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Thread: 29 year old virgin, gonna pay for it, anything I should know?

post 1553980931 06-16-2018, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted By aspirex⏩
if its becuz ure horny, then go for it.. not just for the sake of breaking V
Yeah that's the thing. I'd do it to lose my V card and get in some V because I really want to get in there and experience the wet warm hole. But honestly not as horny as I was in my mid-20s.

I was on an SSRI in high school and that killed my libido. Literally had no interest in sex or even girls really. Once I got off that toxic **** my mind and thoughts totally changed. I wanted to meet girls, hang out, and **** them. Plus lots of other things too. Now I look back and think how my life would have been different if I wasn't on those awful SSRIs that I didn't need.
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I wonder how it's going for Nvidiauser and Inteluser
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Originally Posted By AMDuser⏩
Yeah that's the thing. I'd do it to lose my V card and get in some V becauseI really want to get in there and experience the wet warm hole.But honestly not as horny as I was in my mid-20s.
Thank god this woman will be a professional....
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Originally Posted By AMDuser⏩
Yeah that's the thing. I'd do it to lose my V card and get in some V because I really want to get in there and experience the wet warm hole. But honestly not as horny as I was in my mid-20s.

I was on an SSRI in high school and that killed my libido. Literally had no interest in sex or even girls really. Once I got off that toxic **** my mind and thoughts totally changed. I wanted to meet girls, hang out, and **** them. Plus lots of other things too. Now I look back and think how my life would have been different if I wasn't on those awful SSRIs that I didn't need.
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
This is a good question. According to some surveys having a good job is more important than looks in some women.

What is your occupation?
Yes I'm in shape. I don't train as much as I used to as I prefer going outside and exercising as opposed to being indoors in a weight room for 10+ hours a week.

I have a good job and own my own house in the city.
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Originally Posted By AMDuser⏩
Yes I'm in shape. I don't train as much as I used to as I prefer going outside and exercising as opposed to being indoors in a weight room for 10+ hours a week.

I have a good job and own my own house in the city.
So much cope it hurts.....
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Originally Posted By SmackBang77⏩
Don’t listen to this ******* OP, being a V at 29 is unacceptable and will only hinder ur social skills.

I lost my v to an escort too when i was 18, the hole is easy to find bro it’s like built in ur brain when the sloot spread her legs you will instinctively stick ur dink in the right place (just grab ur dink and slide it up and down while poking her and it will magically go in)

Gl Op, 350 is a bit much tho I suggest u only go for 30min for like 150-200 MAX
Thanks for the tips!

Slide up and down until I get in. Can't you go in the other hole though?
post 1553981611 06-16-2018, 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Let me ask you, do you feel like the sex thing is a huge monkey on your back? Like it’s constantly on your mind, and you’re thinking I really need to have sex with this girl. Tbh I think girls can sense the desperation, and it becomes self fulfilling.
I think girls can sense guys that are virgins or inexperienced. They can probably sense this with me.

When I'm on dates, it's not too often that I think about having sex with the girl. Most of the time I'm listening and thinking what to say or ask next.
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Don’t do it *******. It’ll Fuk u up long term unless you’re on vacation or did something in life and just want to let loose.
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Originally Posted By AMDuser⏩
Yes I'm in shape. I don't train as much as I used to as I prefer going outside and exercising as opposed to being indoors in a weight room for 10+ hours a week.

I have a good job and own my own house in the city.
well as a past escort I'll tell its not worth it unless, you tell her upfront that you want a girlfriend experience and you says you want to 'date' her a bit until she's ready. quite a few escorts are bitches and heartless, very few have compassion I should tell you. It'll be very, very difficult to get a caring escort so to speak. by the way women can sense when en want sex and when we sex that we make the guy work extra hard for it. well i don't but i feel the instinct to do that.

Somehow I feel like you have passed on some opportunities or that you do not know the signals of a women hinting she wants sex.
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Originally Posted By AMDuser⏩
Thanks for the tips!

Slide up and down until I get in. Can't you go in the other hole though?
No grind in and out slowly at first, then after a minute or two go in and out faster. dont put all your dirk in until about 5 minutes have passed though.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
well as a past escort I'll tell its not worth it unless, you tell her upfront that you want a girlfriend experience and you says you want to 'date' her a bit until she's ready. quite a few escorts are bitches and heartless, very few have compassion I should tell you. It'll be very, very difficult to get a caring escort so to speak. by the way women can sense when en want sex and when we sex that we make the guy work extra hard for it. well i don't but i feel the instinct to do that.

Somehow I feel like you have passed on some opportunities or that you do not know the signals of a women hinting she wants sex.
Oh I've definitely passed on opportunities. Sometimes intentionally, other times fear, and other times because I feared I didn't know how to do it.
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Originally Posted By AMDuser⏩
Oh I've definitely passed on opportunities. Sometimes intentionally, other times fear, and other times because I feared I didn't know how to do it.
Before I could get any girl I wanted. Even very attractive, slim girls would ask me out. I even had an attractive, blonde counselor ask me if I wanted tutoring/help on H.W. in the 12th grade. Girls would fight over me.

Now I can't even get an average looking,likely single, foreign , Chinese girl at a party. LOL.

I feel like some girls think i'm creepy. My biggest fear is that I became less attractive over the last 4-5 years.

This really is depressing. I guess I will have to try online dating after college. It would suck if even that fails.

Good luck to both of us. Looks like we are going to need it.
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Originally Posted By AMDuser⏩
Oh I've definitely passed on opportunities. Sometimes intentionally, other times fear, and other times because I feared I didn't know how to do it.
Guys are usually afraidish that they might not measure up to a woman's standards. but you have to relax to enjoy it. some guys are quite good for their first time actually. changing positions often makes sex hot. research sexual positions. rub her clit gently during sex. pull her hair (not hard), slap her ass a bit. kiss her neck alot, her chest, (gently suck on her nipples during foreplay for like 4 seconds). rub her breasts gently. listen to her sounds, if she starts breathing harder go in faster. if she isnt making much noise, rub her clit a bit and slow down or change the position. oh and give orders.
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
Before I could get any girl I wanted. Even very attractive, slim girls would ask me out. I even had an attractive, blonde counselor as me if I wanted tutoring/help on H.W. in the 12th grade. Girls would fight over me.

Now I can't even get an average looking,likely single, foreign , Chinese girl at a party. LOL.

I feel like some girls think i'm creepy. My biggest fear is that I became less attractive over the last 4-5 years.

This really is depressing. I guess I will have to try online dating after college. It would suck if even that fails.

Good luck to both of us. Looks like we are going to need it.
it could be that you have the gay look. some women do not hit on men if they have that look. you know with naturally long eyelashes, pretty eyes.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Guys are usually afraidish that they might not measure up to a woman's standards. but you have to relax to enjoy it. some guys are quite good for their first time actually. changing positions often makes sex hot. research sexual positions. rub her clit gently during sex. pull her hair (not hard), slap her ass a bit. kiss her neck alot, her chest, (gently suck on her nipples during foreplay for like 4 seconds). rub her breasts gently. listen to her sounds, if she starts breathing harder go in faster. if she isnt making much noise, rub her clit a bit and slow down or change the position. oh and give orders.
The best advice is just to let your natural instincts take over and stop thinking so much.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
The best advice is just to let your natural instincts take over and stop thinking so much.
escorts do not like/do not allow guys to just go wild. so if a guy if too rough etc she will do stuff to slow it down.
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Hope you realize how stupid it was to worry about something so primitive as having sex. We get so much social pressure from our friends, and others when we are younger that we can build the experience of the first time in our heads, as this monumentous moment in our lives, that we need to practice and obsess about.

That it is so difficult and the first time is terrible. News flash, it is phucking sex, something we instinctually know how to do.

Makes me cringe every time a guy talks about his first time.
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This baffles me. I have a 5’3” friend that is balding, fat, his body is covered in hair and he is autistic....but even he’s screwed 2 girls and is even getting married. OP, try talking to girls on your same level.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
well as a past escort.
are you just trying to degrade yourself as much as possible today?
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Guys are usually afraidish that they might not measure up to a woman's standards. but you have to relax to enjoy it. some guys are quite good for their first time actually. changing positions often makes sex hot. research sexual positions. rub her clit gently during sex. pull her hair (not hard), slap her ass a bit. kiss her neck alot, her chest, (gently suck on her nipples during foreplay for like 4 seconds). rub her breasts gently. listen to her sounds, if she starts breathing harder go in faster. if she isnt making much noise, rub her clit a bit and slow down or change the position. oh and give orders.
I see where you're coming from but this is terrible advice for OP. Theirs no chance hes going to be able to do any of that and it's going to fuk his head up thinking he has to try and do all this. The guy cant even get laid hows he going to remember to do any of that chit lol. Its just gonna make him even more nervous. If hes getting an escort then all that is useless cause nobody gives a fuk about getting an escort off lol.
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Originally Posted By Jibt3ch⏩
I see where you're coming from but this is terrible advice for OP. Theirs no chance hes going to be able to do any of that and it's going to fuk his head up thinking he has to try and do all this. The guy cant even get laid hows he going to remember to do any of that chit lol. Its just gonna make him even more nervous. If hes getting an escort then all that is useless cause nobody gives a fuk about getting an escort off lol.
Spank her until your primal instincts kick in... phucking lol
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Originally Posted By Jibt3ch⏩
I see where you're coming from but this is terrible advice for OP. Theirs no chance hes going to be able to do any of that and it's going to fuk his head up thinking he has to try and do all this. The guy cant even get laid hows he going to remember to do any of that chit lol. Its just gonna make him even more nervous. If hes getting an escort then all that is useless cause nobody gives a fuk about getting an escort off lol.
Nah guys do care about an escorts satisfaction actually. But I agree relaxing and not worrying is key to having good sex.
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Originally Posted By sv722⏩
For starters you lose a lot of money and you feel dirty and disgusting afterwards. Wood legit rather plow a fat, smoking, uneducated Tinder whale than pay a fukking hooker for my first time.
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OP at 29 it's best to just pay for it and get it overwith. Plus, when you do get a girlfriend you'll want to at least have some experience under your belt so you're at least decent at it. You don't want to be experience-less when doing it for the first time with a girl you see as a potential long-term partner.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
well as a past escortI'll tell its not worth it unless, you tell her upfront that you want a girlfriend experience and you says you want to 'date' her a bit until she's ready. quite a few escorts are bitches and heartless, very few have compassion I should tell you. It'll be very, very difficult to get a caring escort so to speak. by the way women can sense when en want sex and when we sex that we make the guy work extra hard for it. well i don't but i feel the instinct to do that.

Somehow I feel like you have passed on some opportunities or that you do not know the signals of a women hinting she wants sex.
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace⏩
your ability to have sex is innate, IMO. I don't understand people who have trouble performing their first time.

my first time I actually fuked a girl in the ass, and I was telling her to call me papi (she was latina) lol, pulling her hair, putting my hand around her neck, etc.

It was condom sex so that's probably why I lasted so long, but still, don't understand how so many guys struggle with performance

it's a part of who you are, just like your ability to innately fight - some people are terrible fighters, some are great.
Was finding the V difficult your first time?
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Originally Posted By Harry815⏩
OP at 29 it's best to just pay for it and get it overwith. Plus, when you do get a girlfriend you'll want to at least have some experience under your belt so you're at least decent at it. You don't want to be experience-less when doing it for the first time with a girl you see as a potential long-term partner.
This is that bs advice I was referring too. It is instinctual, don't need practice.
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Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
Now still a virgin at 35, with 36 only a few months away. I have never seriously thought about using a sex worker/escort/hooker or whatever label you want to use for a women who will only have sex with you for an agreed amount of time because and SOLELY because you are paying her. It just isn't worth going through with it, purely so that you aren't a virgin anymore. So much negative social stigma has been attached to being an adult male virgin of anything over 25'ish, that it does prompt people to use hookers as an easy way of getting out of that 'zone'. Once you become a virgin at 40 of course, you become the main star of a Hollywood comedy starring highly paid actors. That's right, being an adult male at 40 is so hilariously awful that a multi-million dollar movie has to be made about it!!
I asked you this in another thread, but i'll ask it again...

Why do you try so bloody hard to convince yourself NOT to see a hooker?

The mental gymnastics are painfully obvious to anyone reading. The truth is, you don't have a damn clue what you're talking about. How could you?YOU HAVEN'T EVEN TRIED.

Rather than sitting around night after night convincing yourself and others how a hooker won't do anything, why not just give it a fukin' try? Eh?

When my Granddad was alive, one of his favourite sayings was, "no experience is ever wasted...".

Maybe you'll learn a thing or two?

Oh wait, I forgot, you're the guy who knows everything without actually doing anything.

inb4 typical "I don't have to set myself on fire to know it'll hurt" retort. That's a weak argument and you know it. We're talking about getting your dick wet, NOT playing Russian roulette or jumping off a cliff.
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I would rather die a virgin than use a hooker, even if I am one at 80.
You've really done a number on yourself.

What's so horribly depressing about this whole scenario is that if you just re-framed the hooker in a positive light (i.e. a learning experience, which is quite simply all it is), you'd have come along leaps and bounds instead of remaining in a tragic state of arrested development.
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