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Thread: If your wife can't cook, is she even a wife?

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well other things. If a guy is looking for a woman who likes to cook, then we likely just wouldn’t be compatible.
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that's called any female who grew up in the western world, barring a small portion of those in eastern Europe where men are still men and women are still women

I wouldn't marry a woman who can't cook consistently good food and loved doing so

so in short, no. such a girl wouldn't be my wife

cooking/homemaking/caring for their man (one of which ways is making sure he isn't hungry) is a very feminine, attractive trait

I love to cook but having my girl do it for me just satisfies me on such a deep level

all my girlfriend's so far have been like this.
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post 1570527141 01-07-2019, 11:14 AM
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It would be wonderful to be with someone with a culinary passion. I can imagine the alternative being tedious and having a detrimental impact on the relationship (particularly if neither partner can cook even fairly decently).
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Do you mean household duties? Or other qualities?

As to household duties, those can either be divided or preferably outsourced as much as possible. I prefer to outsource because to me free time and fun and relaxation are much more important.

So for example on a free Saturday I’d much rather have a cleaning lady clean the house while we go out and do something fun and eat out at a restaurant. Just different preference from people who prefer to do housekeeping and cooking themselves.

So if I were to meet someone who prefers a homemaker type woman then we would have to figure out some compromise that we are both ok with, or maybe just would not be compatible or happy with each other.
LMAO you have nothing to offer.

got asked 2 times and both times you couldn't list a single thing.

you are one pathetic loser.
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post 1570527801 01-07-2019, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Do you mean household duties? Or other qualities?

As to household duties, those can either be divided or preferably outsourced as much as possible. I prefer to outsource because to me free time and fun and relaxation are much more important.

So for example on a free Saturday I’d much rather have a cleaning lady clean the house while we go out and do something fun and eat out at a restaurant. Just different preference from people who prefer to do housekeeping and cooking themselves.

So if I were to meet someone who prefers a homemaker type woman then we would have to figure out some compromise that we are both ok with, or maybe just would not be compatible or happy with each other.
I understand. So what would you bring to a relationship then? Do you have a good job and will be able to pay for half the expenses? Do you maintain yourself physically? Would you categorize yourself as a loving, nurturing person?

For example, my sister also has a cleaning lady. She has 3 kids which she manages 80% of the time. She also works as a nurse and contributes to the household expenses. She also cooks everyday from scratch and is supportive of her husband. She maintains herself physically and isn't a burden on her husband as in expecting him to take care of her material needs.

Why would a dude want to be with you?
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post 1570527831 01-07-2019, 11:21 AM
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if your wife can't cook she's no longer the wife, you are
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Do you mean household duties? Or other qualities?

As to household duties, those can either be divided or preferably outsourced as much as possible. I prefer to outsource because to me free time and fun and relaxation are much more important.

So for example on a free Saturday I’d much rather have a cleaning lady clean the house while we go out and do something fun and eat out at a restaurant. Just different preference from people who prefer to do housekeeping and cooking themselves.

So if I were to meet someone who prefers a homemaker type woman then we would have to figure out some compromise that we are both ok with, or maybe just would not be compatible or happy with each other.
You sound high maintenance and expensive.

BRB lets get a maid and go spend money doing "fun stuff' and eating out
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post 1570527931 01-07-2019, 11:22 AM
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if you marry someone that can't cook, why did you wife her in the first place?

plus relying on a woman to cook your meals is ridiculous, you know what they say, if you want something done properly, do it yourself
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Do you mean household duties? Or other qualities?

As to household duties, those can either be divided or preferably outsourced as much as possible. I prefer to outsource because to me free time and fun and relaxation are much more important.

So for example on a free Saturday I’d much rather have a cleaning lady clean the house while we go out and do something fun and eat out at a restaurant. Just different preference from people who prefer to do housekeeping and cooking themselves.

So if I were to meet someone who prefers a homemaker type woman then we would have to figure out some compromise that we are both ok with, or maybe just would not be compatible or happy with each other.
I don't judge but all of the girls I have been with so far would much prefer to take care of their house themselves. they see it as their own pride and sort of creative project

maids are a necessity of both partners corpcel hard. but there again i wouldn't marry a corpcel because corpcelling women go hand in hand with neo feminism which can suck a giant cock

if you work anything under 50 hours a week no reason why you can't do the house yourself.

but you have to want to. if you're passionate about it, which naturally sloots are, then it won't be seen as a chore
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post 1570528011 01-07-2019, 11:23 AM
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In the last 15 or so years I've came across almost no women under ~35ish who can cook well or even at all. Most women see it as a form of repression these days, or are just too lazy to bother. If you do find one, and she's decent looking, that's a unicorn.
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post 1570528181 01-07-2019, 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted By zpsar⏩
if you marry someone that can't cook, why did you wife her in the first place?

plus relying on a woman to cook your meals is ridiculous, you know what they say, if you want something done properly, do it yourself
I could and have happily cooked meals for years while I'm single.

having a sloot cook for you and wanting you to enjoy every bite is so fukking hot. clearly you haven't been with a girl who has a genuine passion for cooking

I should add I have never had a western gf and haven't met one yet who would meet these criteria
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post 1570528261 01-07-2019, 11:26 AM
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I equate this to men who hire maintenance work done.

expects wife to cook gourmet 3 course meal but doesn't change the oil in the car.

Expects wife to clean house but doesn't clean the gutters

Basically if you hire another man to come and do EASY things like change oil and maintain your property, then you can't bitch if your wife hires another person (restaurant) to cook dinner.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
So in this thread I’ve learned that cooking and blow jobs make a happy marriage
If you can do both at the same time, dynamite.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Not going to list my qualities. And I don’t think it’s fair to assume that just because someone does not list their qualities, that means they have nothing to offer.
Then why are you responding to questions explicitly asking you "what do you have to offer"

cuz all you've described so far is the proclivity to spending money.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Not going to list my qualities. And I don’t think it’s fair to assume that just because someone does not list their qualities, that means they have nothing to offer.
Fair enough. I do.

If you have chitsquat to offer another human being, I don't see why that person would want to be around you.

I feel like this is the single-most troubling aspect of today's relationships. A dumb as bricks "chad" sits there with an entitled behaviour thinking that he should get everything in a woman just because he's "hot." Likewise, we have young ladies thinking that they're entitled to free meals, a chauffeur, a good-looking financially successful dude because she offers him sex. Just lol the unrealistic people of the world.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Not going to list my qualities. And I don’t think it’s fair to assume that just because someone does not list their qualities, that means they have nothing to offer.
maybe you should have lead with that. Not say that you would spend the dudes money to hire a cleaning lady. LMAO
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Originally Posted By Cablebob⏩
I equate this to men who hire maintenance work done.

expects wife to cook gourmet 3 course meal but doesn't change the oil in the car.

Expects wife to clean house but doesn't clean the gutters

Basically if you hire another man to come and do EASY things like change oil and maintain your property, then you can't bitch if your wife hires another person (restaurant) to cook dinner.
disagree. if you're making the cash in the house you can do what the fuk you want. to make cash flow you're obviously successful. to be successful is a significant achievement and if a woman wants a part of my success she can keep me happy as well.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
So in this thread I’ve learned that cooking and blow jobs make a happy marriage

Welp you can’t argue with that
that honestly would solve 99% of marriage problems

and genuine concern from both parties about each other's lives, consistently. but that can't be negotiated. so someone fukked up along the way and doesn't want to change
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Not going to list my qualities. And I don’t think it’s fair to assume that just because someone does not list their qualities, that means they have nothing to offer.
It's a fair question, you just don't want to admit that your list of qualities may not be up to par for what people here would accept.
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My woman cooks dinner does laundry and gets up in the morning to make sure I have a lunch for work, even if she is sick or mad at me. Feels good mane.
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Originally Posted By Cablebob⏩
I equate this to men who hire maintenance work done.

expects wife to cook gourmet 3 course meal but doesn't change the oil in the car.

Expects wife to clean house but doesn't clean the gutters

Basically if you hire another man to come and do EASY things like change oil and maintain your property, then you can't bitch if your wife hires another person (restaurant) to cook dinner.
Great post. This Bob gets it.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well again, I don’t think it’s fair to jump from “does not list their qualities” to “has chitsquat to offer.”
I wasn't applying that to you. You didn't list what you have to offer, so it doesn't apply. I'm making a general, albeit biased by my personal views, statement.
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If you can do both at the same time, dynamite.
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What if, just say, she wakes you up with a BJ and you make her breakfast in bed?
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
disagree. if you're making the cash in the house you can do what the fuk you want. to make cash flow you're obviously successful. to be successful is a significant achievement and if a woman wants a part of my success she can keep me happy as well.
So let me get this straight.

-You marry a woman who doesn't cook
-You work hard and hold bags
-You hire out all the things in life that you don't want to do because you work hard and hold bags. (oil changes, gutters cleaned, Christmas light installed, cars washed...ect)
-You expect your wife to do things she doesn't want to do because you work hard and hold bags?

So, what's in it for her? because I'm sure she's regretting marrying you by now.

What if your wife works outside the home? do you still expect her to make you happy because you are successful?

Good luck in divorce court when she takes 3/4th of your success and still doesn't cook.
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