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» Silencespeaks might be the most FA female ive ever seen in my life(srs)
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post 1570629321 01-08-2019, 12:11 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yeah I understand that I might be boring to people. If a guy is looking for a social bubbly type girl, or a homemaker type woman who likes to cook and clean, then that’s just not me.
Even shy and introverted women who are neither homemakers or social butterflies, seem to have more to offer in terms of lifestyle and personality, than the impression I'm getting from you, tbh.
To me the purpose of a relationship is companionship. So that is what I’m looking for, and that is what I have to offer.
To me you are just describing a FWB relationship. That's all it is, sex and physically being with another human being for a period. Nothing more than that.

No entwined lives, no bonding through numerous shared experiences. Just companionship at a bare minimum.

A serious relationship IMO is 'building a life together' or 'building a family together'. Again, companionship alone, is just FWB territory, IMO.

Part of what you are offering guys is; No mutual joking/inside jokes (eg. 'Exchange of wits'), not watching a TV series or movies together, no making a meal together (or making meals for each other), no discussing topics you find fascinating together (you can't even talk about movies or TV series you love, because you don't watch TV), etc.

From the mans perspective, IMO, he's basically putting in far more than he would be getting out of it. He'll be; cracking the jokes whilst you just laugh, cooking while you just eat, having to pursue an interest in TV, film, book, or learning new things without being able to share it with you. IMO people bond a lot over laughs, food, entertainment media/art, and discussing/debating topics.... You don't offer opportunity for any of that.

Loving, loyal, and supportive is great. I'm not knocking you for offering those qualities to a man.
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post 1570629411 01-08-2019, 12:12 PM
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post 1570629551 01-08-2019, 12:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
So all I have to do is trust him eh?
I don't know, honestly. I asked to see of pic of his car.

Next thing I know...

post 1570629591 01-08-2019, 12:13 PM
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cliffs? why is everyone suddenly calling out silence?
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post 1570629751 01-08-2019, 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Why is it hard to define? Don’t you have reasons for wanting a relationship? And for me companionship really is the purpose.
See BetaAsPhucks post.
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post 1570629761 01-08-2019, 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted By ****liGirl
cliffs? why is everyone suddenly calling out silence?
post 1570629781 01-08-2019, 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted By ****liGirl
cliffs? why is everyone suddenly calling out silence?
eat shyt ****li
post 1570629881 01-08-2019, 12:17 PM
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Originally Posted By ****liGirl
cliffs? why is everyone suddenly calling out silence?
Thread is weird. Lots of FA Miscers who whine about their lives daily, wondering why SS is content to live life as she prefers. People think she's the one with issues, when it's many of the posters ITT who think everybody should "want" what mainstream society does.
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post 1570630011 01-08-2019, 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted By ****liGirl
cliffs? why is everyone suddenly calling out silence?
intentionally avoiding proving "she" is who "she" claims "she" is

old misc would have had him in the red by now but because some of these guys barely have contact with females, they want to believe it's a she and just ignore the obvious signs.
post 1570630021 01-08-2019, 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
So all I have to do is trust him eh?
pls stay safe
Originally Posted By ****liGirl
cliffs? why is everyone suddenly calling out silence?
craving some attention of your own bby?
Uncontrollable behavior with some psychopathic tendencies
post 1570630201 01-08-2019, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted By TaeBoNinja
Thread is weird. Lots of FA Miscers who whine about their lives daily, wondering why SS is content to live life as she prefers. People think she's the one with issues, when it's many of the posters ITT who think everybody should "want" what mainstream society does.
Absolutely. I think most of us are curious as to why she's happy being like that... If she's happy, good for her. But most people would not be OK with a lifestyle she currently has.
post 1570630411 01-08-2019, 12:25 PM
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I understand completely why SS is having trouble making new connections with people. When my 7 year relationship ended at 25 it took me a year (or up to current date) to fully recover and digest my new reality and before I could start making connections with people again. I can only imagine going through that in your 40s.

But damn missionary only? Your ex must of been terrible in the sack, you're probably better off honestly. Once you let your barriers down and let somebody in again you're going to feel so much better.
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post 1570630461 01-08-2019, 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen
Absolutely. I think most of us are curious as to why she's happy being like that... If she's happy, good for her. But most people would not be OK with a lifestyle she currently has.
A constant state of self proclaimed loneliness & thirstiness is not being content. Content in this situation basically means shes used to it.
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post 1570630521 01-08-2019, 12:26 PM
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post 1570630531 01-08-2019, 12:26 PM
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Damn this thread blew up even for an SS thread.
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post 1570630591 01-08-2019, 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted By martoch
I don't know, honestly. I asked to see of pic of his car.

Next thing I know...

Car and cawk are easily confused.
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post 1570630671 01-08-2019, 12:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Comply_or_Die
What does FA stand for?
Forever Alone
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post 1570630811 01-08-2019, 12:29 PM
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Originally Posted By TaeBoNinja
Thread is weird. Lots of FA Miscers who whine about their lives daily, wondering why SS is content to live life as she prefers. People think she's the one with issues, when it's many of the posters ITT who think everybody should "want" what mainstream society does.
Vacillating between bouts of loneliness and protestations of "contentment" to all and sundry isn't happiness. It's a stagnant cycle.
post 1570630821 01-08-2019, 12:29 PM
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz
A constant state of self proclaimed loneliness & thirstiness is not being content. Content in this situation basically means shes used to it.
Yeah she complains, but she won't do anything about it and she's fine with that... She's fine with being lonely.
post 1570630851 01-08-2019, 12:29 PM
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Originally Posted By RedRusty
Car and cawk are easily confused.
Practically interchangeable.

Can't wait until the next cawk show rolls into town.
post 1570630871 01-08-2019, 12:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Bet I could earn it bby
if you thought my dik was hard to earn, my trust is whole different ballgame
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post 1570630971 01-08-2019, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted By martoch
Practically interchangeable.

Can't wait until the next cawk show rolls into town.
I almost spit out my soda. Amazing.
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post 1570630991 01-08-2019, 12:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
If you’re curious just try it out for a few weeks. Go no news no tv no online news, and see how you feel.

It’s very peaceful to remove yourself from all that information and all those opinions. And then you realize you’re not missing anything important.
shes not wrong about this stuff. All this garbage just induces anxiety

She’s not the most exciting but I like her. She’s grown on me
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post 1570631201 01-08-2019, 12:33 PM
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Originally Posted By thatsnarf
eat shyt ****li
begone *******
Originally Posted By TaeBoNinja
Thread is weird. Lots of FA Miscers who whine about their lives daily, wondering why SS is content to live life as she prefers. People think she's the one with issues, when it's many of the posters ITT who think everybody should "want" what mainstream society does.
skimmed the thread, miscers are that triggered by her lifestyle.. huh
Originally Posted By Critter5592
craving some attention of your own bby?
only from you
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post 1570631251 01-08-2019, 12:33 PM
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post 1570631441 01-08-2019, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted By DanielleGreen
Absolutely. I think most of us are curious as to why she's happy being like that... If she's happy, good for her. But most people would not be OK with a lifestyle she currently has.
Honestly, I'm not taking issue with her being content living the life that she does.

My point is I've seen her time after time, talk about being depressed because she is single, and seems to blame her single status on wanting younger guys.

After her replies ITT I don't think she's single because she wants younger men, especially after RICHSTRONG says that she is attractive (and the man has good taste), I just think she's single because she seems to live a life that offers little in regards to opportunities for bonding, and building memories together.

(Though they minority there are older women in LTRs with younger men. So I don't think that is the only reason why she seems like she's been single for a long time.)

I will probably never address this issue with her again, outside of this thread.

Honestly, reading her responses helped put myself in perspective, and realized that despite having nothing materially to offer a women for a LTR (I'm not FA, I've been married but currently I am single), I have a lot to offer in other respects. I think that other miscers can realize that too, if take the time to reflect.
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post 1570631481 01-08-2019, 12:36 PM
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Maybe we just dont understand because she's not 20-middle age. Shes nearing 50.

Were you always like this or when you were married was your outlook different for relationships/family?
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post 1570631651 01-08-2019, 12:37 PM
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Nobody is triggered. People are just curious. Pretty much human nature.
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Silence=Female car salesman /thread
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