Trueeee

Good learning expierence I guess

Woah dude real eye opener.. think this just happened to me. 1st date went back to hers, made out and stay the night but didn't bang, well into me all night... now hardly any text and just flaked on 2nd date tonight... bruh.. should i have pushed harder for sex or not made out all night with her? feels pretty bad actually... kind of liked her.. need thicker skin obviously, on to the next i guess

yes, you should have, within reason, ofcourse, and not have kept going if she firmly stopped your advancements. seems you didn't even really try (?) but yeah, if you meet in public, first, then are able to move things to either hers or yours, there is absolutely no reason you should not push for sex, as they're expecting you to. sounds like you came off as being really infatuated by her, that you did not want to mess it up, which i've done before, as well, countless times, as i thought 'they were not the type to' , making me miss my only opportunity, and just like that, the gates closed and never saw them again. on the making-out part.. yeah you should have only done that, if you were certain it would lead to going all of the way. no point in continuing to, especially, if it's not the case (will just continually tease yourself and bring on blue balls, while also showing her how much you like her. #controlframe).

Mistakes spotted, thanks bro.. usually im pretty solid at staying nonchalant around chicks i really like but lost it with this one.. shes now getting back to me saying next week, ill play along but not expecting much, teddies of peace though

No way. The bulk of it would come from people paying for plus/gold subscriptions and boosts/superlikes etc.

i seriously dont understand how any of you can put up with these broken waste of time hoes on tinder.. i cant bring myself to put forth any effort other then a come over now message... after how much time and games these dumb kunts pull **** aint worth it


like i understand yal havent banged many girls so you still tryn hard but yea once youve banged enough these hoes are really worthless and the ammount of effort to pull off tinder it takes now a days is not worth any of it
just rofl at the cucks taking these hoes out on dates

So I follow this guy on ig who lives in my town and it’s depressing. He’s a 9 or 10 male and pretty much bangs all the 9’s and 10’s I see that I never match with. Those feels I’ll never have. He gets like 30 new followers a week. All hot girls.

Might be cos we don't hate women, but idk brah.

Yep, the data backs this up as well. The last few report earnings show that too to backup your statement.

This isn't a huge tip, but recently I've been changing my anthem song in my Tinder profile about 2 times per week. Making certain changes to your profile will bump up your activity to your match's feed line. Why is this important? Because girls use similar apps that show a "feed" of recent activity. There's a good chance they're doing the same in Tinder.

There's a chance one of your matches got busy or your convo with them died off, but now it could be revived since your profile is on their top feed? Like I said...nothing ground breaking but anything to stand out from the rest might help you down the road.

What's his IG? DM me it if you don't want to post publicly. I'm curious.

While I don't doubt that he's doing very well, how do you know for sure that he's banging all of these girls?

I might not be anywhere near as good looking but I have literally THOUSANDS upon THOUSANDS of hot girls following me in Sydney. Models, reality tv stars, socialites, even have a few famous sportsmen following me. To anyone looking at that they'd assume I was some famous socialite with a harem of models at my beck and call.

While I do very well, and do have sex with numerous very hot, young, women, it's not as easy as you'd think. Most girls that follow me ignore me when I DM them, or entertain my advances briefly but shut me down when I ask them out. So it's still a big numbers game.

I was lying in bed with one of my girls the other night (guys on here rated her a 9/10) and she was getting hit up by a famous sportsmen via DM's and she was showing me the messages. Chances are she might not even bother meeting him. That's how crazy it's gotten, legit FAMOUS guys are thirstily sliding into DM's like the rest of us, begging for pussy and girls are just shrugging it off like it's no big deal.

Lol @ if you believe she's not meeting him. Women who respect you don't pull off **** tests like this with you. She see's higher value in him than you, flat out telling you to your face with her actions, but you instead believed her flimsy words.

note: have already smashed twice



edit:

Yeah, you're making presumptions without knowing the context.

Firstly I'm married, and not to her. She knows I'm married, she's one of my side girls and has been seeing me for a year and a half. She's listed every famous sportsmen she's phucked (a fair few, we ran into one once who even came up and said hi to her when we were out one night).

I share with her DMs of girls I'm hitting on, talk openly about my other dates (I'd been on 2 drinks dates before meeting her for dinner and sex that night), show her photos of my daughter/wife etc.

You think, given the context above, that she was chit testing me!? L O L

Have you ever heard of two FWB's that are open and honest with each other about everything just sharing what's going on in their lives? Not everything is a chit test, and as a wealthy man myself she sees high value in me too, she knows he's not going to BF her and we've been seeing each other for so long that she knows she can see me for good sex, fun nights, with no judgement and no drama.

So whether she sees him or not, it doesn't really bother me, and she already knows that, because she tells me about every other guy she's seeing, including the guy that was paying her $1500 to see her once a week (yes, really). I'm seeing other girls too, and I tell her about them, and of course I'm married.

If I ask her if she ended up phucking him next time I see him, she'll tell me the truth, just like she tells me about alot of the crazy sexual stuff she's done, because she knows I truly don't care either way.

mirin assertiveness you are making me kind of hard no homo jk

went to an Indian restaurant. then smashed 3x at mine. need at least a week-long break now.

Honestly this is how I text. Always be closing for a meetup, and not being their text buddy.

Strong everything. And she double texted you.

I used to be one of those guys who would text a girl all day talking about random chit, now I can't imagine doing that srs. It's all a waste of time considering 1. I don't see myself being serious with her and 2. I simply just want a smash/fwb.

Leave a bitch on read, don't feed her ego, and always be closing for date = success more often than not. Sloots want to see you have value and that she isn't the center of your universe.

Alright I matched with a few but I want to hit up these 2 latinas. Any good openers to stand out? Don’t want to attempt the cringe opener of “your smile is life” again.

Fml. Finally match with a hot girl who’s close to agreeing to meet. She asks for my ig and than disappears after she sees it. Feel completely in the dumps. Someone telling you your ugly without actually saying it basically...

Damn savage. Happened with me last year when I told this girl I had no Instagram and she ghosted me after. She told me her Instagram and she had like 5k followers. She even gave me her number before all that and wanted to meet up

... but you guys matched.

fml..not much activity going on so I wanted to buy tinder gold to see who the "10+ likes were"
and they all look like fake accounts and from "7000 miles away"
fuk off.

Probably nothing to do with how you look if you have photos on tinder that are a good representation of you and she'd already matched you and was almost going to meet. Remember your value comes from Looks, Money and STATUS. Do your pics convey status/popularity? Do you have 10k+ followers? etc.

I don't have that many pics on Instagram BUT I do have 15k+ followers, some of them are models, socialites, famous pro athletes, reality tv stars and so forth and ALOT of attractive girls who like my pics and comment on my posts etc.

Social media sucks, but that's life these days, you have to convey status somehow online, and Instagram is how it's done.

Look...
Yes, this happened to me before having Instagram, it's one of the reasons why I finally caved and got it in early 2017. I knew that in a few years time (now) it would be almost mandatory to get the young, attractive girls online.

There is one strategy you can try that worked for me back in 2016 in pre-instagram tinder days, here it is:
Her: What's your Instagram?
You: lol I don't have Instagram, I'm not a 16 year old girl
Her: Heaps of people have Instagram, not just teen girls
You: I suppose, I just don't have time for it because of <DHV>. If you want to know if I'm real I can send a selfie though or we can chat on the phone.

Basically the DHV has to be something like you have a high status job that takes most of your time. The problem is everything else has to be congruent with that, if your 'alpha archetype' is the high flying businessman, or handsome doctor, or coke snorting manhattan investment banker etc. then you might be able to pull it off (although some of these guys are even on Instagram nowadays). However, if your archetype is the partying frat boy, adventurous explorer, fitness fanatic etc. then they almost always have an IG to back it up, anything else that means you have enough spare time to have a social media account, then you may need at least a decent social media presence, otherwise you will lose opportunities.

You used to just be able to feign any archetype. You could literally just lie about all the parties you were going to etc. even though, in reality, you might have just been an FA'r lying on your couch, making yourself sound good and could get away with it, that's harder to do these days.

It sucks, but that's life.

Actually haven't had anyone ask me for an IG yet but I can feel it's coming, current dating range is 19-27. I guess I could put some pretty decent photography stuff up, or are they expecting more to see lifestyle stuff? It just never occurs to me to take pictures when out doing cool stuff.

Need advice for hail mary on ghost, she ghosted 2 weeks ago after date (which went well), she cancelled 2nd date saying she had paper due or some chit. Do I hit her with a joking/funny 'pls respond' (do you even use these past number/date close?!), or semi-srss/beta 'hope your blabla went well, let's grab drinks to discuss it?'

went on a date with this foreign girl from Johannesburg, first thing she said after she got into the car is i look different in pics but in a good way. date ended up going really well, i had her laughing the entire time.

2 days later we banged for hours, had her sore the next day. i asked her what she'd rate me in pics vs real life. she said im a 4 in pics and 7.5 irl. she originally only went on a date with me for free dinner (Fkn brutal). but ended up having a better time than she expected obv.

so guys my question is, what the **** do i take pics with? how high quality of a camera do i need?? this isnt the first time this was said so im obv ****ty at taking pics. i dont know how to either. its not like sit around taking pics all day. also im of darker complexion and i dont think im photogenic at all. any tips?? im using my samsung s9+ for pics but do i need to buy a dslr or wtf how do i take pics???

On the topic of IG i've always found it just cringe worthy.

The whole "hey look at my face here, and here, and here's me eating at a fancy restaurant, and here's my face in a foreign country please like comment and follow" never appealed to me. I never take a girl seriously who has more than ~200 followers. There's no possible way a human can successfully maintain 200 friendships, let alone ~10 lmfao. It just screams attention whoring and I just find that so unattractive. Also, I just find posting your face on social media for public viewing to be just stupid. This is why I gravitate more towards snapchat. Anyhting I post/snap disspears and everyone I have on there are from tinder/real life lol. Not just randos.

Went with beta line, she came straight back saying sorry for not replying, wants to meet again, 2nd date booked in, cool story huh. Guess you can un-ghost them.

how do you guys find out if its a real girl or fake ? i got catfished once and it turned out it was an older gay guy

Go detective mode and reverse search picture, srs



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