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Originally Posted By DualBandWiFi⏩
Dancing is the literal number one way to attract females- too awkward
- have a mental image that dancing is seriously homo for males (don't know why always been like this)
- high inhibition
- have a mental image that dancing is seriously homo for males (don't know why always been like this)
- high inhibition
That’s why animals do it
Studies show women are attracted to large and varied body movements
Literall sthe straightest thing you can do besides sex
No racist but it must be a w thing because men of color dance like all the time
It’s like a toxic masculinity thing
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Originally Posted By InstantLoser⏩
A lot of that sounds like a choiceYou honestly think an anti-social, heavily inhibited piece of chit like yours truly is going to suddenly do a complete 180 and join a dance club?
Not sure just curious
Also, you can learn to dance at home from YouTube videos
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
I'm 100% down for beginner hip hop.I haven’t been to a dance class for years but let’s go
I’m thinking Alvin Ailey or broadway dance for beginner hip hop
I’m thinking Alvin Ailey or broadway dance for beginner hip hop
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12-19-2018, 10:22 AM
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It would have to be metal mosh pits or something cuz I wont dance to hip hop srs
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
Anti-social/inhibition is not a choice. Dancing doesn't attract women if you're ugly.. then you're just an ugly guy gyrating around in an unattractive/clumsy manner. Nothing gets 'em wet like an ugly fat dude flailing around like a uncoordinated potato.A lot of that sounds like a choice
Not sure just curious
Also, you can learn to dance at home from YouTube videos
Not sure just curious
Also, you can learn to dance at home from YouTube videos
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Originally Posted By DualBandWiFi⏩
Just watch vids of Chris Brown or Bieber dancing and see the reactions girls have.- too awkward
- have a mental image that dancing is seriously homo for males (don't know why always been like this)
- high inhibition
- have a mental image that dancing is seriously homo for males (don't know why always been like this)
- high inhibition
Get decent at it and girls notice.
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12-19-2018, 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted By GJLuke⏩
"Improving oneself socially" is exactly the mental trap I am talking about. Believing that you must "progress" on some social ladder in order to attain a mate is the source of misery of most incels. The truth is they are incels mainly due to genetics and circumstance. You cannot be something you aren't, and to hate yourself for not being another person is silly. "Improving socially" is not a tangible goal. There is not a real metric for you to define social improvement. Being "good at being social" or not depends strongly on the group with whom you are attempting to socialize.Excellent post OP.
Don't only do the dance class just for the girls, but do the dance class for the growth involved aswell, learning a new skill, doing something out of your comfort zone (which will improve your self-esteem and comfortability levels in other areas of life), trying something new etc.
Lovability can be improved as evolving yourself as a person. And you can improve yourself as a person for you (rather than for external reasons). Improving oneself socially is an integral part of improving yourself as a person.
I've heard actually lots of cool, down to Earth women take dance classes. The sloots go to the night clubs / bars / parties. A day time class is where it's at.
If an incel goes to a dance class... then they suddenly aren't a basement dwelling incel anymore and women actually might like them!
Don't only do the dance class just for the girls, but do the dance class for the growth involved aswell, learning a new skill, doing something out of your comfort zone (which will improve your self-esteem and comfortability levels in other areas of life), trying something new etc.
Lovability can be improved as evolving yourself as a person. And you can improve yourself as a person for you (rather than for external reasons). Improving oneself socially is an integral part of improving yourself as a person.
I've heard actually lots of cool, down to Earth women take dance classes. The sloots go to the night clubs / bars / parties. A day time class is where it's at.
If an incel goes to a dance class... then they suddenly aren't a basement dwelling incel anymore and women actually might like them!
For example, a female who finds you repulsive would rate your social skills as low, no matter what you say or do. There are a lot of people who are considered "social" who would do terribly among groups of people outside of their culture as well.
I once made a thread asking what "social skills" were, and the answers were quite amusing.
If an incel goes to a dance class against his will just to attract a mate, he will likely find someone who loves dancing. Since he doesn't love dancing and the entire relationship is based mostly on a lie, he will likely be unhappy even if he does enter a relationship with a woman who loves dancing.
What you are really asking is that the incel change himself. Incels are unhappy primarily because they are not loved for who they really are. Most incels would rather be with sloots who love thigs that they enjoy.
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Originally Posted By InstantLoser⏩
Evan, pm’dAnti-social/inhibition is not a choice. Dancing doesn't attract women if you're ugly.. then you're just an ugly guy gyrating around in an unattractive/clumsy manner. Nothing gets 'em wet like an ugly fat dude flailing around like a uncoordinated potato.
Eod why no hip hop? Would you dance country?
Other dude talking about being unnatractice
Look at this bald manlet
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2rq3j2jGKec
Anyway you don’t take a dance class thinking it’s going to immediately lead to sex
But learning a skill and having fun is attractive and will build your confidence
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
I guess my question is why wouldn’t they enjoy dancing?"Improving oneself socially" is exactly the mental trap I am talking about. Believing that you must "progress" on some social ladder in order to attain a mate is the source of misery of most incels. The truth is they are incels mainly due to genetics and circumstance. You cannot be something you aren't, and to hate yourself for not being another person is silly. "Improving socially" is not a tangible goal. There is not a real metric for you to define social improvement. Being "good at being social" or not depends strongly on the group with whom you are attempting to socialize.
For example, a female who finds you repulsive would rate your social skills as low, no matter what you say or do. There are a lot of people who are considered "social" who would do terribly among groups of people outside of their culture as well.
I once made a thread asking what "social skills" were, and the answers were quite amusing.
If an incel goes to a dance class against his will just to attract a mate, he will likely find someone who loves dancing. Since he doesn't love dancing and the entire relationship is based mostly on a lie, he will likely be unhappy even if he does enter a relationship with a woman who loves dancing.
What you are really asking is that the incel change himself. Incels are unhappy primarily because they are not loved for who they really are. Most incels would rather be with sloots who love thigs that they enjoy.
For example, a female who finds you repulsive would rate your social skills as low, no matter what you say or do. There are a lot of people who are considered "social" who would do terribly among groups of people outside of their culture as well.
I once made a thread asking what "social skills" were, and the answers were quite amusing.
If an incel goes to a dance class against his will just to attract a mate, he will likely find someone who loves dancing. Since he doesn't love dancing and the entire relationship is based mostly on a lie, he will likely be unhappy even if he does enter a relationship with a woman who loves dancing.
What you are really asking is that the incel change himself. Incels are unhappy primarily because they are not loved for who they really are. Most incels would rather be with sloots who love thigs that they enjoy.
Thank you for the honest insightful post
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Country dancing for eod
Edit: full hair miscer that lifts in the back wearing bikini getting mogged by bald hatcell who actually knows how to dance
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12-19-2018, 10:53 AM
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
IDK but everyone has their own preferences. Some people do not like to dance. Perhaps it is the anxiety of performing, the intimacy with a partner, or the silly nature of it. I do not dance, and even if I were a good dancer, I probably wouldn't want to dance. I am also very skeptical of a sloot who loves to dance.I guess my question is why wouldn’t they enjoy dancing?
Thank you for the honest insightful post
Thank you for the honest insightful post
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
Come on bro, he isn't getting shiit.That dude is ahead of his time going for some prime hot poos (legal for him no Chris Hansen)
She’s hot af and he went for it
If he keeps it up he may not get the 10/10 like the one in the video but will probably get sucked and phucked by some uggos
By the time he gets to college he will be a slayer
She’s hot af and he went for it
If he keeps it up he may not get the 10/10 like the one in the video but will probably get sucked and phucked by some uggos
By the time he gets to college he will be a slayer
Also, that girl ended up with a legit Chad lmao, srs. College QB
How dare you!
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Being incel and being an awkward cringe autistic spastic at dancing probably have a 0.9999 correlation.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
What do you like to do if I may ask?IDK but everyone has their own preferences. Some people do not like to dance. Perhaps it is the anxiety of performing, the intimacy with a partner, or the silly nature of it. I do not dance, and even if I were a good dancer, I probably wouldn't want to dance. I am also very skeptical of a sloot who loves to dance.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
How about this:IDK but everyone has their own preferences. Some people do not like to dance. Perhaps it is the anxiety of performing, the intimacy with a partner, or the silly nature of it. I do not dance, and even if I were a good dancer, I probably wouldn't want to dance. I am also very skeptical of a sloot who loves to dance.
Go dance
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I hope I can find a good class with a high ratio of women. Don't care about getting laid, just dancing with an attractive Latina and having fun is enough.
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Originally Posted By MikeLowrrrey⏩
Dancing with Latinas.....I hope I can find a good class with a high ratio of women. Don't care about getting laid, just dancing with an attractive Latina and having fun is enough.
I look forward to your babynames.com thread in 2019.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Dancing with Latinas.....
I look forward to your babynames.com thread in 2019.
I look forward to your babynames.com thread in 2019.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
I think I'd hate skiing, but I'd be up for trying it at least once.IDK but everyone has their own preferences. Some people do not like to dance. Perhaps it is the anxiety of performing, the intimacy with a partner, or the silly nature of it. I do not dance, and even if I were a good dancer, I probably wouldn't want to dance. I am also very skeptical of a sloot who loves to dance.
We're saying try new chit, not dedicate your life to the damn thing. JUST TRY CHIT SOMETIMES AND STOP REASONING YOUR WAY OUT OF IT.
Your way of doing things sucks ass, because your way is literally doing nothing. I wouldn't want to date your ass if I was a woman if all you did was bitch and moan and not try chit from time to time.
How did you discover you enjoyed your current hobbies? Did you theorize about it, or did you just fukking try it and found it to be awesome?
Fuk, I played ultimate Frisbee ffs and I would have called it the gayest thing ever before I tried it. I mean, it's still pretty gay, but it's fun.
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There's a certified autist in my program (I say that with peace and love because I actually like the guy) that is in a salsa dance class. He seems to be having fun with it to the point that I'd consider doing it if I had the time.
Your schtick sucks and it screams insecurity.
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It is a good call to try new things
If you don’t like them fine
But maybe you end up loving them
I don’t like dodge ball but my friends in a league love it and it’s hasically a drinking club
Also even long neck can get hoes and have fun
How hard is it to take dance class for a month?
If you don’t like them fine
But maybe you end up loving them
I don’t like dodge ball but my friends in a league love it and it’s hasically a drinking club
Also even long neck can get hoes and have fun
How hard is it to take dance class for a month?
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
. You are still a fat neck beard that now thinks he can dance.. congratulations on your goals of 2018.. I'm getting my girlfriend to come over and cook tonight..withdrew funds from profits, a good day for me...Happy Trump bashing and Salsa classes in 2019..you *******I’m kinda fat bro no shame in my game
Serious question
It’s like minimal effort to improve your life experience
People keep complaining that they can’t meet women etc but pretty sure they aren’t dancing
I killed it at a party yesterday
Funny thing was I was getting social anxiety because everyone knew each other and was talking to each other and I was all alone
Had some drinks and a woman asked me to dance with her and her friend and get the dance party started and we danced a little then like 15 minutes later everyone joined us and the party got lit af
Serious question
It’s like minimal effort to improve your life experience
People keep complaining that they can’t meet women etc but pretty sure they aren’t dancing
I killed it at a party yesterday
Funny thing was I was getting social anxiety because everyone knew each other and was talking to each other and I was all alone
Had some drinks and a woman asked me to dance with her and her friend and get the dance party started and we danced a little then like 15 minutes later everyone joined us and the party got lit af
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
. wincel dances alone to Adele songs..cmon *******What do you like to do if I may ask?
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Originally Posted By PowersKenny⏩
I posted a video of me with 5 women at a party. You are still a fat neck beard that now thinks he can dance.. congratulations on your goals of 2018.. I'm getting my girlfriend to come over and cook tonight..withdrew funds from profits, a good day for me...Happy Trump bashing and Salsa classes in 2019..you *******
Let’s see your gf big shot I’m calling you out
And yeah I will have fun bashing trump and dancing lol, was that supposed to be an insult?
Withdrawing funds on a weekday, sounds like you are poverty smh
I’ll be meeting a miscer for dance class and making friends while you are trolling about your fake gf on the Internet
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12-19-2018, 12:23 PM
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Wincel is right FA's lack the empathy and happiness to try new things. Especially stuff like dancing. We shouldn't change who we are to make friends. But when it comes to FAs/incels they have much less tolerance for that kind of stuff usually.
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12-19-2018, 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Fit1NYC⏩
See i like country (been to plenty of country concerts) but i just can't dance like that. I've had girls try to get me to dance and the only way i can do it is to be extremely drunk. I think i look goofy and i'm too high inhibition idk. I just don't think men should be dancing.Country dancing for eod
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
TILWincel is right FA's lack the empathy and happiness to try new things. Especially stuff like dancing. We shouldn't change who we are to make friends. But when it comes to FAs/incels they have much less tolerance for that kind of stuff usually.
Trying new things = Changing who you are
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
1). The flaw in this reasoning is that you assume that interests, beliefs, preferences, and skills are primordial and immutable. This is false. You talk a lot about genetics, but the flip side of genetics is environment. People's preferences, interests, beliefs, and even IQ, can be altered or influenced by the environment and through effort. My preferences and interests have changed over the last ten years.IDK but everyone has their own preferences. Some people do not like to dance. Perhaps it is the anxiety of performing, the intimacy with a partner, or the silly nature of it. I do not dance, and even if I were a good dancer, I probably wouldn't want to dance. I am also very skeptical of a sloot who loves to dance.
2). No one is suggesting you try or engage in something you have a complete aversion to. But stepping out of your comfort zone can have very pleasant unintended consequences.
3). A chick who loves to dance just enjoys a particular type of hobby. Nothing wrong with it. Again, if you just interacted with more chicks, you wouldn't have this unfounded and silly suspicion.
4). I'm no expert, but I'm guessing that these type of threads may not be good for your therapeutic progress. I would avoid.
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