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Thread: One of my brother's friends found out 2 of his 3 kids are not his lol

post 1561823651 09-21-2018, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted By JoshSP1985⏩
I've seen studies suggesting as many as 30% of children are being raised by men who think they are biological fathers who are not.

You won't see mandatory paternity testing at birth because it would cause a societal breakdown.
Josh...30%....i....i don't think so bro
post 1561823761 09-21-2018, 01:21 PM
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post 1561824111 09-21-2018, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted By EdwardTheGreat⏩
An even more fukked up thing happened to a friend of mine...when his daughter was almost 6 years old, he got the tests done because she just didn't seem to take after his family at all in looks or behaviours. Turns out he was not the father.

Madness ensues in his house, wife insisting she never cheated...he called her every whore related name you could think of...she was devastated. She had a full on breakdown and he told her that he hoped she would die. He was listing off all of her "suspicious behaviours" and how he should have known all along she was taking cawk. It was brutal.

She gets tested. Child is not hers either.

Turns out the hospital fukked up large and gave 2 couples the wrong babies. They are currently in major legal battles with the hospital as well as the other parents (the other parents want their biological child back, my buddy and his wife love the girl they have been raising for now 10 years). Buddy and wife are also in counselling to try and repair their relationship due to his reactions...the hospital is responsible for this as well.

It is a cluster-fukk of biblical proportions.
I don't understand how this happens kids get ID bands literally immediately for this reason. (source I have 2 kids), C-sec both times kids had ID bands before they left the operating room.
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Originally Posted By EnforcerOTF⏩
i mean if he raised them as his own and has loved them unconditionally, he shouldnt feel any different towards them they are innocent
Truth.

Ideally you'd want to dump the wife and do your part to raise the kids. Would be pretty scummy to abandon them this far into their lives... to them, he's Dad.
post 1561824641 09-21-2018, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Weezy32⏩
They are going to get paid .... i am talking about millions here...Should be easy win for most lawyers
All my buddy keeps saying is that he regrets that paternity test and all he wants is to go back and not have it done.
Originally Posted By JoshSP1985⏩
I don't understand how this happens kids get ID bands literally immediately for this reason. (source I have 2 kids), C-sec both times kids had ID bands before they left the operating room.
Mine as well, I have no idea how this could possibly happen.
post 1561825111 09-21-2018, 01:42 PM
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Originally Posted By EdwardTheGreat⏩
An even more fukked up thing happened to a friend of mine...when his daughter was almost 6 years old, he got the tests done because she just didn't seem to take after his family at all in looks or behaviours. Turns out he was not the father.

Madness ensues in his house, wife insisting she never cheated...he called her every whore related name you could think of...she was devastated. She had a full on breakdown and he told her that he hoped she would die. He was listing off all of her "suspicious behaviours" and how he should have known all along she was taking cawk. It was brutal.

She gets tested. Child is not hers either.

Turns out the hospital fukked up large and gave 2 couples the wrong babies. They are currently in major legal battles with the hospital as well as the other parents (the other parents want their biological child back, my buddy and his wife love the girl they have been raising for now 10 years). Buddy and wife are also in counselling to try and repair their relationship due to his reactions...the hospital is responsible for this as well.

It is a cluster-fukk of biblical proportions.
They should take the money they're awarded, purchase two houses side by side and in effect raise the two children together. What other option do they have? Raise them as sisters. Make the best of it. Better than the alternative of being broken by it all.
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Originally Posted By Weezy32⏩
Anyone else think that women should get some SERIOUS jail time for dong this.... this is beyond ****ed up on all levels ...why can they just get away with it.
It should be treated as fraud. That's exactly what it is.
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post 1561825831 09-21-2018, 01:50 PM
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That has to be the worst thing to happen to a father. I dont know how some miscers could laugh at something like that
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post 1561828651 09-21-2018, 02:27 PM
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Originally Posted By SUPERH0T⏩
This should be a crime with worse punishments than actual murder.

At least if she had just shot him, he wouldn't have slaved away for 12 years only to not pass his genes on anyway.

She's even betraying the kids by risking them being abandoned and ostracised if discovered.

Every man needs to insist on paternity testing before allowing his name on a birth certificate. It's the only way for these sloots to stop their subhuman ways.
It is an interesting idea to DNA test at birth for correct identity on the birth certificate. If the real father isn't identified though then you have possibly a broken family and a fatherless child. There is also a HUGE privacy issue re:should your DNA be on file from birth and available to the state.
Originally Posted By tk217⏩
Kids are typically immediately ****ed.
What was life insurance.

CBA to dig for a link but I have read that back when we were hunter-gatherers it wasn't possible for a female with a baby to acquire enough calories to support them both by herself.
Originally Posted By EdwardTheGreat⏩
I would leave as well, but not without my daughter. I have a 3 year old and if I found out she wasn't mine I would never tell her...because she is mine. I am totally crazy about her and have never had such strong feelings in my life, whether it be joy, love, missing her...everything with her is amplified a million times over. I can't imagine that my wife could do anything that would cause my feelings towards my little girl to fade even one iota.
Definitely a parent.

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Crappy situation. Don't know how you punish the wife without also punishing the children. If she is in jail or broke from a lawsuit the children suffer.
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post 1561829641 09-21-2018, 02:40 PM
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Awful situation.

I wouldn't abandon my children, though. They aren't "someone else's kids". They are people. Individuals with their own personalities, wants, needs, hopes and fears.

I wouldn't let them face this ****ed up world without a loving father.

I'd be devastated by the betrayal. The marriage would certainly be over.

My kids are my kids, though. I couldn't look them in the eye, tell them they aren't mine anymore and all they have left to rely on is an absolute scumbag.
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Originally Posted By EnforcerOTF⏩
i mean if he raised them as his own and has loved them unconditionally, he shouldnt feel any different towards them they are innocent
This, if something like this happened to me, I would get rid of the woman, and keep the kids.
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post 1561831201 09-21-2018, 02:59 PM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Definitely a parent.
Not every man has the strength to look at the kid they been with since birth knowing that the kid is the product of another man breeding your wife.

It's one thing to adopt a kid but another to raise the kid you thought was your biological kid and then BOOM...that isn't the case.

I don't care who you are it will mess you up. No one would blame the man for bailing.
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post 1561831331 09-21-2018, 03:02 PM
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That would suck, by then he probably loves the kids and finding out he was cheated this way and they're not his...
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France has a law against DNA testing because most french women are loose sloots in the true definition of the word and most people there will not know their biological father.
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This is how good men end up in prison.
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Originally Posted By niospecv⏩
Not every man has the strength to look at the kid they been with since birth knowing that the kid is the product of another man breeding your wife.

It's one thing to adopt a kid but another to raise the kid you thought was your biological kid and then BOOM...that isn't the case.

I don't care who you are it will mess you up. No one would blame the man for bailing.
Wouldn't blame him, just can't imagine doing it myself.

But I'm female, so if my kid isn't my kid some real ET level action has been going down.

One of the strong points of matrilineal inheritance.
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Why would he suddenly get a DNA test? Who does that?
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couldn't imagine anything worse, would probably flee the country and abandon them all if the son is also not his

once again

sloots gon sloot
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Originally Posted By familygye⏩
Why would he suddenly get a DNA test? Who does that?
Sometimes you just gotta know the truth, specially if it would finally expose the cheating POS wife.
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This is why in the wild most male animals fuk as many as they can and dont really take care of the kids as much. you just never know....
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what it takes to keep that secret for 12 years. lol
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I would take my kid and flee the country srs
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Originally Posted By familygye⏩
Why would he suddenly get a DNA test? Who does that?
Someone paying enough attention to their children to notice that they are developing physical traits that neither parent posess.
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Originally Posted By familygye⏩
Why would he suddenly get a DNA test? Who does that?
That's what I was wondering? All these years and 3 kids later?

Horrible no matter what.
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post 1561832631 09-21-2018, 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
Wouldn't blame him, just can't imagine doing it myself.

But I'm female, so if my kid isn't my kid some real ET level action has been going down.

One of the strong points of matrilineal inheritance.
Because you're a female your opinion on this matter is null and void.
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Most babies,even little girls look shockingly like their fathers when they are very young.

Getting paternity tests or even the thought of one is not something that crosses the mind of stable people in stable relationships.

There is usually a type of couple that this happens to,and it's very rarely a complete shock. Ie they were going through a "rough patch" at the time.
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Feels good being a black man mostly dating interracial.

If she ever cucks me and gets impregnated she has to go black because otherwise I would know it from day one.
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Originally Posted By familygye⏩
Why would he suddenly get a DNA test? Who does that?
someone who has partially suspected something for 12 years and hit critical mass
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"one of my brother's friends"

This is definitely real reality and not something someone just made up.
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