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Thread: Guy wasted my time, jerk was just trying to get laid

post 1569757971 12-28-2018, 05:51 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Sex wise, well it's kinda high. I tended to jump in too quickly before I realised the guys were just pretending or if I really dig the person I'd end up sleeping with them within a month. A few were purely lust related.
thats how one ends up with the herp.

oops too late.
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post 1569757981 12-28-2018, 05:51 PM
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Cause a fling is someone you date and see over a period of time vs a ONS
No a fling is random casual sex. Either way you're agreeing there is no relationship taking place in it, which just proves it doesn't work to her benefit
post 1569758021 12-28-2018, 05:52 PM
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Pay attention to this thread, men...this is why you don't want your daughter to be a whore.
post 1569758061 12-28-2018, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
50s then...point is it is too many

ur a slut

u spent your life building skills in sex at least, so that is going to have to be the primary thing you will offer to a man. Nobody wants the mother of their kids to have herpes and a kill count of 50+. You are going to have to be the biggest whore ever to win over the dinks of the men you date. There is no hope of winning over their hearts.

maybe that's too brutal, but it's true...

just like your life is over if you are under 5'7"

woman who smashed 50+ guys and has herpes = 5'4" bald, fat guy

srs
Not 50s. 30s, I'm a pretty honest person. I had some life crisis issues in the past so that jacked up my count. See why I didn't mention my count earlier?
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post 1569758121 12-28-2018, 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
No a fling is random casual sex. Either way you're agreeing there is no relationship taking place in it, which just proves it doesn't work to her benefit
by fling I meant short term dating.
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post 1569758191 12-28-2018, 05:54 PM
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post 1569758271 12-28-2018, 05:55 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
Pay attention to this thread, men...this is why you don't want your daughter to be a whore.
Sexual assault tends to rattle women's brains a bit so pardon me. It's not an excuse but it contributed. But whatevs
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post 1569758381 12-28-2018, 05:56 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I don't do one night or two night stands. I'm in my mid 20s. I know but most the guys I meet end up being jerks so its not like I can go back and build something serious with them.

So I accept their apologies, wish them well, block them and move on. Those I don't do that with it gets bad. Like they really show their bad side.
But if these are all guys you've dated and not flings, then that's still a lot of guys to go through. How do you date 30+ guys by mid 20's?? My count by then was like 5. 2 of them were long term (3-4 yrs) boyfriends.
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post 1569758541 12-28-2018, 05:58 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Not 50s. 30s, I'm a pretty honest person. I had some life crisis issues in the past so that jacked up my count. See why I didn't mention my count earlier?
Even if it is 30, it doesn't excuse that. You had your fun, and now you are paying the price for it. There's really not much more to say about it. You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
post 1569758551 12-28-2018, 05:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
But if these are all guys you've dated and not flings, then that's still a lot of guys to go through. How do you date 30+ guys by mid 20's?? My count by then was like 5. 2 of them were long term (3-4 yrs) boyfriends.
Times have changed, legz. A decent amount of young women will hit 10+ partners before 20yo. It’s honestly unsettling
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post 1569758581 12-28-2018, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
But if these are all guys you've dated and not flings, then that's still a lot of guys to go through. How do you date 30+ guys by mid 20's?? My count by then was like 5. 2 of them were long term (3-4 yrs) boyfriends.
I honestly don't know, bad luck with some guys, a few were fwbs. I think I'll shut down this thread , it's becoming uncomfortable.
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post 1569758621 12-28-2018, 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Sexual assault tends to rattle women's brains a bit so pardon me. It's not an excuse but it contributed. But whatevs
I've been assaulted. I didn't go around sucking dink.
post 1569758681 12-28-2018, 06:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
But if these are all guys you've dated and not flings, then that's still a lot of guys to go through. How do you date 30+ guys by mid 20's?? My count by then was like 5. 2 of them were long term (3-4 yrs) boyfriends.
Very simply if you date one person for 90 days and then it blows up that's 4 ppl a year. If you start at 16 which is average age for sex that's 40 partners by 26.
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post 1569758701 12-28-2018, 06:00 PM
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Times have changed, legz. A decent amount of young women will hit 10+ partners before 20yo. It’s honestly unsettling
speaking from experience?
Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Very simply if you date one person for 90 days and then it blows up that's 4 ppl a year. If you start at 16 which is average age for sex that's 40 partners by 26.
If your cut lasts longer than your relationship, you're probably doing something wrong.
post 1569758781 12-28-2018, 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
Even if it is 30, it doesn't excuse that. You had your fun, and now you are paying the price for it. There's really not much more to say about it. You can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
Ok let's discuss this why do you think that? Ho into wife
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post 1569758811 12-28-2018, 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
I've been assaulted. I didn't go around sucking dink.
Well it happened to me more than once. I think I'm only recovering from it this year to be honest. Sorry you went through that though, it's one of those things that shouldn't happen.
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post 1569758831 12-28-2018, 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I was sad at the time, needed a distraction. If I have to be honest, I was chased in the house a bit and brought to the bedroom to “cheer up''. So I went along with it. Wasn't very clear headed that day.
I guess I can understand your point of view.

In the future you need to have better judgement. Go on a couple of dates with him or do some activities. Guys who just wanna bang won't stick around to do too many dates with you if you don't put out
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post 1569758891 12-28-2018, 06:03 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
by fling I meant short term dating.
apples and oranges. If you walked into it with the intention of it being casual and nothing serious then it would be a fling. If I met a woman I really liked then found out she secretly had a boyfriend 2 weeks later I wouldn't call it a fling.
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Times have changed, legz. A decent amount of young women will hit 10+ partners before 20yo. It’s honestly unsettling
That's crazy AF to me. I was with my high school boyfriend from 16 to just over 20 yrs old.
Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I honestly don't know, bad luck with some guys, a few were fwbs. I think I'll shut down this thread , it's becoming uncomfortable.
Well, just do better from here on out. You know you don't like the way casual sex makes you feel so don't have it. Wait for someone who's worth it.
Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Very simply if you date one person for 90 days and then it blows up that's 4 ppl a year. If you start at 16 which is average age for sex that's 40 partners by 26.
lol WTF?! I'd be very concerned about a person who couldn't hold down a relationship for more than 90 days in a 10 yr period. That's also saying they jumped from relationship to relationship instead of improving on themselves. Which to me isn't a plus.
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post 1569758981 12-28-2018, 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
speaking from experience?
Lol, no. It’s just what I see/hear from younger women and parents of high schoolers/middle schoolers that I’ve worked with.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
speaking from experience?



If your cut lasts longer than your relationship, you're probably doing something wrong.
Relationships are complicated Wincel. I'm sure you can understand that right?
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Ok let's discuss this why do you think that? Ho into wife
because they would make horrible mothers and role models to your children, and they are likely to cheat
Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
Relationships are complicated Wincel. I'm sure you can understand that right?
I've never had one so I wouldn't know. But I will say that this is exactly why traditional society put such an emphasis on chastity and marriage. It wouldn't be that complicated or hard if you never knew any other source of sex, didn't have access to pornography, and generally would be killed if you cheated. You'd bang, and keep banging because it would be all you would know. And you'd stay together and raise your kids. The focus of your life wouldn't be to greedily sate your desires, but rather to provide the best life for your children.
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Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
I guess I can understand your point of view.

In the future you need to have better judgement. Go on a couple of dates with him or do some activities. Guys who just wanna bang won't stick around to do too many hobbies with you if you don't put out
I kind of don't like crowded or busy places. So that will be difficult but I'll try. I do watch movies, funny vids, cook and stuff with guys. But I think since its at their place or mine most times, they don't mind it.
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
because they would make horrible mothers and role models to your children, and they are likely to cheat
Get specific why would they make a horrible mother?
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
because they would make horrible mothers and role models to your children, and they are likely to cheat
I've never cheated and I think I'll make a good mom if I find the right guy. I'm good with kids. As for role model most people think I'm virginal. I don't party, dress moderately and I'm a kind person.
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Originally Posted By FemaleWarriorxo⏩
Lol, no. It’s just what I see/hear from younger women and parents of high schoolers/middle schoolers that I’ve worked with.
What's your kill count then sloot?
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
because they would make horrible mothers and role models to your children, and they are likely to cheat



I've never had one so I wouldn't know. But I will say that this is exactly why traditional society put such an emphasis on chastity and marriage. It wouldn't be that complicated or hard if you never knew any other source of sex, didn't have access to pornography, and generally would be killed if you cheated. You'd bang, and keep banging because it would be all you would know. And you'd stay together and raise your kids. The focus of your life wouldn't be to greedily sate your desires, but rather to provide the best life for your children.
You are so off base it's crazy.
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
I've never cheated and I think I'll make a good mom if I find the right guy. I'm good with kids. As for role model most people think I'm virginal. I don't party, dress moderately and I'm a kind person.
Your kid is likely to have herpes coming out of the hole. Think about that.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
That's crazy AF to me. I was with my high school boyfriend from 16 to just over 20 yrs old.
It can stun you for sure. I have a family’s friend daughter text me with her relationship issues and she’s only 16 and keeps jumping from different boys. I told her mother about it and she sorta shrugged it off and said she’s just young. It’s just not healthy.
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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
You are so off base it's crazy.
K so for thousands of years, the entirety of human civilization was off base lmao.

This little experiment that started in the 60's is legit destroying society.
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