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Thread: Married brahs, I am jelly of you for only one reason srs

post 1558836381 08-15-2018, 08:22 AM
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Reading through this thread, its very easy to spot those in successful relationships and those that have the capacity for successful relationships

Its also easy to see why the failure rate of relationships is so high
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post 1558836981 08-15-2018, 08:30 AM
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Originally Posted By jamalfudge⏩
The thing is, your gut might tell you otherwise when you're in that situation. That's when people really get miserable, when they stick to a plan that isn't what you're into or what you expect it to be and don't acknowledge your instincts.
Oh, I’m fully prepared for the chance that I might just be in love with parenthood and can’t part with my kids for even 8h. Not really one of those people that stick to a plan even if it doesn’t work. I didn’t even want kids a year or two ago and now I’m leaning toward 2. So I know sometimes your views and feelings change about things. I just can’t be with someone who thinks that I have to stay at home. I think as far as household roles go, there should be a discussion with equal decision making on both sides.

The good thing about my job is I can work from home a couple days a week if I have to. So even if what I predict will happen, actually happens, I can still afford to be home with my children more often than most other working moms.
Originally Posted By EdwardTheGreat⏩
I take care of my own lunches and dinners through the week...I was single for fukkin years before getting married so I am quite capable of taking care of my own sh*t and don't need a mommy.

My wife loves to cook as well, so on the weekends she makes our breakfasts and we make dinner together as a family (bbq 4 / 5 times a week, even through Canadian winters)

We each have our own responsibilities and share work whenever we can to a) do it together and b) get it done as quickly as possible so we can spend more fun times together.

Single brahs, I am jelly of you for only one reason srs - you don't find hairs all over the house. That's it.
I honestly think most couples nowadays.. just give the cooking to whoever does it better. I wouldn’t even considering having my bf make dinner bc I 100% prefer food I make. He knows how to make breakfast. So that’s waiting for me when I wake up every Saturday.

And lol at hair, it’s even worse if you have pets. The long hair acts as the core for a huge accumulation of fur balls.
They said she's gone too far this time

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post 1558837181 08-15-2018, 08:33 AM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Do you also pick up for her if she's unable to do some of her "duties?"

I think that's the way relationships should be (how you wrote about it).
Definitely. If you actually respect your partner, then you do it without even thinking about it.
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian⏩
Being happily married is one of the most empowering feelings I have ever felt in my life, srs.
That's what I want. I wasn't convinced I'd have that with my ex, so here I am back at the drawing board.
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post 1558873501 08-15-2018, 03:01 PM
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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
When you get home from a days work, you will walk into your home with it clean and having supper already made waiting for you to consume it, for the rest of your married life.

I Work with one girl who is happily married for over 15 years and she is still always saying how she needs to make sure dinner is ready on the table for her man before he comes through the door so he can enjoy and she can clean promptly after.

Imagine all the time saved boyos.
That's very few marriages nowadays. Most women don't cook, nor clean, because it's "controlling", "demeaning", "misogynistic". You would be lucky if she ordered take out or pizza for you (Using your money, of course).

I don't mind cooking and cleaning if my future wife is working a high salary high hour job (Nurse, manager, etc). But just fuking lol at your wife being a part time barista, an "entrepreneur", or a perpetual student and not cooking and cleaning the house. The majority of chores nowadays is automated so she doesn't even have an excuse.

Lol at biching about doing laundry. You're not washing each article piece by piece with a washing board and soap, then hang drying it in the sun piece by piece, then taking them down piece by piece. Throw it in the washer, then the dryer, then fold.

Lol at biching about washing dishes, just load and unload the dish washing machine.

Lol at biching about sweeping and mopping the floor, with vacuums and chit like swiffer it makes it so much easier.

Lol at running to the bank and paying bills, it can all be done on the computer in less than 5 minutes.

If you come home to no dinner and a dirty house because your wife was watching netflix or on social media all day you're in a lesbian relationship cuz you BOTH BITCHES
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post 1558873981 08-15-2018, 03:06 PM
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Originally Posted By sdoo⏩
That's very few marriages nowadays. Most women don't cook, nor clean, because it's "controlling", "demeaning", "misogynistic". You would be lucky if she ordered take out or pizza for you (Using your money, of course).
Because as an incel, you are an expert on marriage and long term relationships.

Cope harder.
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post 1558874451 08-15-2018, 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Xinroth⏩
^ That. Imagine learning from age 4 until age 25, only to get married and stay at home for the rest of your life. Some women can handle that & might take up learning new things/languages at home, but i'd wager many or most women nowadays can't handle the soul-sucking repetition.
It’s pretty obvious that most women can’t handle it since they know it’s not the 1950s.
We definitely gotta think about the social influence compared to the older days. Women are constantly influenced that they don’t need to be a “slave” and they can go out and have “fun” compared to the past lol

It’s definitely a struggle to find someone who leans more traditional.
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post 1558874941 08-15-2018, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
Because as an incel, you are an expert on marriage and long term relationships.

Cope harder.
"I-I-I'll call him an incel, that'll show him!"
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post 1558875091 08-15-2018, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Xinroth⏩
^ That. Imagine learning from age 4 until age 25, only to get married and stay at home for the rest of your life. Some women can handle that & might take up learning new things/languages at home, but i'd wager many or most women nowadays can't handle thesoul-sucking repetition.
Sounds just like men in the rat race doing a 9-5 to pay for a house, car, kids education, retirement, bills, etc regardless of white or blue collar.
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post 1558875121 08-15-2018, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted By sdoo⏩
"I-I-I'll call him an incel, that'll show him!"
You are an incel.
Be patient like the mountain. And you will learn to be strong.

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post 1558875471 08-15-2018, 03:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
Most aren't, that's why feminism happened in the first place and a lot of those housewives were on prescription pills to get through their lives at home with three kids while hubby banged his secretary at work.


https://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/884285

What a time to be alive
post 1558875751 08-15-2018, 03:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Adam16121⏩


https://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/884285

What a time to be alive
Prove to me that this has anything to do with women not being married off at 18, kept constantly pregnant and chained to the stove.
Be patient like the mountain. And you will learn to be strong.

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post 1558876581 08-15-2018, 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
Prove to me that this has anything to do with women not being married off at 18, kept constantly pregnant and chained to the stove.
You’re the one who implied that the use of prescription medications is directly correlated to the traditional lifestyle that housewives had back then. You also implied that feminism changed this. Strong causation & correlation fail.
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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
the joys of having little debt, multiple streams of passive income = less time being away from loved one more time making memories.
The idea of a traditional relationship won't ever happen unless money and income is sorted first.Maybe for you its important for your partner to make her own income because you can't afford everything you want.For me what i want is more non refundable time to enjoy my life and share it with the ones i love.

end of the day time is still being wasted when no one is home to have meals ready and chores already done.



Is this guy serious.
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Originally Posted By MrAWatts⏩
Is this guy serious.
Maybe he is pulling in half a mil a year?
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Originally Posted By mgftp⏩
Maybe he is pulling in half a mil a year?
Lmao
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Not married but my gf does this for me. Sometimes I don’t get in until late, like midnight. And there will always be a hot meal and a beer waiting for me. Doesn’t matter if she’s just in the mood or not. It’s always there

Then again I don’t live with her.
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Married barah here. We do a teamwork thing as we both work. Shes clean, can cook and cooks most of the time, cleans a little more than I do, and is a great mother.

Marriage is what you make it. If you marry a stay at home mom, then you should expect it. If you are a duel income family then it requires work but can be worth it .

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes it was for me too. I'm divorced now but my marriage was the happiest part of my life srs. Just feels amazing to be together day to day with someone you love and to build a future together.
Never had those feelsI wanted to, but couldn't commit to it.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well it has to be the right person. Otherwise it's miserable being together day to day with someone you don't like or are not compatible with.

For example imagine spending all day at work and then coming home to a wife who snaps at you or nags you or who overspends etc. Compared to that you're much better off living in peace alone. Just depends on who you marry if you're happy or not.
So you were compatible day to day with your husband?
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Originally Posted By MrAWatts⏩
Is this guy serious.
I can't see why else you would demand that your partner be career orientated. Maybe I don't care about money much as you because I don't plan on working for a living my whole life, not only that but I know myself well enough i know what I need in life to be happy, hence why i don't care that I need 2 incomes in one house hold. Why have a partner who is also tied up in the rat race, and have them sacrifice non-refundable time away from her family and home, when you can already take care of the bills?

A marriage will obviously be give and take, but there will exist a bias for my future marriage where i will be the provider and hopefully my wife will be the home maker. Quite frankly I imagine there would be more time for me to spend with my family and further cherish the time spent together if only one person needs to focus on bringing the means to household.

But hey obviously there are couples here that both participate in the rat race on a full time level, and more power to them, but I personally would rather have someone devote their time helping me, so i can help them.
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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
I can't see why else you would demand that your partner be career orientated. Maybe I don't care about money much as you because I don't plan on working for a living my whole life, not only that but I know myself well enough i know what I need in life to be happy, hence why i don't care that I need 2 incomes in one house hold. Why have a partner who is also tied up in the rat race, and have them sacrifice non-refundable time away from her family and home, when you can already take care of the bills?

A marriage will obviously be give and take, but there will exist a bias for my future marriage where i will be the provider and hopefully my wife will be the home maker. Quite frankly I imagine there would be more time for me to spend with my family and further cherish the time spent together if only one person needs to focus on bringing the means to household.

But hey obviously there are couples here that both participate in the rat race on a full time level, and more power to them, but I personally would rather have someone devote their time helping me, so i can help them.
I am curious what kind of income level you are at to have that mentality. I'd have to be pulling in half a mil a year to think like that but to be honest even then I;d probably want a woman that brings in that much, double the income is double the income no matter what level you are at.
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Originally Posted By mgftp⏩
I am curious what kind of income level you are at to have that mentality. I'd have to be pulling in half a mil a year to think like that but to be honest even then I;d probably want a woman that brings in that much, double the income is double the income no matter what level you are at.
hoping by 30, I'll be debt free with 3 income producing properties and passive income coming from dividend paying stocks.

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Originally Posted By mgftp⏩
I am curious what kind of income level you are at to have that mentality. I'd have to be pulling in half a mil a year to think like that but to be honest even then I;d probably want a woman that brings in that much, double the income is double the income no matter what level you are at.
Why in the world do you need that much income
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Why in the world do you need that much income
IMO people who are obsessed with having a bigger and bigger income don't actually know what they want out of life.

when you have enough money to cover your necessities to be full and happy, the process of chasing more is just a waste of non refundable time.
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Originally Posted By ashin1⏩
IMO people who are obsessed with having a bigger and bigger income don't actually know what they want out of life.

when you have enough money to cover your necessities to be full and happy, the process of chasing more is just a waste of non refundable time.
That could be said about anyone making over 70k in most places in the US. What it takes to feel “full and happy” isn’t the same for everyone.
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I've met almost no women in the last ~15 years who could cook anything at all.
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