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Thread: So what happens to single attractive women into their 30s with no kids?

post 1560435431 09-04-2018, 09:55 AM
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An attractive - never married - no kid - 30 year old female - with career

That is a special female.

However, 99/100 you will feel the crazy seep into your pores.
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My cousin is 31, doesn’t look even close to 31, very attractive and makes 70k a year. Never been married no kids. Insanely high standards for marriage though and has been serially monogamous (one long relationship after another her whole life). I know it’s bugging her to be 31 and no prospects to get married to, bc she just told me a couple months ago to not be like her and date guys who aren’t worth dating and waste my 20s away.

I don’t know if she’s lonely. She’s actively dating and looking though.
They said she's gone too far this time

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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
No one knows, because no one cares
/thread

This coming from a 35 year old guy....no way I would date a 30+ y/o woman, just lol
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Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
My cousin is 31, doesn’t look even close to 31, very attractive and makes 70k a year. Never been married no kids. Insanely high standards for marriage though and has been serially monogamous (one long relationship after another her whole life). I know it’s bugging her to be 31 and no prospects to get married to, bc she just told me a couple months ago to not be like her and date guys who aren’t worth dating and waste my 20s away.

I don’t know if she’s lonely. She’s actively dating and looking though.
Oh.....so everything we say here all the time?
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  • Women waste away their best years partying slutting around when they could actually attract a high status / quality man

  • Once they've "had their fun" and their value is dropping like a rock they RAISE their standards looking for Mr. Perfect fairytale to take care of them and give "security"

  • Start getting bitter and angry about their own choices in their 30's

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    Originally Posted By CulturalDecay⏩
    Oh.....so everything we say here all the time?
    [ul]
  • Women waste away their best years partying slutting around when they could actually attract a high status / quality man

  • Once they've "had their fun" and their value is dropping like a rock they RAISE their standards looking for Mr. Perfect fairytale to take care of them and give "security"

  • Start getting bitter and angry about their own choices in their 30's

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    And when you say "lower your standards" or "try to meet someone here or by doing this" they never listen to that advice and cope. Pretty funny tbh. Living like life is a Disney movie and some prince charming is going to come by and sweep them off their feet. Except the reality is that that prince charming is going after someone 25 and under.
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    I've got alot of 2nd hand knowledge with this through my older relative's friends.

    They would date around a bit before getting into 1-5 year relationships, but almost all of them ended up in their 40s doing the same thing, where it's even more difficult. Just think the amount of baggage and standards people collect by their 40s....but they're trying to date around like they're still in their 20s and it doesn't work.

    But there's definitely a significant pool of people over 35 who are actively dating/seeking partners.
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    Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
    No one knows, because no one cares
    Really the only logical answer here.
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    Originally Posted By CulturalDecay⏩
    Oh.....so everything we say here all the time?

    Women waste away their best years partying slutting around when they could actually attract a high status / quality man
    Once they've "had their fun" and their value is dropping like a rock they RAISE their standards looking for Mr. Perfect fairytale to take care of them and give "security"
    Start getting bitter and angry about their own choices in their 30's
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    This is so weird and it feels like pure projection. I don't know one single female who behaves/behaved in such a way. Yes, my halo is putting quite the strain on my neck, if you were worried. I'm sure that some women act like turbohoes in their 20's but it can't be as staggeringly high as you make it out to be, and if it is, you are hanging around low quality people.

    I get the feeling thatmenare far more angry at women's choices then women are at their own. There are so many angry, bitter miscers who are genuinely perturbed at women who didn't want to settle down and pop out babies in their early 20's. Sure, SilenceSpeaks moans about being lonely on occasion, but she's never struck me as irrationally angry about it. She states what she's looking for, what she values, and moves on. Meanwhile, some of y'all seem deeply offended that other people have different priorities and make different choices then the ones you value.

    I know a bunch of single women in their 30's who have their chit together and are just doing life the way they want to, no bitterness or anger, and I know a lot of awesome, good men who are the same way. When you've created a good life for yourself, it takes a badass person for you to give up freedom and independence and to commit. Sure it'd be nice to have a companion or a partner to do life with, but it's nothing to get all worked up over. Don't take this as a callout towards you, but it does puzzle me a bit.
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    if they are virgin/well maintained then i'm fine.

    but western women aren't virgins/have a party lifestyle
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    Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
    There are so many angry, bitter miscers who are genuinely perturbed at women who didn't want to settle down and pop out babies in their early 20's.
    A conservative girl who chooses to go that route really is good wife and mother material for a lot of guys, but trying to force or shame females into doing that is dysfunctional and will surely backfire.
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    Originally Posted By CulturalDecay⏩
    Oh.....so everything we say here all the time?
    [ul]
  • Women waste away their best years partying slutting around when they could actually attract a high status / quality man

  • Once they've "had their fun" and their value is dropping like a rock they RAISE their standards looking for Mr. Perfect fairytale to take care of them and give "security"

  • Start getting bitter and angry about their own choices in their 30's

  • WhereAreTheGoodGuys.jpg

  • FeminismIsCancer.jpg

    • [ul]
    Not quite. She barely partied. Her problem was more dating guys that are good marriage material on paper who are nice to her even though she doesn’t actually find them physically attractive. I’d say every guy she dated was 2-3 points lower than her in looks. Then 2-3 years in they propose and she says no. That’s what she meant by don’t date guys that aren’t worth dating. She always dated guys who worship her. Now looking for guys in their late 30s who would actually call her on her bs instead of just comply with everything she says.
    They said she's gone too far this time

    ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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    Originally Posted By TrinnieBuu⏩
    Not quite. She barely partied. Her problem was more dating guys that are good marriage material on paper who are nice to her even though she doesn’t actually find them physically attractive. I’d say every guy she dated was 2-3 points lower than her in looks. Then 2-3 years in they propose and she says no. That’s what she meant by don’t date guys that aren’t worth dating. She always dated guys who worship her. Now looking for guys in their late 30s who would actually call her on her bs instead of just comply with everything she says.
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    Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩
    A conservative girl who chooses to go that route really is good wife and mother material for a lot of guys, but trying to force or shame females into doing that is dysfunctional and will surely backfire.
    For sure, I get that. I want to make clear that there is nothing wrong with getting married at 18 and having 10 kids, if that's what you want! Motherhood and being an amazing wife is awesome, and a fantastic choice, for those who want it.It just seems silly to have this bitterness and anger towards peoplewho you may not even knowdoing life differently. Maybe I'm just in a very 'live and let live' mood today.
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    Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
    For sure, I get that. I want to make clear that there is nothing wrong with getting married at 18 and having 10 kids, if that's what you want! Motherhood and being an amazing wife is awesome, and a fantastic choice, for those who want it.It just seems silly to have this bitterness and anger towards peoplewho you may not even knowdoing life differently. Maybe I'm just in a very 'live and let live' mood today.
    As someone married to a woman who doesn't want kids (never wanted them either), it's nice to know there are others to socialize with that feel similarly.

    We've got a few single female friends in their 30s, they're fun to hang around.
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    Originally Posted By 1slo5oh⏩
    I can only assume... one of them was actually with one of my friends for a few months.. and I know for a fact this guy is legit...

    -not a fk boi
    -keeps himself in good shape
    -great job
    -doesn't chase ho's on the side
    -solid beard/10 but not a hipster cant change a spare tire beard... like a Bob fkn Vila can fix anything beard

    I mean I have known him for over a decade , and she nexted his ass because "he wasn't paying enough attention to me" ... Bish WUT?? During the day he didn't stay up her nice clean bleached a$$hole texting her...... lolz
    I'm pretty much the same as that guy but don't have a beard, and my girl (30yr old) just got upset with me because I didn't give her enough attention over a three day period. During those three days I was making arrangements to start my own law firm, so I was a bit distracted. She kept on pushing it and wanting me to apologize so I told her goodbye. Ridiculous.
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    Miscer incel answer: They end up alone and misreable and should have gone out with me!!! /cry /fistmyself

    Legit answer: Depends on the person and their priorities/wants out of life. There are those typical chicks who hop from dick to dick never being satisfied or trying to find that one that can replace a past fault/fit the shoe of something they fuked up. Then there are those who rather focus on career/traveling and have no interest in serious relationships and are completely fine being alone with no attachments.

    Now - how you find out who really enjoys their life and is fine with being alone, you need to observe behavior. If they are constantly making posts showing how awesome their life is and how they are the "cool aunt" and look at me it's so liberating to be alone. Nah, don't believe that chit they are putting up a huge front to hide the fact that they aren't truly happy.

    If they constantly are traveling and doing things and never throw it in your face, then they are legit fine with their situation and are the true "cool aunt" here.

    It's easy to hide pain behind fake smiles and adventures. To me, it's all about family and partnerships. I personally know I couldn't live life with 0 attachments to anyone. I did that for 3-4 years and sure it was fun for a while but eventually it lost it's amazement and coolness. I needed more and for me, it was family. Not to say it's right or for everyone but that was my thing. Nothing brings a smile and joy as much as when I get home from work and my son is yelling "Daddy!" and how excited he is to see me and wants me to play with him and wants to show me all the cool things he built and did during the day.
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    An attractive 30 year old unmarried woman has high standards. She dates around until she is no longer as attractive. Then, she settles for a guy that she will come to resent for not being her dream man.

    A little bit different in big cities though; where being single is not as looked down upon.
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    sadness happens and then they settle for some balding timothy only to later cheat and divorce him with chad/tyrone double teaming her while timothy watches in the corner


    timothy loses once again
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    Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
    For sure, I get that. I want to make clear that there is nothing wrong with getting married at 18 and having 10 kids, if that's what you want! Motherhood and being an amazing wife is awesome, and a fantastic choice, for those who want it.It just seems silly to have this bitterness and anger towards peoplewho you may not even knowdoing life differently. Maybe I'm just in a very 'live and let live' mood today.
    yer one groovy chick. Will you be my wife? I'm a bald old man who ain't got no money. :P
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    Originally Posted By 1slo5oh⏩
    My wife is friends (and I will use this term very loosely) with a couple of these broads... lolz... I will keep tabs and report back. One is 30 the other is 31... both have great jobs... id say they are legit 8/10+... yet for the fkn life of them cant find "Mr. Right". At what point do you think they realize its them not the guys they meet?
    That’s the problem. They have “great” jobs and think every dude they meet that makes less money is below them. So they shoot for the ones that make more than them, but what they don’t understand is that those successful men are chasing women 20-25, and have no interest in a 30 year old. That’s the wall/cat matrix at work.

    I know if I was making 100-150,000 a year I wouldn’t take a girl over 24. I wouldn’t have to. Hell I don’t now. I only bang/date a few years younger, with one exception a while back.
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    Originally Posted By FastBack6⏩
    That’s the problem. They have “great” jobs and think every dude they meet that makes less money is below them. So they shoot for the ones that make more than them, but what they don’t understand is that those successful men are chasing women 20-25, and have no interest in a 30 year old. That’s the wall/cat matrix at work.

    I know if I was making 100-150,000 a year I wouldn’t take a girl over 24. I wouldn’t have to.
    You’d be surprised how many of these high earning ladies will marry a guy who makes less than them. Much less. A lot of them just want to be happy.
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    Originally Posted By Manletbolic⏩
    So when they realize they cant land a ceo or pro athlete like todays culture is telling them they deserve they'll narrow it down to a wealthy beta?

    Lmao
    Precisely. That’s why you don’t “settle down.” When a woman is choosing you for marriage it’s because you’re the best she thinks she can do and she’s running out of options.
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    Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
    Plus I still like guys that age so that doesn't help.
    You go gurl.
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    Originally Posted By rollerball⏩
    Lol why is the misc in love with these phukking retarded, depressing threads?
    Y’all trying to cope, feelin better about your own lives by framing some imaginary scenario where a large demographic is doomed to an unhappy life?
    Revenge fantasy of peace.

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