07-03-2018, 12:51 AM
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How can you actually trust any girl?
SRS...
Sort of hit me today that it's basically impossible to trust any girls. Imagine if they are really attractive. They literally have to dodge dink everyday. Even the 1/10 pig whales still have options. One fight, one swipe, and the relationship is over. It's that fuking easy. And considering the high costs of marriage, starting a family, etc...considering the number of people who end up getting cucked into raising kids that aren't even theirs, considering high rates of STD, prevalence of dating apps, and the removal of stigma associated with promiscuity, how can you ever really trust anyone?
Similar things go for friendships. You hear so many stories about people backstabbing each other over money, selling coworkers out to get promoted, taking credit for other peoples' work, etc. Can you really trust anyone? Now I see the appeal of gangs and chit. It's like...you're part of something bonded by blood, where you can actually trust the other guy to never sell you out no matter what you did. People need a sense of loyalty and trust in one another. It's just gone in today's society. Seems like the only thing you can ever really trust is your own mind, and even that will go if you remain isolated for too long.
Sort of hit me today that it's basically impossible to trust any girls. Imagine if they are really attractive. They literally have to dodge dink everyday. Even the 1/10 pig whales still have options. One fight, one swipe, and the relationship is over. It's that fuking easy. And considering the high costs of marriage, starting a family, etc...considering the number of people who end up getting cucked into raising kids that aren't even theirs, considering high rates of STD, prevalence of dating apps, and the removal of stigma associated with promiscuity, how can you ever really trust anyone?
Similar things go for friendships. You hear so many stories about people backstabbing each other over money, selling coworkers out to get promoted, taking credit for other peoples' work, etc. Can you really trust anyone? Now I see the appeal of gangs and chit. It's like...you're part of something bonded by blood, where you can actually trust the other guy to never sell you out no matter what you did. People need a sense of loyalty and trust in one another. It's just gone in today's society. Seems like the only thing you can ever really trust is your own mind, and even that will go if you remain isolated for too long.
07-03-2018, 12:52 AM
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07-03-2018, 12:54 AM
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07-03-2018, 12:54 AM
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I give everyone the same amount of trust. From the second I meet them. From then, once lost, there is no getting it back from me. Worked out well so far
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07-03-2018, 12:55 AM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
Ya bro. I try to be respectful and mindful, but it just sucks not being able to trust anybody. I mean like let's say you even manage to find a girl you trust, and have a stable family etc. And you raise your kid. And you send him off to play little league, and the coach molests him. I mean fuk man. There are so many bad people out there. It's like...how do you accept that uncertainty? There's just so many scummy people out there.keep your eyes and ears open but give respect. That's all you can do.
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lol I'm not a gangbanger. I am a good person or at least I try to be.yeah youre right I should become a gangbanger virgin 30 yr bloody fapper that goes to watch motion pictures by himself
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I just find it hard to trust anyone nowadays. If you are a trusting person, you leave yourself open to get scammed, betrayed, etc.I give everyone the same amount of trust. From the second I meet them. From then, once lost, there is no getting it back from me. Worked out well so far
07-03-2018, 12:59 AM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
I'll tell you something and it's coming from someone who's 36.SRS...
Sort of hit me today that it's basically impossible to trust any girls. Imagine if they are really attractive. They literally have to dodge dink everyday. Even the 1/10 pig whales still have options. One fight, one swipe, and the relationship is over. It's that fuking easy. And considering the high costs of marriage, starting a family, etc...considering the number of people who end up getting cucked into raising kids that aren't even theirs, considering high rates of STD, prevalence of dating apps, and the removal of stigma associated with promiscuity, how can you ever really trust anyone?
Similar things go for friendships. You hear so many stories about people backstabbing each other over money, selling coworkers out to get promoted, taking credit for other peoples' work, etc. Can you really trust anyone? Now I see the appeal of gangs and chit. It's like...you're part of something bonded by blood, where you can actually trust the other guy to never sell you out no matter what you did. People need a sense of loyalty and trust in one another. It's just gone in today's society. Seems like the only thing you can ever really trust is your own mind, and even that will go if you remain isolated for too long.
Sort of hit me today that it's basically impossible to trust any girls. Imagine if they are really attractive. They literally have to dodge dink everyday. Even the 1/10 pig whales still have options. One fight, one swipe, and the relationship is over. It's that fuking easy. And considering the high costs of marriage, starting a family, etc...considering the number of people who end up getting cucked into raising kids that aren't even theirs, considering high rates of STD, prevalence of dating apps, and the removal of stigma associated with promiscuity, how can you ever really trust anyone?
Similar things go for friendships. You hear so many stories about people backstabbing each other over money, selling coworkers out to get promoted, taking credit for other peoples' work, etc. Can you really trust anyone? Now I see the appeal of gangs and chit. It's like...you're part of something bonded by blood, where you can actually trust the other guy to never sell you out no matter what you did. People need a sense of loyalty and trust in one another. It's just gone in today's society. Seems like the only thing you can ever really trust is your own mind, and even that will go if you remain isolated for too long.
I get burned all the time. I'm not talking from crappy women (but that happened a lot too) but also from co-workers, from managers, from all sorts of people. I've been taken advantage of more times than I can count. I've been conned out of thousands of dollars by "friends" and I've been fired from jobs by completely incompetent managers who fcking hate me because I'm confident and know what I'm doing. This is especially true in medical scenarios and tactical settings.
Why?
Because I'm trusting and a nice guy in real life. (not nice guy creeper like FA's tend to pretend they are). Moral of the story? Who cares. You're going to get burned in life. You're going to get taken advantage of. You're going to get screwed over. The other option is to become a recluse and never trust anyone. You have to take these risks in life to develop true friendships and relationships. I have friends who I am 100% confident would take a bullet for me and I would do the same for them. You don't get those friends by not trusting anyone. That's a life lesson you have to learn.
As far as women go, you're going to get burned in that as well. I can write a 10 page thesis on crappy, psychotic, sociopathic, narcissistic, drug abusing, piece of **** women. They're everywhere. But guess what, eventually you meet some that aren't. The girl I'm dating now is one of the good ones. We've had a couple arguments and at no point did she go and hop on someone's dick because of it. That's because she's mature and acts like an adult. (something you don't see much of it if you pay too much attention to threads in here)
You get to that point in relationships by also taking risks. You're going to get burned, that's 100% guarantee. You'll survive though and you'll be better off in the long run.
My 2 cents.
07-03-2018, 01:02 AM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
Maybe so. But if you are a smart person, you can recognize the ****ty situations. Gut instinct says a lot too. If it feels off. It is.Ya bro. I try to be respectful and mindful, but it just sucks not being able to trust anybody. I mean like let's say you even manage to find a girl you trust, and have a stable family etc. And you raise your kid. And you send him off to play little league, and the coach molests him. I mean fuk man. There are so many bad people out there. It's like...how do you accept that uncertainty? There's just so many scummy people out there.
lol I'm not a gangbanger. I am a good person or at least I try to be.
I just find it hard to trust anyone nowadays. If you are a trusting person, you leave yourself open to get scammed, betrayed, etc.
lol I'm not a gangbanger. I am a good person or at least I try to be.
I just find it hard to trust anyone nowadays. If you are a trusting person, you leave yourself open to get scammed, betrayed, etc.
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07-03-2018, 01:02 AM
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
You're right, but sometimes you think someone will take a bullet for you, and then they turn out to be the one shooting. It's good advice tho. You're right brah.I'll tell you something and it's coming from someone who's 36.
I get burned all the time. I'm not talking from crappy women (but that happened a lot too) but also from co-workers, from managers, from all sorts of people. I've been taken advantage of more times than I can count. I've been conned out of thousands of dollars by "friends" and I've been fired from jobs by completely incompetent managers who fcking hate me because I'm confident and know what I'm doing. This is especially true in medical scenarios and tactical settings.
Why?
Because I'm trusting and a nice guy in real life. (not nice guy creeper like FA's tend to pretend they are). Moral of the story? Who cares. You're going to get burned in life. You're going to get taken advantage of. You're going to get screwed over. The other option is to become a recluse and never trust anyone. You have to take these risks in life to develop true friendships and relationships. I have friends who I am 100% confident would take a bullet for me and I would do the same for them. You don't get those friends by not trusting anyone. That's a life lesson you have to learn.
As far as women go, you're going to get burned in that as well. I can write a 10 page thesis on crappy, psychotic, sociopathic, narcissistic, drug abusing, piece of **** women. They're everywhere. But guess what, eventually you meet some that aren't. The girl I'm dating now is one of the good ones. We've had a couple arguments and at no point did she go and hop on someone's dick because of it. That's because she's mature and acts like an adult. (something you don't see much of it if you pay too much attention to threads in here)
You get to that point in relationships by also taking risks. You're going to get burned, that's 100% guarantee. You'll survive though and you'll be better off in the long run.
My 2 cents.
I get burned all the time. I'm not talking from crappy women (but that happened a lot too) but also from co-workers, from managers, from all sorts of people. I've been taken advantage of more times than I can count. I've been conned out of thousands of dollars by "friends" and I've been fired from jobs by completely incompetent managers who fcking hate me because I'm confident and know what I'm doing. This is especially true in medical scenarios and tactical settings.
Why?
Because I'm trusting and a nice guy in real life. (not nice guy creeper like FA's tend to pretend they are). Moral of the story? Who cares. You're going to get burned in life. You're going to get taken advantage of. You're going to get screwed over. The other option is to become a recluse and never trust anyone. You have to take these risks in life to develop true friendships and relationships. I have friends who I am 100% confident would take a bullet for me and I would do the same for them. You don't get those friends by not trusting anyone. That's a life lesson you have to learn.
As far as women go, you're going to get burned in that as well. I can write a 10 page thesis on crappy, psychotic, sociopathic, narcissistic, drug abusing, piece of **** women. They're everywhere. But guess what, eventually you meet some that aren't. The girl I'm dating now is one of the good ones. We've had a couple arguments and at no point did she go and hop on someone's dick because of it. That's because she's mature and acts like an adult. (something you don't see much of it if you pay too much attention to threads in here)
You get to that point in relationships by also taking risks. You're going to get burned, that's 100% guarantee. You'll survive though and you'll be better off in the long run.
My 2 cents.
07-03-2018, 01:06 AM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
It's in times of suffering when you find out who the dudes who will sacrifice for you.You're right, but sometimes you think someone will take a bullet for you, and then they turn out to be the one shooting. It's good advice tho. You're right brah.
At 2 am when you're getting done with a drug addict medical call and you get dispatch toning you out for another call across town and you hear "X unit will take it for Y unit" and you're Y unit. That guy just gave up his sleep to cover for you so you can get some rest. That's friendship.
When bullets are coming in over your head and you can't even get your machine gun out to return fire because it's raining hell down on you and your buddy hops in the 50 cal turret and opens up without hesitation because he's a fcking beast. That's friendship.
When your car breaks down and you're fcked because you have work all week and no way to get there and then your buddy loans you his car without accepting no as an answer even though he needs his car too. That's friendship.
Those are all things that have happened to me. You'll find the same thing if you ever suffer with someone who calls themselves your friend. The key part is that there has to be suffering. Without it, anyone can claim to give a **** but very few do.
07-03-2018, 01:11 AM
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
post of the year on this topic tbh, he's completely rightI'll tell you something and it's coming from someone who's 36.
I get burned all the time. I'm not talking from crappy women (but that happened a lot too) but also from co-workers, from managers, from all sorts of people. I've been taken advantage of more times than I can count. I've been conned out of thousands of dollars by "friends" and I've been fired from jobs by completely incompetent managers who fcking hate me because I'm confident and know what I'm doing. This is especially true in medical scenarios and tactical settings.
Why?
Because I'm trusting and a nice guy in real life. (not nice guy creeper like FA's tend to pretend they are). Moral of the story? Who cares. You're going to get burned in life. You're going to get taken advantage of. You're going to get screwed over. The other option is to become a recluse and never trust anyone. You have to take these risks in life to develop true friendships and relationships. I have friends who I am 100% confident would take a bullet for me and I would do the same for them. You don't get those friends by not trusting anyone. That's a life lesson you have to learn.
As far as women go, you're going to get burned in that as well. I can write a 10 page thesis on crappy, psychotic, sociopathic, narcissistic, drug abusing, piece of **** women. They're everywhere. But guess what, eventually you meet some that aren't. The girl I'm dating now is one of the good ones. We've had a couple arguments and at no point did she go and hop on someone's dick because of it. That's because she's mature and acts like an adult. (something you don't see much of it if you pay too much attention to threads in here)
You get to that point in relationships by also taking risks. You're going to get burned, that's 100% guarantee. You'll survive though and you'll be better off in the long run.
My 2 cents.
I get burned all the time. I'm not talking from crappy women (but that happened a lot too) but also from co-workers, from managers, from all sorts of people. I've been taken advantage of more times than I can count. I've been conned out of thousands of dollars by "friends" and I've been fired from jobs by completely incompetent managers who fcking hate me because I'm confident and know what I'm doing. This is especially true in medical scenarios and tactical settings.
Why?
Because I'm trusting and a nice guy in real life. (not nice guy creeper like FA's tend to pretend they are). Moral of the story? Who cares. You're going to get burned in life. You're going to get taken advantage of. You're going to get screwed over. The other option is to become a recluse and never trust anyone. You have to take these risks in life to develop true friendships and relationships. I have friends who I am 100% confident would take a bullet for me and I would do the same for them. You don't get those friends by not trusting anyone. That's a life lesson you have to learn.
As far as women go, you're going to get burned in that as well. I can write a 10 page thesis on crappy, psychotic, sociopathic, narcissistic, drug abusing, piece of **** women. They're everywhere. But guess what, eventually you meet some that aren't. The girl I'm dating now is one of the good ones. We've had a couple arguments and at no point did she go and hop on someone's dick because of it. That's because she's mature and acts like an adult. (something you don't see much of it if you pay too much attention to threads in here)
You get to that point in relationships by also taking risks. You're going to get burned, that's 100% guarantee. You'll survive though and you'll be better off in the long run.
My 2 cents.
if you don't trust anyone and believe everyone's interests are ill-spirited you'll get absolutely no where and no one will want to be with you. you need to lower your guard and let people in fully aware that their intentions could be bad or they unintentionally harm you. on the other hand they could be equally as likely to trust in you too
i think it helps never to expect anything and take it all as it comes. you will either be pleasantly surprised, or disappointed, and you won't be as upset as you would be if you expected a different outcome
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07-03-2018, 01:12 AM
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07-03-2018, 01:13 AM
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
i will rep you when i get a chance brahIt's in times of suffering when you find out who the dudes who will sacrifice for you.
At 2 am when you're getting done with a drug addict medical call and you get dispatch toning you out for another call across town and you hear "X unit will take it for Y unit" and you're Y unit. That guy just gave up his sleep to cover for you so you can get some rest. That's friendship.
When bullets are coming in over your head and you can't even get your machine gun out to return fire because it's raining hell down on you and your buddy hops in the 50 cal turret and opens up without hesitation because he's a fcking beast. That's friendship.
When your car breaks down and you're fcked because you have work all week and no way to get there and then your buddy loans you his car without accepting no as an answer even though he needs his car too. That's friendship.
Those are all things that have happened to me. You'll find the same thing if you ever suffer with someone who calls themselves your friend. The key part is that there has to be suffering. Without it, anyone can claim to give a **** but very few do.
At 2 am when you're getting done with a drug addict medical call and you get dispatch toning you out for another call across town and you hear "X unit will take it for Y unit" and you're Y unit. That guy just gave up his sleep to cover for you so you can get some rest. That's friendship.
When bullets are coming in over your head and you can't even get your machine gun out to return fire because it's raining hell down on you and your buddy hops in the 50 cal turret and opens up without hesitation because he's a fcking beast. That's friendship.
When your car breaks down and you're fcked because you have work all week and no way to get there and then your buddy loans you his car without accepting no as an answer even though he needs his car too. That's friendship.
Those are all things that have happened to me. You'll find the same thing if you ever suffer with someone who calls themselves your friend. The key part is that there has to be suffering. Without it, anyone can claim to give a **** but very few do.
I am glad you have friends like that
Originally Posted By CANADlAN⏩
I am the same. I pretend to trust people, but don't actually trust anyone and secretly expect the worst from people, but I think that's a problem. It's not healthy.I trust nobody, cover my ass, and leave as little open to luck at all times. It works very well for me
07-03-2018, 01:16 AM
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07-03-2018, 01:19 AM
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It would be like letting your kids go to start driving/going to parties on their own. All you can do is monitoring, not be overbearing and just hope they the right type of person to overcome pressure and urges. I've heard and seen the most innocent, delightful, pleasant people just cheat and try hide it. You can never really trust anyone, but if you act like they always will then you will push them away. It's basically a huge lottery/gamble in life and having a faithful partner is one of them.
I know one friends who stole from another after many years of the other person helping them through tough times. Humans are volatile, and that's why I only associate myself with people of good character - and even then you can never truly know unless it's very close family.
However you have to trust people. Your option is to never be in a relationship, thus never be cheated on, but then never have a chance of a life-long partnership or to put yourself out there and take a risk. I won't deny Western culture is sickening how it condones playing around and being promiscuous. And yes, social media is a major fuel to this demon.
I know one friends who stole from another after many years of the other person helping them through tough times. Humans are volatile, and that's why I only associate myself with people of good character - and even then you can never truly know unless it's very close family.
However you have to trust people. Your option is to never be in a relationship, thus never be cheated on, but then never have a chance of a life-long partnership or to put yourself out there and take a risk. I won't deny Western culture is sickening how it condones playing around and being promiscuous. And yes, social media is a major fuel to this demon.
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
I'll tell you something and it's coming from someone who's 36.
I get burned all the time. I'm not talking from crappy women (but that happened a lot too) but also from co-workers, from managers, from all sorts of people. I've been taken advantage of more times than I can count. I've been conned out of thousands of dollars by "friends" and I've been fired from jobs by completely incompetent managers who fcking hate me because I'm confident and know what I'm doing. This is especially true in medical scenarios and tactical settings.
Why?
Because I'm trusting and a nice guy in real life. (not nice guy creeper like FA's tend to pretend they are). Moral of the story? Who cares. You're going to get burned in life. You're going to get taken advantage of. You're going to get screwed over. The other option is to become a recluse and never trust anyone. You have to take these risks in life to develop true friendships and relationships. I have friends who I am 100% confident would take a bullet for me and I would do the same for them. You don't get those friends by not trusting anyone. That's a life lesson you have to learn.
As far as women go, you're going to get burned in that as well. I can write a 10 page thesis on crappy, psychotic, sociopathic, narcissistic, drug abusing, piece of **** women. They're everywhere. But guess what, eventually you meet some that aren't. The girl I'm dating now is one of the good ones. We've had a couple arguments and at no point did she go and hop on someone's dick because of it. That's because she's mature and acts like an adult. (something you don't see much of it if you pay too much attention to threads in here)
You get to that point in relationships by also taking risks. You're going to get burned, that's 100% guarantee. You'll survive though and you'll be better off in the long run.
My 2 cents.
I get burned all the time. I'm not talking from crappy women (but that happened a lot too) but also from co-workers, from managers, from all sorts of people. I've been taken advantage of more times than I can count. I've been conned out of thousands of dollars by "friends" and I've been fired from jobs by completely incompetent managers who fcking hate me because I'm confident and know what I'm doing. This is especially true in medical scenarios and tactical settings.
Why?
Because I'm trusting and a nice guy in real life. (not nice guy creeper like FA's tend to pretend they are). Moral of the story? Who cares. You're going to get burned in life. You're going to get taken advantage of. You're going to get screwed over. The other option is to become a recluse and never trust anyone. You have to take these risks in life to develop true friendships and relationships. I have friends who I am 100% confident would take a bullet for me and I would do the same for them. You don't get those friends by not trusting anyone. That's a life lesson you have to learn.
As far as women go, you're going to get burned in that as well. I can write a 10 page thesis on crappy, psychotic, sociopathic, narcissistic, drug abusing, piece of **** women. They're everywhere. But guess what, eventually you meet some that aren't. The girl I'm dating now is one of the good ones. We've had a couple arguments and at no point did she go and hop on someone's dick because of it. That's because she's mature and acts like an adult. (something you don't see much of it if you pay too much attention to threads in here)
You get to that point in relationships by also taking risks. You're going to get burned, that's 100% guarantee. You'll survive though and you'll be better off in the long run.
My 2 cents.
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07-03-2018, 01:21 AM
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Originally Posted By EoR⏩
damn...black pill hard to swallow bruhIt would be like letting your kids go to start driving/going to parties on their own. All you can do is monitoring, not be overbearing and just hope they the right type of person to overcome pressure and urges. I've heard and seen the most innocent, delightful, pleasant people just cheat and try hide it. You can never really trust anyone, but if you act like they always will then you will push them away. It's basically a huge lottery/gamble in life and having a faithful partner is one of them.
I know one friends who stole from another after many years of the other person helping them through tough times. Humans are volatile, and that's why I only associate myself with people of good character - and even then you can never truly know unless it's very close family.
I know one friends who stole from another after many years of the other person helping them through tough times. Humans are volatile, and that's why I only associate myself with people of good character - and even then you can never truly know unless it's very close family.
07-03-2018, 01:23 AM
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07-03-2018, 01:23 AM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
it’s not a problem at alli will rep you when i get a chance brah
I am glad you have friends like that
I am the same. I pretend to trust people, but don't actually trust anyone and secretly expect the worst from people, but I think that's a problem. It's not healthy.
I am glad you have friends like that
I am the same. I pretend to trust people, but don't actually trust anyone and secretly expect the worst from people, but I think that's a problem. It's not healthy.
at least that way you almost never get screwed and if people do stay loyal/follow through it feels 10x better
07-03-2018, 01:26 AM
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I’ve been ****ed over by more guys than I have been women.
Most of the women in my life have shown me nothing but care and loyalty through their actions, whether we were dating or not. And I have not always made it easy for them.
Most of the women in my life have shown me nothing but care and loyalty through their actions, whether we were dating or not. And I have not always made it easy for them.
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07-03-2018, 01:33 AM
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
IDK mane...there's little incentive for a girl to remain loyal these daysWhat a tragic way to live your life.
Take a chance OP.
Some women are loyal.
Take a chance OP.
Some women are loyal.
She can sloot and hf on the side via online dating. Females are in the workplace now and it is easier for them to have flings with coworkers from office. She can marry you, leave you, and take half your chit. She can cuck you into raising some other guy's kid. If you don't comply with her wishes, she could accuse you of abuse or rape and have you arrested. There's just little reason for girls to be loyal to one guy unless they think he's the absolute best guy in the world. And no guy can be that guy. Some guys are athletic, tall, talented, creative, etc and would make good genetic donors. Other guys are really rich, caring, kind, etc and would make good providers. Some guys are just really aesthetic and would make a good fuk. Sloots have every incentive to cheat on all 3 types and get the best of all worlds. And our society is now against slut shaming, etc. "It's her own business." And if she doesn't feel like she has slooted enough, she can legally kill her unborn child. I just dunno. I am sure some females out there are loyal, but that number is decaying pretty rapidly.
07-03-2018, 01:35 AM
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Originally Posted By SSM12⏩
Same lolI’ve been ****ed over by more guys than I have been women.
Most of the women in my life have shown me nothing but care and loyalty through their actions, whether we were dating or not. And I have not always made it easy for them.
Most of the women in my life have shown me nothing but care and loyalty through their actions, whether we were dating or not. And I have not always made it easy for them.
Been cockblocked and screwed over by dudes far more than I've been screwed over by women.
Wincel,you need to stop worrying about chit like this. You're not in a relationship,why are you worried about stuff like this? You're single because your head is filled with all this negative unnecessary stuff.
Step 1)get a gf
Step 2)worry about not getting cheated on
You're more worried about step 2 than you are on step 1. Sure you can be cheated on. There's probably a girl cheating on a guy on every second of every day. Guys who worry about that stuff all the time usually end up being cheated on the most.
07-03-2018, 01:36 AM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
There's just as much incentive as there always has been.IDK mane...there's little incentive for a girl to remain loyal these days
fist yourself
07-03-2018, 01:38 AM
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by being at least 2 points above her in terms of looks. That way she will always be insecure about you leaving her for someone better and instead you being insecure about her leaving you for someone else.
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Go outside and play.
Open your mind.
07-03-2018, 01:38 AM
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Honestly in life there are very few people you can truly trust. You can't even trust your own family sometimes. It's not just that so many people are straight up kunts and humans also have lapses in judgement, but sometimes people are only loyal to a select few. And if you trust somebody there's no guarantee you are one of those few they choose to be loyal to no matter how long you've known them or what your relationship is. Extend your faith carefully and be stingy with it.
That being said, at some point in time in order to truly be happy and have meaningful relationships you have to allow yourself to be vulnerable. Vulnerability is a precursor to developing trust with people. To trust someone means you are at their mercy and leaving them in control.
It's true when they say if you don't trust people how can you expect them to trust you? It will eventually reveal itself through your sub communications and the general vibe you give off when talking to people. And big surprise here: people don't respond well to people who don't trust them. If they don't feel trusted they won't want to reciprocate it. Why would you feel the desire to be loyal to somebody who doesn't trust you? In a way it's a pessimists self-fulfilling prophecy. The other day someone made a thread about the law of attraction. This is a good example of your inner thoughts altering how others treat you. Sometimes you need to give people the benefit of the doubt.
That being said, at some point in time in order to truly be happy and have meaningful relationships you have to allow yourself to be vulnerable. Vulnerability is a precursor to developing trust with people. To trust someone means you are at their mercy and leaving them in control.
It's true when they say if you don't trust people how can you expect them to trust you? It will eventually reveal itself through your sub communications and the general vibe you give off when talking to people. And big surprise here: people don't respond well to people who don't trust them. If they don't feel trusted they won't want to reciprocate it. Why would you feel the desire to be loyal to somebody who doesn't trust you? In a way it's a pessimists self-fulfilling prophecy. The other day someone made a thread about the law of attraction. This is a good example of your inner thoughts altering how others treat you. Sometimes you need to give people the benefit of the doubt.
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07-03-2018, 01:40 AM
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
IDK back in the day if you were disloyal, everyone hated on you, and in some places, you even got stoned to death. These days, cheating is so common. It's like "Oops I cheated I was weak. I'm not perfect oh well time to hop on Tinder to Chad's dick and start the cycle all over again."There's just as much incentive as there always has been.
07-03-2018, 01:44 AM
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Originally Posted By BostonRockets⏩
Listen to this guy. We can't promise you that you'll never get burned in life. Anyone that says that is a full blown liar. We can't give you a formula that will stop you from getting cheated on. That doesn't mean you have to build a wall around yourself and not have a life. Will you be safe if you were living in an underground bunker with enough food and water for the rest of your life? Sure you would, you'd be able to Misc forever with 0 dangers in life. Will that be a good life though?That being said, at some point in time in order to truly be happy and have meaningful relationships you have to allow yourself to be vulnerable. Vulnerability is a precursor to developing trust with people. To trust someone means you are at their mercy and leaving them in control
07-03-2018, 01:45 AM
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Originally Posted By MediocreFlanker⏩
doesn't sound too bad tbh lolListen to this guy. We can't promise you that you'll never get burned in life. Anyone that says that is a full blown liar. We can't give you a formula that will stop you from getting cheated on. That doesn't mean you have to build a wall around yourself and not have a life. Will you be safe if you were living in an underground bunker with enough food and water for the rest of your life? Sure you would, you'd be able to Misc forever with 0 dangers in life. Will that be a good life though?
07-03-2018, 01:46 AM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
Not sure how you arrive at that conclusion.IDK back in the day if you were disloyal, everyone hated on you, and in some places, you even got stoned to death.These days, cheating is so common.It's like oops I cheated I was weak. I'm not perfect oh well.
It's just a downright unhealthy outlook.
Sack the fuk up son.
fist yourself
07-03-2018, 01:48 AM
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It work both ways OP. Both men and women can be çunts just gotta live with it and surround yourself with better people
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