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Originally Posted By HayZues
He said that on page one. You don't need to wait for anything but your reading comprehension to kick in.Bro I'm rooting for you, but you will be writing a check. Probably not alimony, but half your assets now and monthly child support.
I'll wait for the update.
I'll wait for the update.
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Originally Posted By HayZues
lmao this lawyer has a top rating and was recommended by 3 different acquaintances oh my dad. I'll be good. nice tryAnd this OP
Division of Property
Typically, adultery won’t influence a judge’s decision about the division of property. If an extramarital affair is unrelated to the economic condition of the marriage, then the adultery is not a proper factor for consideration.
However, if the adultery affected the married couple’s finances, it may become relevant. For example, if the cheating spouse spent thousands of dollars of marital assets to buy gifts for his or her lover, or to pay for expensive hotel rooms during the affair, a judge may take this into considering when dividing assets between the spouses.
https://www.charlesullman.com/provin...olina-divorce/
Call another lawyer. A real one this time.
Division of Property
Typically, adultery won’t influence a judge’s decision about the division of property. If an extramarital affair is unrelated to the economic condition of the marriage, then the adultery is not a proper factor for consideration.
However, if the adultery affected the married couple’s finances, it may become relevant. For example, if the cheating spouse spent thousands of dollars of marital assets to buy gifts for his or her lover, or to pay for expensive hotel rooms during the affair, a judge may take this into considering when dividing assets between the spouses.
https://www.charlesullman.com/provin...olina-divorce/
Call another lawyer. A real one this time.
Originally Posted By RainingBlood⏩
I have a thick skin, these morons and trolls aren't getting to me.I'm not married. The closest thing I've had was a 5 year relationship in which she went with my friend of like 14 years. It really hurt.
It seems like people have already told you that you married too young, so I won't bring this point up. How could you have known anyway when everyone else around you was doing the same?
I'm sorry for your situation. I can't imagine how frustrating this is, and it seems like you're handling this situation far better than most men would. It takes a lot of strength and maturity to do that.
Please let this sour your view of her, and not all women. You do more damage to yourself when you wall yourself up instead of letting others into your life who will help you grow and heal as a person.
My best advice to you is to stay off the misc for a while. The mentality on here might get to you if you have a moment of weakness, and it might cause you to do something irrational, which you don't want. Be the bigger person.
It seems like people have already told you that you married too young, so I won't bring this point up. How could you have known anyway when everyone else around you was doing the same?
I'm sorry for your situation. I can't imagine how frustrating this is, and it seems like you're handling this situation far better than most men would. It takes a lot of strength and maturity to do that.
Please let this sour your view of her, and not all women. You do more damage to yourself when you wall yourself up instead of letting others into your life who will help you grow and heal as a person.
My best advice to you is to stay off the misc for a while. The mentality on here might get to you if you have a moment of weakness, and it might cause you to do something irrational, which you don't want. Be the bigger person.
thank you very much for your kind words
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Originally Posted By Peter
Does your Cape match your belt?Do you try and always be a piece of sh!t, or does it come naturally? You must be one sad and pathetic person to dog everyone at every chance you get.
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08-21-2018, 02:56 PM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
I don't wear a belt, so no it doesn't.Does your Cape match your belt?
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Originally Posted By HayZues
no, I won't lolBro I'm rooting for you, but you will be writing a check. Probably not alimony, but half your assets now and monthly child support.
I'll wait for the update.
I'll wait for the update.
Originally Posted By Peter
reallyDo you try to always be a piece of sh!t, or does it come naturally? You must be one sad and pathetic person to dog everyone at every chance you get.
Originally Posted By seanb1979⏩
yea, the dude is stingy as fuk and wouldn't help me and my mom out at all growing up, but you better watch out if something he cares about is involved (his grandkids)Rich parents make everything easier lol. I sometimes forget how common these are.
Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
hey, you're backHe said that on page one. You don't need to wait for anything but your reading comprehension to kick in.
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Originally Posted By RainingBlood⏩
Nah op should stay. There's still guys who are here to give support and I think op is smart enough to pick out the mature brahs from the edgelords.I'm not married. The closest thing I've had was a 5 year relationship in which she went with my friend of like 14 years. It really hurt.
It seems like people have already told you that you married too young, so I won't bring this point up. How could you have known anyway when everyone else around you was doing the same?
I'm sorry for your situation. I can't imagine how frustrating this is, and it seems like you're handling this situation far better than most men would. It takes a lot of strength and maturity to do that.
Please let this sour your view of her, and not all women. You do more damage to yourself when you wall yourself up instead of letting others into your life who will help you grow and heal as a person.
My best advice to you is to stay off the misc for a while. The mentality on here might get to you if you have a moment of weakness, and it might cause you to do something irrational, which you don't want. Be the bigger person.
It seems like people have already told you that you married too young, so I won't bring this point up. How could you have known anyway when everyone else around you was doing the same?
I'm sorry for your situation. I can't imagine how frustrating this is, and it seems like you're handling this situation far better than most men would. It takes a lot of strength and maturity to do that.
Please let this sour your view of her, and not all women. You do more damage to yourself when you wall yourself up instead of letting others into your life who will help you grow and heal as a person.
My best advice to you is to stay off the misc for a while. The mentality on here might get to you if you have a moment of weakness, and it might cause you to do something irrational, which you don't want. Be the bigger person.
Also Jesus christ @ what happened to you. That Fuking sucks man. I haven't been in a relationship in years, not because I've written them off completely but because I know the odds.
Will take my time with the next one and not rush a thing until she passes all the tests. I know even then it's not guaranteed but I'm a ******* and I will have some hope.
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Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
He literally says the opposite of that on EVERY page.He said that on page one. You don't need to wait for anything but your reading comprehension to kick in.
Link to post saying otherwise or negs.
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why don't you sue the dude she's having an affair with like that one cuck did
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
OK turns there may be some local variation in state law. There may be a glimmer of hope for NC brahs... mirin!spoke to a lawyer bud, I trust his advice over yours
spoke to a lawyer *******, that's why
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spoke to a lawyer *******, that's why
voice recordings, text messages, screenshots
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In any case, I do agree the best approach in all these situations to consult a real lawyer with a good understanding of the situation which it seems OP has done. Just beware of how they (the lawyers) draw things out as much as possible to drain you both. GL!
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Originally Posted By Coal
be carful out there brahNah op should stay. There's still guys who are here to give support and I think op is smart enough to pick out the mature brahs from the edgelords.
Also Jesus christ @ what happened to you. That Fuking sucks man. I haven't been in a relationship in years, not because I've written them off completely but because I know the odds.
Will take my time with the next one and not rush a thing until she passes all the tests. I know even then it's not guaranteed but I'm a ******* and I will have some hope.
Also Jesus christ @ what happened to you. That Fuking sucks man. I haven't been in a relationship in years, not because I've written them off completely but because I know the odds.
Will take my time with the next one and not rush a thing until she passes all the tests. I know even then it's not guaranteed but I'm a ******* and I will have some hope.
Originally Posted By HayZues
I understand where you are coming from but you are mistaken in my case dude. it'd be cool if you dropped itHe literally says the opposite of that on EVERY page.
Link to post saying otherwise or negs.
Link to post saying otherwise or negs.
Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
don't think that is likely to be successfulwhy don't you sue the dude she's having an affair with like that one cuck did
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Man...the cracks show in the relationships when things are going south.
I was talking to a married woman at a friend's going away party. She has been married for 8 years with this man and they have two kids. I told her it is something I want eventually in my life. She spent a good bit of our time talking about her husband lacking ambition, having the same job since they've known each other, and her not being able to pursue her music career. I felt kind of bad. She was looking at me with these big eyes and I thought she was attractive.
I ended up exchanging contact info with her. The female friend she was with was saying that she should divorce her husband and find men like me out in the world (srs). I legit felt bad for the dude. Part of me could try and pursue this woman, but I don't want to contribute to the statistic of divorces, broken families, custody battles, etc. **** that.
I was talking to a married woman at a friend's going away party. She has been married for 8 years with this man and they have two kids. I told her it is something I want eventually in my life. She spent a good bit of our time talking about her husband lacking ambition, having the same job since they've known each other, and her not being able to pursue her music career. I felt kind of bad. She was looking at me with these big eyes and I thought she was attractive.
I ended up exchanging contact info with her. The female friend she was with was saying that she should divorce her husband and find men like me out in the world (srs). I legit felt bad for the dude. Part of me could try and pursue this woman, but I don't want to contribute to the statistic of divorces, broken families, custody battles, etc. **** that.
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Originally Posted By Redundanteater⏩
they won't be draining me. rich dad crew checking in. and afterwards she will be responsible for fees if it even goes to courtOK turns there may be some local variation in state law. There may be a glimmer of hope for NC brahs... mirin!
In any case, I do agree the best approach in all these situations to consult a real lawyer with a good understanding of the situation which it seems OP has done. Just beware of how they (the lawyers) draw things out as much as possible to drain you both. GL!
In any case, I do agree the best approach in all these situations to consult a real lawyer with a good understanding of the situation which it seems OP has done. Just beware of how they (the lawyers) draw things out as much as possible to drain you both. GL!
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Originally Posted By Redundanteater⏩
Great advice. Lawyers will be on your side, but will try and drain you of as much money as possible. Be careful OP.OK turns there may be some local variation in state law. There may be a glimmer of hope for NC brahs... mirin!
In any case, I do agree the best approach in all these situations to consult a real lawyer with a good understanding of the situation which it seems OP has done. Just beware of how they (the lawyers) draw things out as much as possible to drain you both. GL!
In any case, I do agree the best approach in all these situations to consult a real lawyer with a good understanding of the situation which it seems OP has done. Just beware of how they (the lawyers) draw things out as much as possible to drain you both. GL!
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Here's the last page that you actively posted on. Let me know if you want more bro.He literally says the opposite of that on EVERY page.
Link to post saying otherwise or negs.
Link to post saying otherwise or negs.
Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
I am pretty confident. I have a lot of evidence and she already agreed to 50/50 and no money
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah⏩
Just came across this case... mirin... I will admit I'm a little surprised to have actually learned something from the Misc today. TY!why don't you sue the dude she's having an affair with like that one cuck did
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Who was a white guy? The coworker she was banging was white? Is that what you mean?We have a kid. But I have evidence of infidelity so I am good to go.
I swear brah this is real, simply forgot SRS tag
We have a kid together. I have tried to maintain a respectful relationship but she is being a kunt on purpose because it makes it easier to distance herself from me.
sure
was a white guy
See above posts, yes it was not my decision and I didn't see it coming
I swear brah this is real, simply forgot SRS tag
We have a kid together. I have tried to maintain a respectful relationship but she is being a kunt on purpose because it makes it easier to distance herself from me.
sure
was a white guy
See above posts, yes it was not my decision and I didn't see it coming
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Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
it will fuk up your ratio like one manI'm just in it for the post count now bro.
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Back in my scummy days I am ashamed to admit I fukked a few women in these types of situationsMan...the cracks show in the relationships when things are going south.
I was talking to a married woman at a friend's going away party. She has been married for 8 years with this man and they have two kids. I told her it is something I want eventually in my life. She spent a good bit of our time talking about her husband lacking ambition, having the same job since they've known each other, and her not being able to pursue her music career. I felt kind of bad. She was looking at me with these big eyes and I thought she was attractive.
I ended up exchanging contact info with her. The female friend she was with was saying that she should divorce her husband and find men like me out in the world (srs). I legit felt bad for the dude. Part of me could try and pursue this woman, but I don't want to contribute to the statistic of divorces, broken families, custody battles, etc. **** that.
I was talking to a married woman at a friend's going away party. She has been married for 8 years with this man and they have two kids. I told her it is something I want eventually in my life. She spent a good bit of our time talking about her husband lacking ambition, having the same job since they've known each other, and her not being able to pursue her music career. I felt kind of bad. She was looking at me with these big eyes and I thought she was attractive.
I ended up exchanging contact info with her. The female friend she was with was saying that she should divorce her husband and find men like me out in the world (srs). I legit felt bad for the dude. Part of me could try and pursue this woman, but I don't want to contribute to the statistic of divorces, broken families, custody battles, etc. **** that.
I guess karma is a bitch
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Does she have a pink or brown turd cutter?
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Originally Posted By pantiespending⏩
yepWho was a white guy? The coworker she was banging was white? Is that what you mean?
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Late to party, not sheriff questions asked yet:
1) No early signs of her wandering/looking elsewhere?
2) Do you work extended hours/time away from home? On deployment or otherwise?
3) Any other major stressors in your life during the time she was unfaithful?
4) Did you or her feel like the relationship lost connection and/or passion?
1) No early signs of her wandering/looking elsewhere?
2) Do you work extended hours/time away from home? On deployment or otherwise?
3) Any other major stressors in your life during the time she was unfaithful?
4) Did you or her feel like the relationship lost connection and/or passion?
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Originally Posted By janglingjack⏩
pink, I got her to start bleachingDoes she have a pink or brown turd cutter?
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So your wife cheated on you
And she wants a divorce.... do you not?
And she wants a divorce.... do you not?
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Originally Posted By jeshelton⏩
1 - nopeLate to party, not sheriff questions asked yet:
1) No early signs of her wandering/looking elsewhere?
2) Do you work extended hours/time away from home? On deployment or otherwise?
3) Any other major stressors in your life during the time she was unfaithful?
4) Did you or her feel like the relationship lost connection and/or passion?
1) No early signs of her wandering/looking elsewhere?
2) Do you work extended hours/time away from home? On deployment or otherwise?
3) Any other major stressors in your life during the time she was unfaithful?
4) Did you or her feel like the relationship lost connection and/or passion?
2 - we work wildly different schedules
3 - her new job in law enforcement
4 - apparently she did, even though we fukked like rabbits
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Originally Posted By NeedToBang⏩
she told me she wanted a divorce before the affair was discovered, up until that point I did want to work it outSo your wife cheated on you
And she wants a divorce.... do you not?
And she wants a divorce.... do you not?
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Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
Lmao @ taking a cheating womans word straight to the bank.Here's the last page that you actively posted on. Let me know if you want more bro.
Legally she is entitled to half. When she finds out that if she has kids for 250 nights out there year or more, she is also entitled to child support, she will fight for 251 nights. Just watch.
All north Carolina law based^
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lol at thinking you wont get divorced in this day and age
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
It happens brother.Back in my scummy days I am ashamed to admit I fukked a few women in these types of situations
I guess karma is a bitch
I guess karma is a bitch
A hit was sent, from the President, to raid your residence /
Because you had secret evidence, and documents /
On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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