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post 1558893671 08-15-2018, 07:12 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
Why in the world do you need that much income
Need?
Originally Posted By ashin1
hoping by 30, I'll be debt free with 3 income producing properties and passive income coming from dividend paying stocks.

been making over 100k since i was 22, and been very disciplined with saving and investing my money.
So retired by 30? mirin' hard
post 1558894131 08-15-2018, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted By mgftp
Need?



So retired by 30? mirin' hard
i don't think i'll retire, I'll work casual to keep my license to work, I legit enjoy what i do for work, other wise i wouldn't be living in the tundra for the majority of my 20s lmao


plus i gotta let my coworkers know how good life is
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post 1558894371 08-15-2018, 07:23 PM
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Lmfao the sad part is that

Statistically speaking

At least one of the miscers gushing about their wife in this thread

Is being cheated on
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post 1558894791 08-15-2018, 07:30 PM
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Originally Posted By AcetylCoA
Lmfao the sad part is that

Statistically speaking

At least one of the miscers gushing about their wife in this thread

Is being cheated on
based on my experience roughly half of all women will cheat - used to make a sport of it in my younger days and I had ridiculously high success
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
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post 1558895351 08-15-2018, 07:41 PM
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Originally Posted By CanuckGame
I probably do 75% of the cooking in my house, but I enjoy it.

My wife is a workhorse when it comes to cleaning the house though. She probably does 90% of the housework.
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have no qualms cooking (in reality we actually eat out 4-5 nights a week, but i don't fukking clean shiet. that includes doing laundry.

basically went straight from mom doing laundry to gf. maybe ran 5 laundry cycles in my life (i can explicitly remember 3, but i'm probably forgetting one or two).
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post 1558896411 08-15-2018, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted By ashin1
i don't think i'll retire, I'll work casual to keep my license to work, I legit enjoy what i do for work, other wise i wouldn't be living in the tundra for the majority of my 20s lmao


plus i gotta let my coworkers know how good life is
Mirin' hard, I am past 30, still working, and hate it.

Are you already dating a non-working woman or looking for one?
post 1558896501 08-15-2018, 07:57 PM
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Originally Posted By mgftp
Mirin' hard, I am past 30, still working, and hate it.

Are you already dating a non-working woman or looking for one?
single and ready to mingle, I don't think i'll find my ideal wife where I live, but thats okay, with all the free time i'll have in the future i'm sure i'll be able to find one of my liking.
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post 1558897141 08-15-2018, 08:07 PM
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Originally Posted By ashin1
single and ready to mingle, I don't think i'll find my ideal wife where I live, but thats okay, with all the free time i'll have in the future i'm sure i'll be able to find one of my liking.
I just can't believe your mindset, I guess everyone being different is what makes life interesting.
post 1558897231 08-15-2018, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted By mgftp
Mirin' hard, I am past 30, still working, and hate it.

Are you already dating a non-working woman or looking for one?
If a woman wants to continue working beyond 20 hours per week or so for the first few years of my child’s life, that’s an obvious dealbreaker.

I’m flexible on part time work options for one or both of us.

If you don’t have kids, do absolutely whatever the fuk you want. If you do, the kid must come first and that includes extensive bonding with a parent, ideally both. I am willing to cut my hours way back for time with my kid.

Ideally stay home and trade crypto.
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post 1558900121 08-15-2018, 08:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
If a woman wants to continue working beyond 20 hours per week or so for the first few years of my child’s life, that’s an obvious dealbreaker.

I’m flexible on part time work options for one or both of us.

If you don’t have kids, do absolutely whatever the fuk you want. If you do, the kid must come first and that includes extensive bonding with a parent, ideally both. I am willing to cut my hours way back for time with my kid.

Ideally stay home and trade crypto.
Our deal breakers are the complete opposite. LoL. I wouldn't consider a woman who would wants to work anything less than full time beyond maternity leave. Hey, guess that is why there is someone for everyone.
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Originally Posted By mgftp
Our deal breakers are the complete opposite. LoL. I wouldn't consider a woman who would wants to work anything less than full time beyond maternity leave. Hey, guess that is why there is someone for everyone.
Same.
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post 1558900981 08-15-2018, 09:08 PM
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Originally Posted By mgftp
Our deal breakers are the complete opposite. LoL. I wouldn't consider a woman who would wants to work anything less than full time beyond maternity leave. Hey, guess that is why there is someone for everyone.
What’s best for the kid?
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post 1558901311 08-15-2018, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
Why in the world do you need that much income
Some people aim for a high income because they live in a expensive city, enjoy the luxury lifestyle, want to retire way before 60, have a decent savings saved for your kids college fund, and some just enjoy money.

Edit: Don’t really see the attraction to it besides the college fund.
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post 1558901481 08-15-2018, 09:18 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo
Some people aim for a high income because they live in a expensive city, enjoy the luxury lifestyle, want to retire way before 60, have a decent savings saved for your kids college fund, and some just enjoy money.

Edit: Don’t really see the attraction to it besides the college fund.
I’m only building wealth right now so I can get a home and spend time with my future family without stressing over the mortgage. Not for some materialistic luxury lifestyle. Literally so I can spend more time on the things that deeply fulfill.
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post 1558901651 08-15-2018, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
I’m only building wealth right now so I can get a home and spend time with my future family. Not for some materialistic luxury lifestyle. Literally so I can spend more time off on the things that deeply fulfill.
That’s because people like us are more traditional and there’s really nothing wrong with either lifestyle. People just need to find out if they want the same lifestyle as their partner.

People have different things that will fulfill the happiness in their lives. That’s why money plays a lot in a relationship for some. I personally just save money to make sure my future family has emergency funds, money to take trips because creating memories is my main goal in the future as I watch my kids grow, etc.
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post 1558902141 08-15-2018, 09:36 PM
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The house is usually messy. Kids are pretty crazy. I have to do a lot of the work. But having kids think you are superman is kinda funny. And I have sex at least 3 times a week. More if I want. Married guys get laid a lot.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
Never had those feelsI wanted to, but couldn't commit to it.
Is that what you're telling yourself now? That YOU couldn't commit?

I'm sure it has nothing to do with her being a bpd, conniving opportunist eh? O_o
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post 1558902471 08-15-2018, 09:44 PM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786
Is that what you're telling yourself now? That YOU couldn't commit?

I'm sure it has nothing to do with her being a bpd, conniving opportunist eh? O_o
No, I’m not saying there wasn’t good reasons. I have to keep reminding myself of that.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Well it has to be the right person. Otherwise it's miserable being together day to day with someone you don't like or are not compatible with.

For example imagine spending all day at work and then coming home to a wife who snaps at you or nags you or who overspends etc. Compared to that you're much better off living in peace alone. Just depends on who you marry if you're happy or not.
Oh lord, I can’t imagine being a guy that has to deal with a woman that overspends and still nags you. Silence I’m honestly curious on why you went through a divorce. You seem like a sweet lady.
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo
That’s because people like us are more traditional and there’s really nothing wrong with either lifestyle. People just need to find out if they want the same lifestyle as their partner.

People have different things that will fulfill the happiness in their lives. That’s why money plays a lot in a relationship for some. I personally just save money to make sure my future family has emergency funds, money to take trips because creating memories is my main goal in the future as I watch my kids grow, etc.
I just think they’re (objectively) wrong about what makes humans fulfilled. At least from the research I’ve read, coupled with evolutionary psychology, and anecdotal stories from old people’s regrets before they pass.
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Fuk that's living the dream, can't wait to be married low key with someone I have a good connection with
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Thanks. My ex ended it. I was in complete emotional shock afterwards and did some detective work and found out he had a secret life. Don't want to post the details but it was very extreme and far beyond just cheating.

And yes in hindsight I see many signs, but at the time I was oblivious. I had never encountered any type of person like that and was also just very naive in general. So the marriage lasted a long time because I was easy to fool and I was living in blissful ignorance.
And now you have 12,189 posts on the misc he must have really done a number on you.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yup it was a severe emotional trauma. Took me years to be ok and I'm still not fully recovered (much better now though than the first few years).

I don't think anyone could really relate unless they have loved a similar type of person.
At least you have a talking point if you ever meet Maria Shriver
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I don't know. Back then it felt like we were very compatible. But looking back now maybe it was more that I was just very in love with him and very easygoing. Day to day I was very happy, and we rarely ever argued until the last few months of the marriage.
Did you do things that low key made him upset? And he just didn’t show his emotion often, and one day it all came out at once?

Edit: didn’t see above post.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Thanks. My ex ended it. I was in complete emotional shock afterwards and did some detective work and found out he had a secret life. Don't want to post the details but it was very extreme and far beyond just cheating.

And yes in hindsight I see many signs, but at the time I was oblivious. I had never encountered any type of person like that and was also just very naive in general. So the marriage lasted a long time because I was easy to fool and I was living in blissful ignorance.
But now you would recognize it right? Like you were too naive. I've argued that both men and women need to be red pilled a little bit, and I stress a little bit because this forum just goes way too far the other way.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Thanks. My ex ended it. I was in complete emotional shock afterwards and did some detective work and found out he had a secret life. Don't want to post the details but it was very extreme and far beyond just cheating.

And yes in hindsight I see many signs, but at the time I was oblivious. I had never encountered any type of person like that and was also just very naive in general. So the marriage lasted a long time because I was easy to fool and I was living in blissful ignorance.
You’re welcome. Reminds me of a relationship I was in when I was 16-18. He lead another life and liked some weird things that made me appalled and I was pretty gullible and took him back a few times then ended it when I was 18. I’m surprised I didn’t listen to friends and share everything I found out with his family and friends.

You live, you learn.
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