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post 1568141431 12-08-2018, 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted By LovePollution
Stopped reading at 'fiancé'. Any man that asks a woman to marry him in this day and age is weak and is setting themselves up for failure.
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post 1568141481 12-08-2018, 02:36 PM
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OP
Hope this is srs. Cause I've got some bad news. If you're this fuked up over it, you will probably never get over it. Sex is incredibly important and your fiance should have never said a fuking thing about it to her friend. If she needs to talk about her feelings then she should have gotten a therapist like a normal person. I'm sorry to say that you are probably both better off ending it now, and that it isnt your fault for getting your ego crushed by the one person you were supposed to be able to trust to prop you up.

At this point you I honestly believe you have only 2 options after breaking it off.
Penis enlargement surgery, because I doubt the relationship ending will make you feel better. And honestly it's probably a girth thing. 90% of chicks just want that hole stuffed right, they typically dont enjoy getting stabbed in the cervix by a 9" dong, but when your circumference is 7" then you can easily hit all the right areas.
Or go find a nice asian, indian, or and this is gonna sound weird a black girl. The first 2 are obvious but IMO black chicks dont give a fuk about dink size. Everybody already knows Jamal and Tyrone are packing so they just look for guys who they mesh well with in bed, at least in my experience.

And just to prove my point I'm 6" long but 6.5" girth, and the only complaint I've gotten is once when the chick said I wasnt rough enough (she basically wanted me to choke, gag, slap, and just in general hurt her while I pounded her as hard as possible, the next time I did and she came multiple times and the final time so hard that I busted inside her raw, that sloot was good times, pic of body included). Other than that it's been nothing but praise, and they all have come back for seconds. Teeth always seem to be an issue though.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
It's not disrespectful for her to tell her friends that.

We do it all the time.

This girl is x in bed.

This girl is fun to talk to

This girl cant cook like my ex.

Tons of comparisons all the time. Men and women both do it.

Who is she supposed to talk to? Nobody?
You ever been in a relationship brah? Typically intimacy is to be kept between the partners. One of the things I love about my wife is that she refuses to talk about our sex life with anyone but me in more than simple, positive, answers. Even if her friend was going on and on about guys and how good or bad or big or small she wouldnt get into details about this. Apparently she would tell this friend I was her best (obviously i can never truly now if she is being honest but i choose to believe her), and the only reason i know she always said it to her is cause her slooty friend was always on my nuts trying to get me to smash or trying to get us to have a threesome, and I finally asked her why and she said because my wife told her I was fantastic in bed. I'd never heard my wife talk about it with her so I can only assume it was done when I wasnt around. That kind of trust is hard to come by.

Now I am not under any delusion that I'm the biggest shes had but, who cares, if shes slobbin on my nob on a regular basis and letting me blast my baby gravy wherever I want then it's all good.
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post 1568141571 12-08-2018, 02:38 PM
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Is this serious? Cuz damn guys you are brutal as fuk... I can understand ripping on ppl and giving them chit I do it a lot but this seems to be below the belt if he’s not trolling. If so I’m sorry OP and I don’t know for sure as I’ve never experienced such things but I have a couple experiences that could potentially relate to this...

First, is that my first love had been recklessly in love with my sex. It wasn’t even a comparison for her and that was obvious by more than just her words. When we broke up however and I ended it, she moved on and got knocked up instantly. For a while we wouldn’t talk at all before eventually becoming pretty close friends again. It’s weird because now I get to hear about everything from the stance of ex lover and great friend. She admits that no one compared sexually to me but yet at the same time still talks about the man who got her pregnant. She admitted he never truly made her cum and that she faked orgasms many times. Despite these facts she still talks regularly about getting back together with him and despite the above she seemingly doesn’t care all that much about the fact I wouldn’t have sex with her anymore. I decided I wouldn’t fuk her again for a number of reasons even though she has tried. So I can’t be sure if this is cuz they have a baby together, she felt more security with me or a myriad of other reasons. What I do know is that he was more or less you and in the exact same situation. Despite me being the other man in this situation she still speaks about him with respect. It’s not without **** talking about some of his other shortcomings but despite being honest about his sexual inadequacy that doesn’t seem to be the biggest deal to her... she still has feelings for him and I’d guess so does yours however bruised your ego.

Number two would be that I know for a fact my last ex had partners who had bigger dinks than me. Despite that fact she till preferred sex with me and that I truly believe by her actions not just her word. I don’t know how big your cawk is but dink size isn’t everything and I would not feel inadequate even if my ex had been with a proud Manlet... size only goes so far. That being said however it seems to me from my experience that basically that holds true only because I’m still significantly above average. Still you may be able to improve your sexual game and a lot of how a woman perceives sex is about drive, passion and other things...

All of that said, I know what you’re experiencing was always one of my biggest fears in the world until finding out where I stood in the sexual marketplace. Although I’ve never gone through what you’re saying I couldn’t imagine doing so and can empathize with the fact that it’s probably awful.

One thing you have to ask yourself though is can you ever forget and move on? If you can’t or believe you’ll struggle it’d be best to exit now man. That way after she gets back out there it may be that feelings still exist on both sides. I’ve found that often times it takes breaking up or sometimes even years apart before you truly realize what you had. Better to do it now while there is still something left between you regardless how much these events have damaged your ego and your emotions...

Best of luck

Edit: I feel fukking stupid that I know now this is a copy pasta
post 1568141611 12-08-2018, 02:38 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
It's not disrespectful for her to tell her friends that.

We do it all the time.

This girl is x in bed.

This girl is fun to talk to

This girl cant cook like my ex.

Tons of comparisons all the time. Men and women both do it.

Who is she supposed to talk to? Nobody?
It is completely disrespectful to compare your fiance and your ex, especially in a negative way, to a friend behind your finances back. Humiliating.
post 1568141941 12-08-2018, 02:44 PM
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Reddit is to much a hassle to read
The real question in all this
How small is his dick
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post 1568141951 12-08-2018, 02:44 PM
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Fukin brutal brah. He probably made your girl do all sorts of foul chet to please his giant cawk.

Time to break up (srs). It's not about weather or not you should feel how you feel, the point is you already feel it. Right or wrong, the damage is done.
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post 1568142281 12-08-2018, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend
It is completely disrespectful to compare your fiance and your ex, especially in a negative way, to a friend behind your finances back. Humiliating.
Pretty much agree with this cuz Idk of all the women I’ve been with as long as they meet minimum attraction required? It all comes down to the connection between us and the bond. IME great sex especially for a guy comes through this connection and there isn’t much difference across the female gender provided:

1) pussy is tight
2) she puts in effort and doesn’t just starfish
3) she meets minimum attraction guidelines

The difference between men sexually seems to be much greater in comparison. That being said whomever was the original poster, that woman still likely had feelings for said ex boyfriend on top of not being as good in bed. Cuz just as the bond/connection thing is true for most men, it’s also true for most women too.
post 1568142371 12-08-2018, 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Josh1billion
Proudmanlet claims another victim
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post 1568142631 12-08-2018, 02:54 PM
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didnt read the responses but i think the only option you have is to **** bill and find out for yourself OP
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Originally Posted By Josh1billion
lolwut
Yep I'm completely average but I can outfuk any man on here.

You guys can stop thinking size means anything.
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post 1568143151 12-08-2018, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Yep I'm completely average but I can outfuk any man on here.
Wait, you're average and yet you claim to be a bull?

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Originally Posted By cookiefiend
It is completely disrespectful to compare your fiance and your ex, especially in a negative way, to a friend behind your finances back. Humiliating.
Meh I just think it's being honest.

Is it disrespectful that I always told everyone my ex couldn't cook?

Or that this girl couldn't give a bj to save her life?

No I don't think so. It's just the truth.

The woman I can't get over objectively is far from my best sex. But I did love her and love having sex with her.

Nobody is the best at everything for the person that wants them. It's just not possible.
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post 1568143321 12-08-2018, 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted By MyBaddBrah
Wait, you're average and yet you claim to be a bull?

Absolutely I can outfuk anyone. That's unfortunately my natural gift.

I wish I had other gifts.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1
Absolutely I can outfuk anyone. That's unfortunately my natural gift.

I wish I had other gifts.
what about ur gift of fashion sense?
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OP sorry to say it but she sees you as the safe option to settle with. Don't settle for that - find your 'one'
A million miles away - I don't.. feel.... anything.
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Originally Posted By proudmanlet
what about ur gift of fashion sense?
Evidently it's out of style.
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some of you actually read that novel? jesus
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Eh if it was me I'd be out. Its enough to bother you and imagine what else she says when you're not around. Kinda sounds like she'd jump ship if he asked her to anyway, how committed is she really?
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That means ur value does not match the draw wedding implies




Drop everything
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Originally Posted By MyBaddBrah
Way to kill the thread, a-hole
I think you should change your name to 'youmaddbrah'
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend
It is completely disrespectful to compare your fiance and your ex, especially in a negative way, to a friend behind your finances back. Humiliating.
Bro women do that **** 24/7 yet they want men to not tell a soul a phrase about their relationship or her in a negative light especially in comparison to a former
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Originally Posted By rectifryer
If he hadn't dumped her she would never have left him. Now I have no idea if after all of these years she would leave me for him if he would come backbut I don't think she would..
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Leave her. She liked her ex better than you. Tell her to fuk off and go back to him then. No point being second best to some ******* for the rest of your life. The fact that she would tell her friend that shows she has doubts and regrets. It's not meant to be. Your marriage would have fallen apart over the sex eventually. She would have cheated on you...probably with him! Forget her man. You don't need that chit in your life.
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...I honestly don't understand why so many of you get off on reading fake cuck stories on reddit. Maybe I'm just too old for this chit or maybe it's because I'm semi-normal.
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Originally Posted By rectifryer
Some back story here. He dumped her. It was not a mutual breakup, he flat out dumped her and broke her heart. I know this because early on in our relationship she told me this. She said she wasn't ready to be serious about anybody because her previous ex left her and emotionally broke her. So this is not a case of me even being able to say "well she's with me because she wants to be". If he hadn't dumped her she would never have left him. Now I have no idea if after all of these years she would leave me for him if he would come back but I don't think she would.
She definitely would in a heartbeat. That's what her statement to her friend indicates.
Originally Posted By rectifryer
I just don't know what to do here. I can feel myself checking out of the relationship. I know this is petty as chit but hearing the person you love tell someone else they prefer to have sex with someone else is just devastating to me. Her telling me all of my other good qualities has only made it worse because she is saying things that I think appeal to her and maybe other women but being told I am a good provider and will make a great husband makes me feel like chit. Like what would happen if I lost my good paying job or better yet what if I were to get injured and couldn't make anything more than state assistance, would she be there to support and help me? Basically what I feel like right now is a really good friend who she just allowed to have sex with. I know in my head that this is not correct but in my heart that is what I feel...
Your gut instinct is right. Your subconscious mind has already analyzed this and knows the truth. It isn't meant to be boyo. You're her second choice. She won't be happy with you, but she is happy to use your dick, money, and time for the time being like the fuking parasite she is. No decent woman would have said that to her friend about her fiance. That is disgusting. She is a fuked up person, and hopefully, she will never marry anyone and die alone with 30 cats and a yeast infection.
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Originally Posted By wincel
Leave her. She liked her ex better than you. Tell her to fuk off and go back to him then. No point being second best to some ******* for the rest of your life. The fact that she would tell her friend that shows she has doubts and regrets. It's not meant to be. Your marriage would have fallen apart over the sex eventually. She would have cheated on you...probably with him! Forget her man. You don't need that chit in your life.
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Story it probably fake, but it does happen a lot tbh.

Rudyrude had it wrong entirely - facials is absolutely NOT the most important thing. Dick size is, without an absolute doubt, THE most important attribute. You really only need 6-6.5" lengthwise, but girth is what actually matters.

Sex is what makes women truly fall in love with you on a primal scale. You can be a chad face wise but a timothy dick wise, and they'll never truly be in love with you. This is why you must find a virgin if you have an average dick (very srs)
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