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05-26-2018, 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I think we just view the situations completely different. No, I don't view them as sex objects. I could chill with one of them and not have sex at all. I actually think these girls are really cool and enjoy spending time with them. I'm just not in a place right now where I want a girlfriend so I accept what comes with that. If that means that they maybe are seeing another guy and will eventually break things off because they want something serious with someone else, so be it. I won't get jealous if they start seeing someone else, I won't lie to them if they ask me where I am or where I think things are going. I just am not in that place right now.Doesn't really answer my question. In your mind, do you view them as exclusively sex objects (like a sex toy) or is there a human/friend connection there?
The reason I think you have to view them as the former is because, like I mentioned, they could have been pumped by another dik hours before meeting you.
The reason I think you have to view them as the former is because, like I mentioned, they could have been pumped by another dik hours before meeting you.
I'm not disrespecting any of them because I am not requiring anything from them that I am not ready to give in return and I will never lie to them. None of these women had sex with me on the first date, I spent quite a bit of time with them before it led to that. I doubt they are seeing other guys at all but I don't know for sure and I won't ask because it's not my place to ask.
It honestly seems like you're the one viewing women as complete sluts if they are dating even 2 guys at once and If she's ever had sex with another guy within the last month she's worthless or something. Doesn't sound healthy
05-26-2018, 11:28 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Ah if that's the question, then yes, it's more of the former. I don't really feel a connection with them.Doesn't really answer my question. In your mind, do you view them as exclusively sex objects (like a sex toy) or is there a human/friend connection there?
The reason I think you have to view them as the former is because, like I mentioned, they could have been pumped by another dik hours before meeting you.
The reason I think you have to view them as the former is because, like I mentioned, they could have been pumped by another dik hours before meeting you.
That said, I don't think it's completely an either/or thing, at least for me. I'm not a robot and neither are they. But if there's a dial that goes for from full sex object to complete connection, it would lean a lot more to the sex object side. If it was more to the other side, then you're right, I would think about the possibility of them being with other men and it would bother me.
05-26-2018, 11:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
What's even more depressing is getting into a relationship with someone when you know you're not in the place to do that and ultimately being a terrible partner. Using a relationship to fill a void is even worse than knowing you don't want one, aren't looking for one, and are just interested in spending time with people you enjoy. If you're honest from the get go there shouldn't be any issues.It’s quite interesting...these things only work if feelings and desires are matched and I would bet they rarely are
Someone will be wishing for more, someone will be pretending to fit in with perceived desires of the other, someone will end up hurt and the other guilty
It just seems ultimately depressing...there will always be a void
Someone will be wishing for more, someone will be pretending to fit in with perceived desires of the other, someone will end up hurt and the other guilty
It just seems ultimately depressing...there will always be a void
05-26-2018, 12:07 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
I agree with this perspective. People who aren't willing to be loyal and faithful should never get into a relationship. They should just stay single and be honest with the women they meet that they aren't willing to be monogamous or be in a relationship. If you are honest with everyone you meet, then no harm, no foul. It seems like most guys ITT are not honest with the women they're seeing though and that's where most people would take issue with it.What's even more depressing is getting into a relationship with someone when you know you're not in the place to do that and ultimately being a terrible partner. Using a relationship to fill a void is even worse than knowing you don't want one, aren't looking for one, and are just interested in spending time with people you enjoy. If you're honest from the get go there shouldn't be any issues.
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05-26-2018, 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted By GKC45⏩
Fukn lol. Not every hero wears a cape.Casually dating? Maybe two.
Having sex? Only one.
I don't do casual sex or hookups. I won't sleep with a woman unless there is a very real possibility of a long term relationship.
Having sex? Only one.
I don't do casual sex or hookups. I won't sleep with a woman unless there is a very real possibility of a long term relationship.
Calm down my man.
05-26-2018, 01:00 PM
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05-26-2018, 01:04 PM
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05-26-2018, 01:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I really don't think so. There's nothing wrong with wanting a woman who's not out having sex with multiple guys in close time frames. Do you want a guy who does that?Good post, repped.
You seem to have a bit of a Madonna/whore complex going on Lucifer.
You seem to have a bit of a Madonna/whore complex going on Lucifer.
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05-26-2018, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
What are you even talking about right now? Because a person wants something casual at some point in their life that means they will only ever want something casual and that's who they truly are......................k.Yeah well it’s up to you how you value your feelings and your body really ...get yourself on a casual sex roundabout and that is all you will be..and it’s not like you can play in one place and be different in another, that’s where the internet fuks this generation over
Your mistakes are permanently out there ...the way people perceive you is permanently out there in photograph and video and commentary form ...and who you are will follow you
Your mistakes are permanently out there ...the way people perceive you is permanently out there in photograph and video and commentary form ...and who you are will follow you
05-26-2018, 01:20 PM
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05-26-2018, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I meant, would you be ok with a guy with another couple chicks rotating sex with you? Like he had sex with them in the last day or two and then has sex with you?Well it's a matter of degree on both sides. I wouldn't want a guy that racks up huge numbers of random hookups like Leo or Spade. That would gross me out. But I'm fine with a guy who has had casual sex or a steady fwb for example.
I do agree that having some instances of casual sex or a FWB in the past doesn't make someone a bad person or partner. I'd only judge if it's an ongoing way of life.
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05-26-2018, 01:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Added to rotationDifferent rules for women, there always have been
05-26-2018, 01:50 PM
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05-26-2018, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
No, but it’s an indicator to me of low self respect or esteem, recklessness, and a desire for immediate gratification. Yes, I know you’re thinking that’s an antiquidated view of society, but men and women haven’t magically changed in the past few decades.What are you even talking about right now? Because a person wants something casual at some point in their life that means they will only ever want something casual and that's who they truly are......................k.
There are innate reasons why men perceive promiscuous women as poor long term partners. Everybody knows this: you know it, women know it, everybody. People just think if they deny it, it doesn’t exist. That’s exactly why these women will lie and lower their number when they hit the wall and want to lock down a husband.
I guarantee you have a preference to marry a more conservative woman with fewer past sex partners or one who didn’t open her legs for random FWB sex. I guarantee you won’t want to marry any of the women in your rotation, especially knowing they might be fcuking multiple men.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Not really, it's been crazy lately, I'm just breathing and refocusing again, will probably leave soon tho. How are you, still happy, still playing with your doggo ?Are you glad to be back?

Le: Wincel is peaking at this thread and it says right there in the title ''FA's stay out''. Such a cheater
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05-26-2018, 02:08 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
Awwwww..... school stuff? How was the other place? Do you prefer here or there? lolNot really, it's been crazy lately, I'm just breathing and refocusing again, will probably leave soon tho. How are you, still happy, still playing with your doggo ?

Yep! Chilling with my doggo right now.

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05-26-2018, 02:11 PM
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No more than 3 even 3 is pushing it, it would terribly exhausting if you had to find time to rotate and smash all 3 on the regz with the addition of carrying with normal life
Suggestion: 2 maybe 3 and cycle out the used up/overdue ones for some fresh meat
Suggestion: 2 maybe 3 and cycle out the used up/overdue ones for some fresh meat
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Other place is like watching a documentary about the most ghetto part of the town where all the degenerates sit together. I left quickly and the were happy, lol.Awwwww..... school stuff? How was the other place? Do you prefer here or there? lol
Yep! Chilling with my doggo right now.
Yep! Chilling with my doggo right now.

School + love + diet + plans went all down at once, like I was hit by a tsunami, lmao.
There's a good thing tho, do you remember the cat that I was talking about ? She comes on my balcony, etc, now she is pregnant, will make pics when she comes to eat

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05-26-2018, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
lmao! From other stuff I've read about it, that sounds like a good description. Just wish Michelle and Lethal were back here.Other place is like watching a documentary about the most ghetto part of the town where all the degenerates sit together. I left quickly and the were happy, lol.
School + love + diet + plans went all down at once, like I was hit by a tsunami, lmao.
School + love + diet + plans went all down at once, like I was hit by a tsunami, lmao.
Seems to be the way, huh? Everything hits at once. Just remember, as with all things in life, this too shall pass. Tackle one thing at a time from most important to least and just trudge through. You'll get through it, you're a tough cookie.

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Pfuuuuuuuu, I'm just trying to pass those finals, otherwise who will support all those kittens ?lmao! From other stuff I've read about it, that sounds like a good description. Just wish Michelle and Lethal were back here.
Seems to be the way, huh? Everything hits at once. Just remember, as with all things in life, this too shall pass. Tackle one thing at a time from most important to least and just trudge through. You'll get through it, you're a tough cookie.
Seems to be the way, huh? Everything hits at once. Just remember, as with all things in life, this too shall pass. Tackle one thing at a time from most important to least and just trudge through. You'll get through it, you're a tough cookie.

They need a rich mamaYep, Michelle wanted a ban and she will be back soon, Lethal is lost with that butterface girl aka troton kat , I think staying around her is what caused my negative vibe
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05-26-2018, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
You'll make it!Pfuuuuuuuu, I'm just trying to pass those finals, otherwise who will support all those kittens ?
They need a rich mama
Yep, Michelle wanted a ban and she will be back soon, Lethal is lost with that butterface girl aka troton kat , I think staying around her is what caused my negative vibe
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They need a rich mamaYep, Michelle wanted a ban and she will be back soon, Lethal is lost with that butterface girl aka troton kat , I think staying around her is what caused my negative vibe
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Well I hope Michelle comes back. She's not perm'd is she?
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05-26-2018, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
Casual sex is what is contributing to the downfall of our society. What happens when one of these girls accidentally gets pregnant? Or one of them gives you an STD? Even HIV is still a risk, as much as your generation likes to raw dog.What are you even talking about right now? Because a person wants something casual at some point in their life that means they will only ever want something casual and that's who they truly are......................k.
This is why society puts down rules like marriage, because history has shown that chaos happens with sexual promiscuity. In the 60s and 70s sexual promiscuity was at its height, and then AIDS broke out.
In addition, even if you are "honest" from the start, women get attached to men though sex via oxytocin. Testosterone blocks oxytocin levels, so men don't feel the bonding as much from sex. Thus, it's usually the woman who gets hurt.
Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
This is a great post.Dunno how you get pleasure out of randoms cos it takes a while to build the type of trust that elevates sex from a sport to something special
But ...wild oats should be sown freely
But ...wild oats should be sown freely
05-26-2018, 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Kwace⏩
This. the chances of accidentally texting one instead of the other also increasesNo more than 3 even 3 is pushing it, it would terribly exhausting if you had to find time to rotate and smash all 3 on the regz with the addition of carrying with normal life
Suggestion: 2 maybe 3 and cycle out the used up/overdue ones for some fresh meat
Suggestion: 2 maybe 3 and cycle out the used up/overdue ones for some fresh meat
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05-26-2018, 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
I don't buy it, sex is a factor here. You'd probably have more fun hanging with the boys. The sexual tension contributes to the enjoyment.I think we just view the situations completely different. No, I don't view them as sex objects. I could chill with one of them and not have sex at all. I actually think these girls are really cool and enjoy spending time with them.
I'm just not in a place right now where I want a girlfriend so I accept what comes with that. If that means that they maybe are seeing another guy and will eventually break things off because they want something serious with someone else, so be it. I won't get jealous if they start seeing someone else, I won't lie to them if they ask me where I am or where I think things are going. I just am not in that place right now.
Just admit you want to have sex with multiple women - otherwise you could get better companionship from just 1. FWIW, I don't think what you're doing is morally wrong if you are being completely honest with each woman. However, in my experience, guys in this situation tend to lie or lead on each woman - say they're the special one, maybe there's a chance for exclusivity etc.I could be completely wrong though, maybe there are lots of women out there that genuinely ONLY want sex and are totally cool with just that and nothing more?
I doubt they are seeing other guys at all but I don't know for sure and I won't ask because it's not my place to ask.
I think you're hoping that, but you really don't know. Might be better to be in the dark, so you can rationalize that they aren't. Also imo, it absolutely is your place and responsibility (for your own health) to ask to avoid HSV, HPV and various other STIs.It honestly seems like you're the one viewing women as complete sluts if they are dating even 2 guys at once and If she's ever had sex with another guy within the last month she's worthless or something. Doesn't sound healthy
Any woman that is rotating sex with multiple men is a slut.Any woman that is okay having sex with a guy that is rotating her has no self respect.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
You literally have dissected my entire posted and dismissed it as, "yeah I don't believe you. I have experienced everything in life and I'm telling you you're wrong"I don't buy it, sex is a factor here. You'd probably have more fun hanging with the boys. The sexual tension contributes to the enjoyment.
Just admit you want to have sex with multiple women - otherwise you could get better companionship from just 1. FWIW, I don't think what you're doing is morally wrong if you are being completely honest with each woman. However, in my experience, guys in this situation tend to lie or lead on each woman - say they're the special one, maybe there's a chance for exclusivity etc.
I could be completely wrong though, maybe there are lots of women out there that genuinely ONLY want sex and are totally cool with just that and nothing more?
I think you're hoping that, but you really don't know. Might be better to be in the dark, so you can rationalize that they aren't.
Any woman that is rotating sex with multiple men is a slut.
Any woman that is okay having sex with a guy that is rotating her has no self respect.
Just admit you want to have sex with multiple women - otherwise you could get better companionship from just 1. FWIW, I don't think what you're doing is morally wrong if you are being completely honest with each woman. However, in my experience, guys in this situation tend to lie or lead on each woman - say they're the special one, maybe there's a chance for exclusivity etc.
I could be completely wrong though, maybe there are lots of women out there that genuinely ONLY want sex and are totally cool with just that and nothing more?
I think you're hoping that, but you really don't know. Might be better to be in the dark, so you can rationalize that they aren't.
Any woman that is rotating sex with multiple men is a slut.
Any woman that is okay having sex with a guy that is rotating her has no self respect.
there is literally no point in further having this discussion with you
05-26-2018, 05:28 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
Not all, but some of it. And I disagreed with reasoning as to why I thought that. I guess saying "I might be completely wrong", is telling you you're wrong.You literally have dissected my entire posted and dismissed it as, "yeah I don't believe you. I have experienced everything in life and I'm telling you you're wrong"
there is literally no point in further having this discussion with you
there is literally no point in further having this discussion with you
I want you to show me why I'm wrong or misguided. That's how an argument goes.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I do not need to convince you that you are wrong or convince you that I am right and I have no interest in doing so.Not all, but some of it. And I disagreed with reasoning as to why I thought that. I guess saying "I might be completely wrong", is telling you you're wrong.
I want you to show me why I'm wrong or misguided. That's how an argument goes.
I want you to show me why I'm wrong or misguided. That's how an argument goes.
My perspective is my perspective. I have explained it and whether or not you agree with it is your business, I don't care either way. I choose to live my life and handle my relationships in the way that I am comfortable with, and when the day comes that I feel differently then I will adjust accordingly. Period. There is no argument here
05-26-2018, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
I want you to present arguments, because I'm trying to be open minded and may adjust my position/view on this. If I don't challenge you, then you don't get to think critically about your own positions. Any position you hold, you should be able to support and defend, and likewise for me.I do not need to convince you that you are wrong or convince you that I am right and I have no interest in doing so.
My perspective is my perspective. I have explained it and whether or not you agree with it is your business, I don't care either way. I choose to live my life and handle my relationships in the way that I am comfortable with, and when the day comes that I feel differently then I will adjust accordingly. Period. There is no argument here
My perspective is my perspective. I have explained it and whether or not you agree with it is your business, I don't care either way. I choose to live my life and handle my relationships in the way that I am comfortable with, and when the day comes that I feel differently then I will adjust accordingly. Period. There is no argument here
This is a healthy exercise if you look at it the right way, that's what 'argument' actually means. But now you're getting defensive for some reason.
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