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08-08-2018, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Yeah the same phony profiles are just silly too.What's more cringey to me is all the profiles with exactly the same chit, so I like a girl that can at least recognize that.
No I haven't ever done Spartan or anything like that. It's funny you say that though because I've been thinking about doing Obstacle Course Racing yesterday. I used to LOVE that stuff as a kid, so I should do it.
No I haven't ever done Spartan or anything like that. It's funny you say that though because I've been thinking about doing Obstacle Course Racing yesterday. I used to LOVE that stuff as a kid, so I should do it.
Oh yeah obstacle races are so fun. We had them all the time at school wayyy back in the day.
08-10-2018, 01:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Update: 5 days later and she hasnโt responded. Wonder if sheโll reach out again in a few weeeks lolWTH some chick that ghosted me over a week ago just responded as if weโd never stopped talking. The guy higher up the ladder must have pumped and dumped her

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08-10-2018, 05:00 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
But according to the RH misc talking to a girl in public is creepy and means you have a low social status.Cold approach brah it will make you socially calibrated.
I was standing at a food truck downtown and next to me was a girl I noticed a few times downtown. I started chatting her up and got some info. Turns out she's interning for a law office and going back to Dallas next week.
I was going to pull the trigger and get her # but someone called her when she started smiling a lot and fanning herself. A female colleague of hers came up then and I lost my shot. Totally my type too lol but I'm glad I took the time to talk to her instead of wondering.
Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't but it was a pleasant convo.
I was standing at a food truck downtown and next to me was a girl I noticed a few times downtown. I started chatting her up and got some info. Turns out she's interning for a law office and going back to Dallas next week.
I was going to pull the trigger and get her # but someone called her when she started smiling a lot and fanning herself. A female colleague of hers came up then and I lost my shot. Totally my type too lol but I'm glad I took the time to talk to her instead of wondering.
Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't but it was a pleasant convo.
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08-10-2018, 05:01 AM
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08-10-2018, 05:12 AM
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Originally Posted By antman12⏩
I get that you're being facetious, but let me be clear: Everyone who says that the cold approach is 'creepy' is coping. This can range from coping for lacking that sort of social skill and confidence, to coping because they have tried but it has never worked, to coping because no guy has ever cold approached you, etc. But it is always cope to call the cold approach 'creepy'.But according to the RH misc talking to a girl in public is creepy and means you have a low social status.
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08-10-2018, 05:14 AM
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It does seem like the worst visions of the most ardent redpillers are coming to reality. I'm struggling big time. I used to put up overly swag**** pictures that were of me when I was 21/21 and used them long after I dropped that style and used to do pretty well but now I've tried to just become 'normal' No cringey selfies or snapbacks or any of that **** and I seem to just match the way my friends used to match back in the day i.e very rarely
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08-10-2018, 08:27 AM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
In my entire life a cold approach that led to an actually sexual encounter? 3Cold approach brah it will make you socially calibrated.
I was standing at a food truck downtown and next to me was a girl I noticed a few times downtown. I started chatting her up and got some info. Turns out she's interning for a law office and going back to Dallas next week.
I was going to pull the trigger and get her # but someone called her when she started smiling a lot and fanning herself. A female colleague of hers came up then and I lost my shot. Totally my type too lol but I'm glad I took the time to talk to her instead of wondering.
Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't but it was a pleasant convo.
I was standing at a food truck downtown and next to me was a girl I noticed a few times downtown. I started chatting her up and got some info. Turns out she's interning for a law office and going back to Dallas next week.
I was going to pull the trigger and get her # but someone called her when she started smiling a lot and fanning herself. A female colleague of hers came up then and I lost my shot. Totally my type too lol but I'm glad I took the time to talk to her instead of wondering.
Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't but it was a pleasant convo.
Girlfriend / Dates? 0 (Of the 3 I believe 1 was hung up on race, 1 was really odd about me not being christian, and the other turned out to be married)
Like 3 out of....hundreds of hundreds? Hard pass bro. Hard ****ing pass.
Glad you're a winner.
08-11-2018, 12:44 PM
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Girl on Bumble, responds instantly but gives me very lazy short responses. Iโve tried twice to open up the conversation but sheโs making zero effort.
What do you do in this situation, I just wanna say โkโ and exit.
What do you do in this situation, I just wanna say โkโ and exit.
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08-11-2018, 12:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
You can tell when someone is interested or not by their responses. If theyโre giving real lazy replies the odds are theyโre just responding because theyโre bored. Usually if they take forever to respond each time or give short replies than itโs likely thereโs very minimal interest.Girl on Bumble, responds instantly but gives me very lazy short responses. Iโve tried twice to open up the conversation but sheโs making zero effort.
What do you do in this situation, I just wanna say โkโ and exit.
What do you do in this situation, I just wanna say โkโ and exit.
08-11-2018, 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted By BigTimePlayer⏩
This girl responds very quickly, but itโs probably to keep the conveyor belt of attention from multiple guys going. Iโm done with her anyway.You can tell when someone is interested or not by their responses. If theyโre giving real lazy replies the odds are theyโre just responding because theyโre bored. Usually if they take forever to respond each time or give short replies than itโs likely thereโs very minimal interest.
Iโm probably better looking than her too, itโs just ridiculous.
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08-11-2018, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Why did you lose your shot? It takes like 2 seconds to say, "Hey, we should get a drink sometime" regardless of who was coming up to join you. It's always the right time get contact info for future plans.Cold approach brah it will make you socially calibrated.
I was standing at a food truck downtown and next to me was a girl I noticed a few times downtown. I started chatting her up and got some info. Turns out she's interning for a law office and going back to Dallas next week.
I was going to pull the trigger and get her # but someone called her when she started smiling a lot and fanning herself. A female colleague of hers came up then and I lost my shot. Totally my type too lol but I'm glad I took the time to talk to her instead of wondering.
Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't but it was a pleasant convo.
I was standing at a food truck downtown and next to me was a girl I noticed a few times downtown. I started chatting her up and got some info. Turns out she's interning for a law office and going back to Dallas next week.
I was going to pull the trigger and get her # but someone called her when she started smiling a lot and fanning herself. A female colleague of hers came up then and I lost my shot. Totally my type too lol but I'm glad I took the time to talk to her instead of wondering.
Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't but it was a pleasant convo.
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08-11-2018, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Move it from "text" to "phone"/"in person" ASAP. If she's reluctant, then ghost her. A lot of women these days are so used to not being called out on their bad behavior, so she might not even realize what she's doing.Girl on Bumble, responds instantly but gives me very lazy short responses. Iโve tried twice to open up the conversation but sheโs making zero effort.
What do you do in this situation, I just wanna say โkโ and exit.
What do you do in this situation, I just wanna say โkโ and exit.
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08-11-2018, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted By MiscInformed⏩
Itโs too soon for in person, and doubt sheโll hand out her # - barely know her due to the zero effort responses. At this rate thereโs no way Iโll ever get there either without chit loads of unreciprocated effort.Move it from "text" to "phone"/"in person" ASAP. If she's reluctant, then ghost her. A lot of women these days are so used to not being called out on their bad behavior, so she might not even realize what she's doing.
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08-11-2018, 01:29 PM
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Originally Posted By AlamedaBoy⏩
It's not you. You're working against 2 forces that are making it MUCH harder than it should be.It does seem like the worst visions of the most ardent redpillers are coming to reality. I'm struggling big time. I used to put up overly swag**** pictures that were of me when I was 21/21 and used them long after I dropped that style and used to do pretty well but now I've tried to just become 'normal' No cringey selfies or snapbacks or any of that **** and I seem to just match the way my friends used to match back in the day i.e very rarely
1) Women get overwhelming amounts of attention online. I linked an article here the other day about how hard online dating was and one of the examples of the sort of attention women get from the article was one woman who received more than 1500 messages during the 1-month window of the study. Imagine sorting through 1500 potential suitors per month(!). It's easy for you to get lost in the shuffle.
2) Online dating apps have a business model. That model is that the app is free for women, but men must pay. They implement this model by restricting who can see your profile or messages unless you pay to remove the restrictions.
On top of this, people online are shooting for partners 25% out of their league. Namely, a 6/10 female is shooting for 7.5+/10 male.
It's easy to see why most men struggle mightily online.
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08-11-2018, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Snapchat? etc.Itโs too soon for in person, and doubt sheโll hand out her # - barely know her due to the zero effort responses. At this rate thereโs no way Iโll ever get there either without chit loads of unreciprocated effort.
The point is you have to move it to a method where there is actual negative feedback for her being lazy.
Also, it's NEVER too soon for in person. Before all of this online BS, the first time meeting someone was in person 99% of the time. You met them at school or a party or at the mall or at work or wherever.
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08-11-2018, 03:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
It would be an immediate turn off for me so I would exit. I don't need crazy over the top conversations but show me a little effort.Girl on Bumble, responds instantly but gives me very lazy short responses. Iโve tried twice to open up the conversation but sheโs making zero effort.
What do you do in this situation, I just wanna say โkโ and exit.
What do you do in this situation, I just wanna say โkโ and exit.
Sounds brutal good luck!
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08-11-2018, 03:37 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Why did she open on me if she isn't even interested in conversing. It's such a mindfuk.It would be an immediate turn off for me so I would exit. I don't need crazy over the top conversations but show me a little effort.
Sounds brutal good luck!
Sounds brutal good luck!
Maybe MiscInformed is right and this is "normal" to her.
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08-11-2018, 03:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Maybe bored and nothing else going on at the moment. I can't say for sure I'm sorry.Why did she open on me if she isn't even interested in conversing. It's such a mindfuk.
Maybe MiscInformed is right and this is "normal" to her.
Maybe MiscInformed is right and this is "normal" to her.
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08-11-2018, 03:42 PM
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Anyway, date tonight. Just gonna try have fun instead of any vetting, unless it comes up naturally.
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08-11-2018, 04:01 PM
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08-11-2018, 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Zero expectations, just going out for a drink and to hopefully meet an interesting new person and enjoy myself.Good luck!
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08-11-2018, 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Well I hope you have funZero expectations, just going out for a drink and to hopefully meet an interesting new person and enjoy myself.

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08-11-2018, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
That's it go out and have some fun. Kick back enjoy your drink have some good conversation and just chill.Zero expectations, just going out for a drink and to hopefully meet an interesting new person and enjoy myself.
All this crazy bs nonsense will be here again when you wake up tomorrow!

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08-11-2018, 05:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Please don't be cold and abrasiveZero expectations, just going out for a drink and to hopefully meet an interesting new person and enjoy myself.

08-11-2018, 05:08 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
I wish I could actually meet someone off this forum, and they'll tell you I'm nothing like that... lolPlease don't be cold and abrasive

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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Meeting a miscer IRL? EhhhhhhI wish I could actually meet someone off this forum, and they'll tell you I'm nothing like that... lol
08-11-2018, 06:39 PM
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Bumble sucks. Delete it.
Go on Tinder. Post your best non-douchey pics. In your write up, type something along these lines.
"6'1" fit and independent guy looking to meet new people for dating and fun."
That's it.... Don't get all wordy.
Next step, swipe right on every chick who's not obviously fat or ugly or both (unless you like that sort of thing). Play the numbers, you can always unmatch them.
If things dry up, delete your account and create it new again to reset your matches.
Good luck!
Go on Tinder. Post your best non-douchey pics. In your write up, type something along these lines.
"6'1" fit and independent guy looking to meet new people for dating and fun."
That's it.... Don't get all wordy.
Next step, swipe right on every chick who's not obviously fat or ugly or both (unless you like that sort of thing). Play the numbers, you can always unmatch them.
If things dry up, delete your account and create it new again to reset your matches.
Good luck!
08-11-2018, 06:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Jellotree⏩
LOL if I was 6'1 that would be good advice brother."6'1" fit and independent guy looking to meet new people for dating and fun."
That's it.... Don't get all wordy.
That's it.... Don't get all wordy.
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08-11-2018, 06:44 PM
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Originally Posted By US_Ranger⏩
Just got girl #2 doing this, 1 week later, this is so bizarre. BTW girl #1 didn't respond.Happens ALL the time. From 2015-2016 when I came back to the US and was online dating, this happened easily over 30 times.
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Originally Posted By Jellotree⏩
I love Chad advice.Bumble sucks. Delete it.
Go on Tinder. Post your best non-douchey pics. In your write up, type something along these lines.
"6'1" fit and independent guy looking to meet new people for dating and fun."
That's it.... Don't get all wordy.
Next step, swipe right on every chick who's not obviously fat or ugly or both (unless you like that sort of thing). Play the numbers, you can always unmatch them.
If things dry up, delete your account and create it new again to reset your matches.
Good luck!
Go on Tinder. Post your best non-douchey pics. In your write up, type something along these lines.
"6'1" fit and independent guy looking to meet new people for dating and fun."
That's it.... Don't get all wordy.
Next step, swipe right on every chick who's not obviously fat or ugly or both (unless you like that sort of thing). Play the numbers, you can always unmatch them.
If things dry up, delete your account and create it new again to reset your matches.
Good luck!
"bro just get tinder"
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