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post 1560438081 09-04-2018, 10:27 AM
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Its because you are a stupid whore
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Instead of being friends with benefits, it's time to become enemies with benefits.
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post 1560438821 09-04-2018, 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias
Are you saying that women can only be involved with one guy at a time? I wouldn't be surprised if OP got ghosted by one dude 5 days ago and then blocked by a FWB today. If it's a girl it's a very uptight one based on their posting history and I'd be out of there too.
Odd that she would get upset about a guy dumping her then getting upset that her FWB dumped her as wellthe next fking day.Quite a trainwreck if you ask me.
post 1560468791 09-04-2018, 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
Odd that she would get upset about a guy dumping her then getting upset that her FWB dumped her as wellthe next fking day.Quite a trainwreck if you ask me.
I only slept with the fwb to deal with being ghosted by the first guy who I didn't sleep with by the way. I was feeling sad and shot.
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post 1560470181 09-04-2018, 05:11 PM
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Men are so weird. I don't get it, I know he resented me for giving up sex but don't why. And he said that he wasn't the type to judge a woman and yet to be honest he was a bit angry at me. It's like he seemed to think I was a sloot am thought it took over a month before he and I had sex.

And I know he made the sex extra rough on purpose. And he has been complaining on social media about how he doesn't like being single and sleeping with women he had no feelings for.

This same asshle was always saying I act like I don't trust him and that he is not like the others. Like really?

Misc I'm so tired of men being jerks then coming back to apologise, like why not avoid being an assehole in the first place?
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post 1560473291 09-04-2018, 05:49 PM
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Although it's not an excuse for just blocking me, I should add he does work in the healthcare. So in a way I understand but he cut ties in a mean way.
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post 1560473831 09-04-2018, 05:54 PM
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Maybe it’s because you have the herp

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post 1560474781 09-04-2018, 06:07 PM
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Originally Posted By 1n4tr4nc3
Have you ever considered taking time to yourself instead of hopping around from guy to guy? Might help that thot process of yours lol
I do take time to myself. My fwb actually encouraged me to have sex, said I was being to worried about how men will perceive me etc took him a month to get me in bed.

And the guy before he and I had been chatting for over a month. He claimed that he wasn't into casual sex etc.

Men lie alot then blame the woman when she gives in. It's fkin disgusting really. Well the blame the woman when they aren't interested in something serious, if they are they don't care how soon she gives it up.
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post 1560475371 09-04-2018, 06:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Fatkidwholifts
Maybe it’s because you have the herp

(Srs)
Partially but mostly because he got sick of me and my easy ways. He wanted a real relationship so when a chick he liked seemed interested he moved on, not sure why the little bitch couldnt send one sentence saying he found someone so he's moving on.

I think I hate men now. All the know how to do is lie, hunt for sex and then call women shores if they give in too soon. They respect women who hate sex and women use sex to get what they want. That's the type of women they like, those who use sex as a way of getting men to do exactly what they want.
They like women who treat them like crap. If you're a woman and you aren't being demanding its strange to them and seen as unattractive.

Also they prefer when their chick enjoys sex less than them or has a much lower libido because that's wifey material. Apparently a good women is one who uses the promise of getting sex as a way of control. That's wifey material.

Then you see them complaining how their wife refuses to sleep with them or that she took everything in the divorce.

Serves them right.

They treat me like carp and then some months or a year later give long ass apologies about how they were wrong and that I didn't mistreat them, they want a second chance and that I'm one of the least manipulative women they've been with. This year alone 5 apologies, every year it's the same shot, treat me like crap and then apologise multiple times.

I'm legit sick of it.
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post 1560475721 09-04-2018, 06:22 PM
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FWB chicks are worse than prosti's, imo.

at least prostis get something out of it. 9/10 times a girl is whoring herself out to be used by someone she knows doesn't want to commit.



i have no real point in posting other than stating that most dudes you prob want wont be willing to take a fwb chick

so, id stop that...

or don't, idgaf..just saying
post 1560476541 09-04-2018, 06:35 PM
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if some sloot told me she has the herp a derp damn right ill go NC and hope I didn't get it
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post 1560476641 09-04-2018, 06:37 PM
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OP are you a guy
post 1560477101 09-04-2018, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted By 1n4tr4nc3
Ok it seems like you are just picking or engaging in chit with crappy dudes who just want to use you until they get what they want and ghost. And of course a fwb is going to encourage you to have sex. That is the whole point of the relationship correct? Def try to do a better job of guys you pick lol
Yeah I pick the worst. This year alone:
- my ex who attempted to blackmail me because I was sleeping with someone else months after we broke up apologised
- a guy I dated who sent me scathing texts after I heard he was hitting on my sister (basically said I should get off hison case, he doesn't want me, he has his lady etc) apologises at least four times this year saying he regret what he did and that he wish he could take it back etc
- guy I dated who threatened to kill me and who said he would never leave his gf for me, actually had the balls to tell me hi and ask me how I'm doing
- guy I turned down who cussed me up and said I was a stupid ho, sees me and asks why I'm mad at him, tried to start a combo, I ignored the cuck
- old fwb who basically always indirectly called me a slur and who said that I should move on and let him be, every now and then apologises and tries to start a combo
- ex who had me as his side piece and lies all the while, who also acted like he didn't care when we broke ties, tried to apologise
- ex who when he first got married, acted like I was insignificant and did not even respond when I asked him how things were going and who did not even mention my name we he counted his exes in front his friends, his friends were embarrassed for me, now keeps trying to get my attention or brings up the past
- guy who tried to have me as side piece to my face and his own friend told me don't trust him, tried to apologise and said that he left his ex etc
(That one wanted to get laid I'm sure)
- ex who told me leave him alone and kicked me out when I visited him one time, is now saying he wants to start something serious etc
- guy who was an fb but always kept asking.me for cash, apologized and said that I treated him like crap as well, to which I said that maybe he shouldn't have kept asking me to buy him a vehicle

In summary, men are asshles.
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post 1560477331 09-04-2018, 06:45 PM
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Originally Posted By 1n4tr4nc3
Lol i dont think i would have worded it like that but know what u mean. Its just a red flag. The future boyfriend would most likely get cheated on. And if the potential boyfriend knew about her having a fwb he would just use her in the same manner. Hope you are taking notes jay lol
Yeah definitely taking it in. Thing is I don't even cheat. Sigh.
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post 1560477401 09-04-2018, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO
if some sloot told me she has the herp a derp damn right ill go NC and hope I didn't get it
I told him way in advance. He said he was ok with it.
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post 1560477621 09-04-2018, 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted By RainingBlood
OP are you a guy
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post 1560477681 09-04-2018, 06:49 PM
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You should just go on a Herpie dating website. It would make life a lot easier
post 1560477951 09-04-2018, 06:52 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283
I only slept with the fwb to deal with being ghosted by the first guy who I didn't sleep with by the way. I was feeling sad and shot.
the next fking day
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Originally Posted By jay283
Yeah I pick the worst. This year alone:
- my ex who attempted to blackmail me because I was sleeping with someone else months after we broke up apologised
- a guy I dated who sent me scathing texts after I heard he was hitting on my sister (basically said I should get off hison case, he doesn't want me, he has his lady etc) apologises at least four times this year saying he regret what he did and that he wish he could take it back etc
- guy I dated who threatened to kill me and who said he would never leave his gf for me, actually had the balls to tell me hi and ask me how I'm doing
- guy I turned down who cussed me up and said I was a stupid ho, sees me and asks why I'm mad at him, tried to start a combo, I ignored the cuck
- old fwb who basically always indirectly called me a slur and who said that I should move on and let him be, every now and then apologises and tries to start a combo
- ex who had me as his side piece and lies all the while, who also acted like he didn't care when we broke ties, tried to apologise
- ex who when he first got married, acted like I was insignificant and did not even respond when I asked him how things were going and who did not even mention my name we he counted his exes in front his friends, his friends were embarrassed for me, now keeps trying to get my attention or brings up the past
- guy who tried to have me as side piece to my face and his own friend told me don't trust him, tried to apologise and said that he left his ex etc
(That one wanted to get laid I'm sure)
- ex who told me leave him alone and kicked me out when I visited him one time, is now saying he wants to start something serious etc
- guy who was an fb but always kept asking.me for cash, apologized and said that I treated him like crap as well, to which I said that maybe he shouldn't have kept asking me to buy him a vehicle

In summary, men are asshles.
It sounds like the problem could be you.
post 1560478201 09-04-2018, 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
the next fking day
Low self esteem slooting. All for the temporary and brief high of being wanted. OP is likely psycho with some form of mommy or daddy issues/self hate
post 1560478331 09-04-2018, 06:56 PM
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Originally Posted By AVIK777
this
What? No I'm a chick.
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post 1560479151 09-04-2018, 07:06 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
the next fking day
Not the next day, some days later. I was sad and a crying mess in addition to being horny.

It's difficult because everyday I see the first guy's vehicle. I have his pics saved on my phone. I needed a distraction so I slept with guy no. 2.
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post 1560479311 09-04-2018, 07:08 PM
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Probably because he realized you are a man
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Originally Posted By 1n4tr4nc3
Well thats good. No one is very fond of a cheater lol. And read the other posts. Thats a lot of guys in the past year whether u slept with them recently or not. Kind of just brings baggage/drama to your own situation. I will say this, dont be a side piece or put yourself in that position as a female. Nothing will come from it for you. Definitely try and judge your partners based on actions rather than what they say( i do this with girls). It is easy to lie, but no one can cover up their actions. You can always tell if a partner is worth the time if their actions match their words. Oh and not all men are *******s. Do you really have herpes?
You're right, I'll have to cease casual sex completely and I'll look at the actions more closely. Yes I do have herpes.
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post 1560479681 09-04-2018, 07:14 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283
Not the next day, some days later. I was sad and a crying mess in addition to being horny.

It's difficult because everyday I see the first guy's vehicle. I have his pics saved on my phone. I needed a distraction so I slept with guy no. 2.
Have some self respect. Buy a few sex toys and actually find a guy that won’t treat you like how you usually allow men to.
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Your life is meaningless and your existence is disposable and worthless.
lol im glad this fuking ******* is banned.what a miserable piece of chit
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lol im glad this fuking ******* is banned.what a miserable piece of chit
He kept posting that stupid chit all last night. Definitely needs to seek mental health.
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Originally Posted By jay283
Yeah I pick the worst. This year alone:
- my ex who attempted to blackmail me because I was sleeping with someone else months after we broke up apologised
- a guy I dated who sent me scathing texts after I heard he was hitting on my sister (basically said I should get off hison case, he doesn't want me, he has his lady etc) apologises at least four times this year saying he regret what he did and that he wish he could take it back etc
- guy I dated who threatened to kill me and who said he would never leave his gf for me, actually had the balls to tell me hi and ask me how I'm doing
- guy I turned down who cussed me up and said I was a stupid ho, sees me and asks why I'm mad at him, tried to start a combo, I ignored the cuck
- old fwb who basically always indirectly called me a slur and who said that I should move on and let him be, every now and then apologises and tries to start a combo
- ex who had me as his side piece and lies all the while, who also acted like he didn't care when we broke ties, tried to apologise
- ex who when he first got married, acted like I was insignificant and did not even respond when I asked him how things were going and who did not even mention my name we he counted his exes in front his friends, his friends were embarrassed for me, now keeps trying to get my attention or brings up the past
- guy who tried to have me as side piece to my face and his own friend told me don't trust him, tried to apologise and said that he left his ex etc
(That one wanted to get laid I'm sure)
- ex who told me leave him alone and kicked me out when I visited him one time, is now saying he wants to start something serious etc
- guy who was an fb but always kept asking.me for cash, apologized and said that I treated him like crap as well, to which I said that maybe he shouldn't have kept asking me to buy him a vehicle

In summary, men are asshles.
So in 2018 you've been in contact with TEN separate men you may (or may not) have given herpes to?
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Originally Posted By CrimsonSteel
So in 2018 you've been in contact with TEN separate men you may (or may not) have given herpes to?
No most of those guys I had slept with before but this year they popped back up.
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