Im probably going more extreme than most, but thats because i believe its getting to the core. I could go on forever about this

But i feel as though anytime youre trying to make a name for yourself; basically, whenever youre trying to create something intact or individualized or distinct or its own thing youre striving for permanence. To be recognized, would be more permanence than impermanence, yea? Why would someone want to be recognized only to disappear. The very act of wanting to appear would be different. Hey im here (more permanence) vs. Hey im not here (impermanence)

This lol. You think I’m old and boring, so not sure what’s exciting about that for me.

I’m funny in my own way!

Well if I find a prospective bf of course I’m dropping my FWB. If I go on a couple of dates with someone and it looks like we will keep dating, then I’ll tell my FWB I started seeing someone and I can’t see him anymore.

I don’t have any desire to see multiple men. I only want one. I want a relationship. If I find someone with mutual attraction and mutual interest in a relationship then that all I need.



So is there any scenario in which a fwb would ever be ok? Like if a woman has been single for X amount of years? Or is fwb unacceptable to you regardless of how many years someone has been single?

I don't think you have the money to test drive a maserati.

Just love traveling in general. Have family in Europe and Asia so mostly there. Have friends in another US state so visit them there. Just really enjoy being in different places and seeing different things.

No he can’t come because he has a busy schedule and no money anyway.

Just can’t take him seriously because of his age. But if he were older and it could be serious then I would move to him. And he has talked about moving to me in a few years and living with me but I don’t take that seriously. He even talks about getting me pg sometimes (in before Spade).

And btw for all you cooking fans, he likes to cook and says he’ll cook for me every day if he moves in hehe.

Lmao your back? Thought you were gone "Forever". Your words just lol

And for SS no 20 year old staying with someone who doesn't drink or watch TV or read or does anything fun literally. Look for a 70 year old guy

I never said I wasn't attracted to her. I said she wasn't "my type".



I already addressed this on the previous page. If you saw my date tomorrow night and SS you'd understand.

To give everyone more context Silence and I go back a few years. She was the only regular female poster on the tinder thread. That's how I know what she looks like because she asked me to critique her profile a year or two ago.

Around the same time I reviewed her profile she was having trouble dating. Either guys wouldn't initiate, or wouldn't call her back for a second date (and they didn't have sex on date 1). Plus she was getting flaked/ghosted on a bit.

She was literally depressed and low confidence because she was essentially getting rejected date after date.

Now, since I saw her profile, and thought she was above average looking, her dating results didn't make any sense to me. I was thinking how on earth would a guy not initiate or txt her to meet again? So I boiled it down to 3 possibilities:

1. She smelled like toxic waste
2. She frauded her pics
3. She's weird/crazy/awkward AF

She assured me she has good hygiene and wears perfume. She assured me her pics are of her/recent/and not heavily photoshopped. She assured me she doesn't have any mental disorders, is normal, and doesn't think she is awkward?

Her answer to 3 is obviously subjective, and where I thought the problem is, so I offered to meet her to critique her irl dating game to see if that's the issue.

I wanted to help her and made it clear that was my intention. Plus she knows I do good on dating apps, and don't have to go to such lengths to get a date. So it was going to be a "quasi" type date. Maybe she has an annoying screetchy laugh? Maybe she belches uncontrollably? Maybe she seems so disinterested, that the guy doesn't even bother to go for a kiss or ask her out on another date?

Anyways I was determined to find out, and SS agreed as she thought it was a good idea. Then she got scared and backed out.

Fast forward to 2019, and SS hasn't had much more luck then maintaining a FWB, in another state....

So I brought up the idea of critiquing her irl dating game again, since she's still FA. Except now she said she can't even get a date with a guy in his 40's/50's that she's attracted too!!!

So my offer was simply to help boost her confidence. As a guy in his 40's, that can literally take his pick of single 40+yo females (no brag, just putting things into perspective) and who also finds her attractive, (or at least did two years ago...don't know how she looks now) this will give her a nice break from dating 50yo's who can't see their diks when they pee, and 20yo's that don't know the difference between a urethra and a clitoris if they had a pussy in their face.

This is a practical concept of associating/giving your time to the right people to attract what you want in life. If I talk to 20yo tinder sloots all day, I'll never find a serious relationship. If my social circle consists of walmart and fast food cashiers, I'll never start my own business...

Anyways. It came from a good place. To help another miscer, from the tinder thread, as Ive helped probably 100+ miscers in that thread over the years.

And its been discussed a million times here, proven by studies, and backed by thousands of years of recorded human history, that the majority of men from 18-65, find younger (legally aged) women in their prime more physically attractive, on average, then they do older women.

So not sure why you keep making it sound bizzare that I do too. What's not very typical, is finding men in their forties+ who consistently attract, date, and have sex with college aged girls (unless they pay for sex)... so perhaps that's why you think its bizzare that I date/smash college girls. I can understand that.

I’m funny in my own way!

Any single 35+ yo guy with no kids that can't get dates should be taking notes instead of criticizing me.

And I think you are forgetting that most of the 19-24yo girls I was dating/smashing were casual. I made a mistake and fell for one, learned my lesson and moved on. So now Im focusing more on 26-32 relationship minded girls.

My kids will work like I did to get through school. Not paying money for a useless degrees. I'll probably pay 1-2yrs so they can get their core classes then theyll have to learn what ROI is since they'll be paying for the major. Brb paying $100k so my kid gets an art degree. No thx Jeff. I'll pay $50 then theyll pay $50 and get an engineering degree.

I have a lot of sympathy for guys that struggle at dating/relationships with women, so imma just ignore your sexually frustrated tirade here.

I have 2 kids and I plan to pay their way through college or they'll (hopefully) get a football scholarship like I did. I'm not taking notes on how to get girls 26-32. They mostly want a baby and I'm done with that. I want to retire and watch Warriors games, travel the world, etc. I'm done with changing diapers.

If that's your plan then roll with it. But posting 18 year olds with your name on their ass, c'mon man. I'm sure SS is afraid you'll want to do the same on here.

I was referring to ranger whos quick to criticise others that are successful with women while he complains about his own dating life. 35, no kids, no gf, gets ghosted/flaked on regularly, etc...that's sad.

Probably done writing on chicks...to share online. Started back in the tinder threads cus I was being called a fraud for some of the unbelievable convos I was posting. So wrote my name on a girl to prove I was legit. These are submissive girls that I give tons of pleasure too...which is why they let me do pretty much whatever I want to them.

^^^ triggered

in on Ranger vs. Spade.

makes up for no more Podunks chitting on Mr. BigForehead

You're like a child in an adult body. GROW. THE. FUK. UP.

Strong response.

Get some help man, seriously, You have major addiction problems. You know this but you'll probably post some 16 year old based response instead of just admitting it. Something stupid like "Durrrr, he doesn't have kids like I do therefore...." whatever. Like I said, get your **** fixed and then you can join the real world and be a man like the rest of us.

Why is this thread 29 pages?

brb WK sloot
brb claim to be assisting when called out on it
brb claim to slay like a porno star when challenged on it

How'd I do?

You're reading what you want to see, you're not reading what was written

No homo can't save you

You're reading what you want to see, you're not reading what was written

No homo can't save you