Thread: I feel like I've wasted my life
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Yeah I noticed that before. Jordon Peterson is a complete ******* though, I know routine is good it doesn't take a genius to figure out that it's a good thing. I'm not living with my parents no. Thank God.Don't quit. Your mood will drop to even worse whilst unemployed, trust me. Even Jordan Peterson says if you're unemployed it severely fuks with your sleeping patterns / day cycle etc, because your neuro-transmitters are out of whack. Everyone needs some routine etc.
Second question: are you still living with your parents?
Third and most important question: how much social contact (so not women from work / relatives) are you having with women on a week to week basis?
Second question: are you still living with your parents?
Third and most important question: how much social contact (so not women from work / relatives) are you having with women on a week to week basis?
And in answer to your last question. A couple of sentences at most, I don't know any women outside of work enough to actually talk to them on a weekly basis.
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
Do you live with women housemates? Do you get on with them? Women always know lots of other women. You could meet tons of women through female housemsates etc.Yeah I noticed that before. Jordon Peterson is a complete ******* though, I know routine is good it doesn't take a genius to figure out that it's a good thing. I'm not living with my parents no. Thank God.
And in answer to your last question. A couple of sentences at most, I don't know any women outside of work enough to actually talk to them on a weekly basis.
And in answer to your last question. A couple of sentences at most, I don't know any women outside of work enough to actually talk to them on a weekly basis.
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Location: Yorkshire.
Gonna take a guess you live in or near York. Been there a couple of times, lots of castles etc.
Go to meetup.com and find social activities with women. Join mixed team like netball / volleyball, tons of mid 20s women there.
Look up life drawing also if you're bored, can turn up and for £10 or so get to draw some fully naked heavenly blessed beauty (mid 20s etc).
Originally Posted By Caeculus⏩
Christ not you as well, one wincel was bad enough.The problem is that you have a soul in a soulless world. You feel dehydrated but you're surrounded by saltwater. There is no escape from this. We're all fuked.
I feel the same. Waiting and waiting for something. Not sure what. But whatever it is I'm waiting for hasn't arrived yet. Having a girl around helped keep me disciplined and gave a reason to keep it together. The last time I had a girlfriend was December 2016 though. After she left i had about enough. I gave up. I lost my discipline, drive, ambition, motivation, whatever you call it. Feels like I'm just floating along drifting through life with no direction or purpose. I'm tired of the cycle of meeting women, filtering out the psychopaths, spending time with them getting to know them, starting to develop feelings for them, for it to always end with them jumping onto a new cock. It's exhausting and I can't do it anymore. The whole point of going to tech college was to make good money to give my family a good life. What's the point now killing myself welding if I will never find a woman to have a family with? I decided I am going to buy a trailer in the forest and spend the rest of my life alone and drunk waiting for existence in this hellish plane of reality to end.
The type of woman you are looking for does not exist. You will never be good enough in the eyes of the modern woman and you will be seen as being worthless and disposable as soon as the next better thing comes around.
The vast majority of people are soulless and are too stupid to see what is in front of them. They have no problem living a meaningless life and marrying a tatted up whore.
I feel the same. Waiting and waiting for something. Not sure what. But whatever it is I'm waiting for hasn't arrived yet. Having a girl around helped keep me disciplined and gave a reason to keep it together. The last time I had a girlfriend was December 2016 though. After she left i had about enough. I gave up. I lost my discipline, drive, ambition, motivation, whatever you call it. Feels like I'm just floating along drifting through life with no direction or purpose. I'm tired of the cycle of meeting women, filtering out the psychopaths, spending time with them getting to know them, starting to develop feelings for them, for it to always end with them jumping onto a new cock. It's exhausting and I can't do it anymore. The whole point of going to tech college was to make good money to give my family a good life. What's the point now killing myself welding if I will never find a woman to have a family with? I decided I am going to buy a trailer in the forest and spend the rest of my life alone and drunk waiting for existence in this hellish plane of reality to end.
The type of woman you are looking for does not exist. You will never be good enough in the eyes of the modern woman and you will be seen as being worthless and disposable as soon as the next better thing comes around.
The vast majority of people are soulless and are too stupid to see what is in front of them. They have no problem living a meaningless life and marrying a tatted up whore.
06-07-2018, 11:20 AM
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Originally Posted By Caeculus⏩
That's cold, I'm sorry you've lost all hope like that but I don't think moving into the woods by yourself is the answer bro. It sounds like that would make your situation 1000 X worse lmao the cycle your talking about isn't something I've experienced myself but I've seen it unfold before me several times in the real world and know what you're talking about, woman really do behave like selfish bitches at least most of them do as far as I can see.The problem is that you have a soul in a soulless world. You feel dehydrated but you're surrounded by saltwater. There is no escape from this. We're all fuked.
I feel the same. Waiting and waiting for something. Not sure what. But whatever it is I'm waiting for hasn't arrived yet. Having a girl around helped keep me disciplined and gave a reason to keep it together. The last time I had a girlfriend was December 2016 though. After she left i had about enough. I gave up. I lost my discipline, drive, ambition, motivation, whatever you call it. Feels like I'm just floating along drifting through life with no direction or purpose. I'm tired of the cycle of meeting women, filtering out the psychopaths, spending time with them getting to know them, starting to develop feelings for them, for it to always end with them jumping onto a new cock. It's exhausting and I can't do it anymore. The whole point of going to tech college was to make good money to give my family a good life. What's the point now killing myself welding if I will never find a woman to have a family with? I decided I am going to buy a trailer in the forest and spend the rest of my life alone and drunk waiting for existence in this hellish plane of reality to end.
The type of woman you are looking for does not exist. You will never be good enough in the eyes of the modern woman and you will be seen as being worthless and disposable as soon as the next better thing comes around.
I feel the same. Waiting and waiting for something. Not sure what. But whatever it is I'm waiting for hasn't arrived yet. Having a girl around helped keep me disciplined and gave a reason to keep it together. The last time I had a girlfriend was December 2016 though. After she left i had about enough. I gave up. I lost my discipline, drive, ambition, motivation, whatever you call it. Feels like I'm just floating along drifting through life with no direction or purpose. I'm tired of the cycle of meeting women, filtering out the psychopaths, spending time with them getting to know them, starting to develop feelings for them, for it to always end with them jumping onto a new cock. It's exhausting and I can't do it anymore. The whole point of going to tech college was to make good money to give my family a good life. What's the point now killing myself welding if I will never find a woman to have a family with? I decided I am going to buy a trailer in the forest and spend the rest of my life alone and drunk waiting for existence in this hellish plane of reality to end.
The type of woman you are looking for does not exist. You will never be good enough in the eyes of the modern woman and you will be seen as being worthless and disposable as soon as the next better thing comes around.
At least you've felt the love of a woman though, I can only imagine that feeling in my dreams. I'd rater be worthless, loved and disposable then just worthless.
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06-07-2018, 11:23 AM
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Y'all need to travel outside of America and the West.
You will see and learn so much more about life.
Life in Westernized countries is vey negative. The media, the newspapers, the people.
You will see and learn so much more about life.
Life in Westernized countries is vey negative. The media, the newspapers, the people.
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lol...25 and midlife crisis.
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
No, all my housemates are male as is my workplace 95% male.Do you live with women housemates? Do you get on with them? Women always know lots of other women. You could meet tons of women through female housemsates etc.
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Location: Yorkshire.
Gonna take a guess you live in or near York. Been there a couple of times, lots of castles etc.
Go to meetup.com and find social activities with women. Join mixed team like netball / volleyball, tons of mid 20s women there.
Look up life drawing also if you're bored, can turn up and for £10 or so get to draw some fully naked heavenly blessed beauty (mid 20s etc).
Christ not you as well, one wincel was bad enough.
Also.
Location: Yorkshire.
Gonna take a guess you live in or near York. Been there a couple of times, lots of castles etc.
Go to meetup.com and find social activities with women. Join mixed team like netball / volleyball, tons of mid 20s women there.
Look up life drawing also if you're bored, can turn up and for £10 or so get to draw some fully naked heavenly blessed beauty (mid 20s etc).
Christ not you as well, one wincel was bad enough.
My life is a complete sausage fest on every level. Going to meetups actually sounds like a good idea I think I'll take a look at that and commit to something this time, never know where it could lead but every time I start talking with a female that I like another guy always comes along who is funnier, more interesting or better looking and steals her attention away from me. I'm sick of that scenario playing out as it seems to be a recurring theme in my life.
BRB going to look up drawing meets in my local area, I wanna see that HBB
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Originally Posted By SpeedMan1⏩
The Norwood Reaper came for me years ago, it's advanced to stage 2 and getting worse as we speakYeah but are you balding?
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You wasted 25, the next 25 years won't be any different trust me. Now that you know there's nothing to worry about.
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
https://www.meetup.com/Life-Drawing-in-York/events/No, all my housemates are male as is my workplace 95% male.
My life is a complete sausage fest on every level. Going to meetups actually sounds like a good idea I think I'll take a look at that and commit to something this time, never know where it could lead but every time I start talking with a female that I like another guy always comes along who is funnier, more interesting or better looking and steals her attention away from me. I'm sick of that scenario playing out as it seems to be a recurring theme in my life.
BRB going to look up drawing meets in my local area, I wanna see that HBB
My life is a complete sausage fest on every level. Going to meetups actually sounds like a good idea I think I'll take a look at that and commit to something this time, never know where it could lead but every time I start talking with a female that I like another guy always comes along who is funnier, more interesting or better looking and steals her attention away from me. I'm sick of that scenario playing out as it seems to be a recurring theme in my life.
BRB going to look up drawing meets in my local area, I wanna see that HBB
Next life drawing meetup 12 June in York.
Also check out these three netball in York sites:
https://www.york-sport.com/leagues/
https://www.play-netball.co.uk/york/
https://powerplay.co.uk/netball/York
Call them up and ask them if they do any mixed netball leagues, and sign up for a team. Most mixed netball leagues are always desperate for guys because they need 2 guys minimum in a team of 7 (so 2 guys, 5 girls), and they would be very happy to have you playing. (If you were in London I would show you exactly which mixed netball / volleyball leagues you could join for maximum exposure to pussy, serious).
I am telling you, joining a mixed netball league in your mid 20s in UK is THE BEST WAY to meet droves and droves of women. It's like pussy on tap, I just wish I had found out about it when I was 25 instead of 33. I was playing in 5 a side football leagues like a chump when I was 25, should have been on that mixed netball league time, would have swam in pussy srs.
06-07-2018, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
Thats not what I asked you ****Already tried, I sent over 1000 messages and didn't get a single response. Deleted it a few months after it's creation. There's so many chads on there it's ridiculous.
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
Why are you so eager to help? You sound like you've done this netball thing before...https://www.meetup.com/Life-Drawing-in-York/events/
Next life drawing meetup 12 June in York.
Also check out these three netball in York sites:
https://www.york-sport.com/leagues/
https://www.play-netball.co.uk/york/
https://powerplay.co.uk/netball/York
Call them up and ask them if they do any mixed netball leagues, and sign up for a team. Most mixed netball leagues are always desperate for guys because they need 2 guys minimum in a team of 7, and they would be very happy to have you playing. (If you were in London I would show you exactly which mixed netball / volleyball leagues you could join for maximum exposure to pussy, serious).
I am telling you, joining a mixed netball league in your mid 20s in UK is THE BEST WAY to meet droves and droves of women. It's like pussy on tap, I just wish I had found out about it when I was 25 instead of 33. I was playing in 5 a side football leagues like a chump when I was 25, should have been on that mixed netball league time, would have swam in pussy srs.
Next life drawing meetup 12 June in York.
Also check out these three netball in York sites:
https://www.york-sport.com/leagues/
https://www.play-netball.co.uk/york/
https://powerplay.co.uk/netball/York
Call them up and ask them if they do any mixed netball leagues, and sign up for a team. Most mixed netball leagues are always desperate for guys because they need 2 guys minimum in a team of 7, and they would be very happy to have you playing. (If you were in London I would show you exactly which mixed netball / volleyball leagues you could join for maximum exposure to pussy, serious).
I am telling you, joining a mixed netball league in your mid 20s in UK is THE BEST WAY to meet droves and droves of women. It's like pussy on tap, I just wish I had found out about it when I was 25 instead of 33. I was playing in 5 a side football leagues like a chump when I was 25, should have been on that mixed netball league time, would have swam in pussy srs.
I don't know what to say other than thanks for the advice. Maybe I'll get to experience this "pussy tap" after all.
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
I have done this netball thing before. I only wish I had discovered it at 25 and not 33.Why are you so eager to help? You sound like you've done this netball thing before...
I don't know what to say other than thanks for the advice. Maybe I'll get to experience this "pussy tap" after all.
I don't know what to say other than thanks for the advice. Maybe I'll get to experience this "pussy tap" after all.
And I'm helping you because helping somebody in need is one of the best things you can do in life, and this good karma I am giving out will return to me tenthfold.
Pick up the goddamn phone, call those 3 netball leagues, sign up to a mixed netball league, and go to that life drawing meetup on Tuesday.
Stop being a phgaggot, stop hating yourself, and allow yourself to feel some joy. But you'll need courage to make that change first, and that can only come from you, nobody else can help you with that.
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The problem is your focusing on the things in life that don't really matter. When I was a kid I had hopes and dreams. We all did. But over time, the daily grind gets in the way and you miss the things that really matter, even though they are right in front of you, staring you in the face. I think the next time you should ask yourself "Am I on the right track here?". I don't mean to be rude but people like you I really pity. So maybe you could use the few brain cells you have and take advantage of the knowledge I have given you now. Good luck.
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If it's any consolation we are the same age and I totally understand where you're coming from and how it feels. The main thing I think that I can say to help you is that your pain comes from accepting the current 'life outlook' that our generation is going through, the idea that if your life isn't a 10/10 impactful experience then you're worthless. It's a message that is being pushed literally everywhere 'Don't waste your life' 'You can do anything if you work hard' 'Everyone is special and unique'. It causes so much anxiety in people our age because there is always a pressure of living up to that demand.
I felt so much pressure to 'be someone' that I was constantly thinking about how to progress to the next stage, often forcing myself to do things I had no interest in because it might lead me in the right direction to be 'successful' when in truth it was a weird escapism cycle that just made me more anxious. It was getting so bad I was waking up with anxiety attacks and would break down and start crying at random times. I was spending hours per day sitting around thinking about how I could 'make it', convinced that I'd stumble across some lucky idea that would make me rich and I wouldn't have to worry anymore. I would think about it every day and it just led to paralysis analysis and a lot of psychological pain.
Recently I decided to just let go of it all. Meditating every single day has helped a ton but the main thing I do differently now is I have a 'What will be will be' attitude. I'm not trying to force things anymore, I'll still work at my goals but I'm not obsessing over them anymore. If I turn out to have a standard life, atleast I'll enjoy it, I'm not going to focus on achieving my 'ultimate potential' anymore it honestly just causes self-loathing, depression and anxiety. What I do now is more like Taoism, I just let life happen and where I go I will go. To some people that will sound like giving up but honestly I've never felt so much mental peace in my entire life
I felt so much pressure to 'be someone' that I was constantly thinking about how to progress to the next stage, often forcing myself to do things I had no interest in because it might lead me in the right direction to be 'successful' when in truth it was a weird escapism cycle that just made me more anxious. It was getting so bad I was waking up with anxiety attacks and would break down and start crying at random times. I was spending hours per day sitting around thinking about how I could 'make it', convinced that I'd stumble across some lucky idea that would make me rich and I wouldn't have to worry anymore. I would think about it every day and it just led to paralysis analysis and a lot of psychological pain.
Recently I decided to just let go of it all. Meditating every single day has helped a ton but the main thing I do differently now is I have a 'What will be will be' attitude. I'm not trying to force things anymore, I'll still work at my goals but I'm not obsessing over them anymore. If I turn out to have a standard life, atleast I'll enjoy it, I'm not going to focus on achieving my 'ultimate potential' anymore it honestly just causes self-loathing, depression and anxiety. What I do now is more like Taoism, I just let life happen and where I go I will go. To some people that will sound like giving up but honestly I've never felt so much mental peace in my entire life
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Originally Posted By PaddleBunt⏩
Cope.If it's any consolation we are the same age and I totally understand where you're coming from and how it feels. The main thing I think that I can say to help you is that your pain comes from accepting the current 'life outlook' that our generation is going through, the idea that if your life isn't a 10/10 impactful experience then you're worthless. It's a message that is being pushed literally everywhere 'Don't waste your life' 'You can do anything if you work hard' 'Everyone is special and unique'. It causes so much anxiety in people our age because there is always a pressure of living up to that demand.
I felt so much pressure to 'be someone' that I was constantly thinking about how to progress to the next stage, often forcing myself to do things I had no interest in because it might lead me in the right direction to be 'successful' when in truth it was a weird escapism cycle that just made me more anxious. It was getting so bad I was waking up with anxiety attacks and would break down and start crying at random times. I was spending hours per day sitting around thinking about how I could 'make it', convinced that I'd stumble across some lucky idea that would make me rich and I wouldn't have to worry anymore. I would think about it every day and it just led to paralysis analysis and a lot of psychological pain.
Recently I decided to just let go of it all. Meditating every single day has helped a ton but the main thing I do differently now is I have a 'What will be will be' attitude. I'm not trying to force things anymore, I'll still work at my goals but I'm not obsessing over them anymore. If I turn out to have a standard life, atleast I'll enjoy it, I'm not going to focus on achieving my 'ultimate potential' anymore it honestly just causes self-loathing, depression and anxiety. What I do now is more like Taoism, I just let life happen and where I go I will go. To some people that will sound like giving up but honestly I've never felt so much mental peace in my entire life
I felt so much pressure to 'be someone' that I was constantly thinking about how to progress to the next stage, often forcing myself to do things I had no interest in because it might lead me in the right direction to be 'successful' when in truth it was a weird escapism cycle that just made me more anxious. It was getting so bad I was waking up with anxiety attacks and would break down and start crying at random times. I was spending hours per day sitting around thinking about how I could 'make it', convinced that I'd stumble across some lucky idea that would make me rich and I wouldn't have to worry anymore. I would think about it every day and it just led to paralysis analysis and a lot of psychological pain.
Recently I decided to just let go of it all. Meditating every single day has helped a ton but the main thing I do differently now is I have a 'What will be will be' attitude. I'm not trying to force things anymore, I'll still work at my goals but I'm not obsessing over them anymore. If I turn out to have a standard life, atleast I'll enjoy it, I'm not going to focus on achieving my 'ultimate potential' anymore it honestly just causes self-loathing, depression and anxiety. What I do now is more like Taoism, I just let life happen and where I go I will go. To some people that will sound like giving up but honestly I've never felt so much mental peace in my entire life
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
you're too old to get those girls at 33?I have done this netball thing before. I only wish I had discovered it at 25 and not 33.
And I'm helping you because helping somebody in need is one of the best things you can do in life, and this good karma I am giving out will return to me tenthfold.
Pick up the goddamn phone, call those 3 netball leagues, sign up to a mixed netball league, and go to that life drawing meetup on Tuesday.
Stop being a phgaggot, stop hating yourself, and allow yourself to feel some joy. But you'll need courage to make that change first, and that can only come from you, nobody else can help you with that.
And I'm helping you because helping somebody in need is one of the best things you can do in life, and this good karma I am giving out will return to me tenthfold.
Pick up the goddamn phone, call those 3 netball leagues, sign up to a mixed netball league, and go to that life drawing meetup on Tuesday.
Stop being a phgaggot, stop hating yourself, and allow yourself to feel some joy. But you'll need courage to make that change first, and that can only come from you, nobody else can help you with that.
06-07-2018, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
NopeCope.
"The man who despises himself tries to gain self-esteem from sexual adventure – which can’t be done, because sex is not the cause, but an effect and an expression of a man’s sense of his own value." - Ayn Rand
06-07-2018, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted By grinching90⏩
35 in a few months. 25 is a bit young for me, especially for LTR.you're too old to get those girls at 33?
06-07-2018, 03:02 PM
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Step 1: take the George Constanza approach of “do the opposite of what you would normally do”.
Step 2: get on a good supplement stack that enhances hormones
Step 3: use your new found confidence and lack of anxiety to talk to people, probably at gym as that is probably your only social outlet at this point
Step 4: go out with said friends on a weekly basis
Step 5: meet women, talk to them, act cocky, start dating, then slowly show your sensitive side.
Step 6: congratulations you have a social life.
Step 2: get on a good supplement stack that enhances hormones
Step 3: use your new found confidence and lack of anxiety to talk to people, probably at gym as that is probably your only social outlet at this point
Step 4: go out with said friends on a weekly basis
Step 5: meet women, talk to them, act cocky, start dating, then slowly show your sensitive side.
Step 6: congratulations you have a social life.
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06-07-2018, 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Charizzma⏩
This. This actually. Is incredibly stupid but this. Helped?"In the end, we're all just chalk lines on the sidewalk, drawn only to be washed away, and in the time I've been given, I am what I am"
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06-07-2018, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
Don't we all. I'm living the life, but still want so much this.I look forward to a killer asteroid hitting the planet and wiping us out every day. It's one of the main reasons I watch the news every morning but I always turn the TV off disappointed.

Chaos and apocalypse on us all
Let them burn to dust.
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06-07-2018, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
LMAOUsed to believe we were all gonna make it. Then, the guy who said that didn't make it.
Hope you're angus is ready for some negs brother
"In the end, we're all just chalk lines on the sidewalk, drawn only to be washed away, and in the time I've been given, I am what I am"
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06-07-2018, 03:17 PM
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Most people lost their souls in 2012. The soulless people all act on the same script. They all talk and act the same. A lot of them are negative and get in where they fit in because they don't want to be alone, thus their soul is taken immediately.
The good souls that still remain are struggling because they are outnumbered.
The good souls that still remain are struggling because they are outnumbered.
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06-07-2018, 03:19 PM
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Originally Posted By AusPower⏩
You can't act cocky as a grown ass man and at certain jobs. Older men and women do not like that chit and will take offense to it. You can only act cocky if you are younger or have some chitty retail job where nobody gives a fukStep 1: take the George Constanza approach of “do the opposite of what you would normally do”.
Step 2: get on a good supplement stack that enhances hormones
Step 3: use your new found confidence and lack of anxiety to talk to people, probably at gym as that is probably your only social outlet at this point
Step 4: go out with said friends on a weekly basis
Step 5: meet women, talk to them, act cocky, start dating, then slowly show your sensitive side.
Step 6: congratulations you have a social life.
Step 2: get on a good supplement stack that enhances hormones
Step 3: use your new found confidence and lack of anxiety to talk to people, probably at gym as that is probably your only social outlet at this point
Step 4: go out with said friends on a weekly basis
Step 5: meet women, talk to them, act cocky, start dating, then slowly show your sensitive side.
Step 6: congratulations you have a social life.
You have to act on a script as you get older because older people are ruthless as fuk
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06-07-2018, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
But what happens to the souls once they're taken? I think you might be onto somethingMost people lost their souls in 2012. The soulless people all act on the same script. They all talk and act the same. A lot of them are negative and get in where they fit in because they don't want to be alone, thus their soul is taken immediately.
The good souls that still remain are struggling because they are outnumbered.
The good souls that still remain are struggling because they are outnumbered.
"In the end, we're all just chalk lines on the sidewalk, drawn only to be washed away, and in the time I've been given, I am what I am"
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