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05-06-2019, 12:43 AM
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Never too late to learn a lesson. She did you a favor by keeping her own end of the NC. Relationships must always be a two-way street willingly kept open by both parties. Onto the next one brah!
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05-06-2019, 12:56 AM
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Just be glad that you got a solid answer. In today's dating world, getting blocked and NC'ed is basically a NO. I've only had girls lead me on and I had to be the one to just NC them and ignore them since. I can honestly say that it sucks more not knowing her true feelings/intentions versus getting led on because the result is the same: You ain't with her anyway! Move on bro because I bet she wouldn't lose a wink of sleep over you. It's harsh but girls can be like that and move on that quickly.
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
It's important that you do get that close again to someone.I'm trying to hate her, and there's so many reasons to, but my fukkin mind won't let me focus on the bad chit. how do ya'll do it? all I can think of is how I felt about her and how close we were. she was bat chit crazy but she was my best friend, my baby.
fuk.
never going to let myself get this close to a chick again
fuk.
never going to let myself get this close to a chick again
That's where the good stuff is man. But sometimes it ends. Doesn't mean we never go there again.
You're young. Take it and learn from it. You have a lifetime of beauty and pain ahead of you.
And you need both to live a full life.
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05-06-2019, 01:26 AM
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05-06-2019, 01:47 AM
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Originally Posted By damoboss⏩
will try to do so man. thanks.It's important that you do get that close again to someone.
That's where the good stuff is man. But sometimes it ends. Doesn't mean we never go there again.
You're young. Take it and learn from it. You have a lifetime of beauty and pain ahead of you.
And you need both to live a full life.
That's where the good stuff is man. But sometimes it ends. Doesn't mean we never go there again.
You're young. Take it and learn from it. You have a lifetime of beauty and pain ahead of you.
And you need both to live a full life.
Originally Posted By SomeGuyHear⏩
thanks man. it's helpful to hear harsh truths sometimesJust be glad that you got a solid answer. In today's dating world, getting blocked and NC'ed is basically a NO. I've only had girls lead me on and I had to be the one to just NC them and ignore them since. I can honestly say that it sucks more not knowing her true feelings/intentions versus getting led on because the result is the same: You ain't with her anyway! Move on bro because I bet she wouldn't lose a wink of sleep over you. It's harsh but girls can be like that and move on that quickly.
Originally Posted By Ilovemygf⏩
gonna get there man. gotta nut up. I got weak when she reached out the first time and shut it down, felt like I ruined a second chance at us being happy. but truth is we were already done bc of her psychotic behavior and that wasn't even her trying to rekindle it. it was her tryin to get comfort bc she was in a bad place and felt I was an easy way. fuk her.Not much to do other than take the L and learn from it
NC requires unbreakable resolve brah
NC requires unbreakable resolve brah
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05-06-2019, 01:58 AM
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
I loved her. didn't want anyone else. asked if she wanted to come over one last time. all the essential beta ****.

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Originally Posted By GaseousFarts⏩
fist bump my boyoEh at least now you know for certain where you both stand. fukkin hoes gonna hoe tho u kno?
Originally Posted By EoR⏩
yeah man. never sacrifice your self-respect just bc some hoe fuks with your mind. otherwise I'm just a pussy without a backbone or dignityThat's pretty bad OP, hopefully you've learned something, hopefully.
thanks misc.
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05-06-2019, 02:22 AM
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I bet as you were typing that text you had feelings of "wtf am I doing" and "this is dumb as phuk", but something else was giddy with the hope that she would reconnect and thoughts of the two you you rekindling things played out in your head as you feverishly, yet reluctantly, hit the send button.
Then a flood of regret and a voice saying "you simp as muhphukka" followed shortly afterward as you realized you just played yourself.
Learn from this,m8. Please.
Then a flood of regret and a voice saying "you simp as muhphukka" followed shortly afterward as you realized you just played yourself.
Learn from this,m8. Please.
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Originally Posted By WafflesBrah⏩
https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...post1574498291She sounds crazy and you sound like a beta loser who will go back to her because you're a cuck that can't handle being lonely. Enjoy your toxic relationship goals of 2019 fella.
said this in a thread you made a few months ago and look what happened.... Knew your beta ass sounded familiar. You will never learn brah. There is no hope for you unless you go n/c permanently and stay with it indefinitely.
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
And she reached inside your chest, pulled your heart out, took a bite and threw it in the trash.I loved her. didn't want anyone else. asked if she wanted to come over one last time. all the essential beta ****.
lmao!!
I loe e.
05-06-2019, 03:06 AM
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You’re absolutely pathetic. A disgrace to males around the globe. If your father knew your actions he’d kill you because he knows his father would kill him for raising a pathetic little squint such as yourself, and self preservation is all he knows. You passing on your genetic make up would no doubt be the last, soon enough ending the family name. Death before dishonor is something you know nothing of. Balls of steel? You have none. Courage? What’s that you ask! You sniveling little weasel I just puked from pure disgust from reading your post.
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05-06-2019, 03:08 AM
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
Time really does heal all wounds brah.I'm trying to hate her, and there's so many reasons to, but my fukkin mind won't let me focus on the bad chit. how do ya'll do it? all I can think of is how I felt about her and how close we were. she was bat chit crazy but she was my best friend, my baby.
fuk.
never going to let myself get this close to a chick again
fuk.
never going to let myself get this close to a chick again
But you have to do something with that time, keep yourself busy as much as you can
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05-06-2019, 03:12 AM
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She sounds crazy and you sound like a beta loser who will go back to her because you're a cuck that can't handle being lonely. Enjoy your toxic relationship goals of 2019 fella
Originally Posted By WafflesBrah⏩
lol I've actually thought about this far more than you can imagine. I remembered you saying that. and every time new sh*t happened with her and I took her back, this quote played in my head. and I knew you were right. but I was like "fk it oh well maybe she'll change". but nah truth is something inside of me is broken, lonely that kept allowing this whore chances even tho everyone said it was time to drop her crazy ass. I'll have to work on that. you were right. I knew you were right all along. guess I'm weak. but BPD girls are crazy man. I'm going to stop using it as an excuse, but you don't know until you've had your soul sucked out by them. fuks up your mind. you know what she said the last time we were together? "so why haven't you proposed to me yet?" then the next day she lost her chit again. she asked that night if I could put a baby in her (during sex). it really fuks with a man. we're wired to hear those things, and contrasting actions make your mind go haywire.said this in a thread you made a few months ago and look what happened.... Knew your beta ass sounded familiar. You will never learn brah. There is no hope for you unless you go n/c permanently and stay with it indefinitely.
you want to know the real reason I think she left? bc she no longer needed my support as she finished studying for the MCAT. this hoe actually gave up on it rather than taking it, started smoking a lot of green, and peaced out with some fakeass reason bc she no longer need me as a bank account or an emotional support animal. she did try coming back but I shut her down bc I had my head on straight for a bit. I got played by this borderline psycho, and I deserved it. she only cared about herself.
but hey at least the sex was fukking insane and frequent. so I'm gonna chalk it down as a "meh"
also, give a bruh some props for going NC and refusing to take her back till I got weak today. dam.
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
wow you are a *******lol I've actually thought about this far more than you can imagine. I remembered you saying that. and every time new sh*t happened with her and I took her back, this quote played in my head. and I knew you were right. but I was like "fk it oh well maybe she'll change". but nah truth is something inside of me is broken, lonely that kept allowing this whore chances even tho everyone said it was time to drop her crazy ass. I'll have to work on that. you were right. I knew you were right all along. guess I'm weak.
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05-06-2019, 03:21 AM
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Originally Posted By MyGhettoFantasy⏩
fkin lmao. what's up Harry Potter. dam. this some real tea.I bet as you were typing that text you had feelings of "wtf am I doing" and "this is dumb as phuk", but something else was giddy with the hope that she would reconnect and thoughts of the two you you rekindling things played out in your head as you feverishly, yet reluctantly, hit the send button.
Then a flood of regret and a voice saying "you simp as muhphukka" followed shortly afterward as you realized you just played yourself.
Learn from this,m8. Please.
Then a flood of regret and a voice saying "you simp as muhphukka" followed shortly afterward as you realized you just played yourself.
Learn from this,m8. Please.
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
I'm trying to hate her, and there's so many reasons to, but my fukkin mind won't let me focus on the bad chit. how do ya'll do it? all I can think of is how I felt about her and how close we were. she was bat chit crazy but she was my best friend, my baby.

@ least see didn't put you on read and post a instagram with some random Canadian guy the next day...ooft.
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You'll be alright bro.
Maybe something in you wanted closure, and hey, you got it. You needed to be sure, or maybe you needed a bit of hurt.
Really, the only *******s who think of all this relationship chit as black and white, clearly defined rules, are either beta *******s with no control over their love lives so they feel the need to exert themselves so, or they're chronically lonely no matter how many people they have around.
"Oohh I broke NC, I'm a *******, better go sit in the corner and think about what I've done". Fuk up with this kindergarten chit. sure, you feel weak now, lonely, craving, but dwelling on that is some kid chit - you need to figure out your lesson and learn it or, if you can't, know that some day you'll realise that you're better off for this having happened, no matter how much it fukt with you at the time.
Maybe something in you wanted closure, and hey, you got it. You needed to be sure, or maybe you needed a bit of hurt.
Really, the only *******s who think of all this relationship chit as black and white, clearly defined rules, are either beta *******s with no control over their love lives so they feel the need to exert themselves so, or they're chronically lonely no matter how many people they have around.
"Oohh I broke NC, I'm a *******, better go sit in the corner and think about what I've done". Fuk up with this kindergarten chit. sure, you feel weak now, lonely, craving, but dwelling on that is some kid chit - you need to figure out your lesson and learn it or, if you can't, know that some day you'll realise that you're better off for this having happened, no matter how much it fukt with you at the time.
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05-06-2019, 04:45 AM
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
I loved her. didn't want anyone else. asked if she wanted to come over one last time. all the essential beta ****.

She moved on bro. Time to do the same. Sloots ain't worth chit.
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[QUOTE=Uhyeahokay post_id=1579518651][im g]https://i.imgur.com/8dkkZKZ.png[/img]
@ least see didn't put you on read and post a instagram with some random Canadian guy the next day...ooft.[/QUOTE]Disgusting. Fuk her
[QUOTE=Brozart post_id=1579519151]You'll be alright bro.
Maybe something in you wanted closure, and hey, you got it. You needed to be sure, or maybe you needed a bit of hurt.
Really, the only *******s who think of all this relationship chit as black and white, clearly defined rules, are either beta *******s with no control over their love lives so they feel the need to exert themselves so, or they're chronically lonely no matter how many people they have around.
"Oohh I broke NC, I'm a *******, better go sit in the corner and think about what I've done". Fuk up with this kindergarten chit. sure, you feel weak now, lonely, craving, but dwelling on that is some kid chit - you need to figure out your lesson and learn it or, if you can't, know that some day you'll realise that you're better off for this having happened, no matter how much it fukt with you at the time.[/QUOTE]Thanks bro. And now I am sure. That she was a selfish kunt. Nah but for real I’ll learn from this and chill out on beating myself up.
I could really use that hug right about now
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She moved on bro. Time to do the same. Sloots ain't worth chit.[/QUOTE]Understood my man. Sloots truly are cold
@ least see didn't put you on read and post a instagram with some random Canadian guy the next day...ooft.[/QUOTE]Disgusting. Fuk her
[QUOTE=Brozart post_id=1579519151]You'll be alright bro.
Maybe something in you wanted closure, and hey, you got it. You needed to be sure, or maybe you needed a bit of hurt.
Really, the only *******s who think of all this relationship chit as black and white, clearly defined rules, are either beta *******s with no control over their love lives so they feel the need to exert themselves so, or they're chronically lonely no matter how many people they have around.
"Oohh I broke NC, I'm a *******, better go sit in the corner and think about what I've done". Fuk up with this kindergarten chit. sure, you feel weak now, lonely, craving, but dwelling on that is some kid chit - you need to figure out your lesson and learn it or, if you can't, know that some day you'll realise that you're better off for this having happened, no matter how much it fukt with you at the time.[/QUOTE]Thanks bro. And now I am sure. That she was a selfish kunt. Nah but for real I’ll learn from this and chill out on beating myself up.
I could really use that hug right about now
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She moved on bro. Time to do the same. Sloots ain't worth chit.[/QUOTE]Understood my man. Sloots truly are cold
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Originally Posted By salamisalem⏩
wait you really texted her this???I loved her. didn't want anyone else. asked if she wanted to come over one last time. all the essential beta ****.
LOL
You sir are a pussy
Anyone negging this idiot???
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05-06-2019, 05:58 AM
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Breaking NC is not the issue. It's what you said that's weak.
But all is not lost. You go to North Carolina for one of two reasons:
- You hope to get a response out of her and "win"...but you still haven't let her go and now you're playing stupid games trying to score cheap points. You're still lame.
- You genuinely have no interest in her at all, so even if she does come crying back you've moved on. You get on with your life, but it feels a little better inside.
If you go NC but still obsess over her, what's the point of NC? Do you really win if you can't get her out of your head? But if you hit her up and she rejectomentos, now you know and can close the chapter and move on...did you really lose?
But all is not lost. You go to North Carolina for one of two reasons:
- You hope to get a response out of her and "win"...but you still haven't let her go and now you're playing stupid games trying to score cheap points. You're still lame.
- You genuinely have no interest in her at all, so even if she does come crying back you've moved on. You get on with your life, but it feels a little better inside.
If you go NC but still obsess over her, what's the point of NC? Do you really win if you can't get her out of your head? But if you hit her up and she rejectomentos, now you know and can close the chapter and move on...did you really lose?
05-06-2019, 06:01 AM
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OP, hit her with the "lol sorry, I don't know who that was, my account was hacked" from a second account
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Originally Posted By ballzaak⏩
It helps you get over her faster. Out of sight out of mind. You don't need to waste time talking to a bish and you don't need false hope in your head hoping she might turn around. NC is the way to go.If you go NC but still obsess over her, what's the point of NC
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