Log In

Your email is not your username

Register

If you were a member of the old Bodybuilding.com forums and would like to reuse your previous username, you can request it below. We use your email only for registration and do not store it. For more information, please see our Privacy Policy.

Confirm your email

A registration code was sent to your email. Enter it here.

Welcome

You have successfully setup your account.

Sign in

Quick Navigation Bottom Misc
Forum
» 29 year old virgin, gonna pay for it, anything I should know?
  1. Results 31 to 60 of 210
  2. First
  3. 1
  4. 2
  5. 3
  6. 4
  7. Last
post 1553958071 06-16-2018, 03:25 AM
-
#31
  1. MrBro123
  2. Registered User
  1. MrBro123
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Apr 2018
  4. Posts: 93
  5. Rep Power: 341
Don't do it.
People today make such a big deal out of virginity for reason, the whole point of it is that it shows that you have enough social skills, that you are attractive enough and all that ****.

Paying for it is retarded, it won't change anything and you'll probably feel worse with yourself.
post 1553958631 06-16-2018, 03:45 AM
-
#32
  1. DSTEE
  2. Registered User
  1. DSTEE
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Nov 2012
  4. Posts: 10,150
  5. Rep Power: 41750
Honestly not any big of a deal. Never ordered one myself but have plenty of friends who've done it, most of them travel and hotel related where its more convenient (and dat novelty from a fresh hotel room makes you more excited). One of my friends (slayer) came home alone drunk one night and ended up getting visits from four (or seven? dont recall) through one night lol
post 1553959611 06-16-2018, 04:33 AM
-
#33
  1. Evil_D
  2. Lord
  1. Evil_D
  2. Lord
  3. Join Date: Oct 2009
  4. Posts: 15,038
  5. Rep Power: 58756
Originally Posted By Mikebuff
Hey, let me tell you straight up....you don’t want to do the prostitute thing. You don’t want to do it man. Trust me it’s not what all it’s cracked up to me. It’s such a robotic and mechanical experience it’s not even pleasureable. Those women don’t give a **** about you, they want your money.
Based black dude.
"Australia is a bi country" - Samuel Whitcombe Hyde
post 1553960041 06-16-2018, 04:51 AM
-
#34
  1. 300BLK
  2. Registered User
  1. 300BLK
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Nov 2015
  4. Age: 35
  5. Posts: 20,309
  6. Rep Power: 12702
Don't listen to the nay sayers, get your dink wet. Just the feel of a vagina is enough to make a man more confident.
***Black Crew***
No Face Crew
post 1553960251 06-16-2018, 05:02 AM
-
#35
  1. badreligion
  2. Meh
  1. badreligion
  2. Meh
  3. Join Date: Jan 2006
  4. Location: Groton, Connecticut, United States
  5. Posts: 25,200
  6. Rep Power: 55006
Originally Posted By GravityLee
You probably have aspergers or another learning disability
Aspergers isn't a learning disability .
In Hoots We Trust.
post 1553960351 06-16-2018, 05:05 AM
-
#36
  1. badreligion
  2. Meh
  1. badreligion
  2. Meh
  3. Join Date: Jan 2006
  4. Location: Groton, Connecticut, United States
  5. Posts: 25,200
  6. Rep Power: 55006
Originally Posted By Mikebuff
Hey, let me tell you straight up....you don’t want to do the prostitute thing. You don’t want to do it man. Trust me it’s not what all it’s cracked up to me. It’s such a robotic and mechanical experience it’s not even pleasureable. Those women don’t give a **** about you, they want your money.
Listen to this man , he is correct . I am 31 and a virgin and yeah it does bum me out and I feel like it will never happen but I refuse to pay for it because it wouldn't be real , it would be artificial . If you are hell bent on doing it just to say you finally lost it then by all means do what you want but just have a long sit down and really think about if it's worth it or not .
In Hoots We Trust.
post 1553960831 06-16-2018, 05:24 AM
-
#37
  1. FreemanMorgan
  2. Registered User
  1. FreemanMorgan
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Nov 2017
  4. Age: 37
  5. Posts: 863
  6. Rep Power: 6184
A lot of well spoken, intelligent brahs in here and my mind is blown you fellas are virgins at 30+. Stop miscing and start talking to ladies all day. Then, come back and give us the details.
post 1553960881 06-16-2018, 05:25 AM
-
#38
  1. ChristianMR
  2. domo arigato
  1. ChristianMR
  2. domo arigato
  3. Join Date: Nov 2015
  4. Posts: 8,187
  5. Rep Power: 95385
It's gonna suck getting the herp on your first try.
Take it easy Christian
post 1553960891 06-16-2018, 05:25 AM
-
#39
  1. Chezdon
  2. Vagabond
  1. Chezdon
  2. Vagabond
  3. Join Date: Feb 2010
  4. Location: London, United Kingdom (Great Britain)
  5. Age: 40
  6. Posts: 13,184
  7. Rep Power: 13479
Originally Posted By maori-rap
^^^This guy.

Being a virgin at 29 was phucking with my head as well. I was thinking "OMG, I can't be a virgin at 30!!" so I was worrying about how I would go about losing the v-plates. Then I turned 30 and still a virgin.......NOTHING changed. You may become a wizard of course and get special powers, however it is really just a point in time and is no different to being one at 29.

Now still a virgin at 35, with 36 only a few months away. I have never seriously thought about using a sex worker/escort/hooker or whatever label you want to use for a women who will only have sex with you for an agreed amount of time because and SOLELY because you are paying her. It just isn't worth going through with it, purely so that you aren't a virgin anymore. So much negative social stigma has been attached to being an adult male virgin of anything over 25'ish, that it does prompt people to use hookers as an easy way of getting out of that 'zone'. Once you become a virgin at 40 of course, you become the main star of a Hollywood comedy starring highly paid actors. That's right, being an adult male at 40 is so hilariously awful that a multi-million dollar movie has to be made about it!!

It is not what I'm looking for though. An emotionless transaction of meat in meat? You are likely experiencing sex in one of the worst possible ways. I want my first time to be natural and mutual, or else not at all. So like Kick Ass would rather die than allow those 3 a$$holes to beat up that lone man....I would rather die a virgin than use a hooker, even if I am one at 80.
Wow... that really is messed up.

For OP, it's been long enough now that you might as well wait. I'd smash an escort if I was 21 or something but 30? Nah, just wait.
post 1553961081 06-16-2018, 05:32 AM
-
#40
  1. aleeboy
  2. It's over for you
  1. aleeboy
  2. It's over for you
  3. Join Date: Dec 2008
  4. Posts: 23,424
  5. Rep Power: 87439
Bags of sand

Warm apple pies

And, it's lower than you think
"The manlet is a savage beast that knows no moral bound. After falling in disgrace to a manmore, a ravaged manlet would not hesitate to come from behind and land a sucker punch/ swing with a rock to the back of a manmore's head. They are ruthless and you need to spend some more time in the gutter to even begin trying to comprehend what goes on in their minds."

Hurt by the aleeboy and need to cope? Go here for hugs: https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=178724011
post 1553961721 06-16-2018, 05:52 AM
-
#41
  1. Brozef
  2. ‎ ‎ ‎
  1. Brozef
  2. ‎ ‎ ‎
  3. Join Date: Mar 2013
  4. Location: Maine, United States
  5. Posts: 17,033
  6. Rep Power: 210050
I very much doubt banging a whore will make you feel better about you lack of female companionship.
post 1553961881 06-16-2018, 05:56 AM
-
#42
  1. NeedToBang
  2. Registered User
  1. NeedToBang
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Dec 2015
  4. Posts: 540
  5. Rep Power: 0
I can't believe people are saying don't do it tbh

some people just want you to remain a virgin by the sounds of it.
post 1553962211 06-16-2018, 06:06 AM
-
#43
  1. TheCaptainA
  2. Registered User
  1. TheCaptainA
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2013
  4. Posts: 1,578
  5. Rep Power: 1605
you act as if once you get some cooch, everything magically changes...

its really not hard to get your first...unless you want it to be special

I wouldnt do it, you will regret.

i only "paid for it" once. I was at the strip club..tipped a handsome amount, talked to the bitch, talked her into my crib and smashed. I mean i did tip like $200 at the club though.
post 1553962251 06-16-2018, 06:07 AM
-
#44
  1. chiefsosa3hunna
  2. Registered User
  1. chiefsosa3hunna
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Sep 2016
  4. Age: 30
  5. Posts: 357
  6. Rep Power: 3161
Originally Posted By NeedToBang
I can't believe people are saying don't do it tbh

some people just want you to remain a virgin by the sounds of it.
Strong username to post content
post 1553962371 06-16-2018, 06:12 AM
-
#45
  1. TitusVI
  2. Registered User
  1. TitusVI
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Aug 2017
  4. Location: Germany
  5. Age: 41
  6. Posts: 6,684
  7. Rep Power: 21254
I personally think that getting aprostitute for the first time can backfire a lot.
If you get the wrong prostitute and/or you cant get an erection it will be a really really bad experience.
Because they dont have all the time in the world and if you fail you just paid a lot of money just to be much more down the drain.
Everything I post is trash.
post 1553962511 06-16-2018, 06:16 AM
-
#46
  1. Clkflynn
  2. Registered User
  1. Clkflynn
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Apr 2016
  4. Age: 32
  5. Posts: 4,817
  6. Rep Power: 3048
pathetic dude.

you'll regret it you *******
!Only friends are family crew!
!Die alone crew!
!Balding crew!
!Kissless crew!
!Only girl who has smiled at me is Mom crew!
!Left Nofap crew!
!Still watch porn crew!

Eternal Monk for the next 62 years seeking that divinity.
post 1553962711 06-16-2018, 06:23 AM
-
#47
  1. Brozef
  2. ‎ ‎ ‎
  1. Brozef
  2. ‎ ‎ ‎
  3. Join Date: Mar 2013
  4. Location: Maine, United States
  5. Posts: 17,033
  6. Rep Power: 210050
Getting laid is great and everything, but many of us guys put too much singular importance on it. It's the whole relationship/sex deal that you're missing out on op.
post 1553962911 06-16-2018, 06:33 AM
-
#48
  1. ChairmanWaffle
  2. Registered User
  1. ChairmanWaffle
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Feb 2018
  4. Age: 42
  5. Posts: 525
  6. Rep Power: 957
Originally Posted By AMDuser
Anything I should know before doing this? Besides wear a condom?
Ask for a receipt. It will be a nice keepsake from your first time.
post 1553963201 06-16-2018, 06:43 AM
-
#49
  1. Swept
  1. Swept
  2. Join Date: Jan 2014
  3. Posts: 21,221
  4. Rep Power: 27953
Who ever is saying don’t do it has never smashed a hooker in their miserable lives, The only thing that sucks about fuking a hooker is the rubber
Everything I do is biblical
post 1553963301 06-16-2018, 06:49 AM
-
#50
  1. 8MoreReps
  2. Registered User
  1. 8MoreReps
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2011
  4. Age: 35
  5. Posts: 4,209
  6. Rep Power: 10450
I'm gonna give it to ya straight here boyo.. I'm early 30's and things are starting to pick up for me with girls in the grand scheme of my life for once. I was a virgin until 26.. lost it by paying. I personally have no regrets. It made sex seem more attainable and I enjoyed it. Sex with paying is just fapping with a human fleshlight so there's no pressure and you can get some experience so it isn't obvious you're a virgin when you get it for real. You have to pay girls 90% of the time in other ways when with a "girl that likes you". It's only sad if you think it's sad. No one has to know and mentally you know you are not a virgin. I had sex by paying one more time in my late 20's.

Flash forward to 30. I had sex for the first time without paying with a girl on vacation multiple times and chatted with her a couple months after I left like we were bf/gf before it faded due to long distance. Started going on dates from dating apps (4 girls so far), and one of them ended up being a short fling for a couple months. Keep in mind I never had the balls to go on dates my whole life until now, so this is progress. I still have never had an official gf but in my early 30's I managed to have 2 girls into me for a few months. It's not over yet for me when I thought it was.

For you, I suggest going for it as long as you have the same mentality as I did - it's not a big deal, have fun, and learn a new experience. Just don't rely on it afterwards. Try and be more aggressive on your dates. I am learning to always push it on the date unless it's obvious the girl or yourself isn't feeling it. I aim to try and go for a kiss and tell her I had a good time and we should do it again if the date goes decent. I ALWAYS regret not making a move. It's better to try and get shutdown than not try. If you've been on 13 dates without getting past the first date you gotta work on something man. Are you nervous on your dates? How is the conversation? Do you make them laugh? Do you flirt? Saying anything that turns women off? You should reflect some after each date and figure out where you can improve. Same old gets same results.
post 1553963351 06-16-2018, 06:50 AM
-
#51
  1. GravityLee
  2. Curls for the girls
  1. GravityLee
  2. Curls for the girls
  3. Join Date: Jan 2014
  4. Posts: 21,444
  5. Rep Power: 146473
Originally Posted By badreligion
Aspergers isn't a learning disability .
Have you ever watched a person with Aspergers try to obtain and hold down a job?

Depending on the severity / traits ive seen Down Syndrome people more successful at working. 100% srs.
post 1553964651 06-16-2018, 07:23 AM
-
#52
  1. Godfrd824
  1. Godfrd824
  2. Join Date: Oct 2008
  3. Location: DevilMayRage's Head, Rent Free
  4. Posts: 57,305
  5. Subscribers: 2
  6. Rep Power: 384653
Originally Posted By AMDuser
Being a virgin is really starting to phuck with my head. I'm going to pay a good escort ($350/hour) and get it over with. I wanna see a V and get my P inside of one. (Though I may have trouble finding the hole).

Not really complicated why I'm still a virgin. I'm not fat or ugly.Just socially retarded and pretty much a loner.All my friends are married (or loners themselves) so I don't go out as much anymore.

Anything I should know before doing this? Besides wear a condom?

EDIT: Oh yeah first post here in like years. Came here to ask for advice. Cliffs on what I've missed?
This is not true, I am a loner and socially retarded, and I have never had issues with women. My younger brother has never asked a woman out, they all throw themselves at him. I don't consider him or myself that good looking, you must be hideous.

Post some pics.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
post 1553965141 06-16-2018, 07:36 AM
-
#53
  1. BetaThanU
  2. Registered User
  1. BetaThanU
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Aug 2013
  4. Location: Sydney, Straya, Australia
  5. Posts: 7,583
  6. Rep Power: 13115
Originally Posted By maori-rap
^^^This guy.

Being a virgin at 29 was phucking with my head as well. I was thinking "OMG, I can't be a virgin at 30!!" so I was worrying about how I would go about losing the v-plates. Then I turned 30 and still a virgin.......NOTHING changed. You may become a wizard of course and get special powers, however it is really just a point in time and is no different to being one at 29.

Now still a virgin at 35, with 36 only a few months away. I have never seriously thought about using a sex worker/escort/hooker or whatever label you want to use for a women who will only have sex with you for an agreed amount of time because and SOLELY because you are paying her. It just isn't worth going through with it, purely so that you aren't a virgin anymore. So much negative social stigma has been attached to being an adult male virgin of anything over 25'ish, that it does prompt people to use hookers as an easy way of getting out of that 'zone'. Once you become a virgin at 40 of course, you become the main star of a Hollywood comedy starring highly paid actors. That's right, being an adult male at 40 is so hilariously awful that a multi-million dollar movie has to be made about it!!

It is not what I'm looking for though. An emotionless transaction of meat in meat? You are likely experiencing sex in one of the worst possible ways. I want my first time to be natural and mutual, or else not at all. So like Kick Ass would rather die than allow those 3 a$$holes to beat up that lone man....I would rather die a virgin than use a hooker, even if I am one at 80.
yeah but imagine dying without even knowing what pussy or sucking on tits felt like.
At some point its worth just paying for it. Feeling above using a hooker won't get you any brownie points when your dead.
-Guitar Shredders Crew-
-BRZ club-
post 1553965211 06-16-2018, 07:37 AM
-
#54
  1. SWORN
  2. Registered User
  1. SWORN
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Mar 2009
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 3,644
  6. Rep Power: 30613
post a picture of yourself opie
post 1553965341 06-16-2018, 07:42 AM
-
#55
  1. TrancE_AddicT
  2. Misc ENG/DJ
  1. TrancE_AddicT
  2. Misc ENG/DJ
  3. Join Date: Jan 2009
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 2,806
  6. Rep Power: 5986
Lower your standards you fukin moron...
post 1553965511 06-16-2018, 07:47 AM
-
#56
  1. jackm7
  2. Registered
  1. jackm7
  2. Registered
  3. Join Date: Aug 2012
  4. Location: western australia, Australia
  5. Posts: 4,369
  6. Rep Power: 3830
Originally Posted By TrancE_AddicT
Lower your standards you fukin moron...
This. Plenty of wilderbeast around that need plowing
SS + GOMAD is all you need srs
post 1553965741 06-16-2018, 07:57 AM
-
#57
  1. ChristianMR
  2. domo arigato
  1. ChristianMR
  2. domo arigato
  3. Join Date: Nov 2015
  4. Posts: 8,187
  5. Rep Power: 95385
Originally Posted By TrancE_AddicT
Lower your standards you fukin moron...
Originally Posted By jackm7
This. Plenty of wilderbeast around that need plowing
So much this. Don't be like carsalesmanbrah. Too many miscers have stupid high standards and way overestimate their own attractiveness.
Take it easy Christian
post 1553965981 06-16-2018, 08:06 AM
-
#58
  1. grinching90
  2. Registered User
  1. grinching90
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2015
  4. Age: 36
  5. Posts: 1,506
  6. Rep Power: 13002
Originally Posted By GravityLee
Have you ever watched a person with Aspergers try to obtain and hold down a job?

Depending on the severity / traits ive seen Down Syndrome people more successful at working. 100% srs.
What did your two tall aspie friends do for work?
post 1553966171 06-16-2018, 08:11 AM
-
#59
  1. Jibt3ch
  2. Mirin '03 Chad avatar??
  1. Jibt3ch
  2. Mirin '03 Chad avatar??
  3. Join Date: Nov 2013
  4. Location: Canada
  5. Posts: 5,937
  6. Rep Power: 27662
Man I was a tall scrawny kid with acne in high school and I managed to lose my vcard. I played diablo 2 for 12 hours a day every day for 6 years. I was the definition of a loser gamer. And I did drugs. I was the biggest scumbag loser and I still managed to have sex. What did you guys do in high school or college that not one opportunity to get laid came up?
***Canadian Crew***
Misc proud dad crew
You have my word as a schons crew
-Bulldog
***Will be banned for necro bumping threads crew***
post 1553966561 06-16-2018, 08:21 AM
-
#60
  1. badreligion
  2. Meh
  1. badreligion
  2. Meh
  3. Join Date: Jan 2006
  4. Location: Groton, Connecticut, United States
  5. Posts: 25,200
  6. Rep Power: 55006
Originally Posted By GravityLee
Have you ever watched a person with Aspergers try to obtain and hold down a job?

Depending on the severity / traits ive seen Down Syndrome people more successful at working. 100% srs.
It's a form of autism which inhibits a person's social and communication skills but it doesn't mean they have a learning disability .
In Hoots We Trust.
Quick Navigation Top Misc
Bookmarks
Digg.com
Digg
del.icio.us
del.icio.us
Stumbleupon.com
StumbleUpon
Google.com
Google
Facebook.com
Facebook
Posting Permissions
  1. You may not post new threads
  2. You may not post replies
  3. You may not post attachments
  4. You may not edit your posts