Log In

Your email is not your username

Register

If you were a member of the old Bodybuilding.com forums and would like to reuse your previous username, you can request it below. We use your email only for registration and do not store it. For more information, please see our Privacy Policy.

Confirm your email

A registration code was sent to your email. Enter it here.

Welcome

You have successfully setup your account.

Sign in

Quick Navigation Bottom Misc
Forum
» why do guys settle down with women who have no future?
  1. Results 61 to 90 of 172
  2. First
  3. 1
  4. 2
  5. 3
  6. 4
  7. 5
  8. Last
post 1559804541 08-27-2018, 09:45 AM
-
#61
  1. sdoo
  2. Registered User
  1. sdoo
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Feb 2014
  4. Location: Canada
  5. Age: 33
  6. Posts: 2,963
  7. Rep Power: 2748
Originally Posted By mchabs
if a girl doesn't have her chit together and doesn't support herself, i won't even give her the time of day.

brb living with parents at age 28, working as a receptionist for 30k/ year. taking time off to "travel" and "wanderlust" while staying at resorts and getting hammered.

absolutely haram
Nothing more depressing than a woman entering her 30s with no family nor children

Don't forget to pick up cat litter on the way home lmfao
Walt Disney lied to us
5% Whatever it takes
post 1559804551 08-27-2018, 09:46 AM
-
#62
  1. Ashfrolicious
  2. Registered User
  1. Ashfrolicious
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: May 2011
  4. Location: The Vagina, Australia
  5. Posts: 8,895
  6. Rep Power: 15910
Originally Posted By Maylie
Nothing, it's just evident to me that he isn't.
I'm mixed Polynesian.

Again, that's that point of relevance to this?



Did you honestly think that the Eddie Murphy shop in my avi, is me? Holy fk you're a special kind of stupid.
Positive Crew
Dentist Crew
Seen the Eiffel Tower but haven't been to France Crew

"Your thoughts become your beliefs. Your beliefs become your words. Your words become your actions. Your actions become your habits. Your habits become your values. Your values become your destiny."
post 1559804611 08-27-2018, 09:46 AM
-
#63
  1. ssilv
  2. Anti-State
  1. ssilv
  2. Anti-State
  3. Join Date: Oct 2016
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 3,092
  6. Rep Power: 36485
Originally Posted By lilbloaty
i don't pay chit boyo, my ex studies and they cover it all

also 5k a year is nothing anyway lol
> i dont pay chit
> my child lives with me

Exactly why you shouldn't have a kid. TF you mean you don't pay chit? If the kid lives with you, you are paying something. Obviously not paying your dues in the gym looking like a stack of bubblegum
6'2" | 257lbs

Progress, Not Perfection.
post 1559804701 08-27-2018, 09:47 AM
-
#64
  1. Maylie
  2. Registered User
  1. Maylie
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Oct 2013
  4. Location: United States Virgin Islands
  5. Posts: 6,868
  6. Rep Power: 38440
Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious
I'm mixed Polynesian.

Again, that's that point of relevance to this?
Listen, I'm not out to make it a big deal. I just think your name and avi made me think you were black and then it became pretty apparent to me that you weren't.

Peace, bro. We disagree, clearly but I can see some grains of truths in your points. I just think per usual, the red pill is overly hard on women and overly optimistic about men.

Would make sense given the target audience of bitter virgins who need to believe their "time will come" when they are past 35.

As a family oriented, rather conservative woman I will say this: you can't tell women to marry young and not sloot around and tell men to do the opposite. It doesn't work.

We can't marry if all the men are out whoring. Thus, everyone ends up unhappy except the top percentage of men and society goes to chit, you get incels etc....there needs to be some kind of balance.
Be patient like the mountain. And you will learn to be strong.

100% serious 50% of the time.
post 1559804711 08-27-2018, 09:48 AM
-
#65
  1. bchap05
  2. Registered User
  1. bchap05
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Nov 2011
  4. Age: 43
  5. Posts: 5,136
  6. Rep Power: 18271
Before we got married my wife and I had broken up and I started dating some chick like this. Lazy as phuck, made like minimum wage, didn't work out, didn't like physical activities such as hiking, but was hot, had the perfect body type I like and lovvvvveeed banging. Legit banged like 2-3 times a day for 3 months. Would wake me up in the middle of night playing with my dink. Chick was a true dink fiend. Was pretty into her but couldn't get over the laziness.

Ended up ending and going back to then ex who I got married to. She owns her own house, makes almost 6 figures, etc. The sex was amazing but once it got to the point it lost its new excitement I wanted the more successful person again
post 1559804751 08-27-2018, 09:48 AM
-
#66
  1. Frank Drebin
  2. Cutting
  1. Frank Drebin
  2. Cutting
  3. Join Date: Jul 2007
  4. Location: Canada
  5. Posts: 24,590
  6. Rep Power: 86323
Why get married to a woman who wants kids in 2 years?

Son, you probably think the biggest benefit of being married is buying a bigger house.
post 1559804951 08-27-2018, 09:51 AM
-
#67
  1. CaliSuperSport
  2. Mercenary. Non-negotiable
  1. CaliSuperSport
  2. Mercenary. Non-negotiable
  3. Join Date: Apr 2012
  4. Location: Sacramento, California, United States
  5. Posts: 47,223
  6. Rep Power: 275363
Originally Posted By Gringo12
Couldn’t careless what she does for a job, the end goal results in her taking years off and raising kids anyway.

I’d rather settle down with a waitress than a college graduate with 100k debt.
Depends what the debt is for. If that 100k is towards being a Nurse Practitioner that's a very positive future.

If it's for interior design and or they're not doing anything with the degree, that's a huge difference.
ωσяℓ∂ тяανєℓєя ȼяєω
Pre-Med crew
★ NUFC ☆
₪ DEFQON.1 AUSTRALIA 2016 ₪
177 lbs | O: 165 /// B: 275 /// S: 335 /// D: 390
post 1559805401 08-27-2018, 09:57 AM
-
#68
  1. lilbloaty
  2. Registered User
  1. lilbloaty
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Feb 2018
  4. Posts: 2,838
  5. Rep Power: 11291
Originally Posted By ssilv
> i dont pay chit
> my child lives with me

Exactly why you shouldn't have a kid. TF you mean you don't pay chit? If the kid lives with you, you are paying something. Obviously not paying your dues in the gym looking like a stack of bubblegum
lol @ how hateful you are, the "don't pay chit" was referring to your point about child support, which was the only thing you mentioned

i run my own business and have no issues with money, i've also recognised that i need to sort myself out physically and am attempting to #selfimprove, so stop being a #hateful *******
lilbloaty crew lol
post 1559805871 08-27-2018, 10:03 AM
-
#69
  1. RightKindaGuy
  2. ▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀
  1. RightKindaGuy
  2. ▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀
  3. Join Date: Feb 2012
  4. Location: San Diego, California, United States
  5. Posts: 4,126
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By ssilv
why do guys settle down with women
seriously, why?

the thought of banging the same old decrepit vagina for the rest of my life just seems so unnatural.

strong following of societys life plan (cringe)
▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄

**
*Anti Marriage Crew*
**

▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄▀▄,
post 1559806171 08-27-2018, 10:06 AM
-
#70
  1. onemoresi
  2. Registered User
  1. onemoresi
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Apr 2007
  4. Location: United Kingdom (Great Britain)
  5. Age: 46
  6. Posts: 1,027
  7. Rep Power: 2961
Because the brahs also have the same ceiling.
I have a fince of 5 years who is a qualified vet, that cerebral connection and hard work ethic>the superficial
Lift For Life
post 1559806261 08-27-2018, 10:07 AM
-
#71
  1. DesiredUserphag
  2. 1:12TilTheDayIFukinDie
  1. DesiredUserphag
  2. 1:12TilTheDayIFukinDie
  3. Join Date: Sep 2014
  4. Posts: 40,176
  5. Rep Power: 397140
Originally Posted By ssilv
looking like a stack of bubblegum
hah... GOT HEEM
𝗣𝗨𝗥𝗘𝗕𝗟𝗢𝗢𝗗
ωσяℓ∂ тяανєℓєя ȼяєω ₅₀/₁₉₅
𝕬𝖊𝖘𝖙𝖍𝖊𝖙𝖎𝖈𝖆𝖑𝖑𝖞 𝕮𝖚𝖙 𝕸𝖆𝖘𝖙𝖊𝖗 𝕽𝖆𝖈𝖊 ®
ᗪIᔕᑕᖇIᗰIᑎᗩTIOᑎ E᙭ᑕᒪᑌᔕIOᑎ IᑎᗪOᑕTᖇIᑎᗩTIOᑎ
post 1559806361 08-27-2018, 10:08 AM
-
#72
  1. ssilv
  2. Anti-State
  1. ssilv
  2. Anti-State
  3. Join Date: Oct 2016
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 3,092
  6. Rep Power: 36485
Originally Posted By lilbloaty
lol @ how hateful you are, the "don't pay chit" was referring to your point about child support, which was the only thing you mentioned

i run my own business and have no issues with money, i've also recognised that i need to sort myself out physically and am attempting to #selfimprove, so stop being a #hateful *******
no one on misc has issues with money you delusional cuck. its funny watching you justify having a kid with a woman who is no longer in your life anymore and no matter what happens now, every morning you have to wake up to that kid and remember the huge mistake you made in even reproducing with the prior chit-tier female that settled for a guy who doesn't even lift.
6'2" | 257lbs

Progress, Not Perfection.
post 1559806451 08-27-2018, 10:09 AM
-
#73
  1. chickenbroccoli
  2. Registered User
  1. chickenbroccoli
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: May 2015
  4. Posts: 5,971
  5. Rep Power: 7623
It’s better than jerking it
post 1559806771 08-27-2018, 10:12 AM
-
#74
  1. JoshSP1985
  2. Anti-Circumcision
  1. JoshSP1985
  2. Anti-Circumcision
  3. Join Date: Aug 2009
  4. Location: Franklin, Indiana, United States
  5. Posts: 66,936
  6. Rep Power: 214514
Originally Posted By Maylie
"Men don't care about women's prospects/career" is a common form of bullchit spouted on the misc.

Brb, be super successful and marry some dumb sloot with nothing going for her so she can leave you and collect alimony forever.

Smart.
This, a stay at home wife seems like the worst possible thing you can do if you want a long term marriage. Can't imagine anyone can survive getting poisoned by day time TV for years.
*PUREBLOOD CREW*
*DAD CREW*
*SUPER STRAIGHT*
*NATURAL DICK CREW*
*CCW*
post 1559806981 08-27-2018, 10:14 AM
-
#75
  1. quadfecta
  2. Registered User
  1. quadfecta
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Nov 2015
  4. Age: 36
  5. Posts: 23,282
  6. Rep Power: 100308
The same reason sloots settle down with males who have no future. My sister is doing it and I suspect it’s basically because she has no other friends and realizes how lonely she would be without him. She met him in high school so she’s pretty much stuck with him for life if she doesn’t want to struggling meeting some other loser to shack up with
post 1559807001 08-27-2018, 10:14 AM
-
#76
  1. lilbloaty
  2. Registered User
  1. lilbloaty
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Feb 2018
  4. Posts: 2,838
  5. Rep Power: 11291
Originally Posted By ssilv
no one on misc has issues with money you delusional cuck. its funny watching you justify having a kid with a woman who is no longer in your life anymore and no matter what happens now, every morning you have to wake up to that kid and remember the huge mistake you made in even reproducing with the prior chit-tier female that settled for a guy who doesn't even lift.
chit happens in life *******, as you will know yourself because there's 100% a deep-seated reason why you're such a kunt

the baby obviously wasn't planned and she didn't want an abortion, should i have left her and my son instead like every other dad?

i'm not a cuck in any sense of the word and my profile pic is my horrible skinnyfat body, if i had money issues i would be complaining about it on this forum.
lilbloaty crew lol
post 1559809821 08-27-2018, 10:42 AM
-
#77
  1. tunafish01
  2. Registered User
  1. tunafish01
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jul 2017
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 2,393
  6. Rep Power: 5787
Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious
I'm mixed Polynesian.

Again, that's that point of relevance to this?



Mind is blown. Thought that was you with a hat for so long

Did you honestly think that the Eddie Murphy shop in my avi, is me? Holy fk you're a special kind of stupid.
Originally Posted By Maylie
Listen, I'm not out to make it a big deal. I just think your name and avi made me think you were black and then it became pretty apparent to me that you weren't.

Peace, bro. We disagree, clearly but I can see some grains of truths in your points. I just think per usual, the red pill is overly hard on women and overly optimistic about men.

Would make sense given the target audience of bitter virgins who need to believe their "time will come" when they are past 35.

As a family oriented, rather conservative woman I will say this: you can't tell women to marry young and not sloot around and tell men to do the opposite. It doesn't work.

We can't marry if all the men are out whoring. Thus, everyone ends up unhappy except the top percentage of men and society goes to chit, you get incels etc....there needs to be some kind of balance.
LOL. You know how many girls I see that sound like you? I will put money you will be single by 27 srs.
post 1559810331 08-27-2018, 10:47 AM
-
#78
  1. Maylie
  2. Registered User
  1. Maylie
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Oct 2013
  4. Location: United States Virgin Islands
  5. Posts: 6,868
  6. Rep Power: 38440
Originally Posted By tunafish01
LOL. You know how many girls I see that sound like you? I will put money you will be single by 27 srs.
Misc: complains all women are sloots who only wants Chad

brb, woman actually wants to re-instate traditional dating where both sexes prioritize feelings over base hedonism

Attack her relentlessly.

Ok, dumbass.
Be patient like the mountain. And you will learn to be strong.

100% serious 50% of the time.
post 1559812801 08-27-2018, 11:12 AM
-
#79
  1. canonhope
  2. Misc Apocalypse
  1. canonhope
  2. Misc Apocalypse
  3. Join Date: Feb 2010
  4. Location: Atlanta, Georgia, United States
  5. Age: 44
  6. Posts: 6,031
  7. Rep Power: 30662
Originally Posted By JoshSP1985
This, a stay at home wife seems like the worst possible thing you can do if you want a long term marriage. Can't imagine anyone can survive getting poisoned by day time TV for years.
Depends on the personality. I have two friends with wives who stay home, and so far so good.

1) An engineering degree and started her career with the US Patent office. She quit to be a stay at home mom which was always THEIR plan. Two young kids, very active in their lives.

2) Never finished college because husband didn't want her to. She has 3 teens right now who she homeschooled herself. Oldest son has really good college prospects in his senior year of high school now (however that works in homeschooling lol). My friend is a science/engineering geek whose father started a small company, and now he is a big part of it. When her first child was a baby, she was feeling down and wanted to finish her degree but my friend straight-up told her there's no point because he will provide for the family. Don't know how she feels about it now after all these years but her kids are doing great.
Chaos and apocalypse on us all
Let them burn to dust.

*Mirin your daughters and their daughters teddies crew*
*Scummy crew
post 1559813511 08-27-2018, 11:19 AM
-
#80
  1. BustaCapp
  2. Delivering Negs
  1. BustaCapp
  2. Delivering Negs
  3. Join Date: Dec 2002
  4. Location: Merseyside, The North, United Kingdom (Great Britain)
  5. Posts: 27,158
  6. Rep Power: 346296
Because not everyone is a cynical sociopath that only ever thinks about themselves and their financial status etc.

Pretty sad outlook you have tbh.
fist yourself
post 1559813871 08-27-2018, 11:22 AM
-
#81
  1. NeedToBang
  2. Registered User
  1. NeedToBang
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Dec 2015
  4. Posts: 540
  5. Rep Power: 0
happens a lot, pussy too strong i guess.

i do question how you can settle with someone that wouldn't be able to survive without you rofl.

i mean some of these guys are basically supporting 2 people on 1 persons salary.

But if that's what they want then so be it, defo not for me.
post 1559813881 08-27-2018, 11:22 AM
-
#82
  1. Frank Drebin
  2. Cutting
  1. Frank Drebin
  2. Cutting
  3. Join Date: Jul 2007
  4. Location: Canada
  5. Posts: 24,590
  6. Rep Power: 86323
Originally Posted By canonhope
Depends on the personality. I have two friends with wives who stay home, and so far so good.

1) An engineering degree and started her career with the US Patent office. She quit to be a stay at home mom which was always THEIR plan. Two young kids, very active in their lives.

2) Never finished college because husband didn't want her to. She has 3 teens right now who she homeschooled herself. Oldest son has really good college prospects in his senior year of high school now (however that works in homeschooling lol). My friend is a science/engineering geek whose father started a small company, and now he is a big part of it. When her first child was a baby, she was feeling down and wanted to finish her degree but my friend straight-up told her there's no point because he will provide for the family. Don't know how she feels about it now after all these years but her kids are doing great.
My wife stayed at home with the kids, I like the idea of a stay at home mom for both financial and family reasons. (If your wife makes 3k a month it makes no sense to pay 1800 a month towards daycare)

I'm against the idea of stay at home wives however. When the kids are in school all day, what do they do? Gym/coffee/gossip/shop? Even if you don't make that much, its not fair that your husband has to work and you don't.
post 1559813921 08-27-2018, 11:23 AM
-
#83
  1. DirtyDon123
  2. Banned
  1. DirtyDon123
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Sep 2008
  4. Location: United Kingdom (Great Britain)
  5. Posts: 16,261
  6. Rep Power: 0
A good education or good professional development is important in a woman, it shows drive and ambition.

I like women who work hard and have goals

If a woman is driven in her education/continued development it says a lot about her character imo

Only date STEM masterrace women

Learnt the hard way about dating the godless liberal hoes out there
post 1559815011 08-27-2018, 11:33 AM
-
#84
  1. Cannondella
  2. Registered User
  1. Cannondella
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2018
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 658
  6. Rep Power: 0
Originally Posted By Maylie
Once again, we are talking very small percentages. Look after themselves my ass, most of you aren't that attractive to begin with and physically it is all downhill after your 20's and 30's.

Most men shouldn't bet on being able to do this.
nah pussy is really just free after 30 for guys and women start going the other way.
post 1559815211 08-27-2018, 11:35 AM
-
#85
  1. TrickHenry
  2. autist detective
  1. TrickHenry
  2. autist detective
  3. Join Date: Jul 2014
  4. Location: baker street, United Kingdom (Great Britain)
  5. Posts: 5,504
  6. Rep Power: 23271
just want someone who is loving and supportive. couldn't give a phuck about what they do as long as they are passionate about it.
I laugh I rep crew
always picks 5 crew
LTC and proud.
No teddies, small ass and wide shoulders.
post 1559816161 08-27-2018, 11:47 AM
-
#86
  1. ssilv
  2. Anti-State
  1. ssilv
  2. Anti-State
  3. Join Date: Oct 2016
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 3,092
  6. Rep Power: 36485
Originally Posted By BustaCapp
Because not everyone is a cynical sociopath that only ever thinks about themselves and their financial status etc.

Pretty sad outlook you have tbh.
because at the end of the day everyone has to survive and basically beat inflation every year to stay above the poverty line.

6'2" | 257lbs

Progress, Not Perfection.
post 1559823481 08-27-2018, 01:13 PM
-
#87
  1. roko79
  2. Eating Machine
  1. roko79
  2. Eating Machine
  3. Join Date: Jan 2010
  4. Location: New Jersey, United States
  5. Posts: 22,196
  6. Rep Power: 62546
One of my high school classmates got married to this Mexican broad who can barely speak English, and already had 3 kids. Meanwhile the dude is a stereotype emotional retard trumper and spews his Hannity talking points on ******** every day. They got engaged, bought a home together, and within 1 year had split up. Lmfao.
If you are not willing to risk the unusual, you will have to settle for the ordinary

**New Jersey Crew 908**
Upstream, Red Team
post 1559823661 08-27-2018, 01:15 PM
-
#88
  1. BlotterBrah
  2. Registered User
  1. BlotterBrah
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Sep 2014
  4. Location: Australia
  5. Age: 34
  6. Posts: 3,338
  7. Rep Power: 1951
Because men just want something pretty to put their penor inside. It's just how we evolved unfortunately. It's the burden we carry every day of our lives.
*kormo is kool, I'm just mad cause he's stylin on me*
*kormo is kool, I'm just mad cause he's stylin on me*
*kormo is kool, I'm just mad cause he's stylin on me*
*kormo is kool, I'm just mad cause he's stylin on me*
*kormo is kool, I'm just mad cause he's stylin on me*
*kormo is kool, I'm just mad cause he's stylin on me*
*kormo is kool, I'm just mad cause he's stylin on me*
post 1559825471 08-27-2018, 01:33 PM
-
#89
  1. seanb1979
  2. Platinum User
  1. seanb1979
  2. Platinum User
  3. Join Date: Dec 2006
  4. Location: Boise, Idaho, United States
  5. Posts: 48,650
  6. Rep Power: 150567
It's hard enough to find a decent woman without using the million filters that women themselves use.
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXGZu4yxjW0
post 1559825901 08-27-2018, 01:37 PM
-
#90
  1. AstheticPunjabi
  2. Registered User
  1. AstheticPunjabi
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Aug 2017
  4. Age: 32
  5. Posts: 492
  6. Rep Power: 3146
I think men only marry in their 20s due to pressure of society/fam, etc
5'11
182 pounds- fit

now 204 and fat :(
Quick Navigation Top Misc
Bookmarks
Digg.com
Digg
del.icio.us
del.icio.us
Stumbleupon.com
StumbleUpon
Google.com
Google
Facebook.com
Facebook
Posting Permissions
  1. You may not post new threads
  2. You may not post replies
  3. You may not post attachments
  4. You may not edit your posts