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post 1555063791 06-30-2018, 05:24 AM
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Fkbuddy ghosted me

So that's what's up. I encouraged him to give a chick he likes another chance. Apparently she was acting petty and saying she heard stuff about him. But they did go out once or twice before that. He said they had had a good connection n she met his peeps.

So I told him have a convo with her to find out what was wrong. I also told him to give her another chance. So some days later he ghosted me for two or three days then resurfaced saying he got depressed because his past relationships haven't worked out but didn't want to talk about it. He n I met up but sex didn't happen talked a bit. He said that I like sex a bit too much.

Then he tells me that he's going on a date with the chick n that he isn't into it. So I told him go. afterwards he said he enjoyed it. N now it's been some days maybe 6 that he's ghosted me. Pissed off at the disrespect. He reads my messages but won't respond.
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post 1555063861 06-30-2018, 05:28 AM
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post 1555064011 06-30-2018, 05:31 AM
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-tell him to hangout with some girl
-he hangs out with girl
-“pissed off at the disrespect”

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post 1555064031 06-30-2018, 05:32 AM
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You're his FWB yet you encourage him to go after relationships he is more interested in. When it doesn't work out (for him) you two still meet up but sex doesn't happen. He tells you that you like sex too much.

He leaves and eventually goes out with someone else and has stopped responding to your messages.

Why are you surprised again?
post 1555064161 06-30-2018, 05:35 AM
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I know but I was so sad and he was supportive. N I needed a distraction.
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post 1555064511 06-30-2018, 05:45 AM
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I just think he could have at least told me instead of ghosting me. I'd be happy for him. In fact the first time he ghosted me I told him it wasn't cool to just ghost me and that he could at least tell me he was through. He had apologised that time. It just doesn't make sense to ghost someone who encouraged you to meet the woman you're dating.

And not to mention who provided support after his breakup with his 5 year ex who treated him like crap and cheated. And after that ex was trying to get him to do free stuff for her relatives while ignoring him. And who also made him feel inadequate sexually during the relationship.

I just think he is acting like a douchebag.
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post 1555064611 06-30-2018, 05:47 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I just think he is acting like a douchebag.
I have had women in the past accuse me of being a sex addict, so I can understand why you would be pissed if he tells you 'you like sex too much'. At this point, if he can't really appreciate that you really enjoy sex and he wants something else from someone, why keep him around as a FWB anyway?

Good riddance imo.
post 1555064761 06-30-2018, 05:52 AM
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You are like the rock everyone hides apparently, brb encouraged dude to go have a relationship then cries after lol
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post 1555064921 06-30-2018, 05:57 AM
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Great...so now the guys gonna spread the herp u gave em. Jesus h
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post 1555064951 06-30-2018, 05:57 AM
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Rabbit, it's not like really wanted to b an fwb but I needed some type of distraction. I didn't want sit at home crying n **** over the last guy I had feelings for.
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post 1555065071 06-30-2018, 06:02 AM
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the dating life of an ex escort
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post 1555065251 06-30-2018, 06:07 AM
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That isn't confirmed and I did tell him get tested. I know for a fact some guys who have been with me got negative test results.
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post 1555065371 06-30-2018, 06:10 AM
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nice pics feggit

edit: went back and actually read the post, your fuk buddy is a dude?























post 1555065421 06-30-2018, 06:11 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
That isn't confirmed and I did tell him get tested. I know for a fact some guys who have been with me got negative test results.
You acted like an autistic 12 year old just lol
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post 1555065551 06-30-2018, 06:16 AM
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Well because I felt that he needed to be in a long term relationship with someone special. I could feel that he was lonely when he n I embraced. It's hard to explain. It was like he needed some type of romance.

So I figured might as well push him in that direction. The sex was a distraction actually...don't own sex toys by the way.
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post 1555065671 06-30-2018, 06:17 AM
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I'm a chick.
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post 1555065781 06-30-2018, 06:22 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
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post 1555065831 06-30-2018, 06:22 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Well because I felt that he needed to be in a long term relationship with someone special. I could feel that he was lonely when he n I embraced. It's hard to explain. It was like he needed some type of romance.

So I figured might as well push him in that direction. The sex was a distraction actually...don't own sex toys by the way.
So you are Autistic
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post 1555065871 06-30-2018, 06:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Are you fukken kidding?
Fwb ..when will you learn?
She encouraged her FWB to find a new girl, and when he did she's mad/confused....
post 1555065961 06-30-2018, 06:26 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I'm a chick.
You're a herpes ridden, cumdumpster whore.
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post 1555066091 06-30-2018, 06:29 AM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
So you are Autistic
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post 1555066161 06-30-2018, 06:31 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Rabbit, it's not like really wanted to b an fwb but I needed some type of distraction. I didn't want sit at home crying n **** over the last guy I had feelings for.
- doesn't fuk Adonis because she's not that kinda girl
- gets fukbuddies because she's in a bad mood

Ok
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post 1555066181 06-30-2018, 06:31 AM
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Originally Posted By Pozy⏩
Write him an angry letter.
Agreed but don't just stop there.

Also write a separate email, maybe call his parents for council.

Show up at his work etc..

Really let him know you care.
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post 1555066381 06-30-2018, 06:36 AM
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i thought this was a mod title change

stop being so clingy, op.

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post 1555066751 06-30-2018, 06:43 AM
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It wasn't just a bad mood. I was heartbroken over someone else.

On a separate note the Adonis in question had no moral code. He was a horrible human being who used his looks to start trouble and he was constantly telling the guy I was dating that I wasn't genuine. In fact the last two times he saw me he would just stare in some kind of expectant way. Gross.
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post 1555066881 06-30-2018, 06:46 AM
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Jay post spoon pics of yourself, how can we take this seriously otherwise.
post 1555067041 06-30-2018, 06:50 AM
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Janglingjack you're entitled to your opinion. I know who I am and what I truly want. Sometimes someone's path towards the right road is a bit difficult or windy but that doesn't mean that that person isn't trying.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
It wasn't just a bad mood. I was heartbroken over someone else.

On a separate note the Adonis in question had no moral code. He was a horrible human being who used his looks to start trouble and he was constantly telling the guy I was dating that I wasn't genuine. In fact the last two times he saw me he would just stare in some kind of expectant way. Gross.
Yes I know you will cope non-stop in avoidance of acknowledging who you really are to avoid cognitive dissonance between your actions and some values you hold, however legitimately that may be
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post 1555067091 06-30-2018, 06:51 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Janglingjack you're entitled to your opinion. I know who I am and what I truly want. Sometimes someone's path towards the right road is a bit difficult or windy but that doesn't mean that that person isn't trying.
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Tential I'm being honest..the last guy I got heartbroken over I liked him a lot on sight. I thought he was the one. But he didn't feel the same way at all. I still miss him a ton. The guy in this post had been after me for months so eventually I gave in. But my heart wasn't into it...which was why often times I was as dry as hell.
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