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Man lands on moon... what’s new?
Yes chads have it easier. When you walk out, you ALWAYS get stares/glances from girls, guys, kids, moms, and dads. Both guys and girls start small talk in certain places (class, bus stop, elevator, etc.). A lot of guys will either want to be friends or they’ll envy/hate you greatly. Girls hugging their boyfriends will be staring at you. Kids will be friendlier with you. Adults will be friendlier with you. You’ll be liked by most people.
There’s much more but you get the point.
Yes chads have it easier. When you walk out, you ALWAYS get stares/glances from girls, guys, kids, moms, and dads. Both guys and girls start small talk in certain places (class, bus stop, elevator, etc.). A lot of guys will either want to be friends or they’ll envy/hate you greatly. Girls hugging their boyfriends will be staring at you. Kids will be friendlier with you. Adults will be friendlier with you. You’ll be liked by most people.
There’s much more but you get the point.
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I must confess that I have not been the happiest guy around for the past few months : I think most women have some kind of radar/sixth sense regarding your level of happiness.
I must pick myself up and get out of this hole but sometimes it's just hard to keep up a front and convince yourself that you're gonna make it.
I don't have many problems for attracting girls it's just that those that I desire t want nothing to do with me : I'll just stick to the leftovers and date within my race, at least I won't have to sleep alone too often.
I must pick myself up and get out of this hole but sometimes it's just hard to keep up a front and convince yourself that you're gonna make it.
I don't have many problems for attracting girls it's just that those that I desire t want nothing to do with me : I'll just stick to the leftovers and date within my race, at least I won't have to sleep alone too often.
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u got nothing else to worry about in life? this is not the way to happyness bro. nobody can expect u to be perfect, u cant change everything, but u can still have a good life while it lasts.
this will be u when ur older and realize every tear shed about this was a waste of time. go out and live, be grateful ur still young with opportunities
09-12-2018, 02:55 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
nothing wrong with sleeping alone brah. its actually a lot more comfortable IMO.I must confess that I have been the happiest guy around for the past few months : I think most women have some kind of radar/sixth sense regarding your level of happiness.
I must pick myself up and get out of this hole but sometimes it's just hard to keep up a front and convince yourself that you're gonna make it.
I don't have many problems for attracting girls it's just that those that I desire t want nothing to do with me : I'll just stick to the leftovers and date within my race, at least I won't have to sleep alone too often.
I must pick myself up and get out of this hole but sometimes it's just hard to keep up a front and convince yourself that you're gonna make it.
I don't have many problems for attracting girls it's just that those that I desire t want nothing to do with me : I'll just stick to the leftovers and date within my race, at least I won't have to sleep alone too often.
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i woulda guessed the most brutal eye opening experience would be like workin for doctors without borders and patchin up kids in a warzone, but i've never had any chad friends so idk
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09-12-2018, 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
It's much harder to get women now than it was prior to 2012-2014. Literally everything has changed bro. The competition is insane and women do not really have to show any real interest or do anything anymore and have 20x more options. Not to mention everyone including women are more shy and insecure now days.Dude, you must be my Twin. The exact same thing happened to me and now I am in college (last semester)
I went from Chad to Timothy. Let me explain :
When I was around 14-19 years old in 7-12th grade, I noticed that many females(7,8s and 9s) would ask me out. I actually had quite a few girlfriends in middle and H.S. I never approached any females, yet many females came to me. Some were actually quite attractive as well. I even had an attractive blonde 30-something year old counselor from our school ask me if I wanted to study with her when I was 18(I felt shy and I said no). Like everyone else in our private school, I never had sex though, so now i'm a 23-year-old virgin.
Now in college, it seems much more difficult. I approached about 5 females during the last 4 years of college(I should be graduating this December) yet I haven't been successful with one. I explicitly asked one girl out and she wasn't interested. The other ones I tried to talk to and they would not talk back. I've noticed no girls approached me in college either.
I went from Chad to Timothy. Let me explain :
When I was around 14-19 years old in 7-12th grade, I noticed that many females(7,8s and 9s) would ask me out. I actually had quite a few girlfriends in middle and H.S. I never approached any females, yet many females came to me. Some were actually quite attractive as well. I even had an attractive blonde 30-something year old counselor from our school ask me if I wanted to study with her when I was 18(I felt shy and I said no). Like everyone else in our private school, I never had sex though, so now i'm a 23-year-old virgin.
Now in college, it seems much more difficult. I approached about 5 females during the last 4 years of college(I should be graduating this December) yet I haven't been successful with one. I explicitly asked one girl out and she wasn't interested. The other ones I tried to talk to and they would not talk back. I've noticed no girls approached me in college either.
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Originally Posted By RightKindaGuy⏩
The left pic was his avi tho, or at least the one he used.lol i love how rudyrude convinced everyone that was his face when it was really some other innocent miscer
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Originally Posted By jlick⏩
Hey bro. Thanks for the advice! Just leave the political stuff out of it.maybe try not being such a sorry lib? I swear every time you post in the misc, your posts in R/P make more and more sense. The a big government will not help you get laid either buddy.
If you want some serious advice on how to improve your chances with women, i am willing to help. First, try to get involved on campus. join a club...or better yet, Rush a fraternity. A good organization will help you build up your confidence into something that unconsciously attracts people to you. Secondly, pick up a few interesting hobbies (trying to pick up chicks isn't a hobby). Something where you can see your skills improve. Then pick up another hobby and improve those skills. this will start to train your mentality into thinking you can improve drastically the things you put your mind to. Also, stop worrying so much about politics and Trump. If you are in college, you have much more important things to worry about....like getting your education. Those are some easy steps you can take to improve your mentality in life. On the physical side of things, learn how to dress with a sense of fashion. it doesn't have to be anything fancy, but don't look like a scumbag. Clothes can be expensive so if you are a broke college student, go to FREESTYLE or another type of clothing trade in store. you can find some nice clothes for dirt cheap. Make sure you are well groomed. Do all of these things, and you will start seeing improved results. or just ignore it all and continue to be a sad pathetic lib. the choice is yours, my friend.
If you want some serious advice on how to improve your chances with women, i am willing to help. First, try to get involved on campus. join a club...or better yet, Rush a fraternity. A good organization will help you build up your confidence into something that unconsciously attracts people to you. Secondly, pick up a few interesting hobbies (trying to pick up chicks isn't a hobby). Something where you can see your skills improve. Then pick up another hobby and improve those skills. this will start to train your mentality into thinking you can improve drastically the things you put your mind to. Also, stop worrying so much about politics and Trump. If you are in college, you have much more important things to worry about....like getting your education. Those are some easy steps you can take to improve your mentality in life. On the physical side of things, learn how to dress with a sense of fashion. it doesn't have to be anything fancy, but don't look like a scumbag. Clothes can be expensive so if you are a broke college student, go to FREESTYLE or another type of clothing trade in store. you can find some nice clothes for dirt cheap. Make sure you are well groomed. Do all of these things, and you will start seeing improved results. or just ignore it all and continue to be a sad pathetic lib. the choice is yours, my friend.
Thanks again for taking the time tho. I'll look into your advice.
I will graguate in 3 months so I guess I will use your advice more often when I get an internship or job.
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Even dudes have that radar bro, it's just they're more forgiving about it (unless you're aggressive).I must confess that I have not been the happiest guy around for the past few months : I think most women have some kind of radar/sixth sense regarding your level of happiness.
I must pick myself up and get out of this hole but sometimes it's just hard to keep up a front and convince yourself that you're gonna make it.
I don't have many problems for attracting girls it's just that those that I desire t want nothing to do with me : I'll just stick to the leftovers and date within my race, at least I won't have to sleep alone too often.
I must pick myself up and get out of this hole but sometimes it's just hard to keep up a front and convince yourself that you're gonna make it.
I don't have many problems for attracting girls it's just that those that I desire t want nothing to do with me : I'll just stick to the leftovers and date within my race, at least I won't have to sleep alone too often.
Though yeah there's studies that women are more fine-tuned to catch facial expressions/emotions.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
Exactly. It seems like it all changed in college. I thought I could get any girl I wanted until I went to college.It's much harder to get women now than it was prior to 2012-2014. Literally everything has changed bro. The competition is insane and women do not really have to show any real interest or do anything anymore and have 20x more options. Not to mention everyone including women are more shy and insecure now days.
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If you didn't know this from your teen years, I don't know what went wrong. It's just how it is. Same with girls. Same with everything really. Attractive things are attracting...
Only thing you can do is accept it for what it is and do your thing nonetheless. Lucky for dudes, they can be attractive in more ways then one.
Only thing you can do is accept it for what it is and do your thing nonetheless. Lucky for dudes, they can be attractive in more ways then one.
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Originally Posted By jlick⏩
This^^^^ I would rather sleep alone. I like my space.nothing wrong with sleeping alone brah. its actually a lot more comfortable IMO.
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I'm assuming you have a large dick. Text those girls a pic of your dick and say "this is what a real man looks like". I know of a guy that's a total ****ing loser, broke as **** and in prison. He pulled the hottest girl I've ever seen before by showing her his dick. You gotta play up your advantages. Carry yourself like your the best guy around even if you're not. Tell those girls you're really everything Chad says he is.
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
Would bet my left nut you guys dont put out vibes. Youre more reactive and waiting for womens response instead of generating it on your ownExactly. It seems like it all changed in college. I thought I could get any girl I wanted until I went to college.
"Let me see what this woman thinks of me vs. Lets make this woman think this of me"
Women WANT to be desired. Thats the name of the game, imo. Make them feel desired and wanted, have integrity, dont let them boss you around, dont be clingy, etc.
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Who cares. Some people are born lucky. Stop being so concerned with others' lives and maybe yours will get better.
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Originally Posted By SAD_COW_DISEASE⏩
Had the same experience. When I was out with pretty girls I had people approach me.Didn't read thread so I have no idea where it went after the OP...
But I had a chad roommate in the dorms in college, and it was an eye-opener. But not just about women - just life in general. I was in the dorms for a semester before I met him, and no one approached me or made any effort to become friends. I never thought anything of it, but then my roommate moved in, and people literally knocked on our door to ask him to go hang out. Basically the ultimate cold-approach, and they were like "oh, we were going to ask Chad if he wanted to hang out, but since he's not here, you want to come over and play COD?"
It was just constant barrage from then on with people being friendlier and generous. I made the vast majority of my friends in college simply through vicarious association through my Chad roommate, who would also become my best friend.
Kind of depressing actually. And that's life for pretty much any female, lol.
But I had a chad roommate in the dorms in college, and it was an eye-opener. But not just about women - just life in general. I was in the dorms for a semester before I met him, and no one approached me or made any effort to become friends. I never thought anything of it, but then my roommate moved in, and people literally knocked on our door to ask him to go hang out. Basically the ultimate cold-approach, and they were like "oh, we were going to ask Chad if he wanted to hang out, but since he's not here, you want to come over and play COD?"
It was just constant barrage from then on with people being friendlier and generous. I made the vast majority of my friends in college simply through vicarious association through my Chad roommate, who would also become my best friend.
Kind of depressing actually. And that's life for pretty much any female, lol.
09-12-2018, 04:40 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
no problem. i'm sorry to get political i just go in R/P regularly and your posts are terrible, lol.Hey bro. Thanks for the advice! Just leave the political stuff out of it.
Thanks again for taking the time tho. I'll look into your advice.
I will graguate in 3 months so I guess I will use your advice more often when I get an internship or job.
Thanks again for taking the time tho. I'll look into your advice.
I will graguate in 3 months so I guess I will use your advice more often when I get an internship or job.
But seriously dude...look into finding new hobbies. ones that you can improve on. Now that i'm back on some dating apps, i can tell you women are very impressed when they see you have some sort of skill. I finally added a picture of myself walking on the slack line and i swear my matches (and the quality of those matches) has gone up a lot. from one simple picture. and thats just online. In the real world, a good hobby or two or three is something that will bring you new joy and confidence every day. A happy, confident person is the kind of person everyone wants to be around.
Since you are graduating soon, it is probably too late for you to get involved on campus, but that doesn't mean it is too late to find some things outside of work/school that can bring you joy and happiness in your life. Find these things, focus on them, good thing will come as a result. I promise.
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Think of it this way. Without your body being as good as it is the women you could pull would be even worse.
Everyone has different starting points, but you can always improve, even if that means you won't pull a 10/10, a 6 or 7 is still better than a 3 or 4.
Look at the bright side.
Everyone has different starting points, but you can always improve, even if that means you won't pull a 10/10, a 6 or 7 is still better than a 3 or 4.
Look at the bright side.
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The struggle. One of my chad buddies just sent me a snap of two bitches he was about to smash.
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Originally Posted By OrganicMusclr⏩
Is this something a friend has told you about?Man lands on moon... what’s new?
Yes chads have it easier. When you walk out, you ALWAYS get stares/glances from girls, guys, kids, moms, and dads. Both guys and girls start small talk in certain places (class, bus stop, elevator, etc.). A lot of guys will either want to be friends or they’ll envy/hate you greatly. Girls hugging their boyfriends will be staring at you. Kids will be friendlier with you. Adults will be friendlier with you. You’ll be liked by most people.
There’s much more but you get the point.
Yes chads have it easier. When you walk out, you ALWAYS get stares/glances from girls, guys, kids, moms, and dads. Both guys and girls start small talk in certain places (class, bus stop, elevator, etc.). A lot of guys will either want to be friends or they’ll envy/hate you greatly. Girls hugging their boyfriends will be staring at you. Kids will be friendlier with you. Adults will be friendlier with you. You’ll be liked by most people.
There’s much more but you get the point.
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Originally Posted By whogotmuhbeers⏩
You’re so cool mr no avi.Is this something a friend has told you about?
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Some are naturally smart and never had to study a day in their life to get good grades, while others have to put in the work. Some people are naturally gifted artistically or athletically while others have to practice. Same is true with getting girls, some will get girls with no effort, others have to put in the work. That's life son, go cry a river.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
you sound patheticThis lol
I want a relationship really bad but I'm dreading sleeping together all night. I sleep terrible with someone there.
I want a relationship really bad but I'm dreading sleeping together all night. I sleep terrible with someone there.
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
All it takes is banging one chick the 3/4 of the campus will know about 4” JohnnyExactly. It seems like it all changed in college. I thought I could get any girl I wanted until I went to college.
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Originally Posted By jlick⏩
Awesome bro. When I get my first job or internship, I will probably join a chess club or something like that. I am great at chess, which relates to my degrees in Mechanical Engineering and Accounting that I will be receiving once this semester ends in 3 months.no problem. i'm sorry to get political i just go in R/P regularly and your posts are terrible, lol.
But seriously dude...look into finding new hobbies. ones that you can improve on. Now that i'm back on some dating apps, i can tell you women are very impressed when they see you have some sort of skill. I finally added a picture of myself walking on the slack line and i swear my matches (and the quality of those matches) has gone up a lot. from one simple picture. and thats just online. In the real world, a good hobby or two or three is something that will bring you new joy and confidence every day. A happy, confident person is the kind of person everyone wants to be around.
Since you are graduating soon, it is probably too late for you to get involved on campus, but that doesn't mean it is too late to find some things outside of work/school that can bring you joy and happiness in your life. Find these things, focus on them, good thing will come as a result. I promise.
But seriously dude...look into finding new hobbies. ones that you can improve on. Now that i'm back on some dating apps, i can tell you women are very impressed when they see you have some sort of skill. I finally added a picture of myself walking on the slack line and i swear my matches (and the quality of those matches) has gone up a lot. from one simple picture. and thats just online. In the real world, a good hobby or two or three is something that will bring you new joy and confidence every day. A happy, confident person is the kind of person everyone wants to be around.
Since you are graduating soon, it is probably too late for you to get involved on campus, but that doesn't mean it is too late to find some things outside of work/school that can bring you joy and happiness in your life. Find these things, focus on them, good thing will come as a result. I promise.
I never tried online dating because I still live with my parents in college, and if they found out that I was using dating apps I would be quite embarrassed. I may try once I graduate if I can't find anyone else at my internship or work. I honestly do believe that I look at least decent because so many girls liked me in middle and H.S, unless I got uglier of course. ( btw never gained any weight either since then) so I think I could find someone online.
There is a cute blonde girl who sits close to me in one of my Accounting classes. She stares at me sometimes and we talked a little. I'll see how that goes.
Anyways, good luck!
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