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post 1559799601 08-27-2018, 08:37 AM
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why do guys settle down with women who have no future?

just lol at some of the guys I know getting married this fall to their washout girlfriends

> brb liberal arts majors
> brb making poverty salaries
> brb no life outside of work and their relationship
> brb almost all the women want kids within the next 2 years
> brb never go to the gym

Can't wait to see these fukers in a few years with 10 kids and complaining about how hard they have it when you choose your own future and lifestyle.

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post 1559799761 08-27-2018, 08:38 AM
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I don't though. I never settle.
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post 1559799771 08-27-2018, 08:38 AM
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"Men don't care about women's prospects/career" is a common form of bullchit spouted on the misc.

Brb, be super successful and marry some dumb sloot with nothing going for her so she can leave you and collect alimony forever.

Smart.
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post 1559799791 08-27-2018, 08:38 AM
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guys need to take what they get so theydont jerk off
post 1559799821 08-27-2018, 08:39 AM
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Because they're raised with the mentality that they need to provide.
post 1559799911 08-27-2018, 08:40 AM
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Not sure why guys marry any women when their looks are going to fade in no time. I'll continue to smash beautiful young women all over the world instead. Very glad I'm a shallow mofo.

btw welcome back OP
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Some people are desperate for "love" and it can go both ways.


I've seen both guys and girls marry people I know they arent actually in love with but think marriage will make them fall in love which is the dumbest logic ever. They are miserable after like a year of marriage and either stick it out or have a kid thinking a family will make it better.

Logic of piss.
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
"Men don't care about women's prospects/career" is a common form of bullchit spouted on the misc.

Brb, be super successful and marry some dumb sloot with nothing going for her so she can leave you and collect alimony forever.

Smart.
Dumbest chit. Read about how much the wife of a billionaire gets after she leaves him for the mail guy. Disgusting.
Originally Posted By DesiredUser****⏩
Not sure why guys marry any women when their looks are going to fade in no time. I'll continue to smash beautiful young women all over the world instead. Very glad I'm a shallow mofo.

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post 1559800291 08-27-2018, 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****⏩
Not sure why guys marry any women when their looks are going to fade in no time. I'll continue to smash beautiful young women all over the world instead. Very glad I'm a shallow mofo.

btw welcome back OP
Do you consider yourself a sociopath?

Curious.

Also, looking forward to your future life of banging prozzies because young women aren't going to sleep with you forever.
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post 1559800431 08-27-2018, 08:46 AM
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Originally Posted By devin45k⏩
Some people are desperate for "love" and it can go both ways.


I've seen both guys and girls marry people I know they arent actually in love with but think marriage will make them fall in love which is the dumbest logic ever. They are miserable after like a year of marriage and either stick it out or have a kid thinking a family will make it better.

Logic of piss.
I always lol @ the red pill logic that a woman can be anything as long as she's hot. Yes, for banging, sure but no man worth his salt is going to marry a Wendy's cashier.

Dumb genes of peace for the children, just lol.

Most men I interact with prioritize other things, but they will take a 7/10 doctor, lawyer, teacher etc over a 8/10 check out girl when they are looking for a wife.
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post 1559800471 08-27-2018, 08:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
Do you consider yourself a sociopath?

Curious.

Also, looking forward to your future life of banging prozzies because young women aren't going to sleep with you forever.
Jake's on you, young chicks are sloots
post 1559800761 08-27-2018, 08:50 AM
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Because it must mean that they are "alpha", as society essentially indoctrinates men into believing that they must settle and date-down at the least... to have "value" as a man. Oh and it means they can get laid! Wow-wee. Meanwhile, she has access to your hard-earned resources you got through years of sacrifices and education etc..

Lesson to learn: Don't be a cuck
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post 1559800841 08-27-2018, 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted By devin45k⏩
Some people are desperate for "love" and it can go both ways.


I've seen both guys and girls marry people I know they arent actually in love with but think marriage will make them fall in love which is the dumbest logic ever. They are miserable after like a year of marriage and either stick it out or have a kid thinking a family will make it better.

Logic of piss.
Logic of poverty. Seeing an already struggling couple with a kid on the way makes me cringe @ the chit life the kid is about to have.
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post 1559800861 08-27-2018, 08:51 AM
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Originally Posted By TacticalTaco⏩
Jake's on you, young chicks are sloots
20 year old women do not want to sleep with men in their 40's, 50's and beyond unless they are literal whores and are being paid.

Jokes on you, men age too and most of you lose all your hair and turn into dad bod bloat lords.

Marriage was invented partially so that you have someone to be old and ugly with. Nobody is going to want you when you're 85. This applies to both genders.
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post 1559800931 08-27-2018, 08:52 AM
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lol'd @ settling with women who want to pursue careers
post 1559801001 08-27-2018, 08:53 AM
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Makes me laugh hard when I reflect on all the dweebs from my high school year who fell "prey" to the premise that they must settle down quickly.

Brb, married by 20-25.
Brb, several kids
Brb, wife's hit the wall early
Brb, accelerated your life by a good 10 years when you could have been spending time on yourself, getting yucky with the boys, and dating hot girls
Brb, mid-life crisis
Brb, "what if I didn't do this?"
Originally Posted By faketaxidriver⏩
lol'd @ settling with women who want to pursue careers
Lmao @ settling with women who have no goals/aspirations for anything great.
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post 1559801181 08-27-2018, 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious⏩
Makes me laugh hard when I reflect on all the dweebs from my high school year who fell "prey" to the premise that they must settle down quickly.

Brb, married by 20-25.
Brb, several kids
Brb, wife's hit the wall early
Brb, accelerated your life by a good 10 years when you could have been spending time on yourself, getting yucky with the boys, and dating hot girls
Brb, mid-life crisis
Brb, "what if I didn't do this?"
It's cope that all men can delay LTRs and just bang hot girls forever. It's a very small percentage of men who are actually desirable enough to do this.

The majority of you should get cracking so that you can pass on your poverty genes and have someone to wash the chit stains out of your underwear when you've been savagely rekt by the Norwood Reaper.

Most people are not that desirable, thus why they must pair off. Only the TOP PERCENTAGE gets to have their cake and eat it too forever.
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post 1559801191 08-27-2018, 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
20 year old women do not want to sleep with men in their 40's, 50's and beyond unless they are literal whores and are being paid.

Jokes on you, men age too and most of you lose all your hair and turn into dad bod bloat lords.

Marriage was invented partially so that you have someone to be old and ugly with. Nobody is going to want you when you're 85. This applies to both genders.
Men who have accumulated wealth and status, and looked after themselves in their 30s and even 40s... still have better access to women in their mid-late 20s/30s, than women do in the same situation vice versa.

You'd have to be a special kind of cuck to want to be with a 40 year old woman long-term, as a 24 year old guy.

Power dynamics do shift a lot past 30, if the guy has taken care of many things in his life, and he looks youthful.
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post 1559801311 08-27-2018, 08:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious⏩
Lmao @ settling with women who have no goals/aspirations for anything great.
Children are pretty great in my book.
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Originally Posted By faketaxidriver⏩
Children are pretty great in my book.
Money for the household is pretty great, in my book.
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Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious⏩
Men who have accumulated wealth and status, and looked after themselves in their 30s and even 40s... still have better access to women in their mid-late 20s/30s, than women do in the same situation vice versa.

You'd have to be a special kind of cuck to want to be with a 40 year old woman long-term, as a 24 year old guy.

Power dynamics do shift a lot past 30, if the guy has taken care of many things in his life, and he looks youthful.
Once again, we are talking very small percentages. Look after themselves my ass, most of you aren't that attractive to begin with and physically it is all downhill after your 20's and 30's.

Most men shouldn't bet on being able to do this.
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Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious⏩
Money for the household is pretty great, in my book.
Sending your children to daycare isn't that great, in my book.
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That seems to be the norm OP. Where are you supposed to find good girls who dont party and drink all day?
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
Once again, we are talking very small percentages. Look after themselves my ass, most of you aren't that attractive to begin with and physically it is all downhill after your 20's and 30's.

Most men shouldn't bet on being able to do this.
You're just bitter that this is the reality - men have far more bargaining power than women do, when they are past 30.

Compared to a guy who is 20... a guy who is 30-35 who has progressed in their career, own their own house, saved $$$ and kept fit, has far more potential than the majority of women... who hit the proverbial wall by the time they are ~27/28 and pissed away most of their useful time on "drinks with the girls", not working towards any meaningful career, and floundering around the cawk-carousel as much as they can (Tinder/bars etc) because they know their looks will plummet quite soon.

Lmao

Please, give me some more salty tears.


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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
Do you consider yourself a sociopath?

Curious.

Also, looking forward to your future life of banging prozzies because young women aren't going to sleep with you forever.
No ma'am. I have a conscience and am far from antisocial. I could go deeper into why I'm not but you don't like me so you won't believe anything I say anyway. I'll be sleeping with younger women until the day I die. You'll be washed up in a few short years and never make anywhere near 100k. Looking forward to your updates though hehe.
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what? Most women quit their jobs after they have a kid anyways, so really does it even matter? not to sound chauvenistic, but that's the reality.
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Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious⏩
You're just bitter that this is the reality - men have far more bargaining power than women do, when they are past 30.

Compared to a guy who is 20... a guy who is 30-35 who has progressed in their career, own their own house, saved $$$ and kept fit, has far more potential than the majority of women... who hit the proverbial wall by the time they are ~27/28.

Lmao

Please, give me some more salty tears.


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I find it really funny that you think I'm salty.

I just think your Red Pill thinking skews things way out of proportion. Older men do have an advantage over older women (if they are rich) but women are not done at 27 and men cannot go on until 90.

It's not as dire as you make it seem.
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****⏩
No ma'am. I have a conscience and am far from antisocial. I could go deeper into why I'm not but you don't like me so you won't believe anything I say anyway. I'll be sleeping with younger women until the day I die. You'll be washed up in a few short years and never make anywhere near 100k. Looking forward to your updates though hehe.
Had you stopped there and not added your salty little zinger at the end, you would have gotten some greens.

Enjoy your prostitutes.
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