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post 1576369681 03-21-2019, 11:49 PM
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post 1576370551 03-22-2019, 12:18 AM
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takes some balls, props OP

inb4 she says "no thx Jeff LOL" tho and ur memorialized for being a living misc meme
Awesome pics. Great size. Look thick. Solid. Tight. Keep us all posted on your continued progress with any new progress pics or vid clips. Show us what you got man. Wanna see how freakin' huge, solid, thick and tight you can get. Thanks for the motivation.
post 1576371261 03-22-2019, 12:39 AM
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Originally Posted By Caeculus
Congrats on harassing a girl at the gym making it awkward for her every time she sees you in the future. She's probably looking for another gym right now. Thanks a lot for creeping out another woman and making it harder for the rest of us normal people. The gym isn't the time or place for that sheit. Have some respect for others. Nobody wants to be bothered by homeless people begging and harassing when they're just trying to go about their business. Same thing with women at the gym. I swear this autistic "pick up artist" sheit made everything harder for normal people around 2012-2013 after the thousands of social retards were let loose and started harassing random women that showed no interest and are so socially retarded they can't understand how they're making women feel when they harass them.
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post 1576371421 03-22-2019, 12:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No but it’s not about having “a great chat.” It’s about mutual attraction and watching body language/nonverbal communication for signs of interest and then just not being awkward.
So he did all that and had a chat and did not press it forward the first time, because it is a build up and there will be a next time. And yet you found something negative. Even though he did as you described.

Oh wait, he should have said 'babe, bend over and spread 'em cheaks. Going in hard and heavy!!'
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post 1576371761 03-22-2019, 01:03 AM
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Originally Posted By Casca
So he did all that and had a chat and did not press it forward the first time, because it is a build up and there will be a next time. And yet you found something negative. Even though he did as you described.

Oh wait, he should have said 'babe, bend over and spread 'em cheaks. Going in hard and heavy!!'
He never said he got signals from her that she was interested. Also, trying a pickup at the gym is desperate AF and unless you're literally Brad Pitt you're going to come across as a creepy loser. Leave girls alone at the gym. They are there to work out, maybe show off their bodies, and take selfies. THAT'S IT. They DO NOT WANT creeps awkwardly hitting on them. It's 2019, there are far better ways to find hookups. If you're hitting on a girl at the gym, that literally means that you are so lame you have failed all normal routes and have no other option than the ****ing gym. Most likely this girl is now looking for another gym or is going to try to find another time to come when OP is not there. If she's attractive she can get any guy she wants at any time. Some random 6/10 or 7/10 at the gym is just a creeper. And to the post above - yes, "love to **** you" in a somewhat cleaner way is far more likely to impress than the awkward creeper **** that OP did. If you're a 9/10 and state that basically you'd like to chill and ****, you'll probably succeed. I'm over 100+ in the last 6 years and being straightforward in the right setting will usually lead to hitting that pussy (gym and grocery store are NEVER the right setting).
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post 1576371861 03-22-2019, 01:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Caeculus
Congrats on harassing a girl at the gym making it awkward for her every time she sees you in the future. She's probably looking for another gym right now. Thanks a lot for creeping out another woman and making it harder for the rest of us normal people. The gym isn't the time or place for that sheit. Have some respect for others. Nobody wants to be bothered by homeless people begging and harassing when they're just trying to go about their business. Same thing with women at the gym. I swear this autistic "pick up artist" sheit made everything harder for normal people around 2012-2013 after the thousands of social retards were let loose and started harassing random women that showed no interest and are so socially retarded they can't understand how they're making women feel when they harass them.
Exactly. I'm a 7.5/10 and have banged well over a hundred girls. It is easy if you are relatively attractive, confident, and know the right setting. If you are hitting on a chick at the gym or in a retail checkout somewhere you are ALWAYS going to come across as a desperate loser. There are so many ****ing appropriate places to meet girls to **** in 2019 that if you're doing it at the gym, you literally are telling them that you are a total failure at picking up girls in EVERY other more reasonable setting and even failing online which is pathetic.
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post 1576371891 03-22-2019, 01:12 AM
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GJ. Can be tricky in a place like that. I did it twice before, both times got numbers. One flaked one I went out with. I'd advise pushing for a number straight away because the second encounter could be quite awkward. GL.
post 1576371961 03-22-2019, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted By optimus1
He never said he got signals from her that she was interested. Also, trying a pickup at the gym is desperate AF and unless you're literally Brad Pitt you're going to come across as a creepy loser. Leave girls alone at the gym. They are there to work out, maybe show off their bodies, and take selfies. THAT'S IT. They DO NOT WANT creeps awkwardly hitting on them. It's 2019, there are far better ways to find hookups. If you're hitting on a girl at the gym, that literally means that you are so lame you have failed all normal routes and have no other option than the ****ing gym. Most likely this girl is now looking for another gym or is going to try to find another time to come when OP is not there. If she's attractive she can get any guy she wants at any time. Some random 6/10 or 7/10 at the gym is just a creeper. And to the post above - yes, "love to **** you" in a somewhat cleaner way is far more likely to impress than the awkward creeper **** that OP did. If you're a 9/10 and state that basically you'd like to chill and ****, you'll probably succeed. I'm over 100+ in the last 6 years and being straightforward in the right setting will usually lead to hitting that pussy (gym and grocery store are NEVER the right setting).
Did not read. That is a lot of words homo. Women being attracted to men is not that complicated, unless you are gay. You will not understand, because you are gay. Or maybe because it really is because about looks.
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post 1576372101 03-22-2019, 01:22 AM
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Inb4 you get charged with "verbal rape" for talking to a complete stranger.....


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post 1576372291 03-22-2019, 01:29 AM
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Why are people bagging the OP? better than not talking to her. lol
post 1576372301 03-22-2019, 01:29 AM
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Which gym in mississauga? In on misc meetup at mississauga.
post 1576372501 03-22-2019, 01:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Desimus20
Why are people bagging the OP? better than not talking to her. lol
Yah, I know right. Should have know right? Should have just kept glancing on her and then hard staring at her.


Yah, I don't know about all that, but I am just not ever going to approach a girl in the gym that has not 99.99% made it apparent that she wants me to approach
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post 1576372821 03-22-2019, 02:04 AM
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good job getting yourself in the friend zone
post 1576373551 03-22-2019, 02:53 AM
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Originally Posted By requital
good job getting yourself in the friend zone
That is not what he did, he introduced himself.That is it. Next time, he better get him self in their next time though.

You only have so many chances OP, honestly this "first" time was't even a chance other to feel she is not going to get you discriminated out of the gym you like working out at.
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post 1576373741 03-22-2019, 03:02 AM
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Originally Posted By Casca
That is not what he did, he introduced himself.That is it. Next time, he better get him self in their next time though.

You only have so many chances OP, honestly this "first" time was't even a chance other to feel she is not going to get you discriminated out of the gym you like working out at.
THIS.

At worst, OP has plausible deniability and the girl will wonder why OP talked to her and didn't go for the # immediately. She may even approach OP next time she sees him workout. OP will only mess up if he does not escalate the next time.
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post 1576373851 03-22-2019, 03:08 AM
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OP: you want to go out sometime baby?
Her: No thanks Jeff!
post 1576374221 03-22-2019, 03:23 AM
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Originally Posted By outfoxxed
Which gym in mississauga? In on misc meetup at mississauga.
too far lal
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post 1576375411 03-22-2019, 04:06 AM
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Good job for nutting up and actually approaching. But you pulled an awfukbye moment for not asking her out
post 1576375991 03-22-2019, 04:27 AM
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Originally Posted By MrSchons
OP: you want to go out sometime baby?
Her: No thanks Jeff!
Nope. I bet not.

I bet your a *******. And you never approached any women at a gym.

Go ahead and tell a story.
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post 1576377421 03-22-2019, 05:16 AM
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Jeff pls
post 1576377531 03-22-2019, 05:21 AM
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so much low energy chit ITT


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be safe tho, gj OP
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Here's what really went down..

Me: I tap my ear signaling to take your headphones off
Her: takes them off
Me: **fix my gaze onto my shoes**
Me: H-h-h-h-hey i just w-w-wanted to say i come here at this time alot and uh..uhm.....haha
Her: Fuk off creep. Talk to me again and I'll call security.
Me: oh uhmmm....haha
Me: ok **shuffles off in tears**
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post 1576378111 03-22-2019, 05:36 AM
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Saw an HBB at the gym yesterday and she looked so into her workout that I didn't even bother
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post 1576378241 03-22-2019, 05:38 AM
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Ignore anyone who says you went beta. You are following a good path for picking up a gym chick. Girls don't want random dudes coming up and asking them out during their workouts. You got your foot in the door, and now you can make small talk more often and ask her out. She's more likely to agree if she gets to know you a bit first.
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you must get significant eye contact and a big smile from her first. if you get it, then and only then can you proceed. if not, she's just not interested. move on.
post 1576379381 03-22-2019, 06:07 AM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX
you must get significant eye contact and a big smile from her first. if you get it, then and only then can you proceed. if not, she's just not interested. move on.
^This.
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Hey shawty. lemme holla at you right quick ya know what im sayin. checkin you out over there you lookin kinda good, ya know what im sayin. so i was wondering ya know how about you and me go back to the place, get comfortable, probably sip on some of this henney, you know what im sayin, and after that, you know what im... sayin, we can do the grownup and you can let me clap on dem cheeks, ya hear me?
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If you ask her out and she says no or that she already has plans just hit her with this:

"Perfect, let's reschedule. I don't do business without talking to someone though. I'm easy to talk to, and appreciate the opportunity to meet you besides. We're all in this world together and I believe in having friends at all points on the map. It makes your struggle in life easier. My grandfather told me long ago, "If you don't have a core group of friends you can trust and they can trust you, life can kick your butt every day of your life..... if you do have this core of loyal friends, life is good." Just letting you know my intentions.

Have a nice day and I hope the best for you and yours. You hAve my word as a Schons"

You'll be gold after that.
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