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post 1571715561 01-20-2019, 11:52 PM
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Originally Posted By aranadiscoteca
You probably could have had you had the confidence, what I would say is if you have the looks in your 20s and maintain physical fitness, there is no reason why it can't continue into your 30s but if your not attractive in your 20s you're not suddenly going to become attractive in your 30s. Basically, it's all about the looks.

As for younger dudes banging old hags I really don't get it. MILF porn does nothing for me I never click that chit.
Same. Fuk that lol.
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post 1571719031 01-21-2019, 01:44 AM
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Bullchit. Being young is not an excuse to be a retard.
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post 1571721581 01-21-2019, 04:05 AM
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I guess Spade forgot to mention that he pays these girls when he was posting here to feed his ego...

Did you think enough time has passed that nobody will remember you getting called out on all this chit? Everything you post is massively fabricated.

Do you actually read what you post? It's embarrassing coming from a 40+ year old man.
post 1571722021 01-21-2019, 04:28 AM
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Originally Posted By TappingTheZen
I guess Spade forgot to mention that he pays these girls when he was posting here to feed his ego...

Did you think enough time has passed that nobody will remember you getting called out on all this chit? Everything you post is massively fabricated.

Do you actually read what you post? It's embarrassing coming from a 40+ year old man.
Plus lets not forget he has to take boner pills. He recently made a thread about it and then promptly deleted it. If his girls were so top tier why can't he get it up naturally? He's only 41 FFS. Bragging on here about his dik game. Fukking lmao!
Originally Posted By ScramFranklin
I've mentioned it a bit to a couple close friends that it's all about the face and that I was getting surgery. Occasionally Older people will say I'm handsome, but I know it's not true. I don't do that good with women.

And I have already had one consultation for double jaw surgery. It's not just my looks though, I need to make an effort to approach women as well. But I figure the looksmaxing is an investment, so at least in my early to mid 30's I'll be better looking. And I'm careermaxing as well.
This just makes me sad. If people are telling you you're handsome, why do you think you're so ugly that you need tons of plastic surgery? You do realize that there are tons of people out there that are 5-6 looks wise who are very content and find very good looks matched partners, right? Getting your teeth fixed, taking care of your skin, and getting contacts vs glasses are all things that are reasonable, but going ham on surgery isn't really a good thing.
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post 1571723431 01-21-2019, 05:33 AM
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Spade always provides the cringes. That red head looks like binicula.


Good looking successful guys do not hit a wall the same way women do. It’s not even close.

Yes, Timothies will still almost always be timothies.
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post 1571724561 01-21-2019, 06:13 AM
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Originally Posted By Hardlifter9
I'm also skeptical about how much women even care about so called "resources" (at all) like some claim in this thread. Even for ones who are a little older.
When girls liked me, it was entirely over looks. Being a physician, international athlete in 2 sports, great physique, business owner and having an enormous CV would in theory translate out to "resources" , right? But they largely cared about the fact that they were attracted and somewhat into my personality. I guess some pretended to care about stuff I did.


What I have noticed though, is doing well generally appeals to other men. It's like with bodybuilder physiques for examples. It's the guys who are impressed by other guys. The opposite sex doesn't care.

As an extra twist, I'm seeing a loott more guys give major value to the girl's career.
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post 1571725371 01-21-2019, 06:30 AM
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Called it.
Originally Posted By spadelexus








(Inb4 everything)



Originally Posted By TappingTheZen
I guess Spade forgot to mention that he pays these girls when he was posting here to feed his ego...
Originally Posted By Legz422
Plus lets not forget he has to take boner pills.
Originally Posted By Globally
Spade always provides the cringes. That red head looks like binicula.


Spoiler!
Less #cope and more #hope for our misc brahs struggling. Positivity guys, we are all in this together after all.



post 1571725881 01-21-2019, 06:40 AM
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Are you trying to say that girl is attractive? And if so is it noteworthy for simply matching her and never having a date? Autism?
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post 1571727391 01-21-2019, 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted By aranadiscoteca
You probably could have had you had the confidence, what I would say is if you have the looks in your 20s and maintain physical fitness, there is no reason why it can't continue into your 30s but if your not attractive in your 20s you're not suddenly going to become attractive in your 30s. Basically, it's all about the looks.

As for younger dudes banging old hags I really don't get it. MILF porn does nothing for me I never click that chit.
Possibly. But it's not like I didn't try. I tried, just not hard enough. I was scrawny. Athletic, but Auschwitz basketball team build. I had succeeses, which mainly came from being on 6 month dry spells then forcing myself to approach. A lot of swings and misses, mostly reeking like vodka at parties or bars with zero game. I brawled too. Approaching girls that were taken.

I had maybe 2 or 3 "girlfriends" during those years that either approached me or I was just "on" when I approached them.

Back then there were no dating apps. The first dating sites came out around then and only social rejects used them. There were no handbooks on how to approach/talk/pull women. Now there's hundreds of YouTube vids and forums like this that basically spell out the A, B, C's of attracting women.

If I was to do it all over again with what I know now, I would have lifted, and had more fun with it-by not being beta and losing myself in fear or self doubt-but by smiling and intriguing girls with zero phux given.
Originally Posted By Globally
Are you trying to say that girl is attractive? And if so is it noteworthy for simply matching her and never having a date? Autism?
Reread the 1st post I made with her pix for the answer.
post 1571729561 01-21-2019, 07:50 AM
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post 1571736601 01-21-2019, 09:39 AM
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Silence, that was a response to the usual hater rhetoric. If there's anyone itt that knows I'm not making this chit up, its you, after 3 sloth threads we've posted together in. I have provided ample proof over the years to back up everything I've claimed, yet theres still a group on this board that chooses to ignore it (for whatever reason).

As you should know, since Ive stated it plenty of times in the sloth thread over the years, I'm more interested in helping brahs like ScramFranklin, because nobody helped me when I was younger. It's a tough world out there, and competition is fierce. So inspiring brahs to keep their heads up and don't quit is what keeps me coming back to add my two cents in threads like this.

You remember the brah that gave me credit for helping him lose his V card?

That's my motivation.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
So what would you rate the redhead model then? Also are you sure that’s a real Vogue cover because people make fake ones just for fun.
Prolly an 8+/10 on the magazine cover. Yes its legit. She had runway pics modeling for high end designers too, all linked on her ig in tinder, and a real ig account.

The ex-playboy bunny was real too. She was 30 when I matched her a couple years ago, still hot af. I'll check my old phone to see if I still have her pics.

But what does it matter? You know I can match/date/bang pretty girls. The point was simple, as it relates to this thread: Guys that are struggling with women in their twenties can set themselves up NOW to be successful later down the road. But It takes time and effort.
And what would you rate that older blonde model that you posted that you didn’t want to meet?
7/10
Also I called you out on this before but just wanted to mention again that I think BRB influenced you to prefer skinny white girls now because he says those are at the top as to “dating value.” Whereas before you used to prefer Latinas and other ethnic girls. But I think you’re trying to show higher status to him by posting about skinny white girls more now.
I responded to this already. I'm still most attracted to Latina/Middle Eastern/Mediterranean looking women, then white-anglo/east european women second. The vast majority of matches are white women, and I take what I can get.

BRB knows my taste and I know his. BRB pulls better looking girls than me. We don't compete, we share wins and losses and he has helped me considerably with my overall strategy and game over the years.
post 1571737561 01-21-2019, 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted By LordMU
guilty. Would not date a chick with no career/low socioeconomic status unless she's otherwise perfect.
(Srs) Guys always project what they personally care about onto women.
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post 1571753451 01-21-2019, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Hardlifter9
(Srs) Guys always project what they personally care about onto women.
I always hear miscers swear that men don’t care about status but I’ve never seen any of the successful men in my social circle marry a woman who didn’t come from a similar background.

She also usually has a similar education level and at least a decent job, if not on his level.

Seems likes like attracts like.

It’s pretty to rare to see a smart,rich, successful guy married to some bimbo just because she’s hot.
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post 1571780501 01-21-2019, 07:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422
This just makes me sad. If people are telling you you're handsome, why do you think you're so ugly that you need tons of plastic surgery? You do realize that there are tons of people out there that are 5-6 looks wise who are very content and find very good looks matched partners, right? Getting your teeth fixed, taking care of your skin, and getting contacts vs glasses are all things that are reasonable, but going ham on surgery isn't really a good thing.
I appreciate the sentiment legz. The handsome thing isn't very often lol. And it's mostly family and older coworkers who are married and in their 50's. Just being motherly I think. But if I can go from a 4.5 to a 6, then it's worth it. I'm tired of not doing well with women and it being extremely difficult to try to attract one because of my looks. And I'm not some creeper around them either. Figured I had to say that last part because some people will say stuff that in response to guys struggling with women.

I had my jaw surgery consultation today where a potential surgeon laid out his plan. An improvement, but not chaddish :/. I'll get one more opinion. Anyways, it's just a first step, and it should help my breathing a lot
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post 1571781051 01-21-2019, 07:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Maylie
I always hear miscers swear that men don’t care about status but I’ve never seen any of the successful men in my social circle marry a woman who didn’t come from a similar background.

She also usually has a similar education level and at least a decent job, if not on his level.

Seems likes like attracts like.

It’s pretty to rare to see a smart,rich, successful guy married tosome bimbo just because she’s hot.
Rich guys are like < 1 in a 100 and even less when you look at ones under 45.
And you overestimate how much a hot girl even cares to begin with.
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post 1571860111 01-22-2019, 05:35 PM
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Thought this was interesting. Myth busters also same to a similar conclusion

https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPillSc...ve_than_males/
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Everytime i read spades posts i cringe so fkin hard, especially knowing the arrangements he has with these women. I've never seen a 40+ year old man so desperate for approval and validation from a bunch of people on the internet. Holy chit lmao
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Originally Posted By TappingTheZen
Everytime i read spades posts i cringe so fkin hard, especially knowing the arrangements he has with these women. I've never seen a 40+ year old man so desperate for approval and validation from a bunch of people on the internet. Holy chit lmao
What arrangements? in rough terms
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Originally Posted By spadelexus
Agree with everything you've posted minus this. I was pretty much a low confidence FA in my early 20's. I pulled, but very few and far between.

In my late 30's/early 40's, I've matched Vogue cover models:







(Inb4 everything)



As well as a former playboy bunny (I don't have proof you'll have to be leaf me)...

Didn't date them. But I have dated/smashed more, and more attractive women in my late 30's early 40's than I did in my early 20's.

Also my tongue and dick game improved immensely. Im surprised I even found the hole in my twenties. Now I have bishes traveling hours and ready to fight each other for a ride on my dik (srs).
cover or not thats a 4/10
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