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Lmfao some women actually believe online dating is harder for women than men
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Originally Posted By Lightsoft⏩
Maybe screw around. I knew a guy who dated 19 year old when he was 40, but he was a music artist so special case.i am so confused.
Would an 18 year old girl srsly date a 30 year old?
Would an 18 year old girl srsly date a 30 year old?
Only serious relationship I've seen like that.
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Originally Posted By solidus2k3⏩
Give a man a fish and he eats for a day.ratfish helping out miscers everywhere
Teach a man to ratfish and... wait... u wot m8?
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Originally Posted By Lightsoft⏩
i am so confused.
Would an 18 year old girl srsly date a 30 year old?
Would an 18 year old girl srsly date a 30 year old?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I think in all honesty at this point in your life if you've lost the ability to have children and are financially stable, settling will have have little to no benefit for you.Disagree about the glow part. Glow just means youthful beauty and men have it too. If you compare college age young athletic guys to middle aged divorced guys there is a massive glow loss. The vast majority of 40+ guys online dating profiles look terrible srs.
But of course men do have an advantage with aging because they can compensate their looks with money and being a stable provider and attract certain kinds of women that way (rich guys can attract golddiggers and middle class guys can attract women looking to start a family). But that’s not the same as genuinely being attracted to someone.
Idk what to do, I mean I do understand the advice that I should lower my standards and settle. It’s the most common advice to women with dating issues I think. Women advise each other that too btw.
But I just can’t imagine being happy in a relationship with someone I’m not attracted to. Like what is the point then even. I don’t even enjoy spending one date with someone I’m not into, let alone sex or a whole relationship. Would really rather just stay alone.
And I don’t think it’s fair to the guy either btw to settle for someone you don’t even like just to not be alone. It’s just using someone to not be alone and I don’t think that is cool. And I don’t like being alone, but I still like it more than dating someone I’m not into.
But of course men do have an advantage with aging because they can compensate their looks with money and being a stable provider and attract certain kinds of women that way (rich guys can attract golddiggers and middle class guys can attract women looking to start a family). But that’s not the same as genuinely being attracted to someone.
Idk what to do, I mean I do understand the advice that I should lower my standards and settle. It’s the most common advice to women with dating issues I think. Women advise each other that too btw.
But I just can’t imagine being happy in a relationship with someone I’m not attracted to. Like what is the point then even. I don’t even enjoy spending one date with someone I’m not into, let alone sex or a whole relationship. Would really rather just stay alone.
And I don’t think it’s fair to the guy either btw to settle for someone you don’t even like just to not be alone. It’s just using someone to not be alone and I don’t think that is cool. And I don’t like being alone, but I still like it more than dating someone I’m not into.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You say "dating issues" like it's some sort of medical affliction. Let's be honest, even if you somehow landed your mythical 10/10 giga chad, you'd eventually find a way to be unhappy or pick him apart for being less than perfect. Does that sound about right?Disagree about the glow part. Glow just means youthful beauty and men have it too. If you compare college age young athletic guys to middle aged divorced guys there is a massive glow loss. The vast majority of 40+ guys online dating profiles look terrible srs.
But of course men do have an advantage with aging because they can compensate their looks with money and being a stable provider and attract certain kinds of women that way (rich guys can attract golddiggers and middle class guys can attract women looking to start a family). But that’s not the same as genuinely being attracted to someone.
Idk what to do, I mean I do understand the advice that I should lower my standards and settle. It’s the most common advice to women with dating issues I think. Women advise each other that too btw.
But I just can’t imagine being happy in a relationship with someone I’m not attracted to. Like what is the point then even. I don’t even enjoy spending one date with someone I’m not into, let alone sex or a whole relationship. Would really rather just stay alone.
And I don’t think it’s fair to the guy either btw to settle for someone you don’t even like just to not be alone. It’s just using someone to not be alone and I don’t think that is cool. And I don’t like being alone, but I still like it more than dating someone I’m not into.
But of course men do have an advantage with aging because they can compensate their looks with money and being a stable provider and attract certain kinds of women that way (rich guys can attract golddiggers and middle class guys can attract women looking to start a family). But that’s not the same as genuinely being attracted to someone.
Idk what to do, I mean I do understand the advice that I should lower my standards and settle. It’s the most common advice to women with dating issues I think. Women advise each other that too btw.
But I just can’t imagine being happy in a relationship with someone I’m not attracted to. Like what is the point then even. I don’t even enjoy spending one date with someone I’m not into, let alone sex or a whole relationship. Would really rather just stay alone.
And I don’t think it’s fair to the guy either btw to settle for someone you don’t even like just to not be alone. It’s just using someone to not be alone and I don’t think that is cool. And I don’t like being alone, but I still like it more than dating someone I’m not into.
11-14-2018, 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You'd think so right. I'm actually seeking a meaningful relationship and not just casual sex, but a lot of the prettier women are obviously passing me over for absolute top tier men who are obviously just gonna pump and dump.Well most women want a relationship, not just sex. As a woman you can have sex with pretty much anyone you want, but finding someone good for a relationship is really hard.
It's kinda their own fault wouldn't you say? They claim to want a real relationship, but all flock towards the handful of top tier looks guys who are rotating and using them. And almost every woman I've spoke to has done this in the past, or continues to do this.
I understand it's a biological desire, but come on, have some maturity and self control. If you genuinely want a fulfilling relationship, make better decisions with who you date and potentially grow a connection with.
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Op, don’t make those types of discussions with women, because they won’t admit that the online dating is more easy for them.
In fact if we analyze it deeper, online dating is a mess and for women as well. Why? Because online dating is a visual thing so it is all about looks, but women naturally are less visual than men. Now imagine that a 6.5/10 decent looking woman has hundreds of guys hitting her mailbox constantly. So, what specific guy is the best choice for this woman?
Most women want to find a guy to settle into a normal relationship. But, she can’t decide easily with so many offerings, because the virtual online communication through the dating apps is problematic. Thus the minions of flakes, ghosting, and sloots change their opinion every 5 minutes, because all the interaction is virtual and it doesn’t makes any sense for most women. In other words, women can’t feel attraction through the online communication.
Men are visual, women love communication, IRL communication,and are driven by emotions, and we can’t forget that.
On top of that, average, or below average guys with mad game can’t apply their game through the online platforms, so most women inevitably are waiting for that other 6’2 – 6’4 tall muscular Chad with that well defined jaw to hit their mailbox…It is so that simple…
Online dating is ideal for Chads or at least for the 8/10 ‘Sub Chads’. The average, or below average guys will always have hard time to attract women online for the reasons that already I have explained above.
So, in conclusion online dating is hard and for women as well, because they can’t feel attraction with the average or below average dudes, and inevitably end up to please in bed the tall Chads, and these guys in most cases smash and bounce…
In fact if we analyze it deeper, online dating is a mess and for women as well. Why? Because online dating is a visual thing so it is all about looks, but women naturally are less visual than men. Now imagine that a 6.5/10 decent looking woman has hundreds of guys hitting her mailbox constantly. So, what specific guy is the best choice for this woman?
Most women want to find a guy to settle into a normal relationship. But, she can’t decide easily with so many offerings, because the virtual online communication through the dating apps is problematic. Thus the minions of flakes, ghosting, and sloots change their opinion every 5 minutes, because all the interaction is virtual and it doesn’t makes any sense for most women. In other words, women can’t feel attraction through the online communication.
Men are visual, women love communication, IRL communication,and are driven by emotions, and we can’t forget that.
On top of that, average, or below average guys with mad game can’t apply their game through the online platforms, so most women inevitably are waiting for that other 6’2 – 6’4 tall muscular Chad with that well defined jaw to hit their mailbox…It is so that simple…
Online dating is ideal for Chads or at least for the 8/10 ‘Sub Chads’. The average, or below average guys will always have hard time to attract women online for the reasons that already I have explained above.
So, in conclusion online dating is hard and for women as well, because they can’t feel attraction with the average or below average dudes, and inevitably end up to please in bed the tall Chads, and these guys in most cases smash and bounce…
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
"Lower your standards" is not synonymous with "someone I’m not attracted to".Disagree about the glow part. Glow just means youthful beauty and men have it too. If you compare college age young athletic guys to middle aged divorced guys there is a massive glow loss. The vast majority of 40+ guys online dating profiles look terrible srs.
But of course men do have an advantage with aging because they can compensate their looks with money and being a stable provider and attract certain kinds of women that way (rich guys can attract golddiggers and middle class guys can attract women looking to start a family). But that’s not the same as genuinely being attracted to someone.
Idk what to do, I mean I do understand the advice that I should lower my standards and settle. It’s the most common advice to women with dating issues I think. Women advise each other that too btw.
But I just can’t imagine being happy in a relationship with someone I’m not attracted to. Like what is the point then even. I don’t even enjoy spending one date with someone I’m not into, let alone sex or a whole relationship. Would really rather just stay alone.
And I don’t think it’s fair to the guy either btw to settle for someone you don’t even like just to not be alone. It’s just using someone to not be alone and I don’t think that is cool. And I don’t like being alone, but I still like it more than dating someone I’m not into.
But of course men do have an advantage with aging because they can compensate their looks with money and being a stable provider and attract certain kinds of women that way (rich guys can attract golddiggers and middle class guys can attract women looking to start a family). But that’s not the same as genuinely being attracted to someone.
Idk what to do, I mean I do understand the advice that I should lower my standards and settle. It’s the most common advice to women with dating issues I think. Women advise each other that too btw.
But I just can’t imagine being happy in a relationship with someone I’m not attracted to. Like what is the point then even. I don’t even enjoy spending one date with someone I’m not into, let alone sex or a whole relationship. Would really rather just stay alone.
And I don’t think it’s fair to the guy either btw to settle for someone you don’t even like just to not be alone. It’s just using someone to not be alone and I don’t think that is cool. And I don’t like being alone, but I still like it more than dating someone I’m not into.
The point you are missing (over and over again in thread after thread) is that your standards are probably unreasonably high, leaving you with only 2 choices... 1) getting pumped and dumped, or 2) cat collecting.
If you lost your eyesight tomorrow due to cancer or something, would that change your opinion? Would it be easier for you to find somebody for an LTR if you couldn't ever see them? And if you could find an LTR that made you happy, why would it matter if the guy is not a Chad?
You may be surprised to find out that most men would be happy to marry a 6.5/10 who is kind, pleasant, funny, feminine, happy, etc. Not because most men want to "settle", but because on the whole, the other traits she has make her the type of woman they could be happy with.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
This is music to a cat food campany’s ears.Disagree about the glow part. Glow just means youthful beauty and men have it too. If you compare college age young athletic guys to middle aged divorced guys there is a massive glow loss. The vast majority of 40+ guys online dating profiles look terrible srs.
But of course men do have an advantage with aging because they can compensate their looks with money and being a stable provider and attract certain kinds of women that way (rich guys can attract golddiggers and middle class guys can attract women looking to start a family). But that’s not the same as genuinely being attracted to someone.
Idk what to do, I mean I do understand the advice that I should lower my standards and settle. It’s the most common advice to women with dating issues I think. Women advise each other that too btw.
But I just can’t imagine being happy in a relationship with someone I’m not attracted to. Like what is the point then even. I don’t even enjoy spending one date with someone I’m not into, let alone sex or a whole relationship. Would really rather just stay alone.
And I don’t think it’s fair to the guy either btw to settle for someone you don’t even like just to not be alone. It’s just using someone to not be alone and I don’t think that is cool. And I don’t like being alone, but I still like it more than dating someone I’m not into.
But of course men do have an advantage with aging because they can compensate their looks with money and being a stable provider and attract certain kinds of women that way (rich guys can attract golddiggers and middle class guys can attract women looking to start a family). But that’s not the same as genuinely being attracted to someone.
Idk what to do, I mean I do understand the advice that I should lower my standards and settle. It’s the most common advice to women with dating issues I think. Women advise each other that too btw.
But I just can’t imagine being happy in a relationship with someone I’m not attracted to. Like what is the point then even. I don’t even enjoy spending one date with someone I’m not into, let alone sex or a whole relationship. Would really rather just stay alone.
And I don’t think it’s fair to the guy either btw to settle for someone you don’t even like just to not be alone. It’s just using someone to not be alone and I don’t think that is cool. And I don’t like being alone, but I still like it more than dating someone I’m not into.
How many cat ladies said this same thing to themselves years before fhrowing in the towel?
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Sometimes someone who only seems like a 7/10 on your first date can become your ideal 9/10 after a few dates...they just need to settle in kinda...You say "dating issues" like it's some sort of medical affliction. Let's be honest, even if you somehow landed your mythical 10/10 giga chad, you'd eventually find a way to be unhappy or pick him apart for being less than perfect. Does that sound about right?
Maybe you should give promising guys more of a chance SS idk
Literally if they look young and are my type and aren't skinny I'll give it a few dates...
As SS said there's not whole lot of quality 40+ dating out there
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
gurl, you are in the same predicament as I am in. The people we are attracted to enough to actually want to consistenly phuck them are not attracted to us.Disagree about the glow part. Glow just means youthful beauty and men have it too. If you compare college age young athletic guys to middle aged divorced guys there is a massive glow loss. The vast majority of 40+ guys online dating profiles look terrible srs.
But of course men do have an advantage with aging because they can compensate their looks with money and being a stable provider and attract certain kinds of women that way (rich guys can attract golddiggers and middle class guys can attract women looking to start a family). But that’s not the same as genuinely being attracted to someone.
Idk what to do, I mean I do understand the advice that I should lower my standards and settle. It’s the most common advice to women with dating issues I think. Women advise each other that too btw.
But I just can’t imagine being happy in a relationship with someone I’m not attracted to. Like what is the point then even. I don’t even enjoy spending one date with someone I’m not into, let alone sex or a whole relationship. Would really rather just stay alone.
And I don’t think it’s fair to the guy either btw to settle for someone you don’t even like just to not be alone. It’s just using someone to not be alone and I don’t think that is cool. And I don’t like being alone, but I still like it more than dating someone I’m not into.
But of course men do have an advantage with aging because they can compensate their looks with money and being a stable provider and attract certain kinds of women that way (rich guys can attract golddiggers and middle class guys can attract women looking to start a family). But that’s not the same as genuinely being attracted to someone.
Idk what to do, I mean I do understand the advice that I should lower my standards and settle. It’s the most common advice to women with dating issues I think. Women advise each other that too btw.
But I just can’t imagine being happy in a relationship with someone I’m not attracted to. Like what is the point then even. I don’t even enjoy spending one date with someone I’m not into, let alone sex or a whole relationship. Would really rather just stay alone.
And I don’t think it’s fair to the guy either btw to settle for someone you don’t even like just to not be alone. It’s just using someone to not be alone and I don’t think that is cool. And I don’t like being alone, but I still like it more than dating someone I’m not into.
the only difference here is that womens' standards are typically far far far more unreasonable
(not saying you, but most are)
jk read the rest of thread and you are just like the rest of them .
phukking lol
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Originally Posted By psychosylocibin⏩
I have a working theory about some of the FAs who post frequently to the RH section.gurl, you are in the same predicament as I am in. The people we are attracted to enough to actually want to consistenly phuck them are not attracted to us.
the only difference here is that womens' standards are typically far far far more unreasonable
(not saying you, but most are)
the only difference here is that womens' standards are typically far far far more unreasonable
(not saying you, but most are)
I think they have very high standards, but don't realize it. I think it's because they have very high opinions of themselves (not necessarily outwardly, but inwardly) and think it's some sort of an insult to consider dating anyone beneath them. We all know there are 5/10's out there who honestly think they are 9/10 and expect to only date 9's and 10's. These people get ZERO response from 9's and 10's and it shocks them, so they look for excuses other than the obvious one. I think these people might be narcissists without realizing it and that's the elephant in the room that causes such a disconnect between who they perceive themselves to be and who actually responds to them online.
Do you think this might be true in your case? Partially true? If so, if you were able to shut off that narcissism, do you think you'd have an easier time?
We have an epidemic of narcissism in the world today, and you can become a narcissist without realizing it or understanding why, if you were raised by a narcissistic parent. There's a whole issue with never receiving unconditional love as a child leading to adult relationship issues.
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with the amount of rising autism in today's society, I can see her point.
I dare you to make a ******** or IG of a decent looking girl and see what trash you will get in the inbox.
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I dare you to make a ******** or IG of a decent looking girl and see what trash you will get in the inbox.
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Originally Posted By MiscInformed⏩
I have a year round six pack (avi), make 140K a year, live in my own god damn house, and have a wide social circle of friends, so much that I have to continue to turn down social invitiations and work in a career I love. and I'm only 32. I did ALL of this BY MYSELF because I realized I'm only responsible for what outcome I have.I have a working theory about some of the FAs who post frequently to the RH section.
I think they have very high standards, but don't realize it. I think it's because they have very high opinions of themselves (no necessarily outwardly, but inwardly) and think it's some sort of an insult to consider dating anyone beneath them. We all know there are 5/10's out there who honestly think they are 9/10 and expect to only date 9's and 10's. These people get ZERO response from 9's and 10's and it shocks them, so they look for excuses other than the obvious one. I think these people might be narcissists without realizing it and that's the elephant in the room that causes such a disconnect between who they perceive themselves to be and who actually responds to them online.
Do you think this might be true in your case? Partially true? If so, if you were able to shut off that narcissism, do you think you'd have an easier time?
I think they have very high standards, but don't realize it. I think it's because they have very high opinions of themselves (no necessarily outwardly, but inwardly) and think it's some sort of an insult to consider dating anyone beneath them. We all know there are 5/10's out there who honestly think they are 9/10 and expect to only date 9's and 10's. These people get ZERO response from 9's and 10's and it shocks them, so they look for excuses other than the obvious one. I think these people might be narcissists without realizing it and that's the elephant in the room that causes such a disconnect between who they perceive themselves to be and who actually responds to them online.
Do you think this might be true in your case? Partially true? If so, if you were able to shut off that narcissism, do you think you'd have an easier time?
the only REASON why I'm listing all those things is NOT to brag (and to be honest its not that much...most people can achieve it just be setting some goals), but to show you that....
my only criteria for going on a date with a girl is that she is
#1 not fat
#at least a 5/10 in the face
#2 can hold a conversation and is reasonably nice
#3 doesn't have multiple children from multiple baby daddies.
Literally. that is it.
and you phukkers things I'm being "too unreasonable"
In fact, if I were dating women on "my own level" I would be only dating women who were very athletic, made over 6 figures, were very intelligent, and had a wide variety of hobbies/passions and loved to travel/go out.
but, I'm making an exception, and STILL FAIL because those women still think they are "better than me".
and I'm not a true FA, I just refuse to date women outside of the criteria I mentioned, and since I've done that I've just heard crickets.
hey, I don't make the rules in the dating market, women do, and boy are they terrible at making these "rules". but I'd rather be single and enjoy my life than be with someone I'm not into at all.
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Originally Posted By psychosylocibin⏩
Nothing personal brah, I wasn't calling you out. Just trying to see if my theory holds water.I have a year round six pack (avi), make 140K a year, live in my own god damn house, and have a wide social circle of friends, so much that I have to continue to turn down social invitiations and work in a career I love. and I'm only 32. I did ALL of this BY MYSELF because I realized I'm only responsible for what outcome I have.
the only REASON why I'm listing all those things is NOT to brag (and to be honest its not that much...most people can achieve it just be setting some goals), but to show you that....
my only criteria for going on a date with a girl is that she is
#1 not fat
#at least a 5/10 in the face
#2 can hold a conversation and is reasonably nice
#3 doesn't have multiple children from multiple baby daddies.
Literally. that is it.
and you phukkers things I'm being "too unreasonable"
In fact, if I were dating women on "my own level" I would be only dating women who were very athletic, made over 6 figures, were very intelligent, and had a wide variety of hobbies/passions and loved to travel/go out.
but, I'm making an exception, and STILL FAIL because those women still think they are "better than me".
and I'm not a true FA, I just refuse to date women outside of the criteria I mentioned, and since I've done that I've just heard crickets.
the only REASON why I'm listing all those things is NOT to brag (and to be honest its not that much...most people can achieve it just be setting some goals), but to show you that....
my only criteria for going on a date with a girl is that she is
#1 not fat
#at least a 5/10 in the face
#2 can hold a conversation and is reasonably nice
#3 doesn't have multiple children from multiple baby daddies.
Literally. that is it.
and you phukkers things I'm being "too unreasonable"
In fact, if I were dating women on "my own level" I would be only dating women who were very athletic, made over 6 figures, were very intelligent, and had a wide variety of hobbies/passions and loved to travel/go out.
but, I'm making an exception, and STILL FAIL because those women still think they are "better than me".
and I'm not a true FA, I just refuse to date women outside of the criteria I mentioned, and since I've done that I've just heard crickets.
You sound like you think you deserve a 9/10 and that 5/10's should be happy you're lowering your standards to even consider them. If so, your response is pretty much exactly what a narcissist would respond with.
In the real world, this may even be true. I might even agree with you 100% that you truly do deserve a 9/10. However, my theory is more about how having such a mindset can explain why some of the RH FA's keep experiencing the same problem over and over and over again, and why it leads them to becoming more bitter about dating than they should be.
BTW, narcissism is actually an attractive trait to many women, who initially mistake it as extreme self-confidence.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
TINDER IS NOT A DATING app. WHAT DONT YOU WOMEN GET?Idk where misc gets that 20% number from. Do you really think that women are attracted to 1 out of every 5 random men in public??
For me it’s probably closer to 1 out of 100 if you are talking just the general public of all ages walking through a busy street or something. And it’s NOT necessarily the best looking guys objectively, but the guys that are my type.
And on tinder I swipe on the guys that have my type of look, not the top percentage or the best looking guys or male models. I’m sure I’ve swiped left on plenty of 9/10 guys that misc would find very attractive, because they’re just not my type. And I swipe right on some guys that misc would probably just find average or fat because they have the type of look that I like.
For me it’s probably closer to 1 out of 100 if you are talking just the general public of all ages walking through a busy street or something. And it’s NOT necessarily the best looking guys objectively, but the guys that are my type.
And on tinder I swipe on the guys that have my type of look, not the top percentage or the best looking guys or male models. I’m sure I’ve swiped left on plenty of 9/10 guys that misc would find very attractive, because they’re just not my type. And I swipe right on some guys that misc would probably just find average or fat because they have the type of look that I like.
The guys on there have 1 night stands with random women 2-7 times a week. Are you really dumb enough to actually take those chances?? Got damn I thought it was just the incel guys that were stupid, turns out the women are too
So infuriating when a woman wants a date and uses Tinder of all things. Why would you use Tinder for dates anyway?? Tons of misc dudes always let it be known you don't date a Tinder girl, so why are you dating a Tinder man?
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Idk for older people it is kind of both. Plenty of older ppl looking for relationships on tinder bc we have no other optionsTINDER IS NOT A DATING app. WHAT DONT YOU WOMEN GET?
The guys on there have 1 night stands with random women 2-7 times a week. Are you really dumb enough to actually take those chances?? Got damn I thought it was just the incel guys that were stupid, turns out the women are too
So infuriating when a woman wants a date and uses Tinder of all things. Why would you use Tinder for dates anyway?? Tons of misc dudes always let it be known you don't date a Tinder girl, so why are you dating a Tinder man?
The guys on there have 1 night stands with random women 2-7 times a week. Are you really dumb enough to actually take those chances?? Got damn I thought it was just the incel guys that were stupid, turns out the women are too
So infuriating when a woman wants a date and uses Tinder of all things. Why would you use Tinder for dates anyway?? Tons of misc dudes always let it be known you don't date a Tinder girl, so why are you dating a Tinder man?
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Originally Posted By psychosylocibin⏩
Don't lower your standards breh, fuk that. Why is it fair for you to settle for less over a vagina? I hope to be in your position one day and will also have the same rulesI have a year round six pack (avi), make 140K a year, live in my own god damn house, and have a wide social circle of friends, so much that I have to continue to turn down social invitiations and work in a career I love. and I'm only 32. I did ALL of this BY MYSELF because I realized I'm only responsible for what outcome I have.
the only REASON why I'm listing all those things is NOT to brag (and to be honest its not that much...most people can achieve it just be setting some goals), but to show you that....
my only criteria for going on a date with a girl is that she is
#1 not fat
#at least a 5/10 in the face
#2 can hold a conversation and is reasonably nice
#3 doesn't have multiple children from multiple baby daddies.
Literally. that is it.
and you phukkers things I'm being "too unreasonable"
In fact, if I were dating women on "my own level" I would be only dating women who were very athletic, made over 6 figures, were very intelligent, and had a wide variety of hobbies/passions and loved to travel/go out.
but, I'm making an exception, and STILL FAIL because those women still think they are "better than me".
and I'm not a true FA, I just refuse to date women outside of the criteria I mentioned, and since I've done that I've just heard crickets.
hey, I don't make the rules in the dating market, women do, and boy are they terrible at making these "rules". but I'd rather be single and enjoy my life than be with someone I'm not into at all.
the only REASON why I'm listing all those things is NOT to brag (and to be honest its not that much...most people can achieve it just be setting some goals), but to show you that....
my only criteria for going on a date with a girl is that she is
#1 not fat
#at least a 5/10 in the face
#2 can hold a conversation and is reasonably nice
#3 doesn't have multiple children from multiple baby daddies.
Literally. that is it.
and you phukkers things I'm being "too unreasonable"
In fact, if I were dating women on "my own level" I would be only dating women who were very athletic, made over 6 figures, were very intelligent, and had a wide variety of hobbies/passions and loved to travel/go out.
but, I'm making an exception, and STILL FAIL because those women still think they are "better than me".
and I'm not a true FA, I just refuse to date women outside of the criteria I mentioned, and since I've done that I've just heard crickets.
hey, I don't make the rules in the dating market, women do, and boy are they terrible at making these "rules". but I'd rather be single and enjoy my life than be with someone I'm not into at all.
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Originally Posted By melDorado⏩
Real life is your other option. Better quality of people and more of them in real life.Idk for older people it is kind of both. Plenty of older ppl looking for relationships on tinder bc we have no other options
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Originally Posted By melDorado⏩
You know what guys tell me when it comes to meeting women? "Go out and find a hobby." How about you do the same??Idk for older people it is kind of both. Plenty of older ppl looking for relationships on tinder bc we have no other options
As for trying to find 'the one' on tinder, I'd rather get rejected numerous times than possibly get with a girl who's had 50 dinks in her. Noooo thx
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
95% of girls have had 50 dinks. I don't think there's any getting around it.You know what guys tell me when it comes to meeting women? "Go out and find a hobby." How about you do the same??
As for trying to find 'the one' on tinder, I'd rather get rejected numerous times than possibly get with a girl who's had 50 dinks in her. Noooo thx
As for trying to find 'the one' on tinder, I'd rather get rejected numerous times than possibly get with a girl who's had 50 dinks in her. Noooo thx
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
I'm not a recluse I get out and about and unbelievable for a woman ik but I have many hobbies like powerlifting and going to watch football but I never meet anyone suitable irlYou know what guys tell me when it comes to meeting women? "Go out and find a hobby." How about you do the same??
As for trying to find 'the one' on tinder, I'd rather get rejected numerous times than possibly get with a girl who's had 50 dinks in her. Noooo thx
As for trying to find 'the one' on tinder, I'd rather get rejected numerous times than possibly get with a girl who's had 50 dinks in her. Noooo thx
Most guys my age are taken already
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
.........95% of girls have had 50 dinks. I don't think there's any getting around it.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
What's your social/dating life like right now? Regular action or confined to the pleasures plastic penises bring?Well I still get normal periods so probably still fertile, but I don’t want kids. And yeah I would not date someone just for money. My dating goal is companionship and sex, so for that goal attraction is important.
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Originally Posted By MiscInformed⏩
I knew you weren't attacking me, but I was directing it at just the board in general, in situations where I have been attacked for being "too unreasonable", which of course I'm going to defend because its just laughable.Nothing personal brah, I wasn't calling you out. Just trying to see if my theory holds water.
You sound like you think you deserve a 9/10 and that 5/10's should be happy you're lowering your standards to even consider them. If so, your response is pretty much exactly what a narcissist would respond with.
In the real world, this may even be true. I might even agree with you 100% that you truly do deserve a 9/10. However, my theory is more about how having such a mindset can explain why some of the RH FA's keep experiencing the same problem over and over and over again, and why it leads them to becoming more bitter about dating than they should be.
BTW, narcissism is actually an attractive trait to many women, who initially mistake it as extreme self-confidence.
You sound like you think you deserve a 9/10 and that 5/10's should be happy you're lowering your standards to even consider them. If so, your response is pretty much exactly what a narcissist would respond with.
In the real world, this may even be true. I might even agree with you 100% that you truly do deserve a 9/10. However, my theory is more about how having such a mindset can explain why some of the RH FA's keep experiencing the same problem over and over and over again, and why it leads them to becoming more bitter about dating than they should be.
BTW, narcissism is actually an attractive trait to many women, who initially mistake it as extreme self-confidence.
all of us just want someone we are attracted to, and think we have something decent to offer, but are passed up and its extremely frustrating.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
what is your criteria for physical attraction? if its only based on attributes they cant change (race, frame, height), then you are being to picky.Well it depends on your standards. My standards are:
1) physical attraction
2) no MAJOR personality/character issues (cheating, sociopathy, addiction, abuse etc)
So not sure how I could lower my standards unless I start dating people I’m not attracted to. And idk about the eyesight thing but attraction is important to me.
Cliffs: I want a nice guy that I’m also physically attracted to.
1) physical attraction
2) no MAJOR personality/character issues (cheating, sociopathy, addiction, abuse etc)
So not sure how I could lower my standards unless I start dating people I’m not attracted to. And idk about the eyesight thing but attraction is important to me.
Cliffs: I want a nice guy that I’m also physically attracted to.
you have the right to be picky, but don't go spreading lies of how much harder it is for women than men. you women make it harder.
most the women I know who are still single (but want to find someone) in their upper twenties are still single because they reject men at their own level. thats it, period. Its painfully obvious when you see who they decide to go on dates with or not what the issue is. When you have a 5/10 girl only wanting men who are all 6 foot minimum dressing extremely well and have handsome faces, you know what the issue is
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Originally Posted By explosiveMidget⏩
Shut up kiddo. The grown ups are talking.This... perfectly reasonable list of requirements lol at that psychology retard calling him a narcissist for wanting someone 5/10 or over who's not a fatass with kids to other men.
He writes a lot of introspective stuff on RH, so I thought he'd see I was working on a hypothesis to help explain why a number of miscers seem to have the same problems, not just him. I don't care if he is a narcissist or not. I think there might be a unifying theme to why certain miscers who seem like they should be able to get women, just can't no matter what they try. Trying to figure that out to see if it helps anyone, but you can't do that if you're walking on eggshells trying not to offend.
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