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post 1566300561 11-15-2018, 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted By lolXlol
very very low iq cope as per usual, no just because women get alot of matches does not make online dating easier considering the vast majority of the matches they get are absolutely repulsive to them

it's like if a male tries tinder and gets thousands of matches except 95% of them were fatties, how is that having an easy time in dating?

keep being low iq victims tho
why you red, tho ?

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post 1566300661 11-15-2018, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted By psychosylocibin
so, girls are pickier whom they choose to enter a relationship with, so therefore they have it harder than men.


funny thing, last night I got invited to a free all you can eat buffet. there were so many options from chicken alfredo, filet mignon, fois gras, king crab legs, etc. but I Really wasnt "feeling" any of them, so I went home and starved instead. When I Got home, I complained to the family on food stamps next door that finding a decent meal is just impossible around, and when he got pissed at me for being picky I said "I DONT HAVE IT EASIER THAN YOU, WE JUST HAVE DIFFERENT PROBLEMS, I HAVE TO ENJOY MY FOOD OK????"
Bruh i clearly stated that when it comes to online dating women do have it easier because atleast they have options but still it is not as easy as most guys think because we are just wired differently.

Also honestly you cant really compare making a decision on what food to eat today to something like relationships brah because one is a quick bite to eat and another is someone you are going to potentially spend the rest of your life with.

The way i would explain it is if you were online dating and you had 1000 options but the only thing you could see on the profile is a womens leg....and you are suppose to make a decision on who to go on date based on that and not only that but if you make a wrong decision that person may be a stalker, creep, weirdo, try to rape you etc etc.
Originally Posted By lolXlol
very very low iq cope as per usual, no just because women get alot of matches does not make online dating easier considering the vast majority of the matches they get are absolutely repulsive to them

it's like if a male tries tinder and gets thousands of matches except 95% of them were fatties, how is that having an easy time in dating?

keep being low iq victims tho
Also pretty much this
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post 1566301951 11-15-2018, 10:51 AM
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
It is, because it's exhausting to find something more valuable than garbage online
That's just your inflated value talking though. Not reality.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
It is, because it's exhausting to find something more valuable than garbage online
I know plenty of non-garbage men online. they get few or no messages because they are not "HAWT" enough.
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Originally Posted By Rebel012
That's just your inflated value talking though. Not reality.
I'm actually always looking for someone who is similar to myself, I'm gonna be the female version of the man I'll marry.
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Originally Posted By psychosylocibin
I know plenty of non-garbage men online. they get few or no messages because they are not "HAWT" enough.
Gonna save you now bra. Stop responding to that tranny.
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Originally Posted By psychosylocibin
I know plenty of non-garbage men online. they get few or no messages because they are not "HAWT" enough.
lol there's a lot of truth to this.
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Originally Posted By psychosylocibin
I know plenty of non-garbage men online. they get few or no messages because they are not "HAWT" enough.
Yeah, I had tinder for 1 week and bumble for 3 weeks. I met none and deleted both. Idk
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Originally Posted By psychosylocibin
I know plenty of non-garbage men online. they get few or no messages because they are not "HAWT" enough.
Right.

Difficult to resist that behavior though. Imagine you had dozens and dozens of matches flowing in daily, incoming msgs etc. You have to filter some way. How do you do it?

On a visual app, 99% of women are gonna filter for looks, set some easy and immediate filters on height etc.. You probably would too if you had an unmanageable influx.

But guess what happens, all the women filter down to the same 5% of guys (and I think that's generous). 95% of women are matching with 5% of men.
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Originally Posted By propreffered7
Couldnt find dudes post so im inserting his subject material into your quote.
C'mon brah.

People are going to think that I actually wrote that bitter post.
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Originally Posted By lolXlol
very very low iq cope as per usual, no just because women get alot of matches does not make online dating easier considering the vast majority of the matches they get are absolutely repulsive to them
That's already been addressed...

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Originally Posted By BetaAsPhuck
At some point I’ll show you some screenshots from my online dating inbox.

50% of them are total non starters and just flat out demeaning and gross. Bonus points for fetishizing my biracial appearance or immediately commenting on my tits.

The other 20% is from dudes way, way above my age range including dudes who lie about their ages and then fess up (your hariline gave you away) like I’m supposed to just overlook you’re lying to get into girl’s panties. Bonus points if they offer to take me to Red Lobster (I’m dead srs) because the young boys can only take me to Taco Bell and I deserve the best.

10% is from lunatics. Guys with extremely weird fetishes (hey you seem nice, would you ever put me in a diaper?)or guys who flip out and call me a kunt if I don’t respond within twenty minutes.

So that leaves 20%. Half of those guys I’m sorry to say I just won’t find physically attractive.

That then leaves 10%.

I’ll respond and the conversation will fizzle out half the time.

So in realty I probably go on actual dates with about 5% of the dudes who message me.

I realize that sounds like a luxury to guys and I’m not denying you have it harder, but some of the messages I get make me not want to check my inbox for days.

It’s just overwhelming and gross to get dink pics from 40 year old married dudes and to know I’m going to have somebody threatening to rape me because I didn’t respond to their message.

I’m happy I met someone and can delete all that crap now.
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Originally Posted By Maylie
At some point I’ll show you some screenshots from my online dating inbox.
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Insightful. Srs.

Things are different for non-white and non-Asian females in the west though (research shows that).

I really can't stress how plain looking (and average in personality, and overweight) that the (white) 37 year old woman I knew was, and the amount of male attention she received online. (eg. an all expenses paid trip to Italy, that was offered to her after a first date).

That really opened my eyes to how different things are, in regards to online dating for women.

Edit: Not hate on the woman. I not one of those people who thinks in terms of 'deserve', when it comes to dating. It just shocked me.
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Originally Posted By Maylie
At some point I’ll show you some screenshots from my online dating inbox.
Share the screens, it would be insightful. And honestly, the type of chick that can tolerate the random dik pics and creeps, has gotta be kinda fuked herself. Why would a woman stay on a platform like that.

It's difficult to imagine myself as a woman () but I reckon that would make me pretty uncomfortable, given some of these creeps could try track me down or stalk.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Which dating app was that? Sounds so gross and I would never want to use a dating app where random guys can message me.

That’s what I really like about tinder, only the guys you swipe right on can message you, and they can’t send pics at all. So I never have to deal with random guys messaging me, only the guys I am interested in enough to swipe right.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
That’s what I really like about tinder, only the hot guys you swipe right on can message you and all they want is to pump n dump me.
Fixed
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
Right.

Difficult to resist that behavior though. Imagine you had dozens and dozens of matches flowing in daily, incoming msgs etc. You have to filter some way. How do you do it?

On a visual app, 99% of women are gonna filter for looks, set some easy and immediate filters on height etc.. You probably would too if you had an unmanageable influx.

But guess what happens, all the women filter down to the same5% of guys(and I think that's generous). 95% of women are matching with 5% of men.
Originally Posted By Maylie
At some point I’ll show you some screenshots from my online dating inbox.

50% of them are total non starters and just flat out demeaning and gross. Bonus points for fetishizing my biracial appearance or immediately commenting on my tits.

The other 20% is from dudes way, way above my age range including dudes who lie about their ages and then fess up (your hariline gave you away) like I’m supposed to just overlook you’re lying to get into girl’s panties. Bonus points if they offer to take me to Red Lobster (I’m dead srs) because the young boys can only take me to Taco Bell and I deserve the best.

10% is from lunatics. Guys with extremely weird fetishes (hey you seem nice, would you ever put me in a diaper?)or guys who flip out and call me a kunt if I don’t respond within twenty minutes.

So that leaves 20%. Half of those guys I’m sorry to say I just won’t find physically attractive.

That then leaves 10%.

I’ll respond and the conversation will fizzle out half the time.

So in realty I probably go on actual dates with about5% of the dudes who message me.

I realize that sounds like a luxury to guys and I’m not denying you have it harder, but some of the messages I get make me not want to check my inbox for days.

It’s just overwhelming and gross to get dink pics from 40 year old married dudes and to know I’m going to have somebody threatening to rape me because I didn’t respond to their message.

I’m happy I met someone and can delete all that crap now.
So yeah 5%
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Which dating app was that? Sounds so gross and I would never want to use a dating app where random guys can message me.

That’s what I really like about tinder, only the guys you swipe right on can message you, and they can’t send pics at all. So I never have to deal with random guys messaging me, only the guys I am interested in enough to swipe right.
OKCupid and I stopped using it for the exact reason you stated. I got sick of being messaged by random undersiables.

I still get overly sexual creeps on Hinge and Coffee Meets Bagel but I have more control over who I talk to and they can’t send photos.

I’ve learned how to spot the type of guy who sends them, they tend to ask for your number right away.

The ****boi mating call is “so what are you looking for on here lol”

Normal guys don’t ask that, they just chat with you and then ask for your number. They don’t try to cut right to the chase.
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer
If a woman had to be a man for a week in the dating game they would lose it, have multiple mental breakdowns, and probably cry in the fetal position at least 5 times minimum per day.
I'm a woman who's tried to get dates with women on tinder and I havnt had a single match yet srs..with men I nearly always get a match
On another site I sent out 25messages to women and I only got 2 replies, one whale and 1 who managed 3 replies before ghosting
So guys I actually do know your pain
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If a woman had to be a man for a week in the dating game they would lose it, have multiple mental breakdowns, and probably cry in the fetal position at least 5 times minimum per day.
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer
If a woman had to be a man for a week in the dating game they would lose it, have multiple mental breakdowns, and probably cry in the fetal position at least 5 times minimum per day.
A semi-decent looking woman can never, ever empathize. Their perception of reality is through a different lense. A woman can never truly understand what it's like to go through life with little to zero validation. I recall reading a thread on reddit about it from an older woman, it was pretty eye opening seeing her face a different reality when men were no longer interested. Her perspective on reality changed.

What it's like to swipe a hundred profiles and get no matches, one or two if lucky. And I'm better looking than average. I can't even fathom how impossible it is for an average looking guy. It's gotta be entirely pointless unless your standards are also low.
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