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post 1560135671 08-31-2018, 05:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
Men should be able to opt out before the child is born, just like how a woman can abort. But if you decide you want it, you have to pay if you and the mother split. I also don't think people who are proven to not be the father should have to pay.
Opt out? lol

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Originally Posted By Maylie
You’re trolling. You can go to jail for non payment of child support.

Even if you don’t think the father should have to pay, it’s him or you: out of your taxes.

I know which one I would pick since I didn’t bang some girl I didn’t want a child with without a condom.

Lol at opt out. It’s not fair because biology isn’t fair. Once you have a living, breathing child you’re obligated to take care of it whether you wanted it or not.

Why? Because it’s not everyone else’s fault to pick up the slack and the kid needs to eat.

End of. It’s nobody’s else job and damn sure not the taxpayer’s.
Nope, i can live on cash and credit. Like i fuking said the girls i knock up or can potentially knock up know not to even try.

If we went to court by the time we got there id be ordered to pay like 50$ a month and instead of paying it i would claim disability.
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Originally Posted By whogotmuhbeers
My main problem with the current laws is the spouse is able to spend the money I give here for my kids on things such as liquor cigarettes or anything else not going directly towards the children. Not divorced btw just seen a lot of girlfriends doing this to their baby daddys
they should have to do *some* work for the alimony like save receipts and report on expenses directly related to the child
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824
Men should be able to opt out before the child is born, just like how a woman can abort. But if you decide you want it, you have to pay if you and the mother split. I also don't think people who are proven to not be the father should have to pay.
Lol no
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol
I got like 2-3 kids already and guys like you raise them. Thats how it should be.

Just like the animal kingdom baby.

Lil b had it right basedgod. Child support me bitch nah.

Ill never be on the receiving end of child support, the women know to not even try. Child support doesn’t make sense and i tell them that from day 1.

If anything i should get payments for providing the gifted kid.
Am I reading this correctly? You have 2-3 kids with random women that you have zero involvement with?
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Originally Posted By JUGGERNAUT1333
Am I reading this correctly? You have 2-3 kids with random women that you have zero involvement with?
Yes but pretty sure the ugly one isnt mine.

If i ever send anything it will be 100 percent voluntary just like it should be.
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol
Yes but pretty sure the ugly one isnt mine.

If i ever send anything it will be 100 percent voluntary just like it should be.
You’re a liar and not a good troll. And if we assume you aren’t lying then you’re just a piece of chit...
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol
Yes but pretty sure the ugly one isnt mine.

If i ever send anything it will be 100 percent voluntary just like it should be.
Way to be a responsible human being.....

I have no issues with you being a manwhore, whatever, I did that too when I was younger, but be smart for fuks sake. I don't give a chit about the women you banged, but you brought a child into a world without a father.

If you're being 100% serious about this, and not just trolling with this misc persona you put on, then you are a worthless human being.
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa
You’re a liar and not a good troll. And if we assume you aren’t lying then you’re just a piece of chit...
I gave the kids life and gifted genetics. They should be thankful.

You think im gonna start sending 30% of my checks to buy mom some new purses? Lol nothx bobby.

The kids are all doing fine because kids will always do fine irrespective of my involvement or not. That leaves me time to keep banging randoms and make some more.

Why would you want to fuk over my life just because some stupid bitch was dumb enough to get creampied by me.

Also im gonna mention that all the girls got other dudes in their life to help take care of my kids...but all of them still sleep with me when they get the chance. One of the chicks even got caught recently and the dude still didn’t leave.
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol
Nope, i can live on cash and credit. Like i fuking said the girls i knock up or can potentially knock up know not to even try.

If we went to court by the time we got there id be ordered to pay like 50$ a month and instead of paying it i would claim disability.
There is a minimum of 350 a month. Disability is not an excuse.

They will come get your stuff or throw you in jail.

Get a tax refund? They will seize it.

Have more than 10 bucks in the bank they will seize it.

Get pulled over to to jail.

Try to get a driver's license or plates? Nope those are suspended

Try to get credit? Nope it's worse than a bankruptcy.

Let's hear your plan.
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol
I gave the kids life and gifted genetics. They should be thankful.

You think im gonna start sending 30% of my checks to buy mom some new purses? Lol nothx bobby.
Stopped reading here. You didn’t gift anyone chit. Also, most don’t take the money and buy purses and so on. You would have no clue what cost to raise a child with food, daycare, clothing, etc...you don’t contribute due to being a complete piece of chit.

Good job, your dick worked inside random girls...like literally 99.99999999999% of the rest of the population. So brave and honorable of you...
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
There is a minimum of 350 a month. Disability is not an excuse.

They will come get your stuff or throw you in jail.

Get a tax refund? They will seize it.

Have more than 10 bucks in the bank they will seize it.

Get pulled over to to jail.

Try to get a driver's license or plates? Nope those are suspended

Try to get credit? Nope it's worse than a bankruptcy.

Let's hear your plan.
Wrong, lawyer already told me if you’re unemployed without benefits at first hearing its like 0-50$ a month.

After that if they keep bugging you just say “disabled”.

Also i dont need a bank account if im working for cash. CASH AND CREDIT i already said it.

Easy pz
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa
Also, most don’t take the money and buy purses and so on. You would have no clue what cost to raise a child with food, daycare, clothing, etc...you don’t contribute due to being a complete piece of chit.
Kids don't need that much to survive, some beans and clothes from goodwill is enough, I make way too much money to pay child support, the payments would be too much.

But listen my kids live good lives because there is other dudes in the picture, they raise my kids, I bang the girls, that's life son.
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol
Kids don't need that much to survive, some beans and clothes from goodwill is enough, I make way too much money to pay child support...
Yeah, you’re trolling...fuk off
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa
Yeah, you’re trolling...fuk off
I'm not trolling

I mean i'm exagerating a bit, you should feed and clothe them better but i'm trying to make a point. Child support payments are wayyyyyy to high for me to be paying them. It maybe costs 200$ a month max to feed/clothe a kid.

But regardless I aint gonna pay it, the kids are all doing fine, there's no reason for me to get involved. I sleep with hot bitches, they have no problem finding dudes after the fact.
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol
I'm not trolling

I mean i'm exagerating a bit, you should feed and clothe them better but i'm trying to make a point. Child support payments are wayyyyyy to high for me to be paying them. It maybe costs 200$ a month max to feed/clothe a kid.

But regardless I aint gonna pay it, the kids are all doing fine, there's no reason for me to get involved. I sleep with hot bitches, they have no problem finding dudes after the fact.
We heard you the first 11 times...get fuked
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Lot of opinions from guys who've never read a divorce decree.... im personally 100% against alimony but child support is another story. Im never having children. IF I do, it's my responsibility as a man to protect and provide for my children. Regardless of happens in the relationship. Anyone who thinks otherwise isn't a man and shouldn't trouble themselves with offspring to begin with.
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If custody is anything other than 50/50 the parent with less than 50% should be chipping in some money to help with expenses.

Having said that, there's no way I'd let my kids not have their needs met to avoid contributing more than my ex to their care.

Honestly, cash child support is often a **** arrangement for the kids. I've seen too many baby mommas buying their kids poverty clothes and crappy food and using the leftover child support payments to buy things for themselves.
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Originally Posted By chino3
I think he is saying Child support should be required if the father just bounces, but not if it is simply a failed relationship but still involved.

Either way, if one person has more custody than the other, they should receive compensation.

oh yeah, and op is a ******* and prolly gettin raped for child support.
Man, even if each side has 50/50 you still gotta pay a huge amount.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
There is a minimum of 350 a month. Disability is not an excuse.

They will come get your stuff or throw you in jail.

Get a tax refund? They will seize it.

Have more than 10 bucks in the bank they will seize it.

Get pulled over to to jail.

Try to get a driver's license or plates? Nope those are suspended

Try to get credit? Nope it's worse than a bankruptcy.

Let's hear your plan.
Definitely all of the above and theres a minimum in my state as well.

I believe its around $200-250

Dont play with DHS Opie
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Originally Posted By redliner9
Definitely all of the above and theres a minimum in my state as well.

I believe its around $200-250

Dont play with DHS Opie
Wrong again boyos

Just claim disability/unemployed. No one can garnish SSI disability benefits. Then you can live a life on cash/credit. EZ PZ

That's how I know you guys aren't slayers, you havn't even had your talk with your lawyers yet about all your illegitimate kids like real slayers.


But it will never come to that because the women would never jeprodize losing my dick over taking me to court when they got dudes supporting them anyway. They know i'd never pay anyway.
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol
Wrong again boyos

Just claim disability/unemployed. No one can garnish SSI disability benefits. Then you can live a life on cash/credit. EZ PZ

That's how I know you guys aren't slayers, you havn't even had your talk with your lawyers yet about all your illegitimate kids like real slayers.


But it will never come to that because the women would never jeprodize losing my dick over taking me to court when they got dudes supporting them anyway. They know i'd never pay anyway.
You really just can't help but interject yourself into almost any thread and desperately try to make it about you. Stop--stop it. Get some help. Smh
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol
Wrong again boyos

Just claim disability/unemployed. No one can garnish SSI disability benefits. Then you can live a life on cash/credit. EZ PZ

That's how I know you guys aren't slayers, you havn't even had your talk with your lawyers yet about all your illegitimate kids like realpieces of subhuman trash.


But it will never come to that because the women would never jeprodize losing my dick over taking me to court when they got dudes supporting them anyway. They know i'd never pay anyway.
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol
Wrong again boyos

Just claim disability/unemployed. No one can garnish SSI disability benefits. Then you can live a life on cash/credit. EZ PZ

That's how I know you guys aren't slayers, you havn't even had your talk with your lawyers yet about all your illegitimate kids like real slayers.


But it will never come to that because the women would never jeprodize losing my dick over taking me to court when they got dudes supporting them anyway. They know i'd never pay anyway.
I work in worker's comp and child support can take up to 60% of your check. I'm pretty sure SSDI works the same way. Child support is the only lien that can be taken out of temporary disability benefits.
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Originally Posted By TheRougarou646
You really just can't help but interject yourself into almost any thread and desperately try to make it about you. Stop--stop it. Get some help. Smh
No, i'm just the voice of reason ITT. Child support doesn't make sense, it isn't logical. Do lions pay child support? They don't even hunt, the bitches bring the gazelles for him to eat and he pumps them as a reward.

Think im gonna pay child support like some cuck gazelle? NO THX
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I work in worker's comp and child support can take up to 60% of your check. I'm pretty sure SSDI works the same way. Child support is the only lien that can be taken out of temporary disability benefits.
No just claim SSI dont SSDI, it's always good to have a plan even if you never have to use it.

You claim SSI because you are disabled and can't work therefore low income.

https://www.disabilitybenefitscenter...-child-support
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Originally Posted By StinkholePatrol
Wrong again boyos

Just claim disability/unemployed. No one can garnish SSI disability benefits. Then you can live a life on cash/credit. EZ PZ

That's how I know you guys aren't slayers, you havn't even had your talk with your lawyers yet about all your illegitimate kids like real slayers.


But it will never come to that because the women would never jeprodize losing my dick over taking me to court when they got dudes supporting them anyway. They know i'd never pay anyway.
You are either a troll or a Grade A narcissistic sociopath.
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Originally Posted By redliner9
Man, even if each side has 50/50 you still gotta pay a huge amount.
Depends on the state. Here, if it is true 50/50, AKA shared parenting, no one pays.
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