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08-25-2018, 01:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
If she was just a pretty ditz, I could see where you're coming from, but she MIGHT be a really interesting person.What opportunity man? She has friendszoned you before the coffee meeting (note meeting not date) has even occurred. It will only upset you following through with it given you like her and there's no hope. You can discontinue your highly unsocial existence by putting yourself out there and pursuing other women who are interested in you. You on dating sites or anything? Go out, etc? If not, consider it.
And it really won't upset me. It might have done in my early/mid 20s, but not now. At 33 years of age you have a fairly good idea of how desireable you are, and women not wanting anything to do with me romantically is simply the NORM at this point.
As for putting myself out there, I will admit there's room for improvement in that area, but I'm not a total hermit and I've tried several things in the past without much luck.
Dating sites? I've tried - i'm nowhere near aesthetic enough.
I think you've mistaken me for a guy who has a plethora of options.
08-25-2018, 09:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
Meeting Nitro at a BBQ:^^^^^ The only one that i've noticed who is doing this is Nitro lol. Don't be so hard on yourself.
"yeah man, welcome to the BBQ....this here is jessica, friends from back in college. great girl, makes a stellar margarita, sometimes we'll hang out and make mexi food, bang a few times, but its all cool, we just like to have fun.
oh that there is sarah, moved here three years ago from new york for a lawyer gig. great friend of ours too, lemme tell ya....gives a mean BJ when she is in between relationships.
oh I almost forgot, heres amanda, known her since 4th grade, probably one ofmy best friend lady friends. took her virginity at prom - you know..just as friends...we needed other people to go with. she's really tight...nom sayin'...lulz
but honeslty, we all good friends here, sometimes you hang around the same women for a while, and you just bang em, doesn't mean anything, we are just humans you know?"
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08-27-2018, 07:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I don't have any female friends, but ye I'd say that's pretty normal. Nitro just seems to hang out with a bunch of nymphos and general trashy women.
Originally Posted By psychosylocibin⏩
**sheds tear**Meeting Nitro at a BBQ:
"yeah man, welcome to the BBQ....this here is jessica, friends from back in college. great girl, makes a stellar margarita, sometimes we'll hang out and make mexi food, bang a few times, but its all cool, we just like to have fun.
oh that there is sarah, moved here three years ago from new york for a lawyer gig. great friend of ours too, lemme tell ya....gives a mean BJ when she is in between relationships.
oh I almost forgot, heres amanda, known her since 4th grade, probably one ofmy best friend lady friends. took her virginity at prom - you know..just as friends...we needed other people to go with. she's really tight...nom sayin'...lulz
but honeslty, we all good friends here, sometimes you hang around the same women for a while, and you just bang em, doesn't mean anything, we are just humans you know?"
"yeah man, welcome to the BBQ....this here is jessica, friends from back in college. great girl, makes a stellar margarita, sometimes we'll hang out and make mexi food, bang a few times, but its all cool, we just like to have fun.
oh that there is sarah, moved here three years ago from new york for a lawyer gig. great friend of ours too, lemme tell ya....gives a mean BJ when she is in between relationships.
oh I almost forgot, heres amanda, known her since 4th grade, probably one ofmy best friend lady friends. took her virginity at prom - you know..just as friends...we needed other people to go with. she's really tight...nom sayin'...lulz
but honeslty, we all good friends here, sometimes you hang around the same women for a while, and you just bang em, doesn't mean anything, we are just humans you know?"
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
The problem is she is an interesting person whom you want to be with. So you are teasing yourself really.If she was just a pretty ditz, I could see where you're coming from, but she MIGHT be a really interesting person.
And it really won't upset me. It might have done in my early/mid 20s, but not now. At 33 years of age you have a fairly good idea of how desireable you are, and women not wanting anything to do with me romantically is simply the NORM at this point.
As for putting myself out there, I will admit there's room for improvement in that area, but I'm not a total hermit and I've tried several things in the past without much luck.
Dating sites? I've tried - i'm nowhere near aesthetic enough.
I think you've mistaken me for a guy who has a plethora of options.
And it really won't upset me. It might have done in my early/mid 20s, but not now. At 33 years of age you have a fairly good idea of how desireable you are, and women not wanting anything to do with me romantically is simply the NORM at this point.
As for putting myself out there, I will admit there's room for improvement in that area, but I'm not a total hermit and I've tried several things in the past without much luck.
Dating sites? I've tried - i'm nowhere near aesthetic enough.
I think you've mistaken me for a guy who has a plethora of options.
If it makes you feel better, it took me and all the other average looking dudes time to find women to go on dates with as well. You could also go out if you want quicker results. What do you rate yourself.
08-27-2018, 02:47 PM
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Honestly mind boggling and eye opening at the power of social circle game.
I’ve been on a 2 month dryspell trying online dating pof/ tinder.
Sure I get matches but I honestly don’t put in much effort or really care using them and kind of got tilted at not even pulling fat chicks on pof.
Said **** it al, Invited a female coworker over with a male friend one and asked her to bring some friends for us.
Her friend was a hb7/10 who I ended up vibing with and smashing that night.
Was shocking how she was p receptive compared to chicks I try picking up at the club or online and social circle game is probably going to be my main method whenever possible.
Sure not all chicks are going to be that easy but il probably try having more female friends instead of just avoiding them when trying to freindzone me, obviously not going to try being their tampon or anything though
I’ve been on a 2 month dryspell trying online dating pof/ tinder.
Sure I get matches but I honestly don’t put in much effort or really care using them and kind of got tilted at not even pulling fat chicks on pof.
Said **** it al, Invited a female coworker over with a male friend one and asked her to bring some friends for us.
Her friend was a hb7/10 who I ended up vibing with and smashing that night.
Was shocking how she was p receptive compared to chicks I try picking up at the club or online and social circle game is probably going to be my main method whenever possible.
Sure not all chicks are going to be that easy but il probably try having more female friends instead of just avoiding them when trying to freindzone me, obviously not going to try being their tampon or anything though
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08-27-2018, 09:07 PM
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08-27-2018, 09:16 PM
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Originally Posted By newbuck⏩
That’s a good observation. Honestly I think most 7+ chicks get enough attention and action outside of online dating which is why they flake/ghost so much.Honestly mind boggling and eye opening at the power of social circle game.
I’ve been on a 2 month dryspell trying online dating pof/ tinder.
Sure I get matches but I honestly don’t put in much effort or really care using them and kind of got tilted at not even pulling fat chicks on pof.
Said **** it al, Invited a female coworker over with a male friend one and asked her to bring some friends for us.
Her friend was a hb7/10 who I ended up vibing with and smashing that night.
Was shocking how she was p receptive compared to chicks I try picking up at the club or online and social circle game is probably going to be my main method whenever possible.
Sure not all chicks are going to be that easy but il probably try having more female friends instead of just avoiding them when trying to freindzone me, obviously not going to try being their tampon or anything though
I’ve been on a 2 month dryspell trying online dating pof/ tinder.
Sure I get matches but I honestly don’t put in much effort or really care using them and kind of got tilted at not even pulling fat chicks on pof.
Said **** it al, Invited a female coworker over with a male friend one and asked her to bring some friends for us.
Her friend was a hb7/10 who I ended up vibing with and smashing that night.
Was shocking how she was p receptive compared to chicks I try picking up at the club or online and social circle game is probably going to be my main method whenever possible.
Sure not all chicks are going to be that easy but il probably try having more female friends instead of just avoiding them when trying to freindzone me, obviously not going to try being their tampon or anything though
When you met in person via a friend you already has some social proof. Plus there was less “pressure” since it wasn’t technically a date, and she wouldn’t be stuck with a creep.
I should probably try stay friends with some of these women that I don’t want to pursue romantically.
𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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08-27-2018, 09:35 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I've been trying to say this for awhile yet miscers thinks it's "beta" to be friends with women. Newsflash attractive successful people are usually not on Bumble, Tinder, etc looking for a spouse, maybe for a quick bang. They usually met in college, at a frat party, study group, etc. Hell I can look 5 couples on my FB that met through mutual friend circles in college.That’s a good observation. Honestly I think most 7+ chicks get enough attention and action outside of online dating which is why they flake/ghost so much.
When you met in person via a friend you already has some social proof. Plus there was less “pressure” since it wasn’t technically a date, and she wouldn’t be stuck with a creep.
I should probably try stay friends with some of these women that I don’t want to pursue romantically.
When you met in person via a friend you already has some social proof. Plus there was less “pressure” since it wasn’t technically a date, and she wouldn’t be stuck with a creep.
I should probably try stay friends with some of these women that I don’t want to pursue romantically.
08-27-2018, 09:43 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
The only beta thing you can do is pander or pine for some woman while she’s fukking someone else and using you for emotional support.I've been trying to say this for awhile yet miscers thinks it's "beta" to be friends with women. Newsflash attractive successful people are usually not on Bumble, Tinder, etc looking for a spouse, maybe for a quick bang. They usually met in college, at a frat party, study group, etc. Hell I can look 5 couples on my FB that met through mutual friend circles in college.
Autistic fuks on this forum use black and white thinking to neatly fit every action, situation and every person within a category (eg gender/sex).
𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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08-27-2018, 09:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Yeah that is true, very black and white around here.The only beta thing you can do is pander or pine for some woman while she’s fukking someone else and using you for emotional support.
Autistic fuks on this forum use black and white thinking to neatly fit every action, situation and every person within a category (eg gender/sex).
Autistic fuks on this forum use black and white thinking to neatly fit every action, situation and every person within a category (eg gender/sex).
I'll give you a secret, the men with the most success in terms of relationships has female friends just from my view. The weird FA types were usually friends with other FA types. Friend circle is honestly pretty crucial in dating.
08-27-2018, 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Probably true, the issue for me in the past was all my close college friends were guys (CS major). I also didn’t get along well with most women due to my very direct and brutally honest approach.Yeah that is true, very black and white around here.
I'll give you a secret, the men with the most success in terms of relationships has female friends just from my view. The weird FA types were usually friends with other FA types. Friend circle is honestly pretty crucial in dating.
I'll give you a secret, the men with the most success in terms of relationships has female friends just from my view. The weird FA types were usually friends with other FA types. Friend circle is honestly pretty crucial in dating.
I treated men just like I treated women, honest, direct and critical. Men liked me, I made friends easily. Women didn’t like that becuase feels. There were still a couple of women I got along with though, I just sabotaged those opportunities.
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08-27-2018, 11:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
I use to be like that too (thanks dad). I had to unfortunately learn to "turn off" at a later stage in life. I still get called "too serious/a bit of a square", however I having a few drinks when I'm out loosens me up a bit.Probably true, the issue for me in the past was all my close college friends were guys (CS major). I also didn’t get along well with most women due to my very direct and brutally honest approach.
I treated men just like I treated women, honest, direct and critical. Men liked me, I made friends easily. Women didn’t like that becuase feels. There were still a couple of women I got along with though, I just sabotaged those opportunities.
I treated men just like I treated women, honest, direct and critical. Men liked me, I made friends easily. Women didn’t like that becuase feels. There were still a couple of women I got along with though, I just sabotaged those opportunities.
Also you should talk to women equally like you do men, just brush up on the social skills on the women you truly like.
08-27-2018, 11:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
You seem like you already know what your problem was when dealing with female friends. Your personality doesn't have to be a static variable, you know that sometimes the women don't like the brutal approach. Have you tried being dynamic and modifying your output/approach to suit the situation?Probably true, the issue for me in the past was all my close college friends were guys (CS major). I also didn’t get along well with most women due to my very direct and brutally honest approach.
I treated men just like I treated women, honest, direct and critical. Men liked me, I made friends easily. Women didn’t like that becuase feels. There were still a couple of women I got along with though, I just sabotaged those opportunities.
I treated men just like I treated women, honest, direct and critical. Men liked me, I made friends easily. Women didn’t like that becuase feels. There were still a couple of women I got along with though, I just sabotaged those opportunities.
Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
this x2I've been trying to say this for awhile yet miscers thinks it's "beta" to be friends with women. Newsflash attractive successful people are usually not on Bumble, Tinder, etc looking for a spouse, maybe for a quick bang. They usually met in college, at a frat party, study group, etc. Hell I can look 5 couples on my FB that met through mutual friend circles in college.
Social circles are the best and easiest way to meet people.
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08-27-2018, 11:26 PM
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Originally Posted By T-mac⏩
I'm talking about the past. My personality has (naturally) changed since then and softened, but I'm still working on thinking less in the moment (as paradoxical as that sounds).You seem like you already know what your problem was when dealing with female friends. Your personality doesn't have to be a static variable, you know that sometimes the women don't like the brutal approach. Have you tried being dynamic and modifying your output/approach to suit the situation?
𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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08-27-2018, 11:48 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
We all have different stages and roles to play in our lives. Sometimes we are a sweet babe, sometimes we are little princess, then a damsel, then a matron and a mother... as our form changes according to the impermanent flows of phenomena our perspective and mode of operation must change. If we do not change ourselves and expect the world and others to change, we will turn from hope to bitterness... this is why so many ruthless empires were formed where they forced every citizens into killing machines just so they can get back the control they desperately want... yet all they wanted was to feel ease with themselves.I use to be like that too (thanks dad). I had to unfortunately learn to "turn off" at a later stage in life. I still get called "too serious/a bit of a square", however I having a few drinks when I'm out loosens me up a bit.
Anyway...
The mind is a painter, that can give rise to images on the canvas according it's brushes and paints of habits and karma.
...You could put some joy upon my face
Oh sunshine in an empty place
Take me to turn to and babe I’ll make you stay
Oh i can ease you of your pain
Feel you give me love again
Round and round we go, each time i hear you say...
...Won’t you teach me how to love and learn
There’ll be nothing left for me to yearn
Think of me and burn and let me hold your hand
I don’t wanna face the world in tears
Please think again I’m on my knees
Sing that song to me
No reason to repent...
08-27-2018, 11:59 PM
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Originally Posted By HaroldChilde⏩
Are you high? SeriouslyWe all have different stages and roles to play in our lives. Sometimes we are a sweet babe, sometimes we are little princess, then a damsel, then a matron and a mother... as our form changes according to the impermanent flows of phenomena our perspective and mode of operation must change. If we do not change ourselves and expect the world and others to change, we will turn from hope to bitterness... this is why so many ruthless empires were formed where they forced every citizens into killing machines just so they can get back the control they desperately want... yet all they wanted was to feel ease with themselves.
Anyway...
The mind is a painter, that can give rise to images on the canvas according it's brushes and paints of habits and karma.
...You could put some joy upon my face
Oh sunshine in an empty place
Take me to turn to and babe I’ll make you stay
Oh i can ease you of your pain
Feel you give me love again
Round and round we go, each time i hear you say...
...Won’t you teach me how to love and learn
There’ll be nothing left for me to yearn
Think of me and burn and let me hold your hand
I don’t wanna face the world in tears
Please think again I’m on my knees
Sing that song to me
No reason to repent...
Anyway...
The mind is a painter, that can give rise to images on the canvas according it's brushes and paints of habits and karma.
...You could put some joy upon my face
Oh sunshine in an empty place
Take me to turn to and babe I’ll make you stay
Oh i can ease you of your pain
Feel you give me love again
Round and round we go, each time i hear you say...
...Won’t you teach me how to love and learn
There’ll be nothing left for me to yearn
Think of me and burn and let me hold your hand
I don’t wanna face the world in tears
Please think again I’m on my knees
Sing that song to me
No reason to repent...
08-28-2018, 10:25 AM
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08-28-2018, 11:41 PM
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No female friends crew. If i like a woman enough to want to be friends, I most likely want to date her.
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08-29-2018, 08:10 AM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
all the slayers I know scoff at the idea of being friends with girls youre not bangingYeah that is true, very black and white around here.
I'll give you a secret, the men with the most success in terms of relationships has female friends just from my view. The weird FA types were usually friends with other FA types. Friend circle is honestly pretty crucial in dating.
I'll give you a secret, the men with the most success in terms of relationships has female friends just from my view. The weird FA types were usually friends with other FA types. Friend circle is honestly pretty crucial in dating.
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08-29-2018, 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted By BetaThanU⏩
Agree to disagree. It works for some, it doesn't for others.all the slayers I know scoff at the idea of being friends with girls youre not banging
08-29-2018, 08:40 AM
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i think female friends are pointless. what do they bring to the table? drama, gossip, ect. if they're attractive, every dude in the circle who isn't a ******* certainly wants to bang which causes tension in the friend group. sure dating is easier, but no thx jeff. im not dating the sloot whos been passed around.
best way is to "snipe" the girl in the social circle. like, you know 1-2 dudes in the circle so you have rapport but not enough where you feel guilty banging the girls in the circle. if you're a cool dude, you'll be friends with other guys where you'll have opportunities to snipe the chicks in their circles. but all in all, social circles are fukin headaches imo.
brb "why didn't you invite me"
brb have to deal with the ******* in the group
brb no independence
now, im cool with a few girls. but they mountain bike, so its entirely different. but its strictly mtb, then again i dont find them attractive lol.
i work, do the grad school thing during the week and then on the weekends i may meet up with some homies to mountain bike and then we go out separate ways. perfect balance for me. do i meet a lot of women? no but im also not crying like a incel. i believe i'll come across a girl i like on my journey, no way im going out my way for a sloot.
we all goin to make it
best way is to "snipe" the girl in the social circle. like, you know 1-2 dudes in the circle so you have rapport but not enough where you feel guilty banging the girls in the circle. if you're a cool dude, you'll be friends with other guys where you'll have opportunities to snipe the chicks in their circles. but all in all, social circles are fukin headaches imo.
brb "why didn't you invite me"
brb have to deal with the ******* in the group
brb no independence
now, im cool with a few girls. but they mountain bike, so its entirely different. but its strictly mtb, then again i dont find them attractive lol.
i work, do the grad school thing during the week and then on the weekends i may meet up with some homies to mountain bike and then we go out separate ways. perfect balance for me. do i meet a lot of women? no but im also not crying like a incel. i believe i'll come across a girl i like on my journey, no way im going out my way for a sloot.
we all goin to make it
be the turtle in the race.
08-29-2018, 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Cadet4life⏩
This.i think female friends are pointless. what do they bring to the table? drama, gossip, ect. if they're attractive, every dude in the circle who isn't a ******* certainly wants to bang which causes tension in the friend group. sure dating is easier, but no thx jeff. im not dating the sloot whos been passed around.
best way is to "snipe" the girl in the social circle. like, you know 1-2 dudes in the circle so you have rapport but not enough where you feel guilty banging the girls in the circle. if you're a cool dude, you'll be friends with other guys where you'll have opportunities to snipe the chicks in their circles. but all in all, social circles are fukin headaches imo.
brb "why didn't you invite me"
brb have to deal with the ******* in the group
brb no independence
now, im cool with a few girls. but they mountain bike, so its entirely different. but its strictly mtb, then again i dont find them attractive lol.
i work, do the grad school thing during the week and then on the weekends i may meet up with some homies to mountain bike and then we go out separate ways. perfect balance for me. do i meet a lot of women? no but im also not crying like a incel. i believe i'll come across a girl i like on my journey, no way im going out my way for a sloot.
we all goin to make it
best way is to "snipe" the girl in the social circle. like, you know 1-2 dudes in the circle so you have rapport but not enough where you feel guilty banging the girls in the circle. if you're a cool dude, you'll be friends with other guys where you'll have opportunities to snipe the chicks in their circles. but all in all, social circles are fukin headaches imo.
brb "why didn't you invite me"
brb have to deal with the ******* in the group
brb no independence
now, im cool with a few girls. but they mountain bike, so its entirely different. but its strictly mtb, then again i dont find them attractive lol.
i work, do the grad school thing during the week and then on the weekends i may meet up with some homies to mountain bike and then we go out separate ways. perfect balance for me. do i meet a lot of women? no but im also not crying like a incel. i believe i'll come across a girl i like on my journey, no way im going out my way for a sloot.
we all goin to make it
Only reason to have female friends is if you're gonna fuk them (like FWBs).
More guy friends than female friends crew.
If you're "friends" with a woman that has a bf or husband, she ain't gonna want to hang out with you, that's something I had to learn.
I know a guy that was bragging about having all these female friends and but he ain't fuking any of them LOL.
08-29-2018, 09:09 AM
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Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
ive tried the friend thing with girls, didn't turn out well. could possibly but shes gotta be unattractive. whales are funny but they'll take advantage of u when u get drunk srsThis.
Only reason to have female friends is if you're gonna fuk them (like FWBs).
More guy friends than female friends crew.
If you're "friends" with a woman that has a bf or husband, she ain't gonna want to hang out with you, that's something I had to learn.
I know a guy that was bragging about having all these female friends and but he ain't fuking any of them LOL.
Only reason to have female friends is if you're gonna fuk them (like FWBs).
More guy friends than female friends crew.
If you're "friends" with a woman that has a bf or husband, she ain't gonna want to hang out with you, that's something I had to learn.
I know a guy that was bragging about having all these female friends and but he ain't fuking any of them LOL.
be the turtle in the race.
08-29-2018, 09:27 AM
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Originally Posted By Cadet4life⏩
Yeah I tried myself to get platonic female friends and most of them had bfs and husbands so it was like pulling teeth to try to hang out with them, even with other people (I specifically always wanted to hang out in group settings). Only reason I wanted to be friends with them was because they seemed cool and we got along. Eventually I just figured they were not really interested in hanging out with me with the exception of like two of them and I'm not attracted to either one of them nor do I hang out with them on a daily or even weekly basis.ive tried the friend thing with girls, didn't turn out well. could possibly but shes gotta be unattractive. whales are funny but they'll take advantage of u when u get drunk srs
Other than that, the only female friends I got are FWBs.
Yeah those whales can get aggressive af when they want to.
08-29-2018, 10:20 AM
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Originally Posted By BetaThanU⏩
agree with other posters on this. even if you do become friends with a woman, and define it as such, they just aren't as loyal as guy friends and will put you through the same tests/etc/flakiness.all the slayers I know scoff at the idea of being friends with girls youre not banging
Most of the female friends I've had have still been flakey/called only when they wanted attention, and in general could never trust them in having my back in anything.
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08-29-2018, 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen⏩
Agree to disagree. It works for some, it doesn't for others.
Originally Posted By BlackScorpio91⏩
I tried to have female friends, but realized the only reason I wanted to be their friend was to date them and hanging out with them just made me want them more. Forget that noise.Yeah I tried myself to get platonic female friends and most of them had bfs and husbands so it was like pulling teeth to try to hang out with them, even with other people (I specifically always wanted to hang out in group settings). Only reason I wanted to be friends with them was because they seemed cool and we got along. Eventually I just figured they were not really interested in hanging out with me with the exception of like two of them and I'm not attracted to either one of them nor do I hang out with them on a daily or even weekly basis.
Other than that, the only female friends I got are FWBs.
Yeah those whales can get aggressive af when they want to.
Other than that, the only female friends I got are FWBs.
Yeah those whales can get aggressive af when they want to.
If we have similar interests and get along really well, why wouldn't you want to take it further. Literally EVERY guy in the world is only friends with a woman because he wants to bang her or her hot friend.
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Originally Posted By psychosylocibin⏩
Yup.agree with other posters on this. even if you do become friends with a woman, and define it as such, they just aren't as loyal as guy friends and will put you through the same tests/etc/flakiness.
Most of the female friends I've had have still been flakey/called only when they wanted attention, and in general could never trust them in having my back in anything.
Most of the female friends I've had have still been flakey/called only when they wanted attention, and in general could never trust them in having my back in anything.
Almost all the friends I could count on and do me favors have been male.
08-29-2018, 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
There are some very rare exceptions tbh, where they have been friends since childhood. Still not convinced the guy wouldn't take the opportunity though if he was single and it presented itself.Literally EVERY guy in the world is only friends with a woman because he wants to bang her or her hot friend.
My ex was so deluded about this, and wanted to believe that some guys just wanted to be her friend, and liked her personality. I actually think it's a hard pill to swallow as a pretty woman; you never really know if a guy likes you or just wants sex. Gotta assume the latter always.
𝕮𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖈𝖍𝖊𝖈𝕶, 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖘𝖊 𝖆 𝖇𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍
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08-31-2018, 01:31 AM
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Originally Posted By Nedo⏩
I'm average facially (i.e. 5/10). Just below average in height. Definitely below average in regards to career/status.If it makes you feel better, it took me and all the other average looking dudes time to find women to go on dates with as well. You could also go out if you want quicker results. What do you rate yourself.
The girl went radio silent on me in the midst of arranging the coffee, so perhaps you were right from the get go.
08-31-2018, 01:52 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
That's happened to me a couple of times. Chat, get the number, then as soon as it comes to logistics they ghost. Pretty frustrating.The girl went radio silent on me in the midst of arranging the coffee, so perhaps you were right from the get go.
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08-31-2018, 09:30 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Nah bro, this is what she tells you to downplay it, make it okay and so that she can keep seeing them. She knows very well they would stuff her, especially given your ex was hot.There are some very rare exceptions tbh, where they have been friends since childhood. Still not convinced the guy wouldn't take the opportunity though if he was single and it presented itself.
My ex was so deluded about this, and wanted to believe that some guys just wanted to be her friend, and liked her personality. I actually think it's a hard pill to swallow as a pretty woman; you never really know if a guy likes you or just wants sex. Gotta assume the latter always.
My ex was so deluded about this, and wanted to believe that some guys just wanted to be her friend, and liked her personality. I actually think it's a hard pill to swallow as a pretty woman; you never really know if a guy likes you or just wants sex. Gotta assume the latter always.
Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
Sounds like you have potential. What is your career that makes you well below average? Any opportunity or initiative to improve in this regard? You have control over this so become somebody, its never too late.I'm average facially (i.e. 5/10). Just below average in height. Definitely below average in regards to career/status.
The girl went radio silent on me in the midst of arranging the coffee, so perhaps you were right from the get go.
The girl went radio silent on me in the midst of arranging the coffee, so perhaps you were right from the get go.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
This is just most likely Chaderception. However, when you stay interesting and fun, it should seldom happen so trust when I say keep making them laugh, especially through text when you have time to think and make it real good. Given physique, I'm surprised this happens to you.That's happened to me a couple of times. Chat, get the number, then as soon as it comes to logistics they ghost. Pretty frustrating.
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