's quite pretty/slim/athletic, and looks well kept. I wouldn't say she's bottom of the barrel.
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Carson made me cringe - he's too nice for this world. I hate what dating culture has turned me into :/
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
There's something mentally wrong withmenwho pose as females on the net.
I think that, yes if you do it for weird reasons. But if its to learn about the dating scene and improve on what you're doing wrong, I dont see anything wrong with it.

Knowing what your competition is, and is doing, is extremely beneficial. So I would question your judgement if you dont understand that aspect.

For example I already see why women, especially ones online have insaaaane standards. Ill post what this girl wrote in her bio, since I just copied it straight over. Its the most unrealistic thing i've ever seen. Especially with what shes working with.
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Carson is over there dreaming about his dream girl Kat and raising her kid. Don't break his heart OP, act like Kat and message him back. Start an online relationship. Get to know his family. Fake your own death in 3 years OR begin transitioning into a woman and adopt some homeless kid. You are the hero the misc needs.
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Originally Posted By Sylvarius⏩
Carson is over there dreaming about his dream girl Kat and raising her kid. Don't break his heart OP, act like Kat and message him back. Start an online relationship. Get to know his family. Fake your own death in 3 years OR begin transitioning into a woman and adopt some homeless kid. You are the hero the misc needs.
Lmao. Holy chit.
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Originally Posted By sardis3207⏩
I think that, yes if you do it for weird reasons. But if its to learn about the dating scene and improve on what you're doing wrong, I dont see anything wrong with it.

Knowing what your competition is, and is doing, is extremely beneficial. So I would question your judgement if you dont understand that aspect.
I'm a female and I've never had the desire to pose as man.

Are you doubting your abilities to pull women? Are you saying you can't get a gf?
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
I'm a female and I've never had the desire to pose as man.

Are you doubting your abilities to pull women? Are you saying you can't get a gf?
Its pretty clear there is an advantage to being female for online dating. These guys and their profiles are just verifying that.
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Hey OPieI read your thread. You're such a cute boy. And your red hair matches mine. I love you. And I want a family of my own with the miscer of my dreams. I know your life is fast paced and I know you are super busy a lot. I get that, it comes with miscing. I'm a patient man and I know what I want and who I am. I'd love the privilege to talk to you and get to know you. Who knows, maybe I'm your man and maybe I could be more than that any everything you want and need. I hope I hear from you.
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
I'm a female and I've never had the desire to pose as man.

Are you doubting your abilities to pull women? Are you saying you can't get a gf?
I edited my post.

Just because you have never had the desire to pose as a man proves nothing. Also too, dating for you isn't competitive, if you looks at all the numbers I post in the thread, its pretty obvious you dont even have to be attractive, you just sit back and let them come lmao. So obviously you have no reason to gather information about your competition. There is none.

I was at the bar this weekend and there literally were 3 girls and like 30 guys. Try working with those odds. Then maybe you will understand.

I do have trouble. I could easily get one if I lower my standards enough but I find that even these women have the WORST characters, personalities, and attitudes, and I'm talking UGLY, girls that misc would laugh at me if I dated them. Their expectations on dating are the most unrealistic I've ever seen. To quite honest yes I have had trouble finding a GF.

Heres the expectations of this woman. A middle aged, very average looking, divorcee, with a kid.



Edit: I didn't type all that thats what the girl had in the profile that I copied.
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Originally Posted By Frank
Its pretty clear there is an advantage to being female for online dating. These guys and their profiles are just verifying that.
Originally Posted By sardis3207⏩
I edited my post.

Just because you have never had the desire to pose as a man proves nothing.

I do have trouble. I could easily get one if I lower my standards enough but I find that even these women have the WORST characters, personalities, and attitudes. Their expectations on dating are the most unrealistic I've ever seen. To quite honest yes I have had trouble finding a GF.

Heres the expectations of this woman. A middle aged, very average looking, divorcee, with a kid.

Moon lands on man. We know this already though.

Opie, best way to get a gf. Stay off dating apps. Join local meet-up groups, be outgoing, honest, open. I reckon you won't have problems landing someone quickly.
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lmao at that paragraph of qualities

You should have said you dont get to see your daughter but you still have her dad over oftenlmao
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[QUOTE=sardis3207 post_id=1550404131][img]https://i.imgur.com/uIzrtCG.jpg[/ig][/QUOTE]Wait, did you write all that out?

Does anyone have that .gif of the guy who tries to say something but keeps cutting himself off because he's not sure how to put it?

Edit: Were those spelling and grammar mistakes intentional too? "Thouroughly?"
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OP is not only a *******, but an awkwardly disturbed one.
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lmao good shiit
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Originally Posted By tokelift⏩
Hey OPieI read your thread. You're such a cute boy. And your red hair matches mine. I love you. And I want a family of my own with the miscer of my dreams. I know your life is fast paced and I know you are super busy a lot. I get that, it comes with miscing. I'm a patient man and I know what I want and who I am. I'd love the privilege to talk to you and get to know you. Who knows, maybe I'm your man and maybe I could be more than that any everything you want and need. I hope I hear from you.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
Wait, did you write all that out?

Does anyone have that .gif of the guy who tries to say something but keeps cutting himself off because he's not sure how to put it?

Edit: Were those spelling and grammar mistakes intentional too? "Thouroughly?"
No I didnt write all that out. LMAO. I just copied it from the girls profile.

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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Moon lands on man. We know this already though.

Opie, best way to get a gf. Stay off dating apps. Join local meet-up groups, be outgoing, honest, open. I reckon you won't have problems landing someone quickly.
Thanks for the advice. I am going to try and stay off them. There honestly isn't much in my area, so I'll have to get out to other areas.
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Its a cruel world for guys that dont make the cut

Women cant help it, its just biology, only the cream of the crop are worth their time
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Its a cruel world for guys that dont make the cut

Women cant help it, its just biology, only the cream of the crop are worth their time
Yah I just dont understand where all these guys are coming from vs where girls are. Everywhere I go I just see tons of guys, and a few girls. Realistically even if a large portion remains single, the demographic should still remain 50/50. Im just wondering where all the women are. Maybe it has something to do with the state that I live in.
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JFC....

It is an eye-opener to see what it's like on the other end. Yes, seen threads like this before, but it still hits just as hard
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Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious⏩
JFC....

It is an eye-opener to see what it's like on the other end. Yes, seen threads like this before, but it still hits just as hard
Yah, its like guys are just coming out of the woods.... I dont know where they are all coming from.
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Originally Posted By sardis3207⏩
Thanks for the advice. I am going to try and stay off them. There honestly isn't much in my area, so I'll have to get out to other areas.
Good luck. Just remember, those 3 women sitting at the bar are of a certain type of woman. The kind you don't want any part of.

Also, the girls who join dating apps are usually pretty desperate. Imagine a woman who has SO MANY possibilities (per misc), why would she need to join an online dating app? Because they crave constant and varied attention. They're not looking for a long-term, meaningful relationship with ONE man. Unless it's some sort of religious dating site or something.

Talk to people IRL. Catch attention that way.
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