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post 1561286161 09-14-2018, 02:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I'm not against casual sex. It can work for some people like people who can't get a good relationship or for player types who are not ready to be monogamous. A good steady FWB is better than long term indefinite celibacy imo.

Only bad thing is the risk of STD's but that risk can be managed and minimized, and that risk ultimately exists in a relationship too (cheating partner). And still better than indefinite celibacy to me.
I had an fwb this summer. Wasn't that attracted to her, so I stopped seeing her.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I'm not against casual sex. It can work for some people like people who can't get a good relationship or for player types who are not ready to be monogamous. A good steady FWB is better than long term indefinite celibacy imo.

Only bad thing is the risk of STD's but that risk can be managed and minimized, and that risk ultimately exists in a relationship too (cheating partner). And still better than indefinite celibacy to me.
Agreed. Sex is very healthy, giving it out to just anyone who you come across is not necessarily
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post 1561287001 09-14-2018, 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted By triception⏩
Agreed. Sex is very healthy, giving it out to just anyone who you come across is not necessarily
Exactly. At this point I have to deem a girl worthy in looks and personality wise
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I'm not against casual sex. It can work for some people like people who can't get a good relationship or for player types who are not ready to be monogamous. A good steady FWB is better than long term indefinite celibacy imo.

Only bad thing is the risk of STD's but that risk can be managed and minimized, and that risk ultimately exists in a relationship too (cheating partner). And still better than indefinite celibacy to me.
thats sooo the least attractive thing a woman can do. would drop a bish the second i learn that shes ever been fwb

allow some dude to use you without getting anything out of it?

just signals to me "social status, chad, keeping up with the joneses, sloot", etc.
post 1561288841 09-14-2018, 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted By JIGSAW⏩
queerest millennialist thread in 2018 so far.....

go put your dress on and go outside and play
seriously....

Like wut?

The same *******s who don't like to smash new vagina are the same *******s who need to go to their "safe space"

Whatever.....more young girls for me.
post 1561289391 09-14-2018, 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted By CulturalDecay⏩
seriously....

Like wut?

The same *******s who don't like to smash new vagina are the same *******s who need to go to their "safe space"

Whatever.....more STD’s for me.
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post 1561290861 09-14-2018, 03:13 PM
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Well yeah it only makes sense if your high testosterone

Testosterone is literally what drives men to do it

And even a men's testosterone is what inspires a woman to do it because the fact that he wants to makes her horny

So it's literally just all testosterone, and whether you're overflowing with it like some of us real men are or not , besides that yeah there's no real logical reason to do it all the time.
post 1561291161 09-14-2018, 03:17 PM
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Agree op, repped.
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Originally Posted By Coolman468⏩
I just want a nice attractive girl who is into me, clean, loyal, faithful and just an overall great girl.
I want a job that pays me 10k/day too but unfortunately that's not realistic for most of us. So lots of casual sex it is.
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post 1561292221 09-14-2018, 03:34 PM
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I understand where you’re coming from Op. I don’t like casual sex unless we develop some form of relationship with each other over time which is my preference. It’s always great for your ego to have a high kill count, and lord knows when I’m drunk I’m trying to get in some hotties pants, but every time I let out a big nut I fell drained the next day like I lost something to the bish. Sometimes I’ll pull out and and just grab them by the hair and try to come all over their face and in my mind I’m like “yeah, take that **** you ****ing slut! Dirty ****ing whore!” I’m telling me these things in my mind, but sometimes I wonder if I’m so frustrated because of how shety my alcoholic mom was
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Originally Posted By Scooty56⏩
^I agree with OP. IMO having a lot of casual sex is a kind of cope, at least it was for me anyway. I know I could get up in some honey walls if I wanted. It used to be a HHUUGGEE drive in me to do that because in my head it was like "yes, if I can do this I'm a real man, I need to be able to pull more poon than this guy or that guy so show I'm better than them and this chick will think I'm the best ever", but once it became apparent that I could without problem, and the making chicks finish was easy, the desire dwindled. TBQH I also kind of have a hard time not developing feelings for someone I sleep with.
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post 1572514781 01-30-2019, 08:38 PM
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Agree op
post 1572515051 01-30-2019, 08:42 PM
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post 1572515361 01-30-2019, 08:46 PM
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op is right. every random I sleep with makes me die a little bit on the inside and makes it harder for me to actually meet a girl im really into, give a chit about her, and start a good relationship with her. but I still cant stop.
post 1572515581 01-30-2019, 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted By SoutheastBeast1⏩
I want a job that pays me 10k/day too but unfortunately that's not realistic for most of us. So lots of casual sex it is.
You’re never going to find that girl if you keep hanging out in the gutter looking for women who have daddy issues and put out right away

Decent women aren’t as rare as diamonds, they’re out there, but they aren’t hanging out in night clubs

You guys constantly go for the lowest hanging fruit and then complain that it’s rotten

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post 1572517831 01-30-2019, 09:23 PM
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the problem with serious relationships is

A. Cost a **** ton of money
B. Eventually gets boring
C. Leading them on when you know you wont be in the for the long haul.


I don't like leading people on.
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post 1572518861 01-30-2019, 09:37 PM
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I have a long-term casual sex partner who is fairly upfront about when she has slept with someone else and has regular tests- she wants a more permenant thing, but I CBF.

I have a regular Tuesday sloot and a regular Friday/Saturday sloot.

I am relatively well paid (<100K base, but with bonus I usually make 110K),4 x gym per week, I train and play rugby 3 x per week, I have a regular Wednesday drinking sesh at my local with the lads and I catch up with my family on Sunday's.

I travel alot and take my regular sloot on our trips.

I honestly don't think I could do a gf.
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Originally Posted By KennyFisher⏩
I have a long-term casual sex partner who is fairly upfront about when she has slept with someone else and has regular tests- she wants a more permenant thing, but I CBF.

I have a regular Tuesday sloot and a regular Friday/Saturday sloot.

I am relatively well paid (<100K base, but with bonus I usually make 110K),4 x gym per week, I train and play rugby 3 x per week, I have a regular Wednesday drinking sesh at my local with the lads and I catch up with my family on Sunday's.

I travel alot and take my regular sloot on our trips.

I honestly don't think I could do a gf.
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post 1572520701 01-30-2019, 10:05 PM
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No it’s not op.

Delet this awful and utterly ridiculous thread.
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I prefer casual sex in all honesty, just a transaction, no need for relationships.
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I agree with OP.

Spent 2018 trying to figure out who I was after my wife left me. Being in a faithful relationship for 10 years I thought maybe I was missing something. Competed in Thottathon 2018 and at the end of the year I realized that casual sex with 20+ girls (srs) left me nothing more than spending more money on temporaryships.

I look at being single versus committed relationship in this manner:

Lets say I have a big bag full of bricks and I want to build something with that bag
A. Invest all those bricks into one lot and establish my empire.
B. OR invest all those bricks into several different lots and accomplish nothing.
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Originally Posted By Savanimal912⏩
I agree with OP.

Spent 2018 trying to figure out who I was after my wife left me. Being in a faithful relationship for 10 years I thought maybe I was missing something. Competed in Thottathon 2018 and at the end of the year I realized that casual sex with 20+ girls (srs) left me nothing more than spending more money on temporaryships.

I look at being single versus committed relationship in this manner:

Lets say I have a big bag full of bricks and I want to build something with that bag
A. Invest all those bricks into one lot and establish my empire.
B. OR invest all those bricks into several different lots and accomplish nothing.
That’s actually a pretty unique way to look at it. I’ve never thought of it that way before.

The bricks are finite (your time) and you really have to use it preciously because all of our time is finite. Repped
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Originally Posted By Coolman468⏩
Alright, a lot of you guys hype up sex with randoms and sleeping with many women. I thought I wanted the same thing during my 2.5 year relationship with my ex who broke up with me in May. Since we broke up I've slept with 6 girls, just slept with the 6th one less than an hour ago. And I've come to the conclusion that casual sex is the dumbest sht ever. It is so fcking pointless man. There is absolutely nothing to it. Like so what if you can pull girls? Who gives a fck? I just want a nice attractive girl who is into me, clean, loyal, faithful and just an overall great girl. I had that and I lost it. Next time I get it I'm making sure I don't lose it. God that sht is fcking stupid. I've been seriously considering going celibate until I find a girl I really like and one that likes me. Everytime I sleep with a new girl, I get closer to actually making the decision of being celibate. I think I'm just going to focus more on school, getting a great career and hopefully creating my own business one day, and forget about women, the right one will come along when the time is right, I could run into her anywhere. And before I forget, focusing more in the gym and finally hitting 200lb
Not gonna read this whole thing, but some people don't enjoy banging randoms.

I happen to be one of them. I got a divorce in 2015 and went through a few loose women, realized it wasn't really something I wanted to do long term. It's hard to find quality women just like it's hard to find quality men. If you want a relationship with a high quality woman, spend your time becoming a high quality man and you'll find them in social situations, be it classes, at work, or at conferences.

FWIW I found a good woman in 2017, and we're expecting our first kid this year so you'll find what you're looking for if you put in the effort, just like I did.
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I like both options tbh.

In a relationship the sex is just great and with attraction and love is amazing. Plus you know the girl (this is important cause you have an idea on hygiene, with randoms this is a thing of luck lmao), you know what you like, what she likes and can take more freedoms.

With randoms; the build up, the game itself, getting to know the girl and taking her every second closer to be in bed till you get to take her clothes off. Doesnt matter if this is done in a couple of hours or days, finishing the deed is great, fuaaark

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This is why I recommend that people read Lushka16's Guide to Getting Dumped and Taking it Like a Champ after a breakup:

So many guys will recommend that you drown yourself in a sea of puss after a breakup but the truth is that this only compounds the problem; after you fukk a lot you'll see it isn't this big deal you once thought it was. And those walks of shame at 0500 take a toll too.

OP - you're on the right path. After a while only the most ego driven slayers will still insist that smashing randoms is the goal in life. The truly epic sex is the one with someone you care about and are truly attracted to - it always adds something more.
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Originally Posted By Josh1billion⏩
That sounds like a fukin terrible idea
agreed, this is a full potato move right here
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Casual sex is better than masturbation. Prove me wrong
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I kind of agree too sort of.

Any time I’ve slept with a girl purely due to physical attraction I always end up feeling hollow the next day.

When I feel that real spark of attraction to someone, I want more than just a hook up anyway.

Some of the most depressing times of my life were when I was getting a lot of casual sex, but that said so was when I was stuck in a toxic relationship.

Personally for me high quality relationship > casual sex > bad relationship.
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