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Thread: 29 year old virgin, gonna pay for it, anything I should know?

post 1553974501 06-16-2018, 11:01 AM
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Losing it to a prostitute can help some guys. Some men make losing their virginity a massive obstacle it kind of obesses's them and due to nerves they don' get a relationship past a certain point. I have also heard of men having a bad experience losing their virginity and so they went to a prostitute and it was a much better experience having sex with an experienced woman.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
98% of the time either hygiene issues or simply not dressing well is the reason. Hygiene issues in terms of having strong body odour and no one tells you etc. For not dressing well heres some outfit ideas:


Not very man people can pull that stuff off without looking absolutely ridiculous. An awkward guy with an average face isn't pulling a lot of those outfits off.
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post 1553976451 06-16-2018, 11:32 AM
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Theirs multiple ways to look at this OP as far as getting a hooker goes.

Some bruhs think banging a hooker your first time will help you gain some confidence and get that first time awkwardness out of the way. You're going to be dogchit at sex for the first handful of times, everybody is and nobody has sex for the first time and isnt awkward or unsure what to do. So people feel that banging a hooker gives you some experience and practice for your first time/couple times. This will allow you to have sex with a woman your age without having to explain you're a virgin and being a deal breaker

On the other hand losing your virginity to a prostitute might make you have a different outlook on sex and cause an addiction to prostitution. Their was a miscer who legit became addicted to prostitutes but I cant remember the bruhs name. You'll always want to take the 'easy' way out and not work on a regular woman for sex. For most people it takes a while to get sex from women that aren't on tinder or aren't a prostitute. You'll never develop those people skills to get laid and then itll probably be even more frustrating then before you lost your virginity.

As much as everybody on misc says sex is nothing and blah blah, sex to some women is a big deal. I'd say a majority of women would be disgusted with men who fuk hookers. I dunno if it's just a way of coping or if they worry about stds or whatever the fuk it is. Either way most women would either break up with you or go NC once you tell them.

Edit - fuk that's a wall of text god damn it.

Oh one more thing OP, porn is fake as fuk abd forget everything you see in porn
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post 1553976761 06-16-2018, 11:38 AM
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Honestly shocked at how many people remained virgins into their mid/late 20s. I didn’t realize it was that common.
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Originally Posted By TheCaptainA⏩
you act as if once you get some cooch, everything magically changes...

its really not hard to get your first...unless you want it to be special
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Originally Posted By TheCaptainA⏩
you act as if once you get some cooch, everything magically changes...
Well imagine you’re a 25/30 yr old virgin. Everyone’s talking about sex, it’s all over the media, it’s lterally everywhere in life. Your friends are having sex, and probably have since age 18. And you have this massive monkey on your back, that’s growing and growing every single day and building sex up in your head. You get rejected repeatedly and can’t get laid.

How about just getting that monkey off your back. That could be a huge psychological relief. Like in your situation, you’re in a strip club and have an opportunity to lose the money, you wouldn’t do it?
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post 1553977281 06-16-2018, 11:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩
Honestly shocked at how many people remained virgins into their mid/late 20s. I didn’t realize it was that common.
There are 2 kinds of people on this site
-Virgins in their early/mid 20s and have trouble getting girls
-People who fuk 20+ women and get laid every week with attractive females
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post 1553977361 06-16-2018, 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Jibt3ch⏩
Not very man people can pull that stuff off without looking absolutely ridiculous. An awkward guy with an average face isn't pulling a lot of those outfits off.
I disagree. Any guy can pull them off. Here are some more relatable ones:










Hairstyles:



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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I disagree. Any guy can pull them off. Here are some more relatable ones:
Can’t tell if srs, those are 8+ men.
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post 1553977481 06-16-2018, 11:52 AM
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are you in shape? Do you train? What are your accomplishments? What do you do?
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post 1553977531 06-16-2018, 11:53 AM
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For many 20+ year old virgins we have a choice. We could fuk ugly or obese women or we could keep going on as virgins. Its sometimes hard to choose. Its like choosing between dog s h!t or horse sh!t.
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Originally Posted By NinjaNoir⏩
are you in shape? Do you train? What are your accomplishments? What do you do?
This is a good question. According to some surveys having a good job is more important than looks in some women.

What is your occupation?
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post 1553977891 06-16-2018, 12:00 PM
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i guess the misc really is full of virgins. who knew
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post 1553978371 06-16-2018, 12:09 PM
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OP. Put that money towards a plane ticket and take a 2 week vacation in another country. Take some condoms. You'll be fine.
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Dressing well is key to getting laid. The right set of jackets or right suit, shoes, shirts really make a difference.

Some examples of this here:









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post 1553978631 06-16-2018, 12:13 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
For many 20+ year old virgins we have a choice. We could fuk ugly or obese women or we could keep going on as virgins. Its sometimes hard to choose. Its like choosing between dog s h!t or horse sh!t.
Why compare women to ****? Thats a disturbing comparison. Shows resentment, if not hatred.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Dressing well is key to getting laid. The right set of jackets or right suit, shoes, shirts really make a difference.

Some examples of this here:









The two guys in the middle still won't get laid though.
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Originally Posted By Jibt3ch⏩
Man I was a tall scrawny kid with acne in high school and I managed to lose my vcard. I played diablo 2 for 12 hours a day every day for 6 years. I was the definition of a loser gamer. And I did drugs. I was the biggest scumbag loser and I still managed to have sex. What did you guys do in high school or college that not one opportunity to get laid came up?
I went to an all boys boarding school until almost 17. During that time, understandably, I had almost no contact with females my own age. I then went to a college for 2 years which was mixed. However we were only there for a limited amount of time per week. It was just come in, do your lessons and go. Then I left full time education and worked full time. If one goes to a mixed college/uni and boards on campus then of course there is much more opportunity for mixing with the opposite sex socially.

FYI I did not do anything of the homo variety at that boarding school. As far as I know there was only a tiny handful of gays at the school and I never knew of any instance of 'bum fun' in the 6 years I was there. My virginity is absolute.
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Originally Posted By SkiGains⏩
Did the same thing at 26 years old and I regret it everyday . Don’t do it OP

The 10 mins are not worth it . I wish I worked on my social skills instead of taking the easy way . I’ve still yet to be able to touch a girl for free though
Don’t listen to this ******* OP, being a V at 29 is unacceptable and will only hinder ur social skills.

I lost my v to an escort too when i was 18, the hole is easy to find bro it’s like built in ur brain when the sloot spread her legs you will instinctively stick ur dink in the right place (just grab ur dink and slide it up and down while poking her and it will magically go in)

Gl Op, 350 is a bit much tho I suggest u only go for 30min for like 150-200 MAX
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the getting sex shortcut: get a good haircut, shave off beard, wear all white/all black (expensive clothes or at least look expensive) go to a club.

or...dress up in a nice suit, or at least business wear hit a high class bar, pretend to be rich, buy a woman a drink, act confident like you own a company. bring her to a nice hotel, smash. or smash in a rented nice vehicle.

or...look for a prostitute who seems like she could be a decent. offer her a way out. don't ask for sex. date her a bit. see what happens. you'd be surprised how many women are trafficked into prostitution. by helping her escape it you'd be a hero and that story alone will make it easy to get laid.
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Originally Posted By SmackBang77⏩
Don’t listen to this ******* OP, being a V at 29 is unacceptable and will only hinder ur social skills.

I lost my v to an escort too when i was 18, the hole is easy to find bro it’s like built in ur brain when the sloot spread her legs you will instinctively stick ur dink in the right place (just grab ur dink and slide it up and down while poking her and it will magically go in)

Gl Op, 350 is a bit much tho I suggest u only go for 30min for like 150-200 MAX
I used to be an escort and I don't recommend op's first time being an escort. most of these women hate sex etc. most of the make the guys feel like **** just by how they react or behave.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I used to be an escort and I don't recommend op's first time being an escort. most of these women hate sex etc. most of the make the guys feel like **** just by how they react or behave.
It completely depends on why he’s doing it. If he just wants to get the monkey off his back, and then move on with his life without wanting a gf/relationship, then it serves the purpose.

If he wants great sex and a great intimate sexual experience, then probably not the best option.
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you should probably be experienced to get your moneys worth from a hooker. I mean, you can to really **** em right?

Forget about sex man, just focus on finding a girlfriend
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Originally Posted By 300BLK⏩
Don't listen to the nay sayers, get your dink wet. Just the feel of a vagina is enough to make a man more confident.
Yeah that's kinda what I was thinking. It would change my life.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
98% of the time either hygiene issues or simply not dressing well is the reason. Hygiene issues in terms of having strong body odour and no one tells you etc. For not dressing well heres some outfit ideas:









Congratulations, must feel good for you to finally be out of the closet.
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go to the Viagara Falls before the hookers brah otherwise you might be disappointed srs.
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Originally Posted By grinching90⏩
What did your two tall aspie friends do for work?
One dudes parents had a net worth of 2+ mil. They bought him a house, a new car and gave him money every month. They had 6 figure a month government pension plans. He never worked but was a pathological liar from being bullied for being in special education as a kid - it taught him to lie as easily as drinking water because the truth was so embarassing.

The other person i know with aspergers is a homeless man, single mother household, went to a black school in the ghetto area was the only white kid and was bullied a lot. I feel a lot of sympathy for him because he was going to have a hard road even without the aspergers. He admitted he has made less than a grand a year since he was old enough to work. His mom took care of him til she died now hes homeless and has been 15 years.
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Originally Posted By 8MoreReps⏩
I'm gonna give it to ya straight here boyo.. I'm early 30's and things are starting to pick up for me with girls in the grand scheme of my life for once. I was a virgin until 26.. lost it by paying. I personally have no regrets. It made sex seem more attainable and I enjoyed it. Sex with paying is just fapping with a human fleshlight so there's no pressure and you can get some experience so it isn't obvious you're a virgin when you get it for real. You have to pay girls 90% of the time in other ways when with a "girl that likes you". It's only sad if you think it's sad. No one has to know and mentally you know you are not a virgin. I had sex by paying one more time in my late 20's.

Flash forward to 30. I had sex for the first time without paying with a girl on vacation multiple times and chatted with her a couple months after I left like we were bf/gf before it faded due to long distance. Started going on dates from dating apps (4 girls so far), and one of them ended up being a short fling for a couple months. Keep in mind I never had the balls to go on dates my whole life until now, so this is progress. I still have never had an official gf but in my early 30's I managed to have 2 girls into me for a few months. It's not over yet for me when I thought it was.

For you, I suggest going for it as long as you have the same mentality as I did - it's not a big deal, have fun, and learn a new experience. Just don't rely on it afterwards. Try and be more aggressive on your dates. I am learning to always push it on the date unless it's obvious the girl or yourself isn't feeling it. I aim to try and go for a kiss and tell her I had a good time and we should do it again if the date goes decent. I ALWAYS regret not making a move. It's better to try and get shutdown than not try. If you've been on 13 dates without getting past the first date you gotta work on something man. Are you nervous on your dates? How is the conversation? Do you make them laugh? Do you flirt? Saying anything that turns women off? You should reflect some after each date and figure out where you can improve. Same old gets same results.
Yes I'm nervous. Sometimes I get more comfortable though if the girl is chatty. During most of the dates I run out of things to talk about or ask.
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THIS IS IMPORTANT:

I am a 23-year-old virgin and I had cyber sex on some occasions. I actually tried using sites such as "chat alternative" and "omegle" and I did have cyber sex with some women. It never left me satisfied me at all. I just keep coming back for more. It is like porn but they could see your face while they are performing sex.

I think that prostitution would be the same thing. You have quick sex but never feel satisfied. My suggestion would to be to try to find a girlfriend.
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Originally Posted By AMDuser⏩
Yes I'm nervous. Sometimes I get more comfortable though if the girl is chatty. During most of the dates I run out of things to talk about or ask.
Let me ask you, do you feel like the sex thing is a huge monkey on your back? Like it’s constantly on your mind, and you’re thinking I really need to have sex with this girl. Tbh I think girls can sense the desperation, and it becomes self fulfilling.
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