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post 1566356371 11-15-2018, 09:44 PM
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Originally Posted By MediocreGains⏩
Ha, I meant it as a compliment.
some girls are also really stupid. i said something about being bald and an ex said "you're bald even when you let it grow in?"

u w0t, lady?
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
I absolutely agree you should always look at yourself first but quite frankly, if someone doesn’t have the same intentions you do and doesn’t share similar values, it’s a waste of time.

Case in point, a friend of mine was recently told “you’re really great I just don’t wanna be tied down right now...” after sleeping with a guy for 5 months. I told her she was an idiot for putting that much time in without making her intentions clear and finding out his.

You can be amazing put in tons of effort and if the other person doesn’t want what you want, you’re wasting your time.

Date smart. It can become a full time waste of energy if you let it.

If you are getting rejected by people who want all the same things you do, the problem is likely you. But a lot of people are out here not communicating and looking in the wrong places to begin with.
I really have no idea what you're talking about because I'm pretty zooted and not bothering to catch up on this thread. I just know you say a lot and if you were attractive you would post a spoon pic to give your statements validity.
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Originally Posted By ratfish⏩
some girls are also really stupid. I said something about being bald and an ex said "you're bald even when you let it grow in?"

u w0t, lady?
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
some girls are also really stupid. i said something about being bald and an ex said "you're bald even when you let it grow in?"

u w0t, lady?
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post 1566357091 11-15-2018, 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Autumnal⏩
I really have no idea what you're talking about because I'm pretty zooted and not bothering to catch up on this thread. I just know you say a lot and if you were attractive you would post a spoon pic to give your statements validity.
Don’t see you asking anyone else for photos to give their opinion validity

I’m fairly attractive according to the general population, but I’m not putting myself through misc standards/aka weatherfront jr when it comes to how they rate darker skinned women

Disregard me if you don’t see validity in what I have to say
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post 1566357371 11-15-2018, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
I’m fairly attractive


Yet you don't take the ban bet










This thread should already be closed by now. This chit is absurd
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post 1566357651 11-15-2018, 10:09 PM
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Damn 21 pages lmao
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post 1566357781 11-15-2018, 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
So during that time were you only sleeping with ugly women or women “so unlikable that (you) can't wait to just fuk her and leave”?

Or were some women in your same looks range and likeable but you just weren’t ready to settle down?
I was mostly not looking to settle down.

There were a few uglies here and there when I was drunk and horny, but generally they were in my "looks range," with some being higher.

I never fuked anyone that I disliked, but there were a few that I was very attracted to physically and sexually but didn't see as relationship material. This was for a variety of reasons, whether it was them being slooty, annoying, etc. Some girls can be fun in small doses, but seeing them regularly... not so much.

Think I mentioned this to you before, but on a few occasions I got into short term "relationships" if I really enjoyed their company, but within a couple months I'd bail, whether because I saw red flags, they annoyed me, or I just didn't want to commit.

I'm in a relationship now though, but to be honest I wasn't looking for one. Over time, I just came to realize that she's a great person, we really get along, and I don't like the thought of being without her. Some of it is timing too though, as I was getting tired of the dating/hook up game.
post 1566357861 11-15-2018, 10:12 PM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Damn 21 pages lmao
Sup brah. Might as well talk ribeyes n mac and cheese at this point.
post 1566357931 11-15-2018, 10:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian⏩
Sup brah. Might as well talk ribeyes n mac and cheese at this point.
Might as well because not reading the 16 pages I missed
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post 1566358141 11-15-2018, 10:16 PM
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post 1566358361 11-15-2018, 10:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Right, just wanted to point out that if a guy doesn’t want a relationship that doesn’t mean the girl is ugly or unlikeable.
My point was that if every or most guys see a girl that way, not just one or a couple. I'm not talking about that one guy you really like but doesn't want to settle down because he has more options. If every guy a girl meets only sees her as a potential wet hole, it says a lot about her, her image, her personality, etc.
post 1566358391 11-15-2018, 10:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Right, just wanted to point out that if a guy doesn’t want a relationship that doesn’t mean the girl is ugly or unlikeable.
I'm of the firm belief that "I'm not ready/looking for a relationship" always has "with you" omitted. No guy in his right mind would say no to dating an awesome (for him) girl. If he's biding his time there's something wrong with him or the girl in question.

I can go on sabbaticals all I want but when a 19 y/o virgin who reads, plays an instrument and has conservative views turns up at my door like my current GF has, I'm all in.
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online dating is retarded.
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post 1566358731 11-15-2018, 10:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes agree that it means “with you.”

Disagree that it automatically means that the girl is below a guy’s same looks range or unlikeable, which was implied earlier.
You're conflating being rejected by one person with not being able to get into a relationship (if that is what you want). I was only talking about the latter.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Ok yes that makes sense.
Ha, finally.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
I'm of the firm belief that "I'm not ready/looking for a relationship" always has "with you" omitted. No guy in his right mind would say no to dating an awesome (for him) girl. If he's biding his time there's something wrong with him or the girl in question.

I can go on sabbaticals all I want but when a 19 y/o virgin who reads, plays an instrument and has conservative views turns up at my door like my current GF has, I'm all in.
What is with the misc and Virgins lmao
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post 1566359131 11-15-2018, 10:34 PM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
What is with the misc and Virgins lmao
In Poland the difference between a girl who's had 10+ partners and one who's had 1-5, depending on age is night and day. You dun goofed if you find a sub 20 y/o and she's had multiple partners here.
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
In Poland the difference between a girl who's had 10+ partners and one who's had 1-5, depending on age is night and day. You dun goofed if you find a sub 20 y/o and she's had multiple partners here.
Well that is the same everywhere. Every 18 year old with 10+ partners has never been a good idea but why do you specifically look for a virgin lmao
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post 1566359471 11-15-2018, 10:42 PM
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Well that is the same everywhere. Every 18 year old with 10+ partners has never been a good idea but why do you specifically look for a virgin lmao
Last GF had 1 partner (27 y/o, 6 years dating one dude) and the one before her had 25 (28, lots of ONS in 5 years).

The 1 partner girl's guy had been a real piece of work, resulted in tonnes of trust issues and lack of communication. The other, had grown impulsive and brash due to guys pumping and dumping her.

Virginity is not a prerequisite I assure you, just a positive. It means that I should avoid phucking up, not deal with personality issues because their previous guy(s) did.
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
I don’t get pumped and dumped because I don’t even entertain guys who don’t make a serious effort from the start. I’m not going to sleep with them until I’m already sure that they like me and have shown it. If a guy leads with sex, he gets the door and that’s it.
Even that won't protect you from player types who will put shockingly large amounts of effort in to get sex. Beyond what you could imagine someone putting in if they just wanted sex. They especially seem to love it when the woman is harder to get. But ultimately will lose interest quickly after sex finally happens.

The main way to spot those guys is how they'll feed you lines quickly, like how special you are compared to all other women they've dated etc. They know exactly what an (insecure) woman wants to hear and it works. They are the male version of the classic female manipulator.
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most guys ive seen are totally weak or tryhards. The girls they manage to get never last or its dysfunctional/cringe to witness.

So what should i do misc? Is it even worth trying lol. The worlds gonna end with this generation anyway, so im not even concerned about having kids
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
Last GF had 1 partner (27 y/o, 6 years dating one dude) and the one before her had 25 (28, lots of ONS in 5 years).

The 1 partner girl's guy had been a real piece of work, resulted in tonnes of trust issues and lack of communication. The other, had grown impulsive and brash due to guys pumping and dumping her.

Virginity is not a prerequisite I assure you, just a positive. It means that I should avoid phucking up, not deal with personality issues because their previous guy(s) did.
so you think a 25+ year old virgin isn't a red flag?
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
Might as well because not reading the 16 pages I missed
Poverty cliffs:

-OP points to women in his environment who think women have a harder time in online dating.
- Bunch of guys get upset based on their experiences
- Women join the thread saying it is harder if you want anything more than getting laid in online dating
- Mass cope ensues...my gender has it harder, sloots gonna sloot, etc.

Cope like "I can get any man I want to for sex" or "virgins are preferable to sexually experienced women" and so on.

In4 another 20 pages
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
so you think a 25+ year old virgin isn't a red flag?
Poland is actually very conservative.
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Originally Posted By TommyRO⏩
so you think a 25+ year old virgin isn't a red flag?
Plenty of 25 y/o's getting passed up here because they don't hang out with guys or the guys they do are too passive/already have a GF and infidelity isn't really a thing. Pretty much the only girls getting action are getting it from their partner or horny foreigners.

In the west though sure a 25 y/o virgin is pretty weird. That's 9 years of potentially being approached by thirsty dudes and jock types which hasn't led to anything.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Even that won't protect you from player types who will put shockingly large amounts of effort in to get sex. Beyond what you could imagine someone putting in if they just wanted sex. They especially seem to love it when the woman is harder to get. But ultimately will lose interest quickly after sex finally happens.

The main way to spot those guys is how they'll feed you lines quickly, like how special you are compared to all other women they've dated etc. They know exactly what an (insecure) woman wants to hear and it works. They are the male version of the classic female manipulator.
lol i definitely do that. but two things:

1. i dont use it on anybody. so if i am using it im using it as a result of the general feelings that popped up from whatever i saw/ did
2. i dont think moving quickly to bed is an indicator either. as i have had sex on first date or less and had no plans to bail

i do, however, sometimes have a problem if i feel a chick has been a sloot before and given it up to chad quickly, and then expects to wait x months or days before doing it. i aint doing that chit
but i would respect someone i genuinely feels needs that time to open up (which would be akin to a virgin.. which is very rare)

i would just say actions not lining up with words is a good indicator of a liar
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
Plenty of 25 y/o's getting passed up here because they don't hang out with guys or the guys they do are too passive/already have a GF and infidelity isn't really a thing. Pretty much the only girls getting action are getting it from their partner or horny foreigners.

In the west though sure a 25 y/o virgin is pretty weird. That's 9 years of potentially being approached by thirsty dudes and jock types which hasn't led to anything.
I'll put it this way, anyone coming out of a major uni as a virgin is a weird fuker out here so guess different perspectives. Marrying a virgin is not practical.
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