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Thread: Married brahs, I am jelly of you for only one reason srs

post 1558820581 08-15-2018, 01:49 AM
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The biggest positive about being married is not having to think about, or chase after other sloots, having someone who's sworn to be in your corner for life (allegedly) frees up your mind to pursue other things.
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post 1558823631 08-15-2018, 03:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
The consideration should be around workplaces.

If the home is “my” workplace as a full time stay at home parent then during “work hours” that’s what I take responsibility for.

Outside of work hours, when another adult is home split everything 50:50.

If the one who works outside the home does heavy physical labour then on workdays they should get to chill longer

There are no Male / Female tasks just ones you each like / dislike doing and ones you both dislike which you outsource. That’s where having joint incomes and disposable cash allows you to get outside help.

Neither of us garden, iron or ever clean bathrooms because we choose not to.
Agreed - we also have a cleaner. She comes once every two weeks and cleans the place top to bottom. Of course we do dishes/cook/laundry, whatever chores in between, but a mature couple will always just talk to one another.

Sometimes on Fridays after leg day I'm honestly dead and lazy, even on Saturday morning. It wouldn't be the first time that I wake up and my wife has brought me coffee in bed saying 'I've done all the meal prep, let's have fun today - maybe if you do laundry that'd be cool' where she does way more than me. But sometimes she's feeling out of it and I carry more. There is no strict calculation here and couples that spend a lot of their time wondering if they 'get enough' are doomed to fail, as was clearly said earlier in the thread. Happy relationships are about an equilibrium, not perfect equality all the time. That's where notions of support and empowerment come into play.

Being happily married is one of the most empowering feelings I have ever felt in my life, srs.
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Originally Posted By ChristianMR⏩
This has basically never happened to me. But having your kids run up to you, hug you, and watching their eyes light up like you walking through the door is the best thing that ever happened to them -- that's way better than dinner.
Can confirm.
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp⏩
any women reading this thread should take heed of this:

Thanks, sending this to my woman for reference.
Originally Posted By thorpowers⏩
Would never get married unless the woman could cook, clean, laundry, sex anytime, didn't talk back or complain too much and signed a pre-nup.

Would protect/provide for her
I had to pinch to zoom on your avi, at quick glance I thought you were sucking your own D in it, lol. I can't be the only one who saw it that way.
post 1558825501 08-15-2018, 05:09 AM
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Originally Posted By mgftp⏩
Thanks, sending this to my woman for reference.



I had to pinch to zoom on your avi, at quick glance I thought you were sucking your own D in it, lol. I can't be the only one who saw it that way.
It's all I see now haha. Thanks for the giggle m8.
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
I do this for my guy, even though I work full time and also go to the gym 5-6 days a week.

Sometimes I'm not sure if he appreciates it that much though. Those of you men who get this - how often do you tell your wife that you appreciate that she does that? Just curious.
2-3 times a week. but she doesn't cook or clean all that much.
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feels good man, make sure you marry a woman that cleans regularly at her current home and that wants to learn how to cook or already knows how to.

A Lot of woman nowadays don't make the effort to try to learn how to cook, they would rather eat out 90% of the time.
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Relationships are give and take for sure.


I feel like i got very lucky. Found hbb very young (21) and held. She is leaps and bounds a better cook than any non chef i've ever met (i said i want someone who can cook very early on and she was all in). Sex daily still 10 yrs in. Her only thing is she isn't the greatest cleaner but im kinda anal about that stuff and it calms me so it works out.
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On that meal prep time. Really don't need someone to cook for me, everything is cooked and it's really not all that time consuming when you cook in bulk.
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My parents have been married 39 years and they could never be considered "traditional", but they did take care of each other. There were times where one did more for the other, just out of basic availability. When my father started his business there were days he was working 16 hours and would come home to a clean home/warm meal and there were days where my mother was traveling for work, and my dad had to work, and come home and take care of the home duties. As they got older and more comfortable financially things didn't change. They would always take turns cooking, if something was dirty you cleaned it. Didn't matter if you were the man or the woman...If it needed to be done, do it.My father left home at 17 and I don't think he ever had the expectation or desire to marry a "Caregiver" he wanted a life partner that would contribute as much to the relationship as he would in all aspects. I grew up in that environment, and that's how I look at my marriage now. My wife likes to work, and we tried the whole stay at home thing and she was miserable. Sure the house was clean, and dinner was cooked, but she wasn't who I married. She was a shell of herself, and I needed her to be the spark plug I married. Once she got back to work everything was back to normal. I get home an hour before her, i'm going to start dinner...If something needs to be cleaned, or a load of laundry thrown in the wash I do it. On the weekends she usually takes care of most things around the house. This give and take has worked for 50 years (39 for my parents, 11 for me) and I don't plan on it changing.
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Amazing how the married people in here have legitimate advice on marriage, almost like it was based on experience and not hypothetical trailer skateboard theory.
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Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
My parents have been married 39 years and they could never be considered "traditional", but they did take care of each other. There were times where one did more for the other, just out of basic availability. When my father started his business there were days he was working 16 hours and would come home to a clean home/warm meal and there were days where my mother was traveling for work, and my dad had to work, and come home and take care of the home duties. As they got older and more comfortable financially things didn't change. They would always take turns cooking, if something was dirty you cleaned it. Didn't matter if you were the man or the woman...If it needed to be done, do it.My father left home at 17 and I don't think he ever had the expectation or desire to marry a "Caregiver" he wanted a life partner that would contribute as much to the relationship as he would in all aspects. I grew up in that environment, and that's how I look at my marriage now. My wife likes to work, and we tried the whole stay at home thing and she was miserable. Sure the house was clean, and dinner was cooked, but she wasn't who I married. She was a shell of herself, and I needed her to be the spark plug I married. Once she got back to work everything was back to normal. I get home an hour before her, i'm going to start dinner...If something needs to be cleaned, or a load of laundry thrown in the wash I do it. On the weekends she usually takes care of most things around the house. This give and take has worked for 50 years (39 for my parents, 11 for me) and I don't plan on it changing.
I think what a lot of people in here are doing is making an argument w/o actually having living it. In the modern day it's hard to make roles cut and dry no matter what perspective you're looking at. But lettuce be real tea, there are things that I'm better at, and things that she's better at and most of them revolve around traditional roles...by nature. If I were in charge of keeping the kids' clothes and rooms in order, it'd be a complete disaster. And if she were in charge of mowing the lawn it'd be the same. Not to say I don't cook, etc (I'm the one that vacuums and prefer to do it over her) but most of the time we split between what we're better at.
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Originally Posted By Jms89⏩
Lmao bro did you teleport back to the golden age of the 1950's? Ever since feminism, women sit on their azz and binge netflix. Ratchet girls keep their apartments looking like skid row. I have cooked and cleaned in ALL of my relationships. Modern women have no clue how to cook unless they're an immigrant, or were brought up in rural/country area where that chit is still expected. Find a sweet girl from the burbs with a divorced mom and dad? Good luck. Hope you enjoy takeout.
Thats why you need to earn enough money to live in a house as a homeowner and can afford to have your wife home raising the kid. She cant do that while working a full time job. The only reason she should need to work is because you purchased a house too big and too expensive. All you need is 2 bedrooms and one bathroom to start a family. Debtcucks will tell you otherwise.
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Originally Posted By Aesthetical⏩
Thats why you need to earn enough money to live in a house as a homeowner and can afford to have your wife home raising the kid. She cant do that while working a full time job. The only reason she should need to work is because you purchased a house too big and too expensive. All you need is 2 bedrooms and one bathroom to start a family. Debtcucks will tell you otherwise.
Just LoL if you are not raising a family of 5 in a 500sq studio apartment to save money. Stupid debtcucks.
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Originally Posted By mgftp⏩
Just LoL if you are not raising a family of 5 in a 500sq studio apartment to save money. Stupid debtcucks.
Just LoL if your wife is above average chimpanzee intelligence and is educated enough to select and enjoy a job that gives meaning to her life.
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Originally Posted By mgftp⏩
Just LoL if you are not raising a family of 5 in a 500sq studio apartment to save money. Stupid debtcucks.
Should probably be living in a studio or 1 bedroom while you are dating and just recently married in order to save 20% for downpayment on a house.
Starter homes that are 2 bed 1 bath still have a kitchen and living/dining room, usually also with a garage, driveway, and yard. If that isnt enough to start your family with one or two children sharing a room then you deserve the despair that comes with an inflated mortgage.
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Originally Posted By jeshelton⏩
Just LoL if your wife is above average chimpanzee intelligence and is educated enough to select and enjoy a job that gives meaning to her life.
I would never consider dating a woman who doesn't have a well established career she is passionate about. Different strokes for different folks I guess. DINK Master Race here.
Originally Posted By Aesthetical⏩
Should probably be living in a studio or 1 bedroom while you are dating and just recently married in order to save 20% for downpayment on a house.
Starter homes that are 2 bed 1 bath still have a kitchen and living/dining room, usually also with a garage, driveway, and yard. If that isnt enough to start your family with one or two children sharing a room then you deserve the despair that comes with an inflated mortgage.
Why would you even buy a house if you need a mortgage? Step up your savings game. Buy a house in cash or you are a debtcuck yourself.
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In all seriousness, my bf and I have discussed what we would do if we were to have children together. I have zero intention of quitting my job and hedoesn’twant me to. Knowing me, I would resent him for putting me in that position and I find housework incredibly boring. Being in contact with only a baby/toddler for most of the day is not the kind of stimulation I want. Even if I spend a couple hours a day with other mom friends... all we will talk about would be our children. I find that most couples where the wife stay at home after having children... tend to forget how to be a couple once the kids are old enough. They’re all consumed by raising children and the stay at home mom lost her identity as a grown woman who do other things outside of raising children.

Don’t get me wrong, I think it’s such hard work, and I commend anyone who wants to do that. I know I’m not cut out to handle that kind life.

When I was with my ex, I did most of the cleaning bc... men aren’t very good at cleaning. But at the same time, there was this unspoken expectation that if something breaks, he better fix it ASAP. So we had pretty traditional roles but he cleaned some too and did things like take out the trash. Also divided the bills evenly.

Speaking of bills, I like a dual income household, the security it’d provide. Having seen companies laying off people, I know what it’s like to watch someone else struggling with losing their job. I can’t imagine how hard it would be if that person is the single income in the household. I’d much rather have two incomes than have to find a guy who makes 200k+ a year in order to set aside the kind of money I think we should be setting aside.
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Originally Posted By KENKONG⏩
........ "living testamates"

exactly. just another thread from you talking out of your ass
with ZERO actual experience.
im sorry to hear you are in a financial position both you and your wife has to work to meet ends meet(assuming here, if you can provide on 1 income why have the other party work?). If one was the sole bread winner and the other had dreams of being a home keeper and mother/wife it would be a good harmony. You see there are house wives that do exist that still teach their daughters at a young age how to sew, cook, clean, garden and be a loving wife/mother. I do not know why you are trying so hard not to be leaf this simple fact. I work with enough women that I heard them say "if i could just be a stay at home wife with kids I would do that instead of coming here to work and have it all go to paying taxes, and then having my net income paid to a baby sitter/daycare" enough to know that the reason many wives with children who work not out of choice but necessity.

why do you think some women are chronic mat leave takers?
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
In all seriousness, my bf and I have discussed what we would do if we were to have children together. I have zero intention of quitting my job and hedoesn’twant me to. Knowing me, I would resent him for putting me in that position and I find housework incredibly boring. Being in contact with only a baby/toddler for most of the day is not the kind of stimulation I want. Even if I spend a couple hours a day with other mom friends... all we will talk about would be our children. I find that most couples where the wife stay at home after having children... tend to forget how to be a couple once the kids are old enough. They’re all consumed by raising children and the stay at home mom lost her identity as a grown woman who do other things outside of raising children.

Don’t get me wrong, I think it’s such hard work, and I commend anyone who wants to do that. I know I’m not cut out to handle that kind life.

When I was with my ex, I did most of the cleaning bc... men aren’t very good at cleaning. But at the same time, there was this unspoken expectation that if something breaks, he better fix it ASAP. So we had pretty traditional roles but he cleaned some too and did things like take out the trash. Also divided the bills evenly.

Speaking of bills, I like a dual income household, the security it’d provide. Having seen companies laying off people, I know what it’s like to watch someone else struggling with losing their job. I can’t imagine how hard it would be if that person is the single income in the household. I’d much rather have two incomes than have to find a guy who makes 200k+ a year in order to set aside the kind of money I think we should be setting aside.
The thing is, your gut might tell you otherwise when you're in that situation. That's when people really get miserable, when they stick to a plan that isn't what you're into or what you expect it to be and don't acknowledge your instincts.
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Originally Posted By thorpowers⏩
Would never get married unless the woman could cook, clean, laundry, sex anytime, didn't talk back or complain too much and signed a pre-nup.

Would protect/provide for her
They have those, they're called Russian sex slaves.
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my wife does the cooking....she likes doing it, and she's much better at it than I am (I do cook the occasional breakfast/dinner when it's a bad week for her)

I do the laundry, handle the bills, do a fair bit of the cleaning, take out the trash

we've found a good rhythm that works for us both
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I take care of my own lunches and dinners through the week...I was single for fukkin years before getting married so I am quite capable of taking care of my own sh*t and don't need a mommy.

My wife loves to cook as well, so on the weekends she makes our breakfasts and we make dinner together as a family (bbq 4 / 5 times a week, even through Canadian winters)

We each have our own responsibilities and share work whenever we can to a) do it together and b) get it done as quickly as possible so we can spend more fun times together.

Single brahs, I am jelly of you for only one reason srs - you don't find hairs all over the house. That's it.
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Reading through this thread it seems like every successful relationship is different, but that you've found a division of labor that meets your needs and feels fair to both of you as adults...

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Originally Posted By EdwardTheGreat⏩
I take care of my own lunches and dinners through the week...I was single for fukkin years before getting married so I am quite capable of taking care of my own sh*t and don't need a mommy.

My wife loves to cook as well, so on the weekends she makes our breakfasts and we make dinner together as a family (bbq 4 / 5 times a week, even through Canadian winters)

We each have our own responsibilities and share work whenever we can to a) do it together and b) get it done as quickly as possible so we can spend more fun times together.

Single brahs, I am jelly of you for only one reason srs -you don't find hairs all over the house. That's it.
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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
im sorry to hear you are in a financial position both you and your wife has to work to meet ends meet(assuming here,if you can provide on 1 income why have the other party work?). If one was the sole bread winner and the other had dreams of being a home keeper and mother/wife it would be a good harmony. You see there are house wives that do exist that still teach their daughters at a young age how to sew, cook, clean, garden and be a loving wife/mother. I do not know why you are trying so hard not to be leaf this simple fact. I work with enough women that I heard them say "if i could just be a stay at home wife with kids I would do that instead of coming here to work and have it all go to paying taxes, and then having my net income paid to a baby sitter/daycare" enough to know that the reason many wives with children who work not out of choice but necessity.

why do you think some women are chronic mat leave takers?
Because saving thousands of dollars, driving nicer/safer/more reliable cars, travelling, and mental well-being (probably the most important) are all good things to have.

How the fuk are all women expected to be OK doing menial/repetitive tasks like cleaning and cooking every single damn day without going crazy?
Originally Posted By Podunks⏩
This. If I told my wife that I wanted her to stay home and take care of the house, she'd probably fall into depression just thinking about it. Can't imagine going through 25+ years of schooling, to sit at home and be bored, especially when she's the type that needs to be doing something productive most of the day.
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^ That. Imagine learning from age 4 until age 25, only to get married and stay at home for the rest of your life. Some women can handle that & might take up learning new things/languages at home, but i'd wager many or most women nowadays can't handle the soul-sucking repetition.
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Originally Posted By midcoastking33⏩
it's almost as if it takes two to tango
Miscers want to marry their mothers with the addition of sex and/or a 19 year old from a third world country who speaks no English.

Adult relationship where both people divide labor according to their strengths...what's that?
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Originally Posted By Xinroth⏩
Because saving thousands of dollars, driving nicer/safer/more reliable cars, travelling, and mental well-being (probably the most important) are all good things to have.

How the fuk are all women expected to be OK doing menial/repetitive tasks like cleaning and cooking every single damn day without going crazy?
Most aren't, that's why feminism happened in the first place and a lot of those housewives were on prescription pills to get through their lives at home with three kids while hubby banged his secretary at work.

This "Leave it to Beaver" romantic ideal does not work for a lot of people.

If both people are happy, great but miscers seem to think you either have to marry a screeching career harpy who cuts all her hair off and puts your balls in a jar or a literal slave. No in between.
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