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post 1555067801 06-30-2018, 07:03 AM
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Fwb is just for sex
Dont get involved in his feelings
Only contact to set up sexors
Otherwise its not gonna go.well
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post 1555068021 06-30-2018, 07:08 AM
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Originally Posted By melDorado⏩
Fwb is just for sex
Dont get involved in his feelings
Only contact to set up sexors
Otherwise its not gonna go.well
You are giving advice to an autistic troll
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post 1555068141 06-30-2018, 07:10 AM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
You are giving advice to an autistic troll
Tommy gets it


The rest of you need to stop fuking feeding fake profile trolls. Take a time machine back to old misc and demand spoons or negs
post 1555068221 06-30-2018, 07:11 AM
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Well he and I seemed to more of friends. We would talk about our emotional issues often. Watch movies while we eat. He's a good cook actually. Or maybe that was all a way of warming me up for sex...in which case that sucks. But I should have known better. I mean his cat went missing and he wasn't even bothered. Red flag.
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post 1555068241 06-30-2018, 07:11 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Tential I'm being honest..the last guy I got heartbroken over I liked him a lot on sight. I thought he was the one. But he didn't feel the same way at all. I still miss him a ton. The guy in this post had been after me for months so eventually I gave in.But my heart wasn't into it...which was why often times I was as dry as hell.
Heart not into it
Needs to make a thread on the misc complaining about it...

post 1555068421 06-30-2018, 07:15 AM
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I actually year posted pics with my profile name.
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post 1555068441 06-30-2018, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I actually year posted pics with my profile name.
No one cares, post pics
fukn Brozart
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post 1555068461 06-30-2018, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
The guy in this post had been after me for monthsso eventually I gave in.
post 1555068571 06-30-2018, 07:17 AM
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Lol not falling for that post pics trick again.

It'll just result in requests for boob pic then ass pic.
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post 1555068611 06-30-2018, 07:19 AM
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol⏩
Tommy gets it


The rest of you need to stop fuking feeding fake profile trolls. Take a time machine back to old misc and demand spoons or negs
Op is troll we ran this thing off the misc last year but seems everyone has short memories of numb3rs
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post 1555068651 06-30-2018, 07:19 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Lol not falling for that trick again.
Then no one cares.
fukn Brozart
I'm a hugger
post 1555068671 06-30-2018, 07:19 AM
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If you're not his girlfriend, he does not owe you anything. He will reply when he feels like it. Sorry.
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post 1555068811 06-30-2018, 07:22 AM
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Well then if he's going to be like that then my legs are shut.
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post 1555068951 06-30-2018, 07:25 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Well then if he's going to be like that then my legs are shut.
Sad that's all you have to offer and rescind. If only you had something of value other than the thing that every other female has you'd have a better love life
fukn Brozart
I'm a hugger
post 1555069061 06-30-2018, 07:27 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Well then if he's going to be like that then my legs are shut.
Lmao as if that's his ultimate punishment. The last thing on his mind is you if he's seeing somebody else.

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post 1555069251 06-30-2018, 07:31 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Well then if he's going to be like that then my legs are shut.
Whats the difference, he's not hitting you up... this thread is about him ghosting you, remember?
post 1555069701 06-30-2018, 07:41 AM
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That's not all I have to offer. The offer of friendship its still on the table. I've been a good friend to him. I've supported him when he was crying etc. Also I provided support when he had to stand up persons who were taking advantage.

I've even been there to support him when another of his exes tries to make him feel like **** or not bowing to her wishes. Apparently she wanted him to be her side boyfriend while she stays married and because he disagreed she gave him ****.

In fact the offer of friendship is no longer on the table. His actions clearly show he foes not value me at all.
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post 1555069901 06-30-2018, 07:44 AM
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post 1555069921 06-30-2018, 07:44 AM
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It is in a way, I'm better in bed than most he's been with and I'm the least manipulative. I'm even less petty than the chick he's dating currently, who instead of being upfront with him in the past relied on word of mouth and had stopped dating him.

But she does like him so I guess that's something.
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post 1555070111 06-30-2018, 07:47 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I'm better in bed than most he's been with
Originally Posted By jay283⏩
But my heart wasn't into it...which was why often times I was as dry as hell.
post 1555070571 06-30-2018, 07:53 AM
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Tential I meant I needed to be warmed up a bit more before sex. 5 mins of foreplay weren't enough. So he and I would chill, talk a bit. Watch some movie. Then foreplay for maybe 10 to 15 mins for me to start getting wet.
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post 1555070921 06-30-2018, 08:00 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
So that's what's up. I encouraged him to give a chick he likes another chance. Apparently she was acting petty and saying she heard stuff about him. But they did go out once or twice before that. He said they had had a good connection n she met his peeps.
Okay, he did exactly the thing you told him was fine to do.
He said that I like sex a bit too much.
You're allowed to like sex however much you like. He's allowed to not find that attractive for any number of reasons. Take it at face value.
Then he tells me that he's going on a date with the chick n that he isn't into it. So I told him go. afterwards he said he enjoyed it. N now it's been some days maybe 6 that he's ghosted me. Pissed off at the disrespect. He reads my messages but won't respond.
The thing about ghosting is it is a response, just not the one that you hoped for. Rejection hurts no matter how it comes, whether it's through ghosting or a heartfelt and tearful breakup. Dwelling on the method of rejection over the reason for rejection is one of the lies we tell ourselves about what would make it better. You now know that he’s an unreliable fuk buddy. Now you can break the cycle of overthinking and being disappointed by letting his self-imposed disappearance from your life actually work. Don’t chase him. He's responded. Move on.
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post 1555071061 06-30-2018, 08:03 AM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
The thing about ghosting is it is a response, just not the one that you hoped for.
post 1555071101 06-30-2018, 08:04 AM
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol⏩
Jay post spoon pics of yourself, how can we take this seriously otherwise.
She posted pics before.
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post 1555071221 06-30-2018, 08:07 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You are an fwb

You have no self respect

So why should he respect you?

Stop trying to make this a thing
Originally Posted By RICHSTRONG⏩
Great...so now the guys gonna spread the herp u gave em. Jesus h
lmao

Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Okay, he did exactly the thing you told him was fine to do.



You're allowed to like sex however much you like. He's allowed to not find that attractive for any number of reasons. Take it at face value.



The thing about ghosting is it is a response,just not the one that you hoped for. Rejection hurts no matter how it comes, whether it's through ghosting or a heartfelt and tearful breakup. Dwelling on the method of rejection over the reason for rejection is one of the lies we tell ourselves about what would make it better. You now know that he’s an unreliable fuk buddy. Now you can break the cycle of overthinking and being disappointed by letting his self-imposed disappearance from your life actually work. Don’t chase him. He's responded. Move on.
i like that
post 1555071501 06-30-2018, 08:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You are an fwb

You have no self respect

So why should he respect you?

Stop trying to make this a thing
Stop acting self righteous.

As if you were never a fwb once.

If you havent....then I got some news for you young lady


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Opie find another fwb.


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post 1555071721 06-30-2018, 08:15 AM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Op is troll we ran this thing off the misc last year but seems everyone has short memories of numb3rs
Was this the one whose pics looked like a sloppy 12 year old boy with nasty gorilla hands? If so I have them saved somewhere
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post 1555071981 06-30-2018, 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted By janglingjack⏩
Was this the one whose pics looked like a sloppy 12 year old boy with nasty gorilla hands? If so I have them saved somewhere
Yes
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post 1555072061 06-30-2018, 08:20 AM
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Originally Posted By janglingjack⏩
Was this the one whose pics looked like a sloppy 12 year old boy with nasty gorilla hands? If so I have them saved somewhere
Isn't this one the former "escort"?
post 1555072481 06-30-2018, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By tential⏩
Isn't this one the former "escort"?
Yes
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