Fukk that’s a sad and ultimately depressing statement

May I ask a rude question?

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Are you sure this was brought on by one glass of wine? Lmao

May I ask a rude question?

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Why would you tell someone who doesn't want to be a parent, to be a parent?
Why? Who does it benefit? The kid?

Wtf is wrong with you? Why are you telling someone how they are or going to be when they know exactly that that's not the case.
Why would you tell someone who doesn't want to be a parent, to be a parent?
Why? Who does it benefit? The kid?

I understand...the point was 30+ year old men want children (if they dont have them already)...so you could be a stepmom, but my advice is freeze your eggs if you have any good ones left and be prepared to look for donor eggs since if a guy you're serious about wants kids, you still have an option.

That's a deal breaker for me, and I already have 3...so when I hear a woman say "I don't want kids" she immediately gets disqualified for an ltr, and turns into a no worry creampie fb over a potential baby momma #2. And i'm assuming the vast majority of men want to reproduce, so your pool of 30/35+yo guys, with no kids, is tiny. As they will choose a woman that wants kids over you. Something to think about.

Children are the taste of life. No bigger blessing in the world. You'd probably be a better mom than you think. And 100% you will not regret. When you are 50 with no kids no husband/bf and still posting in the RH you will wake up one morning and realize I was right, trust me.Look at egg donors. Its pricey but if you go to a university for the procedure it's much cheaper than a regular doctor/hospital. I dated a girl who was working on this stuff in college and she said it was like $5000 at a university vs $30000 at a hospital.



See point above. 22yo Chad and 35 yo former collegiate offensive lineman both want to plant their seed in a woman's pussy to make a Chad or Buck Jr.

Your ability to reproduce, my ability to provide for and protect a woman and our offspring = a substantial part of our dating market value.

Does your fwb want kids? Does he have them already? 22yo Chad or 35 yo former collegiate offensive lineman...doesn't matter...they both want to spread their seed. So if you don't have quality eggs/haven't frozen them, then you must wake up and consider an egg donor.

Otherwise you will be left with guys that have kids/dont want more, or guys with low sperm counts. And even those guys in their late 30's early 40's may not be looking for a woman 40+!!! so your pool is rapidly disintegrating to 55+yo fat bald guys who will be your only options in a few years if you don't luck out with a younger guy who is finished having kids or has a low sperm count.

You're probably still marketable to jacked good looking 40+yo ex-cons with neck tattoos, that just finished a 20year bid for manslaughter, or even younger Tyrones that couldn't land the sorority girl so will bend you over so not to see your 40+yo face and then pretend youre a cheerleader. So much for missionary and hope you like to role play.

Look into egg donors, and reevaluate what you bring to the table...because with out the prospect of children you will have many 3 month flings...with Chads, fat guys, etc...who will use you for a hole while they find a "real" LTR material girl...who wants kids



I get more satisfaction seeing prettier women that I vibe with then seeing bangable girls for a 1ns. Like 10 hookups = 1 two-three month fling in terms of satisfaction + its saving me hours/day.

I always said my value in the sex market was on the higher end. 6'4", white, 7/10 body/face aesthetics with a type A personality, my own place in a nice neighborhood, good career etc... puts me in the top 15-20% of all men for LMS. Top 5-10% of men 40+.

For dating... I don't know how many points my baggage + being 10+ years older then late twenties girls drops me. Probably to the top 45%? Which means its still doable but much harder.

So Im with the 5.5/10 incels in that respect. Maybe even harder for me. As an incel may not have as symmetrical a face/as masculine a jawline, and may be 9" shorter than me, but if he is 30...and Im 40...and hes making what I made when I was 30...and we both go after the same 28yo chick...who is 5'5"...I think she'd take the incel 6 times out 10 if not more.

But like you get used for a hole by 22yo Chads that want to fulfill a cougar fantasy, I get used by above average looking 19-24yo girls to fulfill a daddy/dom dilf fantasy. Or they trade a Moes salad for buttseks. And the late twenty/early thirties girls looking months upon months for an LTR, literally select me to break their dry spell with no intention of a relationship.

Few months ago I slept with a girl that didn't have sex in over 6 months. Last year I slept with a girl that didn't have sex in over a year. And these are pretty girls that could pull Chads just as quick as you, if not quicker as they are 10+ years younger. One I actually thought she had her period and I was pissed because I went down on her before penetrating...

I saw my dink was all red and I was like "wtf!? You could have told me you're on the rag..I don't care I just would have put a red towel down..." but she said shes not. I called her a liar (I hate liars) then she said its blood because she hasn't had sex in over a year. Smelled it, and it wasn't period juice.



That's worst case scenerio so I can spread more seed and not die alone.



Not HTC thick (aka fat) ...more like skinny thick. My preferences haven't changed. Light brownish or olive or tan skinned Latina/Brazilian/Mediterranean/Arab/Persian with hips + booty + long straight black hair > white American/West European/Canadian/Australian/South African with thin model figure + blonde or dirty blonde hair...

That doesn't mean Im not attracted to white blonde girls. I definitely am. Id date the phuck out of a pretty, thin, white girl with blonde hair. Just saying thats been my personal preference since I was 13yo and stuck my penor in a vagina for the 1st time which was on the body of a Greek girl.

BRB stating thin, white, college girls are in the highest demand didn't change my preferences, but probably made me notice/appreciate the fact I pull them more, thus sharing looks details as a semi-brag. Dating ratio has been the same.

Least attracted to Asians and Black girls. But also have dated/smashed... as Id be a ******* if I didn't find universal characteristics of female beauty attractive regardless of race. One of my best fb's this past summer was Hatian.



Silence is a 6/10 stacked up against all girls 18+
Probably a 7-8/10 for women 40+

Wtf is wrong with you? Why are you telling someone how they are or going to be when they know exactly that that's not the case.
Why would you tell someone who doesn't want to be a parent, to be a parent?
Why? Who does it benefit? The kid?

long wall of text

May I ask a rude question?

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No I’m actually attracted to the fat srs. Really into his body type and I like older fat guys too.

im not 100% sure, but i think time goes on for everybody. so like if hes 40 and in to people 20 years younger than him, then in 20 years, she'll still be younger than him.

can any scientists confirm this is how time works?

Well, if he's 20 and she's 40, he's half her age.

But if she waits another 20 years, he'll be 40 and she'll be 60, which is 2/3rds her age.

So its just a matter of how long she can wait... eventually, he'll be her age.

Understand now?

Well, if he's 20 and she's 40, he's half her age.

But if she waits another 20 years, he'll be 40 and she'll be 60, which is 2/3rds her age.

So its just a matter of how long she can wait... eventually, he'll be her age.

Understand now?

Wtf is wrong with you? Why are you telling someone how they are or going to be when they know exactly that that's not the case.
Why would you tell someone who doesn't want to be a parent, to be a parent?
Why? Who does it benefit? The kid?

Ok fine Kimm you can be the middle bun in our sammich.

I already stated why.

1) She's coping because she doesn't have quality eggs. Many women choose career over family in their 20's and 30's then wake up one morning in their 40's, realize they are single with a cat and plant, cry for a few days/weeks/months then make sense of their loneliness and the fact their baby tours over by saying things like "I can barely take care of my cat and plant"...but deep down inside they know they phucked up. Regret. And are jealous when they see a mother and child.

Why?

Because they are human. And humans, much like every living organism on the planet, from a single cell amoba to a blue whale, are alive to eat, sleep, chit and reproduce. So someone telling me they don't ever want kids I look at the same as someone telling me they don't want to ever eat. There's underlying issues since this is not the natural order of things...

2) The men shes targeting want children...As most men do (see #1 above for more on that) but she's getting disqualified by them because of A) her age/quality of eggs and B) if the guy knows there's still a chance to conceive she probably says something like "I don't want children" and gets nexted.

So my advice is very simple since Silence can take a donor egg + her future husbands sperm, and carry a baby at her age. With this as an option she's just legit increased her dating pool 100×'s at least, making it much more likely to get in an LTR with a 35 yo former collegiate offensive lineman, and she will have a family.

And yeah Im blunt as phuck. But I also care and not in a WK sense. Silence knows that. Me and her go back a couple yeare. You're just stepping in without knowing the history/dynamic, so I can see how you got riled up.

But chill. Serious. I mean good.

Still heart you

OMG I've missed you! <3

did not read a single word

For example this guy that I posted many times before. He’s 305 lbs. Not sure how old in this pic.

The more I look at him I can see why he's attractive. That belly is just too fat for me. If he had a TE or a OLB type body hnnnngggg.

how come no one asks for this ladies pics?

Lol yeah he’s hot af and I want to rub his belly.

Godly hair too btw.

I'm not stepping anything. Every post almost I ever read is her saying that there are very specific reasons why she doesn't want children.
And now you're saying, she needs to because it's not natural not to.