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post 1550405311 04-30-2018, 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Frank
As for the chick, she's quite pretty/slim/athletic, and looks well kept. I wouldn't say she's bottom of the barrel.
Not sure if serious.


This is what's actually wrong with the dating world, absolutely no standards from men. "Girl" is below average attractiveness with nothing going for her and a kid to top it all off in this made up portfolio
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Originally Posted By sardis3207⏩
Yah I just dont understand where all these guys are coming from vs where girls are. Everywhere I go I just see tons of guys, and a few girls. Realistically even if a large portion remains single, the demographic should still remain 50/50. Im just wondering where all the women are. Maybe it has something to do with the state that I live in.
Its a combination of factors:

- Lots of single mothers who dont date
- Chads who see multiple girls at once
- Men aged 20-60+ all competing for women aged 18-35
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post 1550405481 04-30-2018, 09:06 AM
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Would avoid Carson like the plague. Dude is already plotting a 'family' in his head with someone he never met and sounds like a potential stage 5 clinger/stalker. Weird af
post 1550405681 04-30-2018, 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Its a combination of factors:

- Lots of single mothers who dont date
- Chads who see multiple girls at once
- Men aged 20-60+ all competing for women aged 18-35
Ah those 2 first ones make a lot of sense. I never thought about that aspect. The 40+ aged I dont think is the case, typically girls in the age range you mentioned dont want anything to do with older men unless they have money, and there really arent that many with money tbh. But yah that single mothers and multiple girls to one good looking guy. Makes tons of sense.
post 1550405701 04-30-2018, 09:08 AM
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post 1550405741 04-30-2018, 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted By TonyNail⏩
Would avoid Carson like the plague. Dude is already plotting a 'family' in his head with someone he never met and sounds like a potential stage 5 clinger/stalker. Weird af
I think he seems like a genuine nice dude tbh

A lot of guys approach it like him, they’re trying to counter the typical “i just want a guy who will treat me right who i can settle down with” lies girls tell
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post 1550405781 04-30-2018, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Good luck. Just remember, those 3 women sitting at the bar are of a certain type of woman. The kind you don't want any part of.

Also, the girls who join dating apps are usually pretty desperate. Imagine a woman who has SO MANY possibilities (per misc), why would she need to join an online dating app? Because they crave constant and varied attention. They're not looking for a long-term, meaningful relationship with ONE man. Unless it's some sort of religious dating site or something.

Talk to people IRL. Catch attention that way.
Thanks. These are really good points.

But honestly everywhere I go I see NO girls. Anywhere. Its basically like what I saw at the bar, what I see online. etc etc.

Its almost like they dont exist. My church that I go to, has literally like 2 girls there that are in my age range, and only one is single.

Everywhere I go, there are no girls. I think they are all housed up in the mormon churches though, because of the state that I live in. Maybe I will go to a mormon singles ward LMAO.
post 1550405861 04-30-2018, 09:10 AM
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Originally Posted By sardis3207⏩
Ah those 2 first ones make a lot of sense. I never thought about that aspect. The 40+ aged I dont think is the case, typically girls in the age range you mentioned dont want anything to do with older men unless they have money, and there really arent that many with money tbh. But yah that single mothers and multiple girls to one good looking guy. Makes tons of sense.
They still try it even if they dont have money, and girls are always willing to go a bit older. A 28 year old female would likely look for guys aged 28-35 or maybe 40
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post 1550405911 04-30-2018, 09:10 AM
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OKC, POF, and a few others are honestly pretty low tier. Coffee meets Bagel is at least worth it.
post 1550406091 04-30-2018, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
They still try it even if they dont have money, and girls are always willing to go a bit older. A 28 year old female would likely look for guys aged 28-35 or maybe 40
Oh yah, definitely, these guys are trying for sure lmao.
Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
OKC, POF, and a few others are honestly pretty low tier. Coffee meets Bagel is at least worth it.
Coffee meets bagel?

Since making this thread the girls profile has already got 10 more messages from guys lmao.

post 1550406171 04-30-2018, 09:14 AM
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Its a cruel world for guys that dont make the cut

Women cant help it, its just biology, only the cream of the crop are worth their time
This srs. It's a tough life for soyboys who spend their time constantly looking for a relationship. Even more cringe when they post on social media about their rejections
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post 1550406231 04-30-2018, 09:16 AM
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pretty crazy but not surprising.
makes the fact that I can score dates pretty easily nowadays pretty impressive.
if thats 30 mins imagine what she gets in a day or a week.
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post 1550406251 04-30-2018, 09:16 AM
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Put on a wig and take Carson out for a nice dinner
post 1550406281 04-30-2018, 09:17 AM
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Manlandsonmoon.ppt

Invest 1/100th of the time you spent on this on IRL interaction with women and you'll have 1000% better results than anything online (srs).

Online dating is soul crushing to a male that isn't at least an 8/10 in all areas of life. This doesn't mean I'm bitter about the current state of affairs, it's just the reality of the situation - either fight an uphill battle or move the playing field.
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post 1550406511 04-30-2018, 09:20 AM
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Originally Posted By sardis3207⏩
Oh yah, definitely, these guys are trying for sure lmao.



Coffee meets bagel?

Since making this thread the girls profile has already got 10 more messages from guys lmao.
Dating app that's not popular right now. Has legit good people on it.
post 1550406531 04-30-2018, 09:20 AM
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That feel when youve banged tons of girls off tinder but cannot seal the deal in real life interactions outside of tinder. Every girl ive banged this year has been off of tinder. WTF
post 1550406541 04-30-2018, 09:20 AM
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Originally Posted By SpeedMan1⏩
Put on a wig and take Carson out for a nice dinner
I wonder how much impact this has on producing gay men. Like their results with women are so horrific that they just do a complete 180.
Originally Posted By Agentdark45⏩
Manlandsonmoon.ppt

Invest 1/100th of the time you spent on this on IRL interaction with women and you'll have 1000% better results than anything online (srs).

Online dating is soul crushing to a male that isn't at least an 8/10 in all areas of life. This doesn't mean I'm bitter about the current state of affairs, it's just the reality of the situation - either fight an uphill battle or move the playing field.
This is a pretty good way to put it.

The only problem that I see though is I see the same odds outside of online dating as well.
Originally Posted By tunafish01⏩
That feel when youve banged tons of girls off tinder but cannot seal the deal in real life interactions outside of tinder.
post 1550406691 04-30-2018, 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Agentdark45⏩
Manlandsonmoon.ppt

Invest 1/100th of the time you spent on this on IRL interaction with women and you'll have 1000% better results than anything online (srs).

Online dating is soul crushing to a male that isn't at least an 8/10 in all areas of life. This doesn't mean I'm bitter about the current state of affairs, it's just the reality of the situation - either fight an uphill battle or move the playing field.
Online dating (if that's what you can even call it) is a total bloodbath for any guy who is <7/10. If you have a decent face, lift, nice car, don't live with your parents, and a dog, almost any girl will be down to smash.

Until you can choose between your online matches, you haven't made it yet brah.
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post 1550406751 04-30-2018, 09:23 AM
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Originally Posted By sardis3207⏩
wtf.....
I consider myself a 7.5. I just have absolutely 0 game
post 1550406921 04-30-2018, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
There's something mentally wrong withmenwho pose as females on the net.

What's more absurd is that you're a decent-looking fella - yet you have weird tendencies like OP. That's so odd to me.
This

OP looking at the recent threads you have made, you should stay away from online dating. You have lowered your standards. All it is going to do is make you settle for people you dont even like.
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post 1550407071 04-30-2018, 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted By devin45k⏩
This

OP looking at the recent threads you have made, you should stay away from online dating. You have lowered your standards. All it is going to do is make you settle for people you dont even like.
Ill agree, it may be a little weird. Mentally ill though I think is taking it too far. I've already extracted tons of information of what would help to set the average guy apart from the rest. So I feel its very effective.

I do try to get out and do things, but I NEVER see any girls where I go. Just read my other posts in this thread for examples. I haven't seen any difference in online dating vs real world dating.

And thanks for the advice.

One problem I was having too is that girl IRL that were sub standards all around looks wise and character wise were treating me lousy as well. So I'm a bit at odds with it all. Granted I do have some occasional girls that seem very interested. I honestly am not talkative or friendly enough and need to work on that.

I also think girls wont let you in if they think you aren't going to stick around long term.
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I would do what muzzie said man. Assuming thats your avi, you look good. Get off online dating and have a feeling you'll meet somebody.

I did meetups and local co ed leagues and ended up meeting my girl there. I really don't see online dating as too viable. Crazy standards and I honestly don't think many women are looking for a relationship there.
Originally Posted By sardis3207⏩
Yah I just dont understand where all these guys are coming from vs where girls are. Everywhere I go I just see tons of guys, and a few girls. Realistically even if a large portion remains single, the demographic should still remain 50/50. Im just wondering where all the women are. Maybe it has something to do with the state that I live in.
From what I've heard, many big cities have the problem you mention except for women. Think DC is the biggest with like 3 girls to every 1 guy. No idea what dating is like there, but a good friend of mine hasn't had any issues in NYC.
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Tbh the dudes I know in real life who are under misc 5/10s get laid all the time. They aren't emo fuks they go out have fun and try
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Originally Posted By sardis3207⏩
Ill agree, it may be a little weird. Mentally ill though I think is taking it too far. I've already extracted tons of information of what would help to set the average guy apart from the rest. So I feel its very effective.

I do try to get out and do things, but I NEVER see any girls where I go. Just read my other posts in this thread for examples. I haven't seen any difference in online dating vs real world dating.

And thanks for the advice.

One problem I was having too is that girl IRL that were sub standards all around looks wise and character wise were treating me lousy as well. So I'm a bit at odds with it all. Granted I do have some occasional girls that seem very interested. I honestly am not talkative or friendly enough and need to work on that.

I also think girls wont let you in if they think you aren't going to stick around long term.
I can see where you're coming from but I think you shouldn't be trying to much at this point. Whenever I have just not cared (which is hard), I have pulled so many more girls. Most people get into these points in there life where they feel like they need to have a partner. When they do this they try to force things and it will eat away at you.

Hell, I tried settling with the last gf before I found my wife. I was miserable and felt stuck.
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Originally Posted By LukeS1⏩
Its a combination of factors:

- Lots of single mothers who dont date
- Chads who see multiple girls at once
- Men aged 20-60+ all competing for women aged 18-35
Ding ding ding
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It always amazes me why guys look for women on dating sites notoriously used by females to get validation... and then complain all they meet are entitled, over confident, self absorbed women. I understand there are unicorns out there that just downloaded the app and they’re genuinely looking for a man. But logically, they’d be off the market very soon since... they go for actually nice guys, and at 4:1 odds, that happens in a week.

Instead of making fake profiles to flirt with other men online, have you tried dating people you know irl?

Seriously, it’s insane how all you have to do is let your friends know you’re single and looking... for them to connect you with women they know (shocking, I know).
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
It always amazes me why guys look for women on dating sites notoriously used by females to get validation... and then complain all they meet are entitled, over confident, self absorbed women. I understand there are unicorns out there that just downloaded the app and they’re genuinely looking for a man. But logically, they’d be off the market very soon since... they go for actually nice guys, and at 4:1 odds, that happens in a week.

Instead of making fake profiles to flirt with other men online, have you tried dating people you know irl?

Seriously, it’s insane how all you have to do is let your friends know you’re single and looking... for them to connect you with women they know (shocking, I know).
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