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Thread: Some advice/wake-up call for eod8989 that is useless because he'll likely ignore it

post 1558935791 08-16-2018, 10:09 AM
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Some advice/wake-up call for eod8989 that is useless because he'll likely ignore it

Cliffs:
-OP has friends evaluate eod on a 1-10 scale based on pictures he's posted
-While OP waits for results, she looked back in the past two weeks of posts to find reflections of personality shortcomings women might find unattractive
-OP will not continue to update as more responses come in; this wasn't meant to be a bully eod on his looks thread
-Water is wet; shocking news is shocking



Thread:
This is probably really creepy/unnecessary but you've actually managed to move past my last nerve, so this is an attempt to help you see reality.

I decided to do an experiment, I'd message some of my 7+ girlfriends and ask for them to give an unbiased 1-10 rating of you based off of pictures you recently posted on here. Provided no information about your personality or anything other than sharing the photos.

About friends I selected: 1. No I will not share pics, feel free to neg because of this; 2. I think they are 7/10 or more but everyone has different assessments so they might not be a 7 to someone else; 3. All of the friends I contacted are fit/slim objectively; 4. Convo screenshots are cropped to redact their personal information.


According to eod:
Originally Posted By eod8989
I have posted close ups of my face on here i have very good facial aesthetics. Perfect skin. Perfect teeth. Great facial features. My face is at least a 7.5 if not higher there is no way it's lower than that. I'm also 6'1.
According to my friends:
Spoiler!











I also took a look through your August 2018 posts so far to spot any insights into unattractive personality traits while I waited for responses:
Spoiler!

-First off, the obvious, he’s in a relationship but continues to complain about women not going after him, not getting dates, and constant threads about hot women he’s looking at
Originally Posted By eod8989
I don't think about it i'm in a relationship but i'm really starting to wonder what the point of it is.
-Can’t relate to people that don’t share his hobbies
Originally Posted By eod8989
Same here. I don't talk to anyone unless there is a purpose or the person has the same hobby as me. I'm not afraid to talk to girls i just have nothing to talk about.
Originally Posted By eod8989
No matter what i do i won't have that personality. I can only talk to people i relate to or share interests with.
-Hobbies include:
Originally Posted By eod8989
I do have hobbies that include metal, chasing storms and I play sports.
Absolutely no self-awwareness. Tells Misc they have a defeatist attitude, yet comes up with an incessant list of excuses as to why he can’t approach or find a woman interested in him.
Originally Posted By eod8989
Everyone on here has a defeatist attitude at this point. Trust me any of us could pull women if we had great confident personalities and didn't look either bitter or awkward around women.
-Brb, girl approaches, doesn’t know what to say, a week later whines on misc about women never approaching.
Originally Posted By eod8989
I'm not good at talking to random people. Girl approached me last week and I didn't know what to say.
-One of the most attractive qualities in a man is confidence; arrogance, however… that’s another story.
Originally Posted By eod8989
Being good looking has been a curse for me. Having insanely high standards and jealous people are the worst things.
-Had so much sex with his gf that he got worn out by it
Originally Posted By eod8989
I got bored because having sex 800 times with the same person in a year burned me out. One day the lust just disappeared and imo there's no point in sex if the lust isn't there.
-But because of HIS OWN DECISION he’s losing his confidence
Originally Posted By eod8989
Not getting laid is killing my confidence by the day
-Also understands the following but refuses to put any work into those areas to improve
Originally Posted By eod8989
Social skills and confidence are far more important
-Contradiction of peace
Originally Posted By eod8989
I'm to the point where i don't even feel comfortable going anywhere alone
Originally Posted By eod8989
have this problem too where i'm so comfortable being alone i don't even want people bothering me.
-Also, like it or not, some women will look you up and have pre-judgements based on your criminal history and/or physiological/addition history (I should note, I don’t necessarily think that’s fair, but I know for a fact some women will automatically rule you out because of these things)
Originally Posted By eod8989
I was arrested in 2013 and just bailed myself out
Originally Posted By eod8989
I don't because i'm a recovering alcoholic
Please start seeing a therapist OP. You can absolutely turn around your game but you need to want to and put in work towards it.

Also, leave your gf, it's unfair for you to waste her time when you already know you're not attracted/interested in being with her anymore. It's really selfish man and inevitably feeds into the cycle of broken people in the dating game.
post 1558937751 08-16-2018, 10:30 AM
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post 1558938971 08-16-2018, 10:45 AM
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Strong AF research. Tempted to rep on that basis alone...

Really should move this to regular MISC, and add in your research that he makes constant excuses and is a quitter. Had 2-3 of the best lifters in main MISC basically sponsor a log/thread so he could improve and make gains, and all he did was sidestep it. Hell, add delusional as well... his perception of himself as a natural bodybuilder/lifter is beyond repair.
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post 1558939251 08-16-2018, 10:48 AM
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Why is it you feel the need to dissect the man? You're a bish OP, wtf.
post 1558940091 08-16-2018, 10:57 AM
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Strong effort OP.
post 1558940361 08-16-2018, 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Why is it you feel the need to dissect the man? You're a bish OP, wtf.
Am I a bish, sure, absolutely. That being said, this is the truth, I don't like supporting delusions. He disregards every piece of advice people genuinely give him and I won't lie when I say it's frustrating.
post 1558940501 08-16-2018, 11:03 AM
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Someone needs to move this to main misc. holy shut your friends are brutal. Face alone I’d give him 5/10. Body is below average for a body building forum. Slightly above average for real life.
They said she's gone too far this time

¯\_(ツ)_/¯
post 1558940631 08-16-2018, 11:04 AM
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post 1558940791 08-16-2018, 11:06 AM
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Now THAT is how you make an OP.
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post 1558940971 08-16-2018, 11:08 AM
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post 1558941101 08-16-2018, 11:09 AM
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This rating thing is chit to me. 2/10 ??? Your friends have VERY high standards srs.

Doesn't help the picture quality is crap.
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post 1558941271 08-16-2018, 11:11 AM
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Pls move this to misc. Lol. We need more koala tea threads.

5* thread. Would read again. I tried to tell him this (especially based on his personality that his rating would go down), but he just called me a fat cow and disregarded. Hahahahahahaha
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post 1558941311 08-16-2018, 11:11 AM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Strong effort OP.
Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Now THAT is how you make an OP.
Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Damn strong...
This is how call-out threads are supposed to be made.

>Strong main point
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post 1558941851 08-16-2018, 11:18 AM
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Dudes delusional

If you really want to know how attractive you are you have tinder or photofinder(females rating only). You can't rate your own attractiveness and people of the same sex can't rate your attractviness correctly either.

For men: You're only as attractive as the women that will sleep with you with NSA(No strings attached). That doesn't mean chad doesn't bang 5s too, but you're only a 8 if your banging a variety of different 8s on the regular.

For women: You're only as attractive as the guy that will let you move in with him and start using his resources.


If you're married or in a relationship you shouldn't be concerned how you appear to random women/men only how to appear to your partner so this post isn't relevant.
post 1558941911 08-16-2018, 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Why is it you feel the need to dissect the man? You're a bish OP, wtf.
eh, the dude needs a come to jesus talk.
He whines women don't show interest at work but fails to mention he has a live-in GF.
wonder if women at work know he has a GF?
Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
Someone needs to move this to main misc. holy shut your friends are brutal. Face alone I’d give him 5/10. Body is below average for a body building forum. Slightly above average for real life.
except the one who said she doesn't like masculine white men.
opposite end of the scale.
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Damn why y u do dis to eod?, I like him since he posts in the wrestling section but I agree he needs a bit of a wake up on his own rating/standards/autism from reading his FA posts. But I wish him luck, he isn't a 3.5 however he ain't Paul Walker standard.

Also eod, you should post a pic of you smiling to show everyone you ain't so srs 24/7.
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post 1558942341 08-16-2018, 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol⏩
Dudes delusional

If you really want to know how attractive you are you have tinder or photofinder(females rating only). You can't rate your own attractiveness and people of the same sex can't rate your attractviness correctly either.

For men: You're only as attractive as the women that will sleep with you with NSA(No strings attached). That doesn't mean chad doesn't bang 5s too, but you're only a 8 if your banging a variety of different 8s on the regular.

For women: You're only as attractive as the guy that will let you move in with him and start using his resources.


If you're married or in a relationship you shouldn't be concerned how you appear to random women/men only how to appear to your partner so this post isn't relevant.
>Can't rank yourself
>Can only be ranked based on the #s that you date
>You're the one ranking your dates' #s
>Apparently you can rank yourself...
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post 1558942431 08-16-2018, 11:24 AM
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post 1558942491 08-16-2018, 11:25 AM
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Girls cannot rate objectively, they’re rating him low because he looks angry, he is easily a 6 or maybe more if you look at his facial features
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Originally Posted By PeaceWithin⏩
>Can't rank yourself
>Can only be ranked based on the #s that you date
>You're the one ranking your dates' #s
>Apparently you can rank yourself...
Nah thats why you have your boys rate your smashes. Except the ones you don't want them to see.

I always make posts in mind that people have a band of bros to hang with and have normal lives n chit.

Honestly find it hard to believe any chad wouldn't have a band of bros, usually social extroversion is aquired through confidence which aquired through validation.

Rare exceptions like that orb guy people post here every once in awhile.
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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget⏩
eh, the dude needs a come to jesus talk.
He whines women don't show interest at work but fails to mention he has a live-in GF.
wonder if women at work know he has a GF?



except the one who said she doesn't like masculine white men.
opposite end of the scale.
I don’t think she’s using masculine as in “manly” or “desirable “, I’m pretty sure she’s using it in the feminist sense of it, like toxically masculine, probably bc he was holding a rifle. So nah, he’s still average at best.
Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol⏩
Dudes delusional

If you really want to know how attractive you are you have tinder or photofinder(females rating only). You can't rate your own attractiveness and people of the same sex can't rate your attractviness correctly either.

For men: You're only as attractive as the women that will sleep with you with NSA(No strings attached). That doesn't mean chad doesn't bang 5s too, but you're only a 8 if your banging a variety of different 8s on the regular.

For women: You're only as attractive as the guy that will let you move in with him and start using his resources.


If you're married or in a relationship you shouldn't be concerned how you appear to random women/men only how to appear to your partner so this post isn't relevant.
Lol what if you’re well aware your partner is out of your league looks wise?
They said she's gone too far this time

¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol⏩
Nah thats why you have your boys rate your smashes. Except the ones you don't want them to see.

I always make posts in mind that people have a band of bros to hang with and have normal lives n chit.

Honestly find it hard to believe any chad wouldn't have a band of bros, usually social extroversion is aquired through confidence which aquired through validation.

Rare exceptions like that orb guy people post here every once in awhile.
Hope you have a diverse group of bros to do the rating. I'm historically biased towards brunettes and it affects my perception of blondes/redheads substantially. Lol.
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Damn, this guy got rektd. Btw OP are you black?
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3.5/10. average?


This guy make look creepy AF but I can look past the chitty weird autistic photos and notice he is actually more like a 6/10 minimum.
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
Lol what if you’re well aware your partner is out of your league looks wise?
As a woman? Did you move in with him and use his money and chit? Thats when the love is real for the dude, if he's willing to share his work with you, his spoils, for the longterm.


If not it's just casual dating in my mind so it really isn't relevant. If anyones going to break rules it'll be a woman, for men they'll fall into my post pretty accurately.

The quality of the women you sleep with that has no strings attached is your quality. That means you can't pay them, you can't shower them with gifts/vacations to get them to sleep with you, you can't game them with mindfuks and you have to be able to repeat it reguarly with different women.
Originally Posted By PeaceWithin⏩
Hope you have a diverse group of bros to do the rating. I'm historically biased towards brunettes and it affects my perception of blondes/redheads substantially. Lol.
I do, I get what your saying though.

The black guys in my group always rate the white girls higher, they never rate the asians I get high. Don't know if black guy thing or just personal thing, called em out for it once and they said the asians(the ones i got in particular) were just ugly and made fun of me.
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Originally Posted By aGameWins⏩
This rating thing is chit to me. 2/10 ??? Your friends have VERY high standards srs.

Doesn't help the picture quality is crap.
Yeah, honestly the picture quality DOES make it harder to assess his looks.
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol⏩
Dudes delusional

If you really want to know how attractive you are you have tinder or photofinder(females rating only). You can't rate your own attractiveness and people of the same sex can't rate your attractviness correctly either.

For men: You're only as attractive as the women that will sleep with you with NSA(No strings attached). That doesn't mean chad doesn't bang 5s too, but you're only a 8 if your banging a variety of different 8s on the regular.

For women: You're only as attractive as the guy that will let you move in with him and start using his resources.


If you're married or in a relationship you shouldn't be concerned how you appear to random women/men only how to appear to your partner so this post isn't relevant.
Damn, that's actually really sound. Unfortunately I think a lot of women think that if they'er sleeping with high quality men, that makes them high quality too. Repped.
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Originally Posted By psychosylocibin⏩
3.5/10. average?


This guy make look creepy AF but I can look past the chitty weird autistic photos and notice he is actually more like a 6/10 minimum.
Exactly. I think most confident men overlook all this rating chit.

Just be confident groom appropriately and hunt women who want you.

Wtf is 2/10, 3.5/10. If that's the case then some people irl are -10/10 or -15/10.

I'm not the best judge of looks and that picture is crap but with the right attitude he should get a woman he likes.

And he looks like stinkholepatrol to me lulz.
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Originally Posted By Vrykul⏩
Girls cannot rate objectively, they’re rating him low because he looks angry, he is easily a 6 or maybe more if you look at his facial features
Yeah I fully admit that I personally wouldn't consider him as low as a 2, but I certainly would rate him above a 5 either.
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