Why fapping and p0rn is bad for you

03-02-2019, 09:19 AM

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For all the hooligans who are so adamantly against no-fap, why don't you boys just stop touching yourself for awhile? Maybe a month? And see if you notice any benefits. If you don't, then nothing is lost. I'm always amazed that those who are so strongly against no-fap usually haven't even participated in it for a prolonged period of time. It's like obese folks who claim that diet & exercise doesn't work for them. Do a few sit-ups, eat a salad, and no weight has been lost. Must be a scam, right? Ludicrous. Complete non-sense.

Stop stroking yourself for a month or two and test it out, fellas. Stop being a bunch of pussies about it.

03-02-2019, 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted By MotorCityCobra⏩

go fap some more whilst watching another man smash. lmao just lmao @ closet *******s like u. we all know u like watching dink in action.

Girl on Girl here, but thanks for inadvertently admitting that you get off on throbbing cocks doing penetration. You basically just confirmed you own every volume of Poor Little White Guy. Stay coping with your placebo bullshyt you little twink. Placebocels gonna' placebocel. The very thought of no longer fapping to improve your life is revealing of the fact that you're a sad, miserable, shriveled little cuck in the first place and guess what, you're always going to be. Always blaming things for your own shortcomings, or in your case, shortcummings, minuteman.

03-02-2019, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted By SirFapsAIot⏩

Girl on Girl here, but thanks for inadvertently admitting that you get off on throbbing cocks doing penetration. You basically just confirmed you own every volume of Poor Little White Guy. Stay coping with your placebo bullshyt you little twink. Placebocels gonna' placebocel. The very thought of no longer fapping to improve your life is revealing of the fact that you're a sad, miserable, shriveled little cuck in the first place and guess what, you're always going to be. Always blaming things for your own shortcomings, or in your case, shortcummings, minuteman.

DEAR DIARY. cliffs? wont read all that. u seem mad and jelly tho. just go nofap, u wont be mad anymore. you might also get some real action!

03-02-2019, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted By MotorCityCobra⏩

It will basically make you depressed and anxious. Heres a list of other negative effects you will suffer if indulging in the beta act of fapping and/or watching porn:

- asocial

- foggy (can't think clearly)

- sheepish (following others, can't think for yourself)

- unsympathetic

- feeling of inferiority

- easily annoyed

- sleepy

- loss of energy

- loss of joy (can't enjoy the simple stuff)

- afraid

- unfunny

- lack of ambition

- lack of motivation

- not able to connect/relate to people

- harder to laugh or smilep

- lack of confidence

- lack of sense of purpose (this is a big one)

- lack of presence

- shy

- objectifying women

- Lacking speaking skills/hesitating with words

- overthinking stuff

- less social intelligence

- physically weaker

- creativity & problem solving hampered

Some people say nofap is placebo, i dont really care as it has done wonders for me and thousands of other people. I cant reccomend it enough. And LMAO just LMAO @ fappers and their false claims of "high test" to beat their meat. Self control and discipline is what we sorely lack in this day and age.

sounds like your depressed do you have a source study where it says fapping is bad for you don't think so. porn has some studies on be damaging on mental health but nothing about fapping. Other than that your just talking a bunch of bull sht lol

A lot of people who are depressed or have no purpose are easily drawn into these nofap fads. Makes them feel like they have a goal or purpose. Nofap should not be your goal, you should set goals that will better your life financially. So instead of following people on youtube/reading about nofap, you should be looking for ways to increase your income, gain muscle from diet and work out, if needed get a coach for learning social skills/dating and go out and practice regularly.

Everyone wants the easy way out yeah it sounds great to believe, just stop fapping and you can get a gf, get buff and strong high test, and be a social god! Sorry bro but the truth hurts stick to research and evidence. Nothing worth having is going to be easy, to gain skills you have to practice and study and it's hard work. Start now at whatever age your at, your 27 so you should be able to have more than I had by 33.

03-02-2019, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted By SirFapsAIot⏩

Girl on Girl here, but thanks for inadvertently admitting that you get off on throbbing cocks doing penetration. You basically just confirmed you own every volume of Poor Little White Guy. Stay coping with your placebo bullshyt you little twink. Placebocels gonna' placebocel.The very thought of no longer fapping to improve your life is revealing of the fact that you're a sad, miserable, shriveled little cuck in the first placeand guess what, you're always going to be. Always blaming things for your own shortcomings, or in your case, shortcummings, minuteman.

Avoiding watching videos of other strangers having sex on the internet sounds like a pretty reasonable thing to do for a healthier sex life. Relying on videos of strangers on the internet having sex for your own sexual pleasure probably isn't the healthiest thing for your mental health. I hate to break it to you.

I agree OP. But what do you think of masturbation without porn?

03-02-2019, 09:59 AM

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03-02-2019, 10:02 AM

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I've been fapping less this year because I'm single and I don't want to rely on porn and abandon chasing girls.

However, after about 2 days I find I get irritable or just plain angry for no reason lol. It's very odd because I'm a pretty tame guy.

03-02-2019, 10:07 AM

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The rule of thumb is, too much of anything is bad, 10-12 times a day is ''bad'', IMO, but 3 times or less, how is that bad? Better than popping boners 24/7 and having semen dripping down your dick, srs

03-02-2019, 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩

No fap leads to prostate cancer . Let that sink in

That's scary af, srs

03-02-2019, 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted By eatmycrackers⏩

What do you say to scientists that suggest regularly fapping is good for you health?

For a normal healthy male not prone to heart disease, prostate cancer is the leading cause of death. Harvard scientists suggest you should fap 21x per month to see the benefit of 33% less likelihood of developing prostate cancer as you age.

Don't use pr0n if you don't want to, but it is healthier than nofap.

https://www.europeanurology.com/arti...e-of-follow-up

I agree 100%, srs

03-02-2019, 10:11 AM

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My head became clearer when I kept pounding pussy without beating it for over a week.

03-02-2019, 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted By getbig_ttt⏩

Avoiding watching videos of other strangers having sex on the internet sounds like a pretty reasonable thing to do for a healthier sex life. Relying on videos of strangers on the internet having sex for your own sexual pleasure probably isn't the healthiest thing for your mental health. I hate to break it to you.

I agree OP. But what do you think of masturbation without porn?

I don't even need to watch chit, I can pretty much fap whenever. Fact of the matter is if you have a weak libido then nofap is possible for you. Anyway, this guy is going to obliterate his virility and his own prostate, good luck on your 2019 goals.

03-02-2019, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted By Cryptkeeper0⏩

You maybe do have those problems but you just aren't self aware.. Read the symptoms above again. BRAIN FOG, so how would you know you have any of those symptoms if you are in a fog since you are not on nofap? Do you have some kind special faplights that you turn on to see when the fog comes out?

Interesting, because I don't have ''brain fog'' at all

03-02-2019, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted By frump94⏩

If ur not regularly getting sex, then no-fap makes zero sense

blowing a load is a basic human need. might as well abstain from food, sleep or pooping as well and report back to us with all the benefits you reaped

Lol, so true

03-02-2019, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted By tunafishha⏩

u can tell how much someone faps by how much hair theyve lost

I'm completely bald...wait, what?

03-02-2019, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted By MotorCityCobra⏩

It will basically make you depressed and anxious. Heres a list of other negative effects you will suffer if indulging in the beta act of fapping and/or watching porn:

- asocial

- foggy (can't think clearly)

- sheepish (following others, can't think for yourself)

- unsympathetic

- feeling of inferiority

- easily annoyed

- sleepy

- loss of energy

- loss of joy (can't enjoy the simple stuff)

- afraid

- unfunny

- lack of ambition

- lack of motivation

- not able to connect/relate to people

- harder to laugh or smilep

- lack of confidence

- lack of sense of purpose (this is a big one)

- lack of presence

- shy

- objectifying women

- Lacking speaking skills/hesitating with words

- overthinking stuff

- less social intelligence

- physically weaker

- creativity & problem solving hampered

Some people say nofap is placebo, i dont really care as it has done wonders for me and thousands of other people. I cant reccomend it enough. And LMAO just LMAO @ fappers and their false claims of "high test" to beat their meat. Self control and discipline is what we sorely lack in this day and age.

I believe some of this is correct.

However, I don't think it's from masturbation entirely because that's too reductionistic.

I believe being sheepish, lacking confidence, etc comes from being lonely. When you have a girlfriend you believe loves you, you feel awesome. When you feel you must masturbate to get some pleasure in life and you know others have gfs, etc doing everything for them, it makes you feel inferior.

It's because you must be in some way, bad luck stuck, or something is not getting you normal stuff.

Meanwhile, your penis is an organ, with muscles, and complex workings. So, if you use any body part to its max daily it's going to get tired and not work properly sometimes. Other's you will not feel like doing the same activity you've been doing over and over.

I love lifting but get all the overtraining symptoms every few weeks. So, I take a break from lifting. Gotta be the same for "no fap".

Porn is a major problem. It is callous stuff created by perverts. So, it makes you callous and perverted.

It is a major problem.

No Fap:

There's a problem with this movement.

It's like a religion and it's hard for people to go all in on a religion.

I just broke down what's going on with masturbating. Loneliness. Feeling left out of a relationship. Exhausting a body part. Being exposed to cynical perversion.

If you just focus on "fapping" it seems weird. If you focus on repairing life or dealing with disappointment, I think that's much better and attractive for people suffering. I don't want to wear a "No Fap" t-shirt I want to wear one that says Improve Life.

Understand?

03-02-2019, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted By MotorCityCobra⏩

lmao u the one coping, i be clapping cheeks while u be clapping ur dink. lmao just lmao @ fapcels

You have a gf or a wife, so you get laid daily, possible multiple times a day, so it's easy for you to preach ''no fap'' but many of us are single, so wtf are we supposed to do? You having a blast getting laid and we, oh no I can't touch my ''peepee'' or even entertain a sexual thought...great...

03-02-2019, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted By Realityy⏩

No fap is not a cure all. Abstaining from PORN is the real benefit, as fapping to porn wires your brain in a way that you only get off from porn, and lose interest in having sex with an actual real human being. Porn desentisies your dopamine reward system, so that fapping to a screen provides more reward than talking and having real sex.

Once you abstain from porn for a few weeks, the way to get the actual benefit is to have real sex, so that your brain can re wire itself to enjoy sex MORE than porn.

But I hope you understand ''sex'' should be only within marriage, and for the purpose of procreation, let that sink in

03-02-2019, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted By Realityy⏩

that's the whole point though. No fap should force you to seek out getting laid. if you're not doing that then it's pointless. I've done it many times and I agree you end up losing your sex drive, but that's when you should force yourself to try and get laid so you can rewire your brain - so that when your horny you seek out SEX and not thinking about fapping to a screen, like a normal human being should do.

So you are promoting promiscuous , recreational sex before marriage? Is this good or healthy?

03-02-2019, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted By eatmycrackers⏩

What do you say to scientists that suggest regularly fapping is good for you health?

For a normal healthy male not prone to heart disease, prostate cancer is the leading cause of death. Harvard scientists suggest you should fap 21x per month to see the benefit of 33% less likelihood of developing prostate cancer as you age.

Don't use pr0n if you don't want to, but it is healthier than nofap.

https://www.europeanurology.com/arti...e-of-follow-up

This is a great point, but scientists are frequently very dumb when it comes to people.

For instance, your penis has no idea what is going on. If you're having sex with a room full of women that love you or you're doing it yourself it doesn't matter to your penis.

However, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy explains that our feelings and actions are all caused by our beliefs. So, it's not your penis feeling badly but you and so depression, etc related to masturbating is likely psychological because you believe it sucks.

It does suck typically.

Also, what is penis health and endurance?

I'm sure there's studies on how many chest exercises one can do per week, but what about penis activity?

I believe a lot of no fap problems are due to "overtraining" as seen in the gym. The symptoms are VERY similar.

So, what is it to overtrain your penis? That's a good questions because it would stop the need to believe you must not masturbate for long periods of time. On the other end it would give an acceptable rest period idea to those who fap a lot.

03-02-2019, 10:39 AM

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Great studies and sources to backup you claim OP. Let me help you with that :

Spoiler!

03-02-2019, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted By MotorCityCobra⏩

DEAR DIARY. cliffs? wont read all that. u seem mad and jelly tho. just go nofap, u wont be mad anymore. you might also get some real action!

So you are promoting promiscuous, recreational sex before marriage? Is this good?

03-02-2019, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted By getbig_ttt⏩

Avoiding watching videos of other strangers having sex on the internet sounds like a pretty reasonable thing to do for a healthier sex life. Relying on videos of strangers on the internet having sex for your own sexual pleasure probably isn't the healthiest thing for your mental health. I hate to break it to you.

I agree OP. But what do you think of masturbation without porn?

no point in arguing with a deluded chronic fapper. in theory its ok to fap, as long as you don't reach out for porn. fapping without visual stimuli isn't harmful. thing is porn is so available these days. just a few ticks on the keyboard and hundreds of thousands of porn videos show up in front of your eyes. this makes it impossible to keep your fapping habit and avoid pornography. In the long run, you will most likely end up not being able to resist it forever and you will make a habit out of it. abstaining from fapping in general lowers the tendency to reach out for porn. there may be some guys who are able to keep masturbation and porn separated, but they really are a minority

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That's quite the list of side effects.

Sounds like it would be safer to huff cyanide

03-02-2019, 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted By MotorCityCobra⏩

no point in arguing with a deluded chronic fapper. in theory its ok to fap, as long as you don't reach out for porn. fapping without visual stimuli isn't harmful. thing is porn is so available these days. just a few ticks on the keyboard and hundreds of thousands of porn videos show up in front of your eyes. this makes it impossible to keep your fapping habit and avoid pornography. In the long run, you will most likely end up not being able to resist it forever and you will make a habit out of it. abstaining from fapping in general lowers the tendency to reach out for porn. there may be some guys who are able to keep masturbation and porn separated, but they really are a minority

So a lot of promiscuous, recreational sex before marriage is the better option? Or let me guess, even better, no fap/no sex for life, that's better, right?

03-02-2019, 10:53 AM

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If you don’t fap and aren’t having sex, you’ll just blow your load during sleep anyway. There’s literally no point to not fapping

03-02-2019, 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted By SazabiBrah⏩

If you don’t fap and aren’t having sex, you’ll just blow your load during sleep anyway. There’s literally no point to not fapping

The point of nofap is to be chasing pussy like a crazed sex maniac who is 100 times hornier than ever before, and have as much recreational, promiscuous sex possible, before marriage

03-02-2019, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted By superman704⏩

The point of nofap is to be chasing pussy like a crazed sex maniac who is 100 times hornier than ever before, and have as much recreational, promiscuous sex possible, before marriage

Masturbation was a HUGE topic in the beginning of psych. All kinds of problems were blamed on it, so this is nothing new.

Anyway, in Europe brothels were legal for the reason you mentioned. It was to make sure guys didn't fall into what was caused an "autistic" lifestyle of masturbating.

Guys on the misc have recreated this entire philosophy.

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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩

Masturbation was a HUGE topic in the beginning of psych. All kinds of problems were blamed on it, so this is nothing new.

Anyway, in Europe brothels were legal for the reason you mentioned. It was to make sure guys didn't fall into what was caused an "autistic" lifestyle of masturbating.

Guys on the misc have recreated this entire philosophy.

And is God ok with promiscuous, recreational sex before marriage?