It was quite by accident that I heard this. We had a group of our friends over and as the night went on we all kind of busted out into little groups. Some of us were in one room playing Texas Holdem and a couple of others were watching a Lord of the Ring marathon. I thought she was watching the movies but she and one of her close friends were actually sitting in the kitchen drinking coffee and talking. Our group had run out of soda so I got up to go to the kitchen to get drinks and a couple of snacks. As I'm rounding the corner I hear my fiance talking and before I completely come in the room I hear her clearly say "Jason is great but he will never be the lover that Bill was" she then followed it up with "Its not really fair to Jason though, Bill was just really gifted down there".

At first I thought about just walking back into the card game and pretending like we didn't have any extra soda or food but I decided to kind of make a noise and go in. Her friend caught eye of me rounding the corner and I could see her make a face to my fiance letting her know I was there. Of course she has no idea I heard her and she just stops talking to her and asks me how I'm doing and if I'm having fun. I was tempted to say something like "I'm having as much fun as someone who is not gifted down there can" but I didn't. I just said yes and proceeded to get my stuff and go back and finish the night. I just acted like nothing was wrong the rest of the night and went to bed.

Needless to say it fukked me up. I mean fukked me up bad. I've never been jealous or what you would call insecure about myself until that moment. I couldn't sleep that night and I went through a myriad of emotions while laying there. At first I was angry. Then I was humiliated. Then I was depressed. Then I was angry again.

Look I realize that the male ego seems stupid to women and even guys who are totally self assured. I would have agreed with most of this prior to that night but once it has been damaged it is a bitch.

I tried to hide any form of emotion about it or ever let her know but as the days went on I just kept getting worse and worse. I was avoiding her at all costs and while she was suspicious she didn't really say anything. That is until she attempted to be intimate with me a few days later and I flat out rejected her. It wasn't by a conscious decision on my part by the way. I had made the decision on my own to just try and get over it and move on. But in the moment instead of being sexually aroused I felt deeply inadequate and ashamed. Nothing was happening no matter how much either of us tried.

She asked me what was wrong and I just told her I must have been stressed from work but she would not believe that or let it go.

So much to my humiliation there I laid, naked in bed, unable to get an erection. I came clean and told her what I heard.

Well this did not go over well at all. At first she tried to tell me I did not hear her correctly. But I just repeated to her verbatim what she had told her friend. Well once she couldn't deny it she then tried to apologize and to her credit she tried to listen to my feelings on the matter. Which once again I am sure was more of a big turn off for her because I was a wreck emotionally.

She tried to tell me how much of a better person I was and how I satisfied her and she wanted nobody else. But all I could hear was Charlie Browns teacher noise.

It's been almost a month and I have zero desire to be with her sexually. None. She is now getting frustrated about this as well but no matter what I have tried I just can not get past this. It's not like she said we were both good lovers or anything like that. She clearly said he was far superior and my guess is that being gifted down there means he was significantly larger than me as well. Well I know I can do all kinds of things with my hands, tongue and whatever else. But no matter what I do I can't grow in size. Obviously she refuses to talk about that with me saying that no matter what she say's it will only make things worse because even if she say's something positive about me I won't believe her. She's most likely right.

Some back story here. He dumped her. It was not a mutual breakup, he flat out dumped her and broke her heart. I know this because early on in our relationship she told me this. She said she wasn't ready to be serious about anybody because her previous ex left her and emotionally broke her. So this is not a case of me even being able to say "well she's with me because she wants to be". If he hadn't dumped her she would never have left him. Now I have no idea if after all of these years she would leave me for him if he would come back but I don't think she would.

I just don't know what to do here. I can feel myself checking out of the relationship. I know this is petty as chit but hearing the person you love tell someone else they prefer to have sex with someone else is just devastating to me. Her telling me all of my other good qualities has only made it worse because she is saying things that I think appeal to her and maybe other women but being told I am a good provider and will make a great husband makes me feel like chit. Like what would happen if I lost my good paying job or better yet what if I were to get injured and couldn't make anything more than state assistance, would she be there to support and help me? Basically what I feel like right now is a really good friend who she just allowed to have sex with. I know in my head that this is not correct but in my heart that is what I feel.

I'm sorry for the length here and I don't even know what I am asking here. I am totally lost and if this continues I just think I am going to break our engagement.

tl;dr: heard fiance tell her friend that previous ex was superior in the sack (presumable due to size among other things), relationship has gone to hell since and I need advice.

Slick Willy strikes again.

You can always let her **** other guys, OP

hehe ty men

OP you would be in cuck heaven if you were a cuck

Submit your own angus to her ex and take the rough pounding you so desperately desire in order to even things out.

I don’t blame you OP. I think it is disrespectful for a partner to more or less talk like that behind the other partner’s back. I wouldn’t do something like that to my partner, so I expect the same. I would probably feel the same as you if I was in your shoes.

Didn’t read a word u ****

Cawk size?

Is this an aware thread, copy pasta or are you being srs?

I never bought any of that "size matters" crap until my junior year in college. I lived in the dorms with two roommates, David and John. David was a pretty ordinary looking guy, kinda quiet - but John was tall, lean, muscular and (according to him anyway) was hung like a bull. He used to joke about it a lot - even around my girlfriend, Amy. Amy was a sophomore and was petite, shy and somewhat quiet. I didn't like it when John would make his "big dick" comments and jokes around Amy, but she told me she didn't pay any attention to him and truth be told, she really couldn't stand John.

I have a 5.5" dick and with Amy being so petite, it always seemed to do the trick. I was only the third guy she'd ever been with and only her second boyfriend - maybe my guard was just down but who knows.

Anyway, one Friday night, Amy and I were hanging out in my dorm room drinking, smoking some weed and watching TV. David and John had both gone home for the weekend - or so we thought. At about 1AM (Amy and I were pretty toasted by then), John walked in. He'd ended up hanging out with some of his friends off campus and had decided to just drive home in the morning since his parents only lived about an hour and a half away.

He could see that Amy and I were both pretty hammered. He grabbed a beer and sat down and we smoked somem more weed with him. Amy was pretty drunk and started giving John ****. John seemed to get a kick out of it and I could see him kinda flirting with Amy. Then I noticed (and hoped that Amy wouldn't) that John wasn't wearing any underwear.

But Amy started massaging my dick through my jeans and being so ****ed up, I just laid my head back and enjoyed it - I couldn't believe she was doing that right in front of John! I heard John get up to pass Amy the joint we were smoking and I heard her gasp, long and deep and she suddenly stopped stroking my dick. I opened my eyes and saw John standing righ tin front of Amy with a HUGE ****ing bulge in his pants - just inches from her face. The room was so quiet you could have heard a pin drop.

He just stood there and I could feel her hand tremble and hear her breathing quicken. when she slowly looked up at him, almost in awe and respect, I could feel my heart start to pound in my chest. Then she softly whispered "ohhhhhhhhhhh" as she gingerly reached up to brush her finger tips across that massive knot in his pants. When she touched it, it throbbed - **** I could see it throb thorugh his pants - Amy just gasped again and looked up at him.

"What?" John asked her and just kinda laughed. Amy did NOT laugh. Instead, she softly asked "can i see it?" John stopped laughing, looked at her very seriously and told her to take it out. Amy never even hesitated - or looked back at me for an "OK" - just just obeyed him and began to open his jeans. I coudl see her nipples rock hard under her t-shirt and I could tell she was practically panting.

She opened his jeans and his big thick dick just fell out...and he had NOT been kidding. That cock was strong, thick, heavy and muscular. The head was a big purple mushroom that sat on top of the thickest shaft i'd ever seen. He was semi-hard and was HUGE compared to me. Amy just gasped and kept whispering "ohmygod..ohmygod...ohmygod". When she wrapped her hand around it, her brow just knotted in disbelief and she almost laughed at how thick he was - her fingers couldn't even touch.

John just stood there watching my girlfriend worship his magnificent cock. Slowly shaking her head in disbelief, she two-fisted him - one hand next to the other...and there was STILL a few inches left - and he was getting rock hard, too.

Amy smiled and patted the couch next to her and John sat down, his cock standing straight up. Honestly he had to be almost 10" (judging from the size of Amy's hand). I opened my pants and took my own cock out. Amy took my cock in her left hand and John's in her right - but there was little doubt whose cock was getting more attention. She couldn't take her eyes off his cock and her hand only occasionally stroked my dick...but John's she pumped with long, purposeful strokes until she finally couldn't help herself any longer and knelt in front of him, kissing his cock and rubbing it against her soft pale skin.

She sucked his dick until SHE came - just from sucking him! I stroked the whole time until he pulled her toward him, peeled off her pants (she didnt even make the slightest attempt to stop him) and sat her on his lap, her back to his chest - the two of them right next to me. She just rolled her head back to kiss him as he squeezed her tits through her shirt. Her hands went down and pushed that big cock against her pussy and she groaned so loud when it touched her that I thought people outside would hear.

John's dick was so ****ing big that he easily penetrated her from behind with her sitting on his lap. She arched up so she could take as much of it as she could and they started to **** right there next to me. It shocked me how easily her petite little body accomodated that horse cock of his. John pounded her in positions that i physically CANNOT do for over an hour - I have no idea how many times she came - she was even in tears a few times (though she never once told him to stop).

He asked her if she was on the pill and when she said she was on the patch, he told her that he was going to cum inside of her to mark her - which only made her cum again! when he finally came, he had Amy on her back, her legs shaking violently as they both came together - and true to his word, John dumped his seed deep up inside my girlfriend's pussy right in front of me. But **** - he didn't even lose his damn hard on! They ****ed for about another 40 minutes and he came twice more. Amy was a wreck by the time we all went to bed.

I will never forget the look on her face - like she was afraid of him and in love with him all at once - the whole time they ****ed. She later told me that there were no words to describe it - it was incredible but even that didn't seem enough. To my knowledge they never ****ed again and Amy and I dated for about another year before we finally broke up. I always wondered if she ended up with him or some other big dick guy.

But one thing I know for sure - she NEVER ****ed me like she did John and the things she said about John - the way she looked at him - and the way she was around him after that night (almost shy and meek) convinced me that a big dick makes a difference.

Amy told me that she "HAD to respect him" even if she didn't like him...and that she almost felt like he "had a right to her". So there ya go.

When will people realize the vast majority of stories on reddit relationship advice are fake as chit?

What the hell was he doing? Experimenting on himself? It doesn't make sense because the first time I saw him, he seemed completely disoriented, like he was the victim of some tests / abuse.

Then later, when I located him, he seemed to have no recollection of the events, him approaching me, or anything like that. He seemed normal, and declined to comment on ANYTHING.

But then I saw pictures in his office. Pictures of him in RWANDA, in 1993.

What the hell was he doing in Rwanda? Think about it. How many people killed each other over there. Everyone was slaughtering everyone. And yet, he was a doctor over there, at that time.

This chit makes me sick.

I actually read all of it. good read.

you need to add in pics to keep people hooked though

I'll play along as if this is a serious thread.

Leave her. Any slut who would talk about you like that to her friends is gutter trash.

OP. Look at it like this. There is not a guy out there that doesn't wish he was John Holmes it at least packed like that. My self included.

But it's the same for us. I've had women who I thought were exciting snd great in bed and women no matter how good they looked just flat out was terrible in bed.

It's give and tske. Nothing is perfect. I'm at a stage kf my life where id just like a good woman no matter if shr sucked in bed or not. Much more than I would a porn star that blew my mind every night

I know the feels you are going through feeling like you are not enough. This very thing had happened to me but just the fact she has not left you should make you happy cause it says she loves you more than John Holmes

Work it out with her

beautiful story, thanks

time to end it

LMAO who cares dude. I'm a trash piece of ass but I own it. Little feller never failed to get me off once.

Look gifted down there doesn't necessarily mean size.

Not everyone is equal when it comes to the motions you use.

Is she the best you've ever had?

Tell me what your sexual style is with her?


You need to make a decision. Either you're going to man up and take back what's yours or you're going to act like a pussy.

That's so sad he broke her heart, she has a good provider like you to care for her now and she should be grateful!

Also, I am sorry about your loss of erection

Kind Regards

DD

I would’ve ended it immediately OP. That is some serious disrespect from your fiancé for 1. Talking about how an ex is better than you in bed and 2. Having the audacity to deny it when you first brought it up.

Have some self respect and break it off with her then go NC.

It's not disrespectful for her to tell her friends that.

We do it all the time.

This girl is x in bed.

This girl is fun to talk to

This girl cant cook like my ex.

Tons of comparisons all the time. Men and women both do it.

Who is she supposed to talk to? Nobody?

If this is a srs thread, dump the sloot. Pure disrespect.

I wouldn't be able to look at my girl the same if she ever said that. Not that she would as I, like most miscers, am hung like a horse.

Sorry Leo. But size is everything. That motion of the ocean **** is b.s

Dobt let what your girlfriend's tell you cloud you of the truth cause you have some money lol I assure you that is nit true

That's just the reality of it. It's not doomsday ot the end of the world. It's just sex

Bill was just really gifted down there

Also no you're not.

I'm sorry for the length here

You are the divorced middle-aged man, right? Yeah, not sure I'd be taking advice from you.

And naw, I don't talk to my friends about my GF's pussy or tell them she isn't a good lay.

I'm completely average but I know how to phuck and women love how I do it.

Trust me.

Op I'm generally pro relationship here but a overhearing a conversation like that would be devastating.

I'm trying to figure out her thought process here and it doesn't look good.

Like, if I was to say, "oh my wife is such a great cook and mother but Sally used to let me put it in her ass all the time and swallowed my cum".... That basically means that I miss fukking Sally.

Good luck, it's a really chitty situation and I'm not sure how I'd handle it or if you guys can recover.

One thing for sure is your fiancee is absolute trash for gossiping about your sex life with her friends

OP if this a serious thread, you should felt justified in ending the relationship. She’ll never be fully committed to you on a primal emotional level and you will never get over it. Sad situation.