Divorced miscers, what is dating like?

11-07-2018, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted By hotsaucebrah⏩

Like Columbia, MO or Colombia the country? And pic of friend, 40 year olds dudes typically don't run through hot college chicks.

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11-07-2018, 08:49 AM

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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩

Columbia SC

I was thinking Columbia University - banging dem Ivy League bitches

11-07-2018, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted By MattyMiscer⏩

Just to clarify—you’re miscing about an old oneitis while you’re on a date?

This right here, this is going full misc

Well she hadn't gotten there yet so I was miscing at the bar while waiting for her.

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11-07-2018, 10:44 AM

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Id imagine its akin to going shopping on black friday towards the end of the day

all the items you wanted to buy are gone and all thats left are sister act dvds and electric socks

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11-07-2018, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted By cjr169⏩

Id imagine its akin to going shopping on black friday towards the end of the day

all the items you wanted to buy are gone and all thats left are sister act dvds and electric socks

Brutal. The store is Goodwill since everything is old and used.

11-07-2018, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted By cjr169⏩

Id imagine its akin to going shopping on black friday towards the end of the day

all the items you wanted to buy are gone and all thats left are sister act dvds and electric socks

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11-07-2018, 10:59 AM

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I basically separated and divorced in my 30's it was great. I slept with as many women as I could, was out all the time. I had a lot o fun. I had relationships of a few months with a few of them. I couldn't really do more of that when any drama came on. I had the thought that if I am involved in this drama I won't find a girl that is drama free and that I really connect with.

Eventually I met my now wife. I was dating two other women at the time. I just kinda stop replying, wanting to reply to the two other women. As it was a pretty relaxed thing they never seemed that bothered by it. Then I was just dating my wife. Now that was 15 years ago and things are great!!

I got to admit, I decided I was not going to work at finding a relationship, I was going date a lot until something really great came. And sure enough it did.

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11-07-2018, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted By Uber_Dad⏩

I basically separated and divorced in my 30's it was great. I slept with as many women as I could, was out all the time. I had a lot o fun. I had relationships of a few months with a few of them. I couldn't really do more of that when any drama came on. I had the thought that if I am involved in this drama I won't find a girl that is drama free and that I really connect with.

Eventually I met my now wife. I was dating two other women at the time. I just kinda stop replying, wanting to reply to the two other women. As it was a pretty relaxed thing they never seemed that bothered by it. Then I was just dating my wife. Now that was 15 years ago and things are great!!

I got to admit, I decided I was not going to work at finding a relationship, I was going date a lot until something really great came. And sure enough it did.

Das it mane. Glad you found happiness.

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11-07-2018, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted By katya422⏩

Therapist seriously suggested I consider trying women.

I didn't know it worked like that

11-07-2018, 12:46 PM

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11-07-2018, 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted By Podunks⏩

As far as dating goes, I met my wife about 6 months after breaking off a 2 year engagement (4 year relationship) with my previous LTR, granted, I was already pretty checked out of the engagement by the time I broke it off. Immediately hit the dating scene again, 40-50+ dates in the first two months, another 30+ in the months following that, and was dating a few other girls when my wife and I hit it off. Pretty much just shut down the others after a couple of weeks and blocked um.

Nice, what do you think has made this second marriage successful vs what caused the first to fail?

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Originally Posted By AltarOfPlagues⏩

this thread depressing as fuk bro

life is hard

01-15-2019, 03:31 PM

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Uh oh ... O_o

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01-15-2019, 03:35 PM

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01-15-2019, 03:39 PM

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Never married but was in a 10 year relationship, was engaged with a planned wedding that we cancelled 9 months out. Saw someone off and on for the 2 years since, recently got betrayed and lied too by this person and now I am starting from square one again. Honestly it is hard, right now really struggling to find the motivation to start fresh. I'm finding that I'm not the type to really put myself out there and see a bunch of different people. I'm kindve a homebody who wants to be comfortable with someone.

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01-15-2019, 03:42 PM

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Got divorced in October, we separated a couple months before so I'd say I was pretty miserable until mid-October.

I found it to be a blessing in disguise honestly, I was married to a woman who become someone completely different after the birth of my son (he is gonna be three this year). After living paycheck to paycheck, these last few months have been great. I have money in my bank, almost all my loans (student/dirt bikes/some chit she got) are paid off and my son is with me more than his mother. Women wise is great brah lol, I dont mind the getting to know someone new part since I havent experienced it in like seven years, just seems like a breath of fresh air. I raced motocross the majority of my life and stopped the last couple of years because of the ol ball and chain lol, but I get to do that full-time again so im pumped.

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01-15-2019, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted By ragingcrayon⏩

divorced w a kid. have 2 srs relationships since w great girls. now have a harem of women to bang.

the only complaint honestly is hurting girls who catch feelings. They all always want more and I am just banging everyone. But I try not to lie to them.

This perfectly describes what I've been dealing with the last 2 years. Either way, it's fun.

01-15-2019, 05:52 PM

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I’m kind of surprised so many young women are willing to date older divorced men with children. I don’t see this in my social circle.

Seems like that’d be a deal breaker for a lot of women who want kids of their own, either because they want all the attention for their kids or because he doesn’t want anymore.

Especially the one poster who said he was already divorced at 29, meaning no offense but that seems like it would be a red flag to women with that many options.

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01-15-2019, 08:02 PM

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Inb4 abunch of dudes who pay for sex and the older dude who’s used and abused by gilfs.

01-15-2019, 08:03 PM

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Too late.

01-15-2019, 08:05 PM

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Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩

But I'm going to try. I'm on a date right this second and I'm seeing my long term FWB tonight.

haha what the fukc? Modern dating is fking retarded in that people think this kind of **** is OK

Originally Posted By katya422⏩

But I do miss sex. Actually read a post by a woman that hires professionals and thought, well, very straight forward and you don't have to worry about catching feels for someone that isn't into you. Still icky though.

Meh.

Therapist seriously suggested I consider trying women. Definitely a lot more single women available than men in my age group.

I can't count how many times I've accused you of being a deadliftbrah..

01-15-2019, 08:29 PM

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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩

when i can i have some i love you juice. i prefer grape flaovr

He's black, of course it's grape flavour.

01-15-2019, 09:15 PM

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I wonder what the odds were that this thread would get bumped today and I would see it just as I'm about to shut off the lights and call it a day?

Originally Posted By Podunks⏩

What are the chances that her therapist was a female?

Yes. Female.

With dreads. And a sleeve. Praises the open armed acceptance of the LGBT community.

Tickles me a bit how many miscers she would rustle.

Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩

haha what the fukc? Modern dating is fking retarded in that people think this kind of **** is OK

I can't count how many times I've accused you of being a deadliftbrah..

And I just don't see that the two of us have/had? anything in common. Other than general age and gender.

Had to drive downtown first thing this morning to the courthouse. Signed papers, stood in front of the judge...fin.

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01-15-2019, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩

He's black, of course it's grape flavour.

You misspelled flavor

Originally Posted By katya422⏩

And I just don't see that the two of us have/had? anything in common. Other than general age and gender.

Had to drive downtown first thing this morning to the courthouse. Signed papers, stood in front of the judge...fin.

You have been posting a lot of chit lately identical to what she used to post.

01-15-2019, 10:40 PM

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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩

You misspelled flavor

'murica?

01-16-2019, 05:20 AM

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Originally Posted By katya422⏩

I wonder what the odds were that this thread would get bumped today and I would see it just as I'm about to shut off the lights and call it a day?

Yes. Female.

With dreads. And a sleeve. Praises the open armed acceptance of the LGBT community.

Tickles me a bit how many miscers she would rustle.

And I just don't see that the two of us have/had? anything in common. Other than general age and gender.

Had to drive downtown first thing this morning to the courthouse. Signed papers, stood in front of the judge...fin.

Sorry Katya.

Divorce is hard, even when it's the right thing to do.

I also don't think you sound like DLB, but I did do a double take yesterday when you posted some red pill (or black pill? I don't know these pills lol) stuff in another thread and at first I thought it was SS. lol

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01-16-2019, 05:29 AM

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i think of it as an experience. you grow as a person, you know to avoid some mistakes etc

01-16-2019, 06:28 AM

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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩

You have been posting a lot of chit lately identical to what she used to post.

Like?

Originally Posted By Legz422⏩

Sorry Katya.

Divorce is hard, even when it's the right thing to do.

I also don't think you sound like DLB, but I did do a double take yesterday when you posted some red pill (or black pill? I don't know these pills lol) stuff in another thread and at first I thought it was SS. lol

Yeah, it stinks. No desire to reverse it because I don't think it is salvageable. Still not something I wanted or how I saw things going.

I can see myself having much more in common with SS -introverted, kind of boring, well aware of how wrong things can go and that objectively I don't appeal to a lot of guys (age, have a kid/divorced/co-parenting).

Haven't even tried to date and not likely to real soon either. Too much yuck in my life right now. Need to reach out and make some social connections. Can't see actively trying to start a relationship though. Would be like "c'mon over to my dumpster fire...bring marshmallows"