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Thread: I feel like I've wasted my life

post 1553301741 06-07-2018, 03:23 PM
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I, too wasted nearly 5 years of my life playing computer games and shutting myself off from society. When I was about 11 I got my first computer and played a game called Gunbound, then maple story, and ragnarok. During the school year I would skip classes regularly but still went outside from time to time.

When summer hit and classes were off I was a total hermit. Im talking about waking up everyday and eating while playing games, small breaks to fap, repeat everyday for a month and a half.

Thankfully I never got too fat and every September when the school year started people would say oh you put on some weight. I remember tasks like going to get a haircut, going out to get groceries and measly daily tasks would give me the biggest anxiety. Lifting has given me confidence and my social skills improve every single day.

So start lifting and get a job in customer service.

Oh and during those years I never had a GF or kissed/held hands. I had a FWB for 3 months a few years ago and went on multiple dates. It'll get better brah.
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post 1553302061 06-07-2018, 03:26 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
But what happens to the souls once they're taken? I think you might be onto something
The souls manifest as a global energy that keeps multiplying. They don't go anywhere, just spread more and more around the earth.
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post 1553302181 06-07-2018, 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
The souls manifest as a global energy that keeps multiplying. They don't go anywhere, just spread more and more around the earth.
No WAY is this Global Energy like the Spirit Bomb from Dbz? Can it be called upon? I must know these things
"In the end, we're all just chalk lines on the sidewalk, drawn only to be washed away, and in the time I've been given, I am what I am"

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post 1553302341 06-07-2018, 03:31 PM
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I used to be you before lifting (srs)
post 1553302861 06-07-2018, 03:40 PM
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OP, lots of good responses in here, I hope you realize you can get out of your funk if you take the right steps. It's not a life sentence. Don't get in your own way and don't let lack of results deter you from what you want. Start small and start stacking small wins. It will help you build your confidence and you will only go up from there. Probably the biggest thing, as mentioned earlier, is to get out and get involved in activities that will expose you to other people. Find activities that you can become legitimately interested in and get out there. We're all gonna make it.


[QUOTE=OldGamesBetter post_id=1553281891]finding a woman may make life easier but it won't give your life meaning pal. if your life is **** the only thing that will bring you out of the ditch is to become enlightened and fast. learn as much as you can about the world. you may become more depressed as you realise the truths of the world, but if you stick with it you will feel god-like

[img]https://i.warosu.org/data/lit/img/0073/40/1447307348130.gif[/img

become enlightened son. that is what you was born to do[/QUOTE]
Or as Pusha T put it, "stay woke ***** or get out"

[QUOTE=InfiniteGaijin post_id=1553283381]Yeah I noticed that before. Jordon Peterson is a complete ******* though, I know routine is good it doesn't take a genius to figure out that it's a good thing. I'm not living with my parents no. Thank God.

And in answer to your last question. A couple of sentences at most, I don't know any women outside of work enough to actually talk to them on a weekly basis.[/QUOTE]JP is not a *******

[QUOTE=AquilaConfido post_id=1553289341]35 in a few months. 25 is a bit young for me, especially for LTR.[/QUOTE]Bruh...25 is fine for LTR as long as it isn't some pub slore.
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post 1553307781 06-07-2018, 04:53 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
I look forward to a killer asteroid hitting the planet and wiping us out every day. It's one of the main reasons I watch the news every morning but I always turn the TV off disappointed.
There it is,

Your problem is your chitty attitude.
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post 1553308031 06-07-2018, 04:58 PM
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Not everyone is going to be a premiership footballer or movie star m8, get over it.

Ricky Gervais did fuk all until he was late 30's, then he suddenly dominate the world of comedy.
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post 1553308111 06-07-2018, 05:02 PM
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- wasted my life
- 25 years old
post 1553308161 06-07-2018, 05:02 PM
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take it from someone who "wasted" their 20's.


Stop.

Set goals.

Thinking of being a failure or waste will breed more failure and waste.
post 1553308321 06-07-2018, 05:06 PM
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read.books.

And no, not basic bitch self help books or whatever else you are going to find in a barnes and noble. Actually delve deep into subjects that interest you and gain knowledge about things. INEVITABLY you will learn more about yourself and life.
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post 1553308641 06-07-2018, 05:10 PM
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Originally Posted By LugosiNineOne⏩
read.books.

And no, not basic bitch self help books or whatever else you are going to find in a barnes and noble. Actually delve deep into subjects that interest you and gain knowledge about things. INEVITABLY you will learn more about yourself and life.
books are for cucks
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post 1553309101 06-07-2018, 05:16 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
Already tried, I sent over 1000 messages and didn't get a single response. Deleted it a few months after it's creation. There's so many chads on there it's ridiculous.
LMAO

we're all gonna make it brah

Time to set some goals, lose some weight n activate Chad mode
post 1553309151 06-07-2018, 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted By AlwaysFocus⏩
take it from someone who "wasted" their 20's.


Stop.

Set goals.

Thinking of being a failure or waste will breed more failure and waste.
Always on spread with you homie
post 1553309391 06-07-2018, 05:20 PM
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life is life no matter who you are or what you do. unless you live on the street youre not wasting your life youre just living like every other person on this earth. be glad you were born in the USA
post 1553309441 06-07-2018, 05:21 PM
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well for a start...you're only 25, thats hardly that old

as hippy'ish as it sounds, you really need to work on actually appreciating what you have / looking at things more positively. Sure, if you want a more exciting life, then so be it, do things..join groups, go travel or what ever you want to do. however i get the impression that even if you were doing more, you'd have a negative outlook on it.

you're also not going to attract any kind of girl worth beign with, with your current outlook on life. Don't get me wrong, you can probably get a girlfriend but it'll be one with a fairly large number of red flags, simply due to basic human nature in that we attract...what we are. Be negative, get a negative girl with issues you really don't want to have to deal with.

the problems internal, something external isn't going to fix it.
post 1553309491 06-07-2018, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted By fishnbrah⏩
life is life no matter who you are or what you do. unless you live on the street youre not wasting your life youre just living like every other person on this earth. be glad you were born in the USA
Glad I was born outside of that cesspool actually. But thanks bruh
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post 1553309601 06-07-2018, 05:24 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
Already have some goals. Save up 10k and get laid. Get gains too and maybe join the military if I can.
You shouold start with small goals first. Meeting those goals builds momentum and helps you reach more difficult goals. Continue doing this until you can finally set a goal that can be achieved in 10 years. Psychology 101
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What did you think you should have been doing? Become Hugh Hefner? Fly NASA space shuttles?

You have this idea in your head that you have "potential" but in actuality, you had none. Nothing was wasted. This is your destiny. Embrace it.

It doesn't matter anyway we all die. Nothing you do is special.
post 1553310021 06-07-2018, 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted By 21stCenturyKid⏩
What did you think you should have been doing? Become Hugh Hefner? Fly NASA space shuttles?

You have this idea in your head that you have "potential" but in actuality, you had none. Nothing was wasted. This is your destiny. Embrace it.

It doesn't matter anyway we all die. Nothing you do is special.
You're wrong, I had potential all of my teachers used to say that to me. Except my Gym teacher.
"In the end, we're all just chalk lines on the sidewalk, drawn only to be washed away, and in the time I've been given, I am what I am"

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post 1553310111 06-07-2018, 05:31 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
You're wrong, I had potential all of my teachers used to say that to me. Except my Gym teacher.
You think they didn't tell everyone that?

You're 25, calm down. You still have plenty of time to flourish.
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Stop complaining bitch. All I see from you is complaining..my physique isn't what I want it to be, woman don't talk to me. Shut the fuk up.
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The Kentucky fried ******* (i forget his name) did fuc all except fuc about with chicken recipes and try and sell his secret recipe to restaurants and sleep in his car, and then in his sixties said "fuc it" and started KFC.

Hitler hadn't even joined a political party until he was 30, he fuced around before then painting pictures and fapping all day and being a bum, and didn't join the Nazi party until he was 32 and then it wasn't until he was 50 that he started WW2 and he nearly ended up dominating the world, so i am sure if you try your hardest then one day you will at least dominate a girls angus by the age of 50...or who knows....maybe even the world.
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Originally Posted By Lunatic⏩
You think they didn't tell everyone that?

You're 25, calm down. You still have plenty of time to flourish.
I don't think you get it, nobody gets it. Stop bumping this old thread *******s.
"In the end, we're all just chalk lines on the sidewalk, drawn only to be washed away, and in the time I've been given, I am what I am"

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post 1553310351 06-07-2018, 05:34 PM
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
I don't think you get it, nobody gets it. Stop bumping this old thread *******s.
I didn't graduate college until I was 31. I do get it.
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Originally Posted By LordMU⏩
Stop complaining bitch. All I see from you is complaining..my physique isn't what I want it to be, woman don't talk to me. Shut the fuk up.
I can only do what I was programmed to do.
"In the end, we're all just chalk lines on the sidewalk, drawn only to be washed away, and in the time I've been given, I am what I am"

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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
I can only do what I was programmed to do.
This is the dumbest **** I've read in a long time.
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Originally Posted By LordMU⏩
Stop complaining bitch. All I see from you is complaining..my physique isn't what I want it to be, woman don't talk to me. Shut the fuk up.
Exactly.

STFU *******. You're already down to 230lbs stop your sadkunt bishing and keep grinding till you hit 180-200 so you can get some pussy and stop being such a miserable little *******.

I honestly can't wait for you to get there and have your first relationship only to realize that won't solve your problems and come back here looking for answers. Maybe then we can have some real adult discussions. Keep grinding till then.
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OP, I'm not sure if this was answered, but, what is your profession? What kind of income.. if you don't mind me asking? What I'm getting at is.. all the OP gave me was someone who was 20 y/o with a college degree and a job complaining because he doesn't have girls and a social circle..

It just seems bizarre.
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Originally Posted By InfiniteGaijin⏩
I can only do what I was programmed to do.
Holy fuc! i've heard some cope in my time, but this takes the biscuit.

The victim mindset, and the diagnosis is that there is nothing that can help you.

Now take that dick and start fapping, because you're right!

This is who you are.
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Originally Posted By doughnutking⏩
Holy fuc! i've heard some cope in my time, but this takes the biscuit.

The victim mindset, and the diagnosis is that there is nothing that can help you.

Time to lay down and rot.
Lmao it's all over for this boyo, no CCNA for him!

Hope the labs are going well homie
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