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post 1555913791 07-10-2018, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
Do you guys think everyone here is lights on bc we’re all reasonably fit? I highly doubt the general public with current high rates of obesity actually wants to see each other during sex. Or maybe that’s just me being a fat shamer.
That's not everything tho, some rooms are so dark you literally need some kind of light.
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post 1555914031 07-10-2018, 01:50 PM
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Must have light so I can see those teddies jiggle and, most important, that little part of the vag you see sliding over your dong when hitting it from behind
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
I was chatting with my boss and she made a comment that resonated. She said that I’m probably one of those voyeuristic freaks that have sex with the lights on.

Wut? People have sex with the lights off? I’m assuming people have sex with people they find attractive.. wouldn’t you want to watch your partner if you find them hot?

What do you do misc? Lights off or on?
Hilarious topic, considering your other work story from the former employer.

Depends, but either way I'm not making an effort to change the lighting before it's go time. It is what it is.
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post 1555914201 07-10-2018, 01:51 PM
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I take pictures most of the time so I need the lights on
post 1555914271 07-10-2018, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
So you kids only have sex at night

Ok
I honestly I bump uglies way more in the daytime than in the night time. prob at a 10 to 1 ratio now.

If it's usually in the dark, it's because it's winter and it gets dark at like 430
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post 1555914401 07-10-2018, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted By friesbruh⏩
Must have light so I can see those teddies jiggle and, most important, that little part of the vag you see sliding over your dong when hitting it from behind
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post 1555914691 07-10-2018, 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
Do you guys think everyone here is lights on bc we’re all reasonably fit? I highly doubt the general public with current high rates of obesity actually wants to see each other during sex. Or maybe that’s just me being a fat shamer.
No I think if you want to have sex with someone, it's somebody you'd like seeing naked.

Because you want to have sex with them.

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post 1555914781 07-10-2018, 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Lmao

Is your hardon that fragile?
It's more of a "laser focus" thing. You ever hold your dog's bowl for a second or two before you feed him? You could drive a semi over his tail and all he cares about is the food. Like that.

And yeah, daytime sex 10 days a week before night sex.
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post 1555914841 07-10-2018, 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
So you kids only have sex at night

Ok
In the morning my face is in the pillow so can’t see chit anyway.
Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
That's not everything tho, some rooms are so dark you literally need some kind of light.
I always have some outside light shining in. Do you live in the middle of nowhere?
Originally Posted By Mortar34⏩
Hilarious topic, considering your other work story from the former employer.

Depends, but either way I'm not making an effort to change the lighting before it's go time. It is what it is.
I swear folks in biotechs don’t know what’s proper office etiquette. Same, if it’s the middle of the night I’m not getting up to turn the lights on.
Originally Posted By Griggz⏩
I take pictures most of the time so I need the lights on
I think I’ve only had pics of me taken a couple times. Didn’t trust anyone else enough to let them have evidence.
They said she's gone too far this time

¯\_(ツ)_/¯
post 1555915101 07-10-2018, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
In the morning my face is in the pillow...
I bet it is, you little scamp
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post 1555915361 07-10-2018, 02:01 PM
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I have never had sex with the lights off in my whole life. And what if its daytime? And what if Im a male and half my fun is looking at her? lol no thx
post 1555915381 07-10-2018, 02:01 PM
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I had an ex with porcelain skin, at night, it wouldn't be pitch black, but slightly dark, and she looked great.
post 1555915411 07-10-2018, 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
I always have some outside light shining in. Do you live in the middle of nowhere?
nah I got a streetlamp outside that gives off that warm glow.

But I've lived in houses with chit lighting or tiny windows. Literally pitch black at night.
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post 1555916171 07-10-2018, 02:08 PM
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2 dimensional scale for me that's relatively linear with the variables being comfort level as well as how attractive they are.

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post 1555916481 07-10-2018, 02:11 PM
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prefer dim, not off...not on.
post 1555916691 07-10-2018, 02:14 PM
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Lights on, I like to actually see the chick I'm having sex with.....
post 1555916811 07-10-2018, 02:16 PM
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Lights out. And by that I mean she should be unconscious.
post 1555916851 07-10-2018, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted By DCutch⏩
Lights on, I like to actually see the chick I'm having sex with.....
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post 1555916901 07-10-2018, 02:17 PM
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What kind of psycho has sex with the lights on

Tv on is one thing, but just having all the lights blazing?
post 1555917221 07-10-2018, 02:22 PM
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At nighttime:

Lights dim. It just feels more appropriate. Still needs to be light enough to see all the goods.



When you ppl say lights on do you mean full blast? Something about bright ass lights during sex just feels wrong. Maybe y'all are autists who cant feel the feng shui in the room.


Now if its daytime then lights should be on. And bright.
post 1555917271 07-10-2018, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
I was chatting with my boss and she made a comment that resonated. She said that I’m probably one of those voyeuristic freaks that have sex with the lights on.

Wut? People have sex with the lights off? I’m assuming people have sex with people they find attractive.. wouldn’t you want to watch your partner if you find them hot?

What do you do misc? Lights off or on?
Even your boss knows you're a sloot rofl.
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post 1555917321 07-10-2018, 02:24 PM
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Originally Posted By CaliSuperSport⏩
nah I got a streetlamp outside that gives off that warm glow.

But I've lived in houses with chit lighting or tiny windows. Literally pitch black at night.
Exactly, something about those street lights coming through the window.
post 1555917431 07-10-2018, 02:26 PM
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I prefer lit candles with the lights off.
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post 1555917711 07-10-2018, 02:28 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
I prefer lit candles with the lights off.
Would you be okay with the sexy time partner holding the lit candle with their butt crack?
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Can't stand artificial light when I'm layin root. Fire light is good, the natural blue wash of a full moon dancing off the fur of a bear skin rug is even better.
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Would you be okay with the sexy time partner holding the lit candle with their butt crack?
Sure I'd enjoy watching the wax drip all over his...

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as long as it's light enough to see what's in front of me, I'm good.
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Usually have some mood lighting on because I want to see what's going on. The only time it's really dark is if I wake up in the middle of the night and get things started, then I just don't bother to turn lights on.
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Wow some conservative folks up in here.

Lol if you have never smashed while being in the middle of the outdoors in the middle of the day.
High risk can be fun af
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