Lonely people on ******** probably arent posting about it for everyone to see, or arent even on ******** because its depressing to see everyone else happy when you're not

What I find strange is my friends 27 year old son is smashing hot sloots practically every weekend . Come to think of it, he is 6’2” though .

I’m asian and I’m currently banging a hot blonde white girl. Pretty sure that’s not my sister. Stay jealous you bald loser.

most women are fat and nasty now a days.....no man would want that.

There are things you can do to make yourself more attractive, and it's also easy to turn off a woman who is interested if you don't know what you're doing. Trying is what matters the most, but if it was only a matter of trying I would've immediately gotten a lot of success as soon as I started trying. I didn't. You wouldn't understand these things though because you have almost no experience and therefore have no ability to contextualize the things that I'm saying.

What I'm saying also applies to normal looking guys. You're 5'3, and according to you, look like a troll. In terms of looks, that would put you in the bottom percentile of men. That sucks, but what applies to most men don't apply to you, and what applies to you don't apply to most men. That isn't fair, but it is what it is. The only times I've seen extremely unattractive guys succeed (not talking about just below average) are when they're very charismatic, rich, or both. But those traits are rarer than good looks.

Thanks for the perspective, and for acknowledging its different for me being in the bottom tier of looks.

Here's what I know. I do everything people say you're supposed to do. I'm relatively successful, I'm funny, I put on nice clothes when I go out. I make friends very easily, people generally like me a ton as a person. But no woman is ever attracted to me. So, I guess my opinion of all this is skewed towards my experience, which is not the norm. I fully believe all the things you say matter, and make a difference, for normal guys.

And I dont look like a troll really, but I'd say I'm like maybe a 3/10 in the face at best and I look very african. So when you combine that with my height, how many chicks will be interested in a short, low tier faced, dark skinned african looking guy with a weird shaped head? not many

I can't wait till the world ends

I'm not sure how much being really dark really matters, but I'm not black and don't really know how much that matters in the black community. I'm short too and it hasn't hurt me too much, but I'm more "normal" short at 5'7.

Like we agreed on, your situation is on the extreme side so I'm not sure what advice I'd give to you when it comes to females. Sure, Kevin Hart does well despite being a 5'3 black guy... but he's one of the most successful comedians on the planet, so it's not applicable. In all honesty, will you ever really do well with females? No. But is it possible for you to get with a woman you care about and cares about you as well? Since you don't seem like some weird autist, I think that's certainly possible, though it'll be harder for you than it is for other guys.

I think the only real advice I can give, one that really has nothing to do with getting females and more to do with mental health, is to stay the hell away from redpill, incel sites, and maybe even the misc. Sure, it may seem nice to communicate with people who are in a similar situation, but what mostly goes on is feeding each other's bitterness. It's like drug addicts hanging around one another, and I'm not talking about rehab.

As someone in my situation, it is actually really helpful to see explore some of those with similar experiences. its the only way to put my situation in context you know? so its helped me.

I already know the deal now, so I dont really engage with the red pill/incel stuff but the misc is fine. its a bit frustratring because most cant comprehend my situation, but its still helped me understand my situation as well.

At this point, the best advice for someone like me is acceptance. At a certain point, there's just not much you can do and because I listened to too many people who dont know what they're talking about as applies to me, I caused myself a lot of needless pain. Dude even Instant Loser has gotten more interest from women than me lol. think about that.

What all incels and Fas need to realize, is that all this stuff is not important. It's just animal spirits at the end of the day. there is so much more to this life than chasing puss*y like dumb monkeys. Dont be fooled by your animal spirits, dont let them run your life. Use your mind and find peace and acceptance. live your best life no matter what.

In on meteor

well women have made every encounter jail potential so it doesnt surprise me

is this because of the rise in incels or is it due to the rise in lesbians and other genders?

This is why society used to have things like religion and laws in place to restrict female sexual freedom. Also all men used to have increased attractiveness due to their ability to provide. With female sexual freedom fully unleashed and no longer the reliance on men for survival they will only gravitate to the men with top-tier genetics.

Keep in mind these are only the men willing to admit it to a pollster. The actual number for men is likely higher and the number for women lower.

Nothing destroy male bonds more than the presence of a hot female.

Men's standards is basically just don't be fat. Women's standard is be Christian Grey.

Pathetic. Even a blind squirrel finds a nut eventually.

Anyone else not particularly enjoy the act of sex? I guess I do it to mostly feed my ego, and it feels good to be validated, but the act itself doesn't really bring me extra me joy as others have mentioned. Perhaps it has to do with the fact that most of my partners have been randoms or FWB. Feels bad man

If I had a hot gf I think I'd get the most pleasure from parading her around in public and seeing the hateful jealousy in other men's eyes.

It happens

maybe you r a ****

maybe try men

I knew/know them. most “career” or “school” focused guys are just incels with better attitudes

No, it feels great with fwbs as well. You might be just getting 5/10 girls or below.

Sex can be very mediocre - I've had bad sex, mediocre sex and good sex - even with the same girl. Depends on the mood of both people, whether a condom is involved etc.

I just have a hard time connecting emotionally to women. No matter how many randoms I bang, even if they are attractive, I feel even more emptier inside after it's been done. I just don't see the big appeal of sex unless it's with someone who you genuinely like, and that for me has always been an issue given 1) my inability to form a connection and 2) my extreme level of pickiness.

This is not the case. The quality of sex does not solely hinge upon the physical attractiveness of the partner IMO. Some of the best sex I've had were with girls I didn't consider nowhere near the most attractive of partners, but there was just more natural sexual compatibility.

You just aren't into random sex with sluts, not a big deal dude. Not every guy is into that. Keep searching, you'll find someone - but I will say, if you're picky like me, give some women a chance that you might be on the fence about looks wise.

300% increase in incels in just 10 years lmao. By 2030 at least 50% of young men are going to be incels.