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09-16-2018, 10:19 AM
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Man this thread is depressing to read.
Also lol @ wincel, whenever I feel a bit low I just need to read any ONE of your posts, and I am instantly grateful for all the good things I have, and that I don't think like you. Sorry bud.
If you're virgin early - mid 20s, get your finger out and do something about it. Virgin late 20s, you're missing the boat.
Virgin in your 30s - pathological.
Also lol @ wincel, whenever I feel a bit low I just need to read any ONE of your posts, and I am instantly grateful for all the good things I have, and that I don't think like you. Sorry bud.
If you're virgin early - mid 20s, get your finger out and do something about it. Virgin late 20s, you're missing the boat.
Virgin in your 30s - pathological.
09-16-2018, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted By damlurker550⏩
Is this for real?33 year old kissless virgin here.
09-16-2018, 10:59 AM
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LOl the more that comes out about you the more pathetic you are.
Self hating white liberal convinced that once he has a degree the bull dikes he associates with will one day like him.
Good luck chief.
Self hating white liberal convinced that once he has a degree the bull dikes he associates with will one day like him.
Good luck chief.
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Originally Posted By Austanian⏩
One of the problems is that I actually hit on really hot girls, like blonde 8/10 types. I always had a big ego because I used to get a lot of girls in H.S, so I naturally hit on lots of hot girls in college because they used to like me in H.S and middle school. I guess i'll just try to hit on average looking sloots from now on.LOl the more that comes out about you the more pathetic you are.
Self hating white liberal convinced thatonce he has a degree the bull dikeshe associates with will one day like him.
Good luck chief.
Self hating white liberal convinced thatonce he has a degree the bull dikeshe associates with will one day like him.
Good luck chief.
Also fatty, you look like a chubby "bull dyke" yourself. CHUBBY LOSER.
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09-16-2018, 01:18 PM
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I'm 27 year old virgin. But I was abused as a kid and have severe mental health disorder and resentment from that. Also, bereaved of my Mother since age 14. It bugs me when people think I must be a loser with no social skills or game, it's more just like I've felt emotionally disconnected from life or some chit. I consider myself unlucky and to have issues, rather than just bad genetics or autism, since I don't have those.
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09-16-2018, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
aim lower.One of the problems is that I actually hit on really hot girls, like blonde 8/10 types. I always had a big ego because I used to get a lot of girls in H.S, so I naturally hit on lots of hot girls in college because they used to like me in H.S and middle school. I guess i'll just try to hit on average looking sloots from now on.
Also fatty, you look like a chubby "bull dyke" yourself. CHUBBY LOSER.
Also fatty, you look like a chubby "bull dyke" yourself. CHUBBY LOSER.
09-16-2018, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Retoaded⏩
I know.aim lower.
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I get the when will we meet your gf? am i ever going to get grandchildren "fivefootkillerz"? why dont you ever go out with any of your friends??
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Why guys don't get girls:
(1) They are losers in denial.
(2) They don't put themselves out there.
(3) They are afraid of rejection.
How to get girls:
(1) Be confident.
(2) Be sociable.
(3) Have a drive and career.
(4) Be happy alone and with nothing. Never look to a woman for happiness.
(5) Don't chase too much - should be a ying and yang. If you are constantly trying to set up dates, cut them off and move on.
(6) Keep yourself healthy.
(1) They are losers in denial.
(2) They don't put themselves out there.
(3) They are afraid of rejection.
How to get girls:
(1) Be confident.
(2) Be sociable.
(3) Have a drive and career.
(4) Be happy alone and with nothing. Never look to a woman for happiness.
(5) Don't chase too much - should be a ying and yang. If you are constantly trying to set up dates, cut them off and move on.
(6) Keep yourself healthy.
09-16-2018, 02:56 PM
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Feels bad man. Thanks dad for the poverty genetics.It's literally all genetics. There is nothing you can do to fix it. All you can do is keep trying, and hope it will work out. Some of us will reproduce. Others will die alone, likely by our own hands. That's the savage reality of nature. It's a brutal competition.
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Kind of fit the on the boat here, not a virgin but never had a gf or anything for family to meet. 29 years old and only smashed twice.
Everytime I see my mom she brings up if I've met someone yet or if I had any sleep overs recently. Then almost every other time she says it doesn't matter if I bring a girl or a guy as long as I'm happy thinking i'm a *******.
TFW just an awkward as fuk FA attractive brah. If I had any sense of communication would be set in life.
Everytime I see my mom she brings up if I've met someone yet or if I had any sleep overs recently. Then almost every other time she says it doesn't matter if I bring a girl or a guy as long as I'm happy thinking i'm a *******.
TFW just an awkward as fuk FA attractive brah. If I had any sense of communication would be set in life.
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First post, but lurked for a while. I am a 38 year old virgin. I live in a major city in the US. Currently working on an MBA, but used to work in IT. I was doing alright money wise, was enough to support me, and allowed me to save a reasonable amount.
So what do my parents think? First thing you need to know is, that my ethnicity is Indian (IT, not casino). I came to the US in elementary school back in the mid 80s. So, maybe the answer will differ from others. My parents are kind of sad, and they are worried about me. But the "help" they have offered in the past is so last century that it was no help at all. Yeah, I tried that arranged route. It's not truly arranged like in the good ol' days, more like oh look my other Indian friend has a daughter around your age, and luckily they have invited us over for some tea... why don't you two talk about work and life?
Their intentions are good, but me being me, I have no clue how to talk to women. So these kind of conversations went no where. I didn't date at all in college. Had minor luck when I was around 26, but luck ran out fast. No real friends, or the chill group to hang out with. Just become more and more of a loner. I can easily go a whole day without saying a proper sentence. Have to throw a few pleasantries here and there to say hi and hello to colleagues. I can, and have gone a whole week without having a substantial conversation with anyone. Not that, I can't talk. I do want to talk. I crave conversations and company. Thing is, I have nothing interesting to say. The usual conversations about the weather and traffic get boring fast.
I did meet a woman a few months ago. It felt great for a while, but then reality set in. She was an extremely social person, while I am the opposite of that. Conversations started feeling forced and I had to act super social around her. So I stopped talking to her. I know, idiot me, but it wasn't going anywhere.
I don't do online dating. I have been told by many people that online is where even the most social people meet up. I can't really provide a rational explanation as to why I don't. It's just not for me.
So what do my parents think? First thing you need to know is, that my ethnicity is Indian (IT, not casino). I came to the US in elementary school back in the mid 80s. So, maybe the answer will differ from others. My parents are kind of sad, and they are worried about me. But the "help" they have offered in the past is so last century that it was no help at all. Yeah, I tried that arranged route. It's not truly arranged like in the good ol' days, more like oh look my other Indian friend has a daughter around your age, and luckily they have invited us over for some tea... why don't you two talk about work and life?
Their intentions are good, but me being me, I have no clue how to talk to women. So these kind of conversations went no where. I didn't date at all in college. Had minor luck when I was around 26, but luck ran out fast. No real friends, or the chill group to hang out with. Just become more and more of a loner. I can easily go a whole day without saying a proper sentence. Have to throw a few pleasantries here and there to say hi and hello to colleagues. I can, and have gone a whole week without having a substantial conversation with anyone. Not that, I can't talk. I do want to talk. I crave conversations and company. Thing is, I have nothing interesting to say. The usual conversations about the weather and traffic get boring fast.
I did meet a woman a few months ago. It felt great for a while, but then reality set in. She was an extremely social person, while I am the opposite of that. Conversations started feeling forced and I had to act super social around her. So I stopped talking to her. I know, idiot me, but it wasn't going anywhere.
I don't do online dating. I have been told by many people that online is where even the most social people meet up. I can't really provide a rational explanation as to why I don't. It's just not for me.
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Originally Posted By butterchicken90⏩
First post, but lurked for a while. I am a 38 year old virgin. I live in a major city in the US. Currently working on an MBA, but used to work in IT. I was doing alright money wise, was enough to support me, and allowed me to save a reasonable amount.
So what do my parents think? First thing you need to know is, that my ethnicity is Indian (IT, not casino). I came to the US in elementary school back in the mid 80s. So, maybe the answer will differ from others. My parents are kind of sad, and they are worried about me. But the "help" they have offered in the past is so last century that it was no help at all. Yeah, I tried that arranged route. It's not truly arranged like in the good ol' days, more like oh look my other Indian friend has a daughter around your age, and luckily they have invited us over for some tea... why don't you two talk about work and life?
Their intentions are good, but me being me, I have no clue how to talk to women. So these kind of conversations went no where. I didn't date at all in college. Had minor luck when I was around 26, but luck ran out fast. No real friends, or the chill group to hang out with. Just become more and more of a loner. I can easily go a whole day without saying a proper sentence. Have to throw a few pleasantries here and there to say hi and hello to colleagues. I can, and have gone a whole week without having a substantial conversation with anyone. Not that, I can't talk. I do want to talk. I crave conversations and company. Thing is, I have nothing interesting to say. The usual conversations about the weather and traffic get boring fast.
I did meet a woman a few months ago. It felt great for a while, but then reality set in. She was an extremely social person, while I am the opposite of that. Conversations started feeling forced and I had to act super social around her. So I stopped talking to her. I know, idiot me, but it wasn't going anywhere.
I don't do online dating. I have been told by many people that online is where even the most social people meet up. I can't really provide a rational explanation as to why I don't. It's just not for me.
So what do my parents think? First thing you need to know is, that my ethnicity is Indian (IT, not casino). I came to the US in elementary school back in the mid 80s. So, maybe the answer will differ from others. My parents are kind of sad, and they are worried about me. But the "help" they have offered in the past is so last century that it was no help at all. Yeah, I tried that arranged route. It's not truly arranged like in the good ol' days, more like oh look my other Indian friend has a daughter around your age, and luckily they have invited us over for some tea... why don't you two talk about work and life?
Their intentions are good, but me being me, I have no clue how to talk to women. So these kind of conversations went no where. I didn't date at all in college. Had minor luck when I was around 26, but luck ran out fast. No real friends, or the chill group to hang out with. Just become more and more of a loner. I can easily go a whole day without saying a proper sentence. Have to throw a few pleasantries here and there to say hi and hello to colleagues. I can, and have gone a whole week without having a substantial conversation with anyone. Not that, I can't talk. I do want to talk. I crave conversations and company. Thing is, I have nothing interesting to say. The usual conversations about the weather and traffic get boring fast.
I did meet a woman a few months ago. It felt great for a while, but then reality set in. She was an extremely social person, while I am the opposite of that. Conversations started feeling forced and I had to act super social around her. So I stopped talking to her. I know, idiot me, but it wasn't going anywhere.
I don't do online dating. I have been told by many people that online is where even the most social people meet up. I can't really provide a rational explanation as to why I don't. It's just not for me.
Very nice, excellent read
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I was FA through college and up till my early 20s. Got a girl and decent social circle around that time. This went on for a few years. Since then I've kind of backslid.
I'm not a virgin but im pretty sure half my family thinks i am since I've never brought a chick to a family event. After a certain point nobody really asks questions ... not that i really care at this point.
The funny things is once i got my teeth fixed i had chicks throw themselves at me enough times... but it was usually bat chit crazy ones. The ones i usually found attractive i generally had no game with. Which brings me to my final thought:
If you're FA into your 20s and 30s ... it's almost always your parents fault. More so your dad than your mom. It is really on them to get those skills rolling in your life. I was aware early on that my parents failed me on this... so i slowly had to fight anxiety/resistance to overcome it. Your parents might have fuked you over but after a certain age (mid 20s) you have to own up to the fact that it is up to your to fix it and then do something about it. If you don't ... you're just going to rot and potentially resent yourself for the rest of your life.
I'm not a virgin but im pretty sure half my family thinks i am since I've never brought a chick to a family event. After a certain point nobody really asks questions ... not that i really care at this point.
The funny things is once i got my teeth fixed i had chicks throw themselves at me enough times... but it was usually bat chit crazy ones. The ones i usually found attractive i generally had no game with. Which brings me to my final thought:
If you're FA into your 20s and 30s ... it's almost always your parents fault. More so your dad than your mom. It is really on them to get those skills rolling in your life. I was aware early on that my parents failed me on this... so i slowly had to fight anxiety/resistance to overcome it. Your parents might have fuked you over but after a certain age (mid 20s) you have to own up to the fact that it is up to your to fix it and then do something about it. If you don't ... you're just going to rot and potentially resent yourself for the rest of your life.
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Originally Posted By faxanadu⏩
ExcellentI was FA through college and up till my early 20s. Got a girl and decent social circle around that time. This went on for a few years. Since then I've kind of backslid.
I'm not a virgin but im pretty sure half my family thinks i am since I've never brought a chick to a family event. After a certain point nobody really asks questions ... not that i really care at this point.
The funny things is once i got my teeth fixed i had chicks throw themselves at me enough times... but it was usually bat chit crazy ones. The ones i usually found attractive i generally had no game with. Which brings me to my final thought:
If you're FA into your 20s and 30s ... it's almost always your parents fault. More so your dad than your mom. It is really on them to get those skills rolling in your life. I was aware early on that my parents failed me on this... so i slowly had to fight anxiety/resistance to overcome it. Your parents might have fuked you over but after a certain age (mid 20s) you have to own up to the fact that it is up to your to fix it and then do something about it. If you don't ... you're just going to rot and potentially resent yourself for the rest of your life.
I'm not a virgin but im pretty sure half my family thinks i am since I've never brought a chick to a family event. After a certain point nobody really asks questions ... not that i really care at this point.
The funny things is once i got my teeth fixed i had chicks throw themselves at me enough times... but it was usually bat chit crazy ones. The ones i usually found attractive i generally had no game with. Which brings me to my final thought:
If you're FA into your 20s and 30s ... it's almost always your parents fault. More so your dad than your mom. It is really on them to get those skills rolling in your life. I was aware early on that my parents failed me on this... so i slowly had to fight anxiety/resistance to overcome it. Your parents might have fuked you over but after a certain age (mid 20s) you have to own up to the fact that it is up to your to fix it and then do something about it. If you don't ... you're just going to rot and potentially resent yourself for the rest of your life.
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I’m just plain ole ugly. None to blame except bad genetics and a depleted drive to better myself. Never gotten laid, never had a gf, I did make out with a girl once but she was a wasted and it was horrible. I never talk to my parents or my siblings about my sex life (I could never admit to being a virgin), but I’m positive that they’re at least mostly sure that I never had sex. But my dad would sometimes tell me (not to brag but just guy talk, I guess) about when he was my age and how much puss he’d smashed before he met my mom, telling me that I could have other siblings somewhere out there. Phuck, who talks like this to ugly brahs, it just makes me want to rage.
Personality-wise, I’m pretty squared away especially if I’m comfortable around a group of individuals which takes a while. It’s just that I only make friends/acquaintances at work, a place where I’m largely required to be sociable. I rarely ever hang out outside work because I’m too self conscious to go around clubbing or hitting bars or what the hell ever the pretty ppl like to do.
Personality-wise, I’m pretty squared away especially if I’m comfortable around a group of individuals which takes a while. It’s just that I only make friends/acquaintances at work, a place where I’m largely required to be sociable. I rarely ever hang out outside work because I’m too self conscious to go around clubbing or hitting bars or what the hell ever the pretty ppl like to do.
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Originally Posted By OLawdQuan⏩
I’m just plain ole ugly. None to blame except bad genetics and a depleted drive to better myself. Never gotten laid, never had a gf, I did make out with a girl once but she was a wasted and it was horrible. I never talk to my parents or my siblings about my sex life (I could never admit to being a virgin), but I’m positive that they’re at least mostly sure that I never had sex. But my dad would sometimes tell me (not to brag but just guy talk, I guess) about when he was my age and how much puss he’d smashed before he met my mom, telling me that I could have other siblings somewhere out there. Phuck, who talks like this to ugly brahs, it just makes me want to rage.
Personality-wise, I’m pretty squared away especially if I’m comfortable around a group of individuals which takes a while. It’s just that I only make friends/acquaintances at work, a place where I’m largely required to be sociable. I rarely ever hang out outside work because I’m too self conscious to go around clubbing or hitting bars or what the hell ever the pretty ppl like to do.
Personality-wise, I’m pretty squared away especially if I’m comfortable around a group of individuals which takes a while. It’s just that I only make friends/acquaintances at work, a place where I’m largely required to be sociable. I rarely ever hang out outside work because I’m too self conscious to go around clubbing or hitting bars or what the hell ever the pretty ppl like to do.
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Originally Posted By Fivefootkillerz⏩
Very nice.I get the when will we meet your gf? am i ever going to get grandchildren "fivefootkillerz"? why dont you ever go out with any of your friends??
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Originally Posted By CanadianSpartan⏩
WOW. great read, very insightful.Kind of fit the on the boat here, not a virgin but never had a gf or anything for family to meet. 29 years old and only smashed twice.
Everytime I see my mom she brings up if I've met someone yet or if I had any sleep overs recently. Then almost every other time she says it doesn't matter if I bring a girl or a guy as long as I'm happy thinking i'm a *******.
TFW just an awkward as fuk FA attractive brah. If I had any sense of communication would be set in life.
Everytime I see my mom she brings up if I've met someone yet or if I had any sleep overs recently. Then almost every other time she says it doesn't matter if I bring a girl or a guy as long as I'm happy thinking i'm a *******.
TFW just an awkward as fuk FA attractive brah. If I had any sense of communication would be set in life.
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I was a virgin at 20 years old. Was very awkward around girls, super shy, you have to start slow. Change your appearance, change your mindset, don’t look at every girl as the goal just to lose it, but just act confident and others will pick up on it. The first time is going to be awful (mine was lolol), so don’t put too much pressure on yourself. After you lose it you really it’s just a series of steps before you do it the next time, and it’s really not a big deal anymore. Take it one step at a time, or you’ll make it worse for yourself.
I know plenty of ugly dudes who don’t lift that have gotten married and have kids by now, looks are not the main trait a woman is going for, make any woman laugh and you’re in.
I know plenty of ugly dudes who don’t lift that have gotten married and have kids by now, looks are not the main trait a woman is going for, make any woman laugh and you’re in.
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i lost my virginity very late. But i "faked it til i made it" so i think my parents think i lost it earlier than i did. But my first time wasn't that horrible. Only problem is i couldnt cum.
I was really an awkward kunt until like last year when i actually tried to improve my lf. self. Just thought to my self. Look man, youre not ugly, just get a nice haircut, nice fitting clothes and actually try to be more confident. It really is that simple. Just try to be more confident fam. You don't have to think in your head that every female you speak to, is someone you are going to smash. Sometimes just talking and beeing nice is also good. And eventually you will notice if a girl likes you or not
I was really an awkward kunt until like last year when i actually tried to improve my lf. self. Just thought to my self. Look man, youre not ugly, just get a nice haircut, nice fitting clothes and actually try to be more confident. It really is that simple. Just try to be more confident fam. You don't have to think in your head that every female you speak to, is someone you are going to smash. Sometimes just talking and beeing nice is also good. And eventually you will notice if a girl likes you or not
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09-17-2018, 02:15 AM
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One time my Father asked if I am seeing anyone. I said no. He replied "So what do you do for sex?". I found it an odd reply especially since we were sitting in a public cafe outside. Shrugging off the bystander glances, I replied: "Well, I do see plenty of women, they just leave in the morning". He gave me a half relieved and but still concerned look, but also didn't get the reference.
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09-17-2018, 02:33 AM
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Originally Posted By faxanadu⏩
This.I was FA through college and up till my early 20s. Got a girl and decent social circle around that time. This went on for a few years. Since then I've kind of backslid.
I'm not a virgin but im pretty sure half my family thinks i am since I've never brought a chick to a family event. After a certain point nobody really asks questions ... not that i really care at this point.
The funny things is once i got my teeth fixed i had chicks throw themselves at me enough times... but it was usually bat chit crazy ones. The ones i usually found attractive i generally had no game with. Which brings me to my final thought:
If you're FA into your 20s and 30s ... it's almost always your parents fault. More so your dad than your mom. It is really on them to get those skills rolling in your life. I was aware early on that my parents failed me on this... so i slowly had to fight anxiety/resistance to overcome it. Your parents might have fuked you over but after a certain age (mid 20s) you have to own up to the fact that it is up to your to fix it and then do something about it. If you don't ... you're just going to rot and potentially resent yourself for the rest of your life.
I'm not a virgin but im pretty sure half my family thinks i am since I've never brought a chick to a family event. After a certain point nobody really asks questions ... not that i really care at this point.
The funny things is once i got my teeth fixed i had chicks throw themselves at me enough times... but it was usually bat chit crazy ones. The ones i usually found attractive i generally had no game with. Which brings me to my final thought:
If you're FA into your 20s and 30s ... it's almost always your parents fault. More so your dad than your mom. It is really on them to get those skills rolling in your life. I was aware early on that my parents failed me on this... so i slowly had to fight anxiety/resistance to overcome it. Your parents might have fuked you over but after a certain age (mid 20s) you have to own up to the fact that it is up to your to fix it and then do something about it. If you don't ... you're just going to rot and potentially resent yourself for the rest of your life.
To be honest, ALL the problems you face in your early adult years are inherited from your parents, family, social circle and and environment. That's just how it is. Even adults don't have as much control over things as self-help books would lead you to believe, and kids have far less control than adults.
09-17-2018, 02:35 AM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
yes sir, this x2000never listen to women for advice on how to get women
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09-17-2018, 02:56 AM
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Originally Posted By johnnydeep1⏩
They won't. I have a crazy big salary for my area, I literally have 5x bigger salary than anyone I know. Girls don't care. At all.NO. I am saying that girls WILL like me by then.
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09-17-2018, 04:38 AM
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All of you guys on here blaming your looks are delusional....and just looking for something / someone else to blame other then yourself. There was a FA thread on misc where the FA's posted pics of themselves who thought they were ugly and the results were that almost all of the guys were at very least average looking and many were actually above average looking.
The truth is that getting girls / laid has alot to do with social skills and putting yourself out there...getting out of you comfort zone. If your social skills suk then work on that dont blame your parents or your genetics.
edit: I do want to point out that being good looking makes things way way more easier obv but lets face it most of the people on this earth are average and they do fine.
The truth is that getting girls / laid has alot to do with social skills and putting yourself out there...getting out of you comfort zone. If your social skills suk then work on that dont blame your parents or your genetics.
edit: I do want to point out that being good looking makes things way way more easier obv but lets face it most of the people on this earth are average and they do fine.
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09-17-2018, 04:42 AM
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09-17-2018, 05:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
my mom didnt seem too concerned.
she would always ask if I talkd to girls at the gym (yeah.. lmfao, as if that would work).
I told her I am too ugly and creepy looking.
she would always ask if I talkd to girls at the gym (yeah.. lmfao, as if that would work).
I told her I am too ugly and creepy looking.
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