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Thread: How to Get Chad Back? :(

post 1567641311 12-02-2018, 09:38 AM
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It keeps happening because you're a ******* who always goes after guys living on the downlow.
post 1567641361 12-02-2018, 09:38 AM
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move on bitch... chad founds some more Stacy... and hes doing better now...
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post 1567641731 12-02-2018, 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
I even feel like anything beyond two texts is a big no. If they want to respond to you, they will.


Yeah, I don't blame any of your feelings, because you usually can't help your feelings. But you can help your actions. Maybe you did do something wrong, or maybe his ex texted him and they're trying things again, or maybe he got sucked into a Weddings of Downton Abbey marathon. The end result is the same: He found something else he'd rather do instead of communicating with you. That is a harsh reality to accept, but the sooner you do, the sooner you are able to move on to someone who actually wants to be with you.
The only change is that he is having the time of his life sleeping with different women every week and partying about three times or more a week. I think...he's forgotten me. I just wanted an opportunity to properly apologise etc. I feel like I need closure, he disappeared after promising to meet and he acted like everything was completely fine.

I mean the last time he and I talked, it was fine, we talked about his family, his relationship with his mom, his past. I don't understand how someone can just switch overnight like that.
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post 1567642031 12-02-2018, 09:49 AM
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Jay listen to this but change the lyrics from "Thrill" to "Chad"



The Chad is gone, The Chad is gone away

lmaooo

it might help
post 1567642391 12-02-2018, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Might have mentioned him before here. I still like him a ton. I still cry over this guy which is weird because I didn't know him all that well. But talking to him felt like talking to an old best friend and he seemed really nice.

I can't help feeling like I messed things up, I turned down going out with him a few times, and I told him I couldn't offer him a decent life as in he couldn't have a proper relationship with me and I told him sex or anything sexual was out of the question. I had thought he deserved better but I still regret doing those things.

But now he isn't interested in me at all, not really sure how to handle it. He does not want to talk to me, not even to reject me. I mean maybe he was only out to get laid and got tired of waiting. I don't want anyone else really. I don't want to sleep with anyone else or date anyone else.

I think about him often. Like everyday. Not really sure what to do at this point.
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post 1567642571 12-02-2018, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
he didn't have sex with me. i told him and all sexual stuff was off limits. i didn't want things to take a sexual turn.

i don't need to be with him, I just need to be in his life, being a friend is fine. I want to know he's happy and be there for him when he's not.


...fml
I have seen this situation where girls like to be friends with guys. But most guys don't want to be good friends with girls unless there is a friends with benefits situation or they want something more from them (the latter doesn't typically work but guys still fall into the friendzone trap).

Most guys only have time for one dramatic hormonal dumpster fire in their life at a time and that slot is typically filled by someone they are fuqing.Sounds like he has no room in his life for you unless sex was on the table. If you really want him back, then invite him over for some f*cking. I'm sure he will respond.
post 1567642931 12-02-2018, 10:02 AM
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pay him(hourly rate) srs
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post 1567643181 12-02-2018, 10:06 AM
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Originally Posted By J411⏩
Most guys only have time for one dramatic hormonal dumpster fire in their life at a time and that slot is typically filled by someone they are fuqing.Sounds like he has no room in his life for you unless sex was on the table. If you really want him back, then invite him over for some f*cking. I'm sure he will respond.
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post 1567643541 12-02-2018, 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I'm not a sloot. Made some mistakes in the past but that doesn't make me a sloot.
I like you jay283, I really do, but it's time for you to admit to yourself that you are, in fact, a sloot.

Spoiler!
And hopefully this neg will help you.
post 1567644071 12-02-2018, 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted By 401Delta⏩
I like you jay283, I really do, but it's time for you to admit to yourself that you are, in fact, a sloot.

Spoiler!
And hopefully this neg will help you.
She let a dude scoop ooze from his weeping open sores and repeatedly finger blast her cooch with it

Some levels of slooting there’s no coming back from


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post 1567657701 12-02-2018, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted By J411⏩
I have seen this situation where girls like to be friends with guys. But most guys don't want to be good friends with girls unless there is a friends with benefits situation or they want something more from them (the latter doesn't typically work but guys still fall into the friendzone trap).

Most guys only have time for one dramatic hormonal dumpster fire in their life at a time and that slot is typically filled by someone they are fuqing.Sounds like he has no room in his life for you unless sex was on the table. If you really want him back, then invite him over for some f*cking. I'm sure he will respond.
No I can't just screw him, I like him. Besides...I tried that in the past once some months ago, he didn't respond at all. He doesn't like easy women at all, he likes to chase a bit.

Sleeping with him would just be a desperate attempt to get him back at this point. A very desperate attempt, which I wouldn't be able to carry out properly anyway at this point. I would end up doing some very crazy seduction stuff like showing up at his place in a sheer gown wearing handcuffs and then he would probably throw me some of his clothes and call a taxi then shut his door. Or worse I would show up at his workplace after hours, sit on his desk and demand sex. Then he would probably, shake his head and point to the door, if he says anything it would be "don't do that again".
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post 1567657981 12-02-2018, 02:02 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
he didn't have sex with me. i told him and all sexual stuff was off limits. i didn't want things to take a sexual turn.

i don't need to be with him, I just need to be in his life, being a friend is fine. I want to know he's happy and be there for him when he's not.


...fml
You sound like the female version of a soyboy.

That's why he ran.
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post 1567658271 12-02-2018, 02:08 PM
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Hopefully this neg will help you into becoming a better, more suitable partner because this is just pathetic. u mad that chad doesnt have time to be your emotional tampon?

whoever wants to neg sloot op post in thread and quote me, i'll rep you so your negs have more impact
post 1567658401 12-02-2018, 02:10 PM
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Chad doesn't overthink things like you, idiot.
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post 1567658881 12-02-2018, 02:15 PM
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Op you sound like the typical psycho sloot, he’s better off being as far away from you as possible

Will neg on rc
post 1567659071 12-02-2018, 02:18 PM
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you should have let him pork you, then if he stuck around maybe he would have liked you

instead you played games and got the result of an autist
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post 1567659421 12-02-2018, 02:22 PM
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Hopefully this rep will help you.

edit: ****, finger slipped. Negged instead.
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post 1567659631 12-02-2018, 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted By MichaelDuong⏩
Hopefully this neg will help you into becoming a better, more suitable partner because this is just pathetic. u mad that chad doesnt have time to be your emotional tampon?

whoever wants to neg sloot op post in thread and quote me, i'll rep you so your negs have more impact
It's not a crime to like someone. I just didn't want things to get overly sexual. How would he be an emotional tampon? I was going to open up to him some more, he knew I liked him a lot, he knew I would have had sex with him soon after the last time he and I met.
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post 1567659771 12-02-2018, 02:26 PM
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Originally Posted By RICHSTRONG⏩
Something wrong with ur mouth?
Lmao good one , that was my first question
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post 1567659941 12-02-2018, 02:28 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
It's not a crime to like someone. I just didn't want things to get overly sexual. How would he be an emotional tampon? I was going to open up to him some more, he knew I liked him a lot, he knew I would have had sex with him soon after the last time he and I met.
you played games. you told him you wanted to take things slow. which only a beta male would accept - and follow your lead (making him a follower/woman). a "real man" acts on his own principles and wants a woman that cooperates and follows his lead. hence why he dropped you. you don't want a man, but a chump (that in the long term you will lose respect for)
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post 1567659951 12-02-2018, 02:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Roldz⏩
Hopefully this rep will help you.

edit: ****, finger slipped. Negged instead.
lol

what's your rep power at OP?
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post 1567660151 12-02-2018, 02:31 PM
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Need pics of OP so we can analyze this pissening situation better
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Its ok OP. time heals everything, i wish ou nothing but happiness
post 1567662031 12-02-2018, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
you played games. you told him you wanted to take things slow. which only a beta male would accept - and follow your lead (making him a follower/woman). a "real man" acts on his own principles and wants a woman that cooperates and follows his lead. hence why he dropped you. you don't want a man, but a chump (that in the long term you will lose respect for)
No I wasn't playing games. I'm pretty sure if I had slept with him early on he'd probably have moved on. He doesn't like women to give it up early, he told me that himself. He agreed with the taking things slow part. I don't want a chump.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
No I wasn't playing games. I'm pretty sure if I had slept with him early on he'd probably have moved on. He doesn't like women to give it up early, he told me that himself.He agreed with the taking things slow part.I don't want a chump.
shows he is a beta cuck for following your lead. he was agreeing with you and telling you what you wanted to hear because he isn't a chad but a beta cuck. he didn't want to tell you the truth as it may have put you off - when in fact it would have made you wet. he already told you he wanted to bang. and you did too, just you wanted to make him wait which is playing games. and now you won the autists prize. at least if you had fked you could masturbate to the memories using your tears as lube
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
he didn't have sex with me. i told him and all sexual stuff was off limits. i didn't want things to take a sexual turn.

i don't need to be with him, I just need to be in his life, being a friend is fine. I want to know he's happy and be there for him when he's not.


...fml
No man needs a sloot who didn’t want to and won’t suck his dick in his life.

Tour’s over for you. Let him be.
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Get s boob job

Go to his house

Stand outside window with boobs pressed against glass

Knock on window

Works every time
post 1567663381 12-02-2018, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
He gets to do whatever he wants to do. You are not his keeper, and he is not responsible for your feelings.


Likely. That stinks, but that's what people do when they bounce out of a relationship.


I don't doubt your want to apologize, but what youactuallywant is something from him. You want reassurance. This "apology" is more about the your needs and wants rather than those of the person being apologized to.



Closure is something we make for ourselves. It is not something we burden others with - You give it to yourself when you decide to stop giving emotional bandwidth to someone who doesn’t want anything to do you.
You might be right about the reassurance part but the whole thing was so sudden. I don't get why he can't at least man up and tell me straight up what happened and why. I mean last time we spoke it as maybe 11pm that day, the next day I text him at about 10am and he just doesn't respond. We were supposed to meet that day at about 12:30pm.

So I'm wondering what happened to him called a few times, texted a few times, nothing. Then when I'm leaving work I see his vehicle parked outside his workplace. So then I'm wondering whats going on, texted again asking if he was upset with me, nothing. Check online and he's posting on social media, later on that week he goes partying. That weekend I see he read all my messages. So then I'm wondering whether he got mad because he might have seen me chatting the morning of the day we were supposed to meet up with a male coworker, which doesn't make sense. The coworker and I had nothing going on.

I think maybe I'm still shocked by the sudden switch you know.
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