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Thread: Found out my girl of 9 years has been having an affair srs..... FUAAAARK

post 1565965621 11-11-2018, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
She is laying it on THICK. Yelling, bawling, claiming she'll do anything for one more chance. This is a lot more difficult to resist than I thought it would be. I should hate her guts, how is she making me feel so much pain? I'm not going to give in, obviously.
walk away son. I've been there. I gave in. I regret it.
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post 1565966031 11-11-2018, 03:21 PM
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She on that 7-7 shift? Dated a girl with that schedule, chit sucked. Nurses are all over dating apps for a reason. Sorry this happened to you. I’d kick her out of your house asap to stay away from temptations of forgiving her, or giving her a chance to brainwash you
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post 1565966041 11-11-2018, 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted By AetasNitor⏩
Honestly the friend cheering her on is the most infuriating part of this. When I had a long time gf cheat on me basically all of her friends were telling her they were proud of her for getting some strange. All women are like this and its revolting. Yet my buddies and I always used to tell our friends that they were chitty for cheating.
I had a similar experience. I was with a girl for 5 years and she essentially broke up with me because her friends were constantly pressuring her to be single and were legitimately encouraging her to cheat (in retrospect I'm SO glad we split). You can tell a lot about a girl through the friends she has. One of my favorite quotes is "You are the average of your 5 closest friends" and I think it's spot on for both girls and guys, so I truly do take into consideration the friends a girl has before considering dating.

Anyways OP, do NOT take her back. It will be VERY tempting but stay the course. I repeat - STAY THE COURSE. Ride out her appeals to your emotions, she doesn't deserve you.
post 1565966261 11-11-2018, 03:24 PM
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
walk away son. I've been there. I gave in. I regret it.
She just called her boss and quit her job to show how committed she is. I heard it. DEFCON 5 activated.
post 1565966471 11-11-2018, 03:26 PM
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Originally Posted By DCutch⏩
I had a similar experience. I was with a girl for 5 years and she essentially broke up with me because her friends were constantly pressuring her to be single and were legitimately encouraging her to cheat (in retrospect I'm SO glad we split). You can tell a lot about a girl through the friends she has. One of my favorite quotes is "You are the average of your 5 closest friends" and I think it's spot on for both girls and guys, so I truly do take into consideration the friends a girl has before considering dating.

Anyways OP, do NOT take her back. It will be VERY tempting but stay the course. I repeat - STAY THE COURSE. Ride out her appeals to your emotions, she doesn't deserve you.
Spot on. I used to give her hell about her "sloot pack" full of cheating skanks and she would chastise me for being jealous and insecure. She's not them, I needed to trust her completely blah blah blah. What a load of chit.
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Originally Posted By DCutch⏩
I had a similar experience. I was with a girl for 5 years and she essentially broke up with me because her friends were constantly pressuring her to be single and were legitimately encouraging her to cheat (in retrospect I'm SO glad we split). You can tell a lot about a girl through the friends she has. One of my favorite quotes is "You are the average of your 5 closest friends" and I think it's spot on for both girls and guys, so I truly do take into consideration the friends a girl has before considering dating.

Anyways OP, do NOT take her back. It will be VERY tempting but stay the course. I repeat - STAY THE COURSE. Ride out her appeals to your emotions, she doesn't deserve you.
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post 1565967491 11-11-2018, 03:40 PM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
Don't worry about your mortgage and investments, OP, she made a better investment by investing her time in a surgeon. Don't be scared, she won't chase your 2 bedroom apartment and minivan.

Sending you lots of positive vibes
lmao damn she wentIN!!lmao
post 1565968171 11-11-2018, 03:50 PM
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post 1565968311 11-11-2018, 03:53 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
She just called her boss and quit her job to show how committed she is. I heard it. DEFCON 5 activated.
Now she can sleep with the boss at her next job
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post 1565968361 11-11-2018, 03:54 PM
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Dont give in OP, it will be hard but you seem to be in a position that will help you take the hit and make the best out of it, srs. Time to improve your life!

The saying is true my man, stay away from nurses. Maybe is related to the fact that in said professions, they are always surrounded by others with higher social status (doctors, surgeons and the like), that combined with long as shifts where they deal with situations that are highly stressful this means the social bond will be stronger aka attraction grows and cheating happens as everything there seems ever green.
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post 1565968421 11-11-2018, 03:55 PM
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Cheating is one of the very few unforgivable actions. She could've keyed your car or did some other crazy shiet and you might be justified in taking her back. But she fckin cheated on your bro. Never take her back if you have any dignity and self respect. If she wanted to cheat, she should've broke up with you. The way I see it, she was using you for comfort while having fun and getting dkced down on the side with someone else.

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post 1565969771 11-11-2018, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted By BOZZ⏩
Lol Keep a woman around for 9 years, not marry her, and think she's not actively trying to find someone to marry her. LOL. You deserved to get cheated on
So you think I should have married her to "lock her down" and this wouldn't have happened?
post 1565969831 11-11-2018, 04:17 PM
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Originally Posted By BOZZ⏩
Lol Keep a woman around for 9 years, not marry her, and think she's not actively trying to find someone to marry her. LOL.You deserved to get cheated on
That's a pretty ****ty thing to say.
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Sorry brah, she never told me she got a bf
post 1565969921 11-11-2018, 04:18 PM
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Originally Posted By DCutch⏩
That's a pretty ****ty thing to say.
Stay safe
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post 1565970491 11-11-2018, 04:26 PM
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I'm very sorry this happened to you brother.

I truly am.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
I'm very sorry this happened to you brother.

I truly am.
Thanks brah. This hurts down to the depth of my soul.
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wow op. 9 years that dumb bit wasted.. Well I'm sure some of it was fun for awhile, not completely wasted. Listen the trust is absolutely gone and you can NEVER repair the damage she's caused. GL op. Don't give in to her pleas.
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Originally Posted By Azn00Superman⏩
I'm sorry OP. 9 ****ing years wasted man. Keep ur chin up and appreciate that you dodged a bullet.
Not really wasted. Idk why people keep saying he wasted 9 yrs. he fuked her in her prime. Now she's older, she probably lost most of her glow and in top of that she is mentalky fuked since she's cheated.
So on the positive side, he fuked her in her prime and he dodged a bullet.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
She is laying it on THICK. Yelling, bawling, claiming she'll do anything for one more chance. This is a lot more difficult to resist than I thought it would be. I should hate her guts, how is she making me feel so much pain? I'm not going to give in, obviously.
You know 3 weeks from now if you decide to take her back, she will probably find another branch and monkey swing across and give you the "I think you are too good for me, its best we part ways" speech
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So you strung along a girl for 9 years and she got fed up and ****ed a surgeon. Good job Dave man.
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Originally Posted By aal04⏩
You know 3 weeks from now if you decide to take her back, she will probably find another branch and monkey swing across and give you the "I think you are too good for me, its best we part ways" speech
Yeah I think she's mostly upset she got caught and will have to own up to it to everyone she knows. My family treated her like a daughter srs. My poor mother is going to cry buckets.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Yeah I think she's mostly upset she got caught and will have to own up to it to everyone she knows. My family treated her like a daughter srs. My poor mother is going to cry buckets.
let's be honest, she gives zero shyts. to think otherwise is foolish. she was detached from you the moment she thought of cheating.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Yeah I think she's mostly upset she got caught and will have to own up to it to everyone she knows. My family treated her like a daughter srs. My poor mother is going to cry buckets.
Do you think you are in any way responsible for her cheating?
There is no they…
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
She's been sleeping with a surgeon from her work for lord knows how long. [...]I have always been in the no marriage/no kids camp.
Do you see a possible connection, here?
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Its happens, OP. Don't sweat it and keep investing and moving forward... it will suck for awhile but will eventually fade and you will be your old self again.





Also, don think the surgeon will wife your ex up... Dr's usually f*ck all the nurses and such, I can't think of a single female nurse friend who hasn't casually confirmed this (they are usually talking about the other women they hate in the practice lol). But the point is, she is probably one of many, and its so common its sad, so don't let it weigh heavy on you as it probably happens to tons of guys.









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