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post 1578909631 04-27-2019, 03:23 AM
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I wonder if that's why some celebrities dress their girls very gender neutral clothing. Or maybe the kids choose it. I live in LA and I see high school kids often. They dress like kids to me. They usually wear chucks or vans and just regular jeans and hoodie, girls also. I don't really see kids dressing weirdly provocatively to be honest. I mean they have band shirts and stuff like that, but I don't really see any mini Paris Hilton's or hoodrats walking around.
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What if men could do one simple thing and women would all of a sudden be interested in them. If they did this one simple thing, most women would want to fuk them, women would constantly check them out and go out of their way to talk to them and do nice things for them.

If men just did this one simple thing, they could have the dating life they've always dreamed of, that the old them used to fantasize about and fap to. That one simple thing was to beSLIM, just be fukn thin and not be a god damned fat lump. If men had that option they'd hit the gym with a god damned vengeance doing 2 a days erry day.

Women literally have that option yet would rather be a fat lump and complain.
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post 1578909741 04-27-2019, 03:31 AM
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Well I wish being slim would be enough. I am very good at that. That's pretty much the only thing I can do well... losing weight.
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Originally Posted By Cass40
Well I wish being slim would be enough. I am very good at that. That's pretty much the only thing I can do well... losing weight.
Then what's the issue? You don't think you're curvy enough?

Easy fix - build you glutes. Every day do glute stuff, while the kettle is boiling do some bridges. Waiting for the microwave to ping - do some goblet squats etc

You wouldn't even have to step foot in a gym.

btw you're probably ok if you're thin tho. LTC crew checking in.
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post 1578909831 04-27-2019, 03:39 AM
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Originally Posted By Jimmehhh
Then what's the issue? You don't think you're curvy enough?

Easy fix - build you glutes. Every day do glute stuff, while the kettle is boiling do some bridges. Waiting for the microwave to ping - do some goblet squats etc

You wouldn't even have to step foot in a gym.

btw you're probably ok if you're thin tho. LTC crew checking in.
Are you nuts? You're on a bodybuilding forum and apparently have no idea how to build muscle.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Back to OP

Funny as fuk that you’d post this on misc where women are only valued on their looks

https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...hp?t=177090011
Top tier = most beautiful



I was like LMAO
I wonder if people who actually think this way ie. most miscers., have anxiety and depression. It seems so unhealthy to think that your value comes from appearance. It is like I have this cognitive dissonance against this since my parents were kinda hippies and the culture I grew up, like we Finns are not like other countries.
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Originally Posted By Cass40
Are you nuts? You're on a bodybuilding forum and apparently have no idea how to build muscle.
lol wut?

If you trained your glutes erry day, several times a day - they'd grow like a cot damn weed.
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post 1578909941 04-27-2019, 03:45 AM
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Originally Posted By dj924s
Just trying to catch up a bit here....

So you think a failed social experiment that did nothing but make a few females with little self-control feel better, and brought us more Heart disease, diabetes, cancer, muscle/skeletal issues, digestive issues, decreased life expectancy, higher healthcare costs. Should not only continue, but it should also be extended to the males as well?
It's not hurt feelings though, its more than that.
No ones saying dont be fit, but the social expectation to look like a ken doll has gotten to the stage where men are getting cosmetic surgery for calf muscles.

'boys that cant cry shoot bullets' is a saying i've heard by a professor who was an ex-football coach that grew up around boys becoming men and saw their behavior changes due to internal struggles with their body image.
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post 1578909971 04-27-2019, 03:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Jimmehhh
lol wut?

If you trained your glutes erry day, several times a day - they'd grow like a cot damn weed.
You must be trolling..K bye.
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Originally Posted By dj924s
Just trying to catch up a bit here....

So you think a failed social experiment that did nothing but make a few females with little self-control feel better, and brought us more Heart disease, diabetes, cancer, muscle/skeletal issues, digestive issues, decreased life expectancy, higher healthcare costs. Should not only continue, but it should also be extended to the males as well?
I take the meaning of her posts in this thread to mean "the body issues plaguing women are now beginning to plague men (or have been for some time) much to their detriment, in the same way as it has been a detriment to women".

I mean - tangent here but important - the whole 'calorie in calorie out' oversimplification in the context ofhealthis detrimental, too. But who was a consistent, wholesome diet within the context of calorie restriction? Wasn't there a woman who passed away last year for basically only drinking supplements months on end while completely neglecting her diet?
post 1578910021 04-27-2019, 03:50 AM
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thread title: females are incapable of having a conversation.....
Originally Posted By Cass40
You must be trolling..K bye.
Checks out lol.

Why you so but hurt?

Do you really think training your bum every day would have no effect on hypertrophy? That to build "curves" you must be a member of a gym and go a couple of times a week? Pavel would like a word.
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post 1578910161 04-27-2019, 03:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian
I take the meaning of her posts in this thread to mean "the body issues plaguing women are now beginning to plague men (or have been for some time) much to their detriment, in the same way as it has been a detriment to women".

I mean - tangent here but important - the whole 'calorie in calorie out' oversimplification in the context ofhealthis detrimental, too. But who was a consistent, wholesome diet within the context of calorie restriction? Wasn't there a woman who passed away last year for basically only drinking supplements months on end while completely neglecting her diet?
yea exactly

being aware of body issues and mental health =/= advocating obesity and poor health

Which you can further argue that bodybuilding is hardly the 'healthy' sport that some people make out to be and is largely not done for health reasons, It's probably more healthy playing sports, going for runs etc and and doing light exercises instead.
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post 1578910191 04-27-2019, 04:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
LOL

But what was protein? what was progressive resistance? Body balance, rest days etc

You think doing a few BW squats in front of the microwave builds glutes in naturally slim women?
Well to be honest, that's what most people think. Just didn't think someone on bodybuilding forum wouldn't have accidentally stumbled on some actual info about muscle building. Weird.
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Agh yes, the kids providing an anecdotal story and that captures all of one group lol...
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post 1578910391 04-27-2019, 04:10 AM
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa
Agh yes, the kids providing an anecdotal story and that captures all of one group lol...
But ALL females: (i) can't hold a discussion; (ii) Sloot around with chads; (iii) will marry you so they can divorce you and take your money; or (iv) won't be interested in you because Saudi Princes defecate on them for cash.

How'd I do?
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
LOL

But what was protein? what was progressive resistance? Body balance, rest days etc

You think doing a few BW squats in front of the microwave builds glutes in naturally slim women?
- you eat protein. lol wut?
-progressive overload? You increase resistance/reps not rocket science.
-you're building glutes/hip extensors, dw about your hip flexors, they get plenty of work elsewhere

It's really not difficult or hard to fathom. We as humans are really nothing more than an adaption to stress. If you give your body a stress and time/resources to adapt to it - it'll get stronger/bigger.
Originally Posted By Cass40
Well to be honest, that's what most people think. Just didn't think someone on bodybuilding forum wouldn't have accidentally stumbled on some actual info about muscle building. Weird.
Going to the gym and lifting with a routine is just one way. There are many ways you could go about looking good naked.
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Originally Posted By Aristotelian
But ALL females: (i) can't hold a discussion; (ii) Sloot around with chads; (iii) will marry you so they can divorce you and take your money; or (iv) won't be interested in you because Saudi Princes defecate on them for cash.

How'd I do?
Dying at 5:15 am reading this out loud to my girl...this is the logic of many.
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post 1578910581 04-27-2019, 04:17 AM
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Originally Posted By dj924s
Right.
And
Right.

But, the over coddling has lead to more detrimental problems, than the initial problem. Just by me saying that has made me into a "bad" body shame-er. <- this is beond ridiculous.
*disclaimer* I was morbidly obese, and not a single person said anything to me about it. I could have stayed fat, and died young, or just been a drag on the healthcare system, and everything would have been just fine.<- this is not OK

Body shaming is used as an excuse by the weak.
Body acceptance is also used as an excuse by the weak.

The now accepted societal norms are a complete failure.
You were morbidly obese??

And now you're tiny? Is it hard to keep the weight off?
post 1578910861 04-27-2019, 04:34 AM
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Originally Posted By dj924s
87Lbs. less than I used to be

Not really, because it was mostly due to an radiated thyroid. But now my hormones are good, so I have no excuses haha.


Seriously, I would challenge anyone who has spent any appreciable time working in a medical facility, and a mental-health facility to explain how much more/less detrimental obesity is.
You lost almost 100 pounds? and you're only 4 feet tall.
Yeah deej, I know you worked there so you probably saw it a lot, I mean what obesity does to harm people.

However, isn't there also studies how loneliness kills faster than obesity and smoking. I just feel that most people being overweight, it can't be that bad or everyone would be ded. It's the lonely miscers. like me who gonna die but at least it's gonna be a thin corpse. Morbidly obese is bad of course but I don't think being a little chubby is that bad.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
From babies, we are complimented differently by gender
Isn’t he cheeky, funny, clever
She’s gorgeous, pretty, beautiful

LOL at how hard you twist and turn to change the fact that women, far more than men, are valued on their external appearance rather than anything they can particularly work at or accomplish

And females have to work harder to be taken seriously in any field (I went to a meeting yesterday, only female in a boardroom of 8 men, not unusual)

But it’s true if we are just talking about sexual attraction and relationships it is far easier as a female (an attractive female)

It’s just in general these conversations are not about sex but everything else in life
Delusional. You literally repeated what my stereotypical fat lesbian feminist sociology teacher says word for word, youre just spewing 3rd wave feminist garbage, It makes you look like you did gender studies.
> "And females have to work harder to be taken seriously in any field (I went to a meeting yesterday, only female in a boardroom of 8 men, not unusual)"
No proof of this and even If it was true, these arent cause and effect, and what do you want to say by stating the fact that there are more Men in positions of Power ? That It has to do with body image ? Lol
>"Girls are complimented by their looks since birth"
Why is this a bad thing ? Just dont be a landwhale or be born with a deformed face and people dont care If you suck at everything and Will validate you even more If youre successful.
Men LIVE the consequences of their looks since birth, any average girl in her early 20s have thousands of followers validating her on instagram daily and can have sex whenever they want by just being thin, while most average dudes barely have sex or women hitting on them and also have to handle the pressure of being a walking wallet, while its still accepted for women to just be pretty and mary someone that sustains them .
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Originally Posted By 1Dasitmanebrah1
Delusional. You literally repeated what my stereotypical fat lesbian feminist sociology teacher says word for word, youre just spewing 3rd wave feminist garbage, It makes you look like you did gender studies.
> "And females have to work harder to be taken seriously in any field (I went to a meeting yesterday, only female in a boardroom of 8 men, not unusual)"
No proof of this and even If it was true, these arent cause and effect, and what do you want to say by stating the fact that there are more Men in positions of Power ? That It has to do with body image ? Lol
>"Girls are complimented by their looks since birth"
Why is this a bad thing ? Just dont be a landwhale or be born with a deformed face and people dont care If you suck at everything and Will validate you even more If youre successful.
Men LIVE the consequences of their looks since birth, any average girl in her early 20s have thousands of followers validating her on instagram daily and can have sex whenever they want by just being thin, while most average dudes barely have sex or women hitting on them and also have to handle the pressure of being a walking wallet, while its still accepted for women to just be pretty and mary someone that sustains them .
Theres no way you took sociology let alone go to college
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
Wait. Wat? Why are you lonely? You’re still married right?
Well yeah but I mean I have no friends nor family otherwise, and at some point someone will kick the bucket.

Just meant that I don't have happy extended family where we can all be happy and fat together.
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You could easily replace the word Females with manlets in your title.

What is with manlets... they got some massive aggression or something. They have no fear because they know you can't do anything without looking like the aggressor in the Police and Prosecutors' eyes. Them sneaky snakes... females and manlets that is.
"The manlet is a savage beast that knows no moral bound. After falling in disgrace to a manmore, a ravaged manlet would not hesitate to come from behind and land a sucker punch/ swing with a rock to the back of a manmore's head. They are ruthless and you need to spend some more time in the gutter to even begin trying to comprehend what goes on in their minds."

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First of all just because you claim you were calm that doesn't mean you're not saying nasty things that other people have every right to not stay calm over.

You can be calm and still be an azzhole. You don't automatically win because you stayed calm *******
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Originally Posted By Mmjk1500
Women put a ton of work into looking good. Brb an hour in the mirror every morning, picking outfits, having their hair/nails done. Sloots have to put a lot more effort on than dudes do.
Except nowadays a sloot can be overweight dress like chit and the majority of dudes would still hit that. If a dude is an out of shape slob that doesnt take care of himself he will get nothing.

Also attaining the ideal physiques for males requires actual effort in the sense of going to the gym regulary and tracking your food and even then genetics play a huge part of whether you will actually look the way you want while a chick can just not eat like a pig to be slim yet majority of them still dont manage even that somehow. Guys will sometimes even take it to the next level with taking celltech and actually putting your health on the line to look a certain way.

What you said doesn't really apply in 2019
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Instagram has created a toxic culture for body image all together. You have dudes aspiring to look like men who are on gear and you have women who think they should look like someone who has been photoshopped for 3 hours and took 300 pictures to find the perfect angle.

The problem lies in people who use that as an excuse to literally do nothing. As if not taking care of your body is some act of courage. Funny how these same people spend a lot of their free time finding things to be offended about. Misery loves company, and not eating right and exercising is a fast track to misery simply from a physiological standpoint (inflammation causes depression).

The black pill fact is that there are both men and women out there who will be more successful in life purely because they were born with superior genetics. But that shouldn't stop anyone from bettering themselves and working on what they actually have control over.

Stop following these empty IG sloots (men and women) and validating their toxic behaviors.
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She obviously isn't happy about her body image I'm guessing
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