Spade, I agree with you but even paying for the app (Gold + boost) doesn't get me **** anymore. Are you still doing frequent resets

Is it just me that this happens. When I use the free tinder boost I get a a lot of matches, but when I pay for boosts I dont get nearly as many?

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Then that's less competition for me...

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[/QUOTE]Im curious are you super liking these girls or are they super liking you? After years of tinder I have probably received less than 10 super likes from girls

Got dumped this morning so I hopped back on the dating app scene. Progress so far...

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Probably banging this sloot tonight unless she flakes
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Not sure what Im gonna say to this one
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pics of face and better pics of caroline? you must be a chad

Good stuff so far. I've been dealing with online sloots long enough to know Caroline will likely flake.

Whenever they ask me to sext them what I plan to do to them, thats my sign that they don't actually want to meet in person. The best thing to do if that happens is steer the conversation elsewhere.

Caroline is not worth posting, literally just doing it to get back into this solid 4 misc standards. Im not posting my face, I get hit on regularly at bars, clubs, etc. I'm probably 7-8/10

I'm like 50/50 on her coming, my sexting game needs work but its good enough

Pm me brah, i just like living vicariously thru miscers, no homo.

I took this ugly selfie and im actually getting a good amount of matches. I just got superliked too. that never happens

check pm no homo

Seriously. I rarely talk a chick from OLD into meeting up with me but once they’re in front of me it’s not even hard. I guess that’s why I do better in person. I can’t imagine a woman sitting in front of me, throwing every signal possible and me ignoring it because I’m “scared” like a sperg. Would never happen.

strong 7/7.5. Niceee. Keep us posted on your tinder conquests brah

Oh BTW this thread is only relevant if you don't live in the midwest... like for real, Dakotas, Iowa, maybe Wyoming... lots of nasty ass looking women on Tinder, hard to find 7+'s

Incorrect. This thread is really only very relevant if you live in or near a select few cities around the world these days (or are happy with 6's or below).

Depending on where you live and what you look like the relevance of the thread will vary.

I mentioned recently that despite matching hundreds of beautiful women in Sydney a very good looking male model couldn't get a single date with a 7+. You'll find similar results in various other cities around the world. In fact, places where Tinder is good, are the exceptions, rather than the rule.

lmao I thought I was the only one ITT wildin on my tinder match convos. repped

want to hop back on tinder but instagram has been dealing out a lot for me recently even with my chit profile so theres no incentive

Mind = blown people are having success off instagram. Are you messaging girls with mutual friends, getting their instagram from their tinder profile? Instagram reminded me of the time I would message a bunch of girls on ******** just before tinder came out, then when tinder first came out it was night and day the results I was getting compared to ******** messaging. Instagram has always felt like a long shot to me even compared to the huge decline in tinder

GAIZ

I shall be stateside on Friday for 3 weeks.

So how do I make it crystal clear as quickly as possible I'm a brit. I want to play to my strengths here considering I legit have that posh silky smooth British accent.

all you have to do is talk

Cancelled on her so I could sleep, she wasn't super thrilled about that said she want to see if I live up to my dirty talk and to let her know when I have some freetime.

Meeting up with 5'10" chick from bumble tonight for drinks. Ran into someone I used to date about 2 years ago on bumble and we're meeting up on thursday for a drink. Got some 19 yr old tinder chick who said she's down to come over later this week.

My latest convos with tinder hbb's. I have no problem getting 6's and 7's to come out but still working on closing on 8's and 9's.

Tinder pros, how do I close with these higher quality chicks. I match with a bunch of them but the convos usually don't last.

Need a good response

ahhhhhhh man its so easy for u guys.

yall r living in a different fukin universe. god bless u all mad jelly

"Aww **** bye lol" in Tinder conv, REP for keeping legendary misc stuff alive haha
EDIT : "You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to enzo818 again." damn I didn't give any REP for months, looks like you were already the last one I gave it too lmao

How about I kill two birds with one stone and answer both your questions at once. This is an Instagram close I did a while back (I can post it now as it's been a while since I've seen this girl). This girl is a singer, model, actress and ex reality TV 'star'. Pics below.

This was a cold Instagram approach. She was NOT on Tinder or any other dating apps or even actively dating at the time. So this was a cold conversion in the truest sense. I followed her manually when I noticed she was following another reality TV star that follows me. So I had some social proof and luckily she followed me back, as soon as she followed me back I went in with my opener.

Here's the entire conversation (small edits to remove private info) from the opener right to the moment she showed up for our first date. This is everything. You will not find another guy posting stuff like this anywhere else on the entire internet, ie. an entire start to finish chat of getting a stunning, high status girl on a first date, cold, from Instagram alone.

I have annotated it below (Wednesday - Following Thursday):


1. Hook opener. Same sort of thing as my 'May I be direct?' opener. Gets them intrigued and encourages a response out of shear curiosity if nothing else

2. 'Statement of Intent', old school PUA concept (http://www.pualingo.com/statement-of-intent-soi/), sent very early (second message). Why? Because this is Instagram not Tinder. Chances are she's not up for dating, if they respond to this she's giving me a shot and I can try for a date, this way I don't waste as much time gaming girls who will never date me

3. Standard chit test. I was trying something different here. Conveyed intrigue, mystery and implied status. Seemed to work, not sure if I'd run with this all the time.

4. I downloaded this image off google images (lol). The text is all a standard copy/paste DHV routine. Yes this is the sort of thing I do/have done, and can pull off, but you need to constantly be making your life look exciting. In reality I'd spent the whole week working, that would not have been the greatest answer.

5. Standard chit test and standard response, with a bit of a playful neg in there for good measure, you can come up with playful neg material and witty responses based on their posts.

6. Best, most witty line in the entire thing. Her last single was called 'All alone', she clearly loved this response (she actually called her mum and told her about this line, not kidding lol)

7. Never do lunch with a girl you're not already sleeping with, preferably don't do day dates with a girl you're not already sleeping with, never accept a girls invitation for a date, always be busy and counter with your own date plan or have some reason you can't go where she wants you to meet and have her meet you at a location of your choosing.

Then we moved to whatsapp:


Sunday - Monday (Date day):


FYI the first date went very well, she sent me a message just after it (always a great sign), and we saw each other for subsequent dates, for privacy reasons I won't get into how things ended up.

If anyone tells you game doesn't work, they don't know what they are talking about. HOWEVER, you obviously need the requisite looks, money and status (LMS) to meet that particular girl's standard's to be in with a shot in the first place.

IOW, LMS gets you the interview, and as you can see, I would not have passed the interview if my game wasn't on point.

So what did this girl look like?




inb4 2/10 pointy elbows

Not even coping, but man you white/european bros, I cant compete with you guys. Like there will be girls who I know I won’t match with that are white, yet I look better then them...

Thats a lot of work for a typical European white girl. You're purposefully making it harder for yourself by elevating her to some status she's not worthy of just because its a cold IG DM (which its not entirely since there was a minor connection).

I'm all for game, but I think some of you make it unnecessarily difficult for yourself just to convince yourself you're getting a big win by getting a number/date. Its either that or when you share your stories in here, you frame it like it's more difficult than it actually was

In short, you messaged a girl who follows you on IG, got her number and got her to go on a date with you. You could have saved the rest of that fluff and essays you were sending her. Totally unnecessary, IMO

But if it works, it works. So ride your system until the wheels fall off is my suggestion.

As a contrast, what did your straight-to-place play look like for NYC? Same idea, different venue, dumb luck?

LOL. Get phucked. Yeah typical... She's exactly what the typical, average, white girl looks like nowadays in the english, speaking, western world.
Like I said, inb4 2/10 pointy elbows. She's EASILY top few percent.Because it's extremely difficult. As I've said before, having traveled, it's multiple times harder here than some cities in the US. Honestly 10x harder is my estimate. For 1 date I'm doing 10x the work, and on top of all of that this is a model etc. with ~10k real followers. A hell of alot of competition for her.Wrong. She's a model, singer, actress with ~10k followers. Do you have any idea how many guys are hitting her up and the quality of those men? If you don't think she's getting hit up by professional athletes, male models, famous guys and multi-millionaires regularly, you're an idiot. If you don't think she gets hit on several times a week while going about her life, you're also an idiot.

I got her to meet me cold, from IG, in a period in her life when she wasn't even really actively dating (she may have been passively dating but she wasn't on the dating apps etc.).

I've seen girls less attractive than her with 1/10th the followers with 25+ DM's a week. I've seen them get $1000+ offers just to meet a guy FOR DINNER. This is what's going on out there, and you think I could have just pitched drinks and had her show up for the date without the rest of the 'fluff'? If you're being genuine, please tell me what city you live in so I can move there and easily date girls like that on the reg without having to work for it.

The chit tests, for example, were plain as day and needed to be passed.

Are you one of those idiots that thinks it's just about being good looking and pitching 'drinks?'... Maybe in a place like NYC. Certainly not here, and even in a place like NYC I doubt 'drinks?' would work on that caliber of girl consistently.Why don't you post a start to finish close of a girl of that caliber. So a model, singer, actress, reality tv personality with minor fame. Granted yes, sometimes you can get lucky and close very hot girls with less, but it's not repeatable. This is.

I don't know what more this post could be other than envy.

How many guys (that aren't famous, or very, very good looking) can close girls like that consistently, cold, off Instagram? Out of the 100's a week that are hitting her up to try?

Do you honestly think I would have gotten her out if I wasn't so calculated and methodical and putting thought into every response? Do you honestly think she just went out with me solely because she thought I was 'hot', do you think that the fact that she followed me back meant that it was already in the bag? because she follows a few thousand profiles, She wouldn't even have the time to date all of those men.

You're also the one that questioned the male model not being able to get a date. Guess what? I was running the male model catfish profile for multiple weeks, spent over $100 on boosts + bought Tinder gold, and took it very seriously and he still didn't get a single date to show up.

However you think I, someone much less physically attractive, can get away with less and not having to play the game. Alot of getting her out came down to what I said, what got me in the door with a small shot (and it's a really small shot because I have to repeat that many times over to get a date), was the LMS presented on my profile.

How would you have closed her? And how often are you dating girls like that? Why don't you post something of substance to show me exactly how I can do it better?